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YES WE CAN ! there is ways males and females may swing and thay will not be in sin I WILL BE BACK TO EXPLAIN......ok, I am back and will define the issue as much as i can and realy want to see your knowledge and views, so first let me say some major history that all people in the world know and should know Especially all people liveing in The United States Of America our beloved country witch its finding fathers inscribed in every coin and dollar " IN GOD WE TRUST " , I will start with the Presidential Recognition of Ancient code of Ethics House Joint Resolution 104, public Law 102-14 That reads : President George Bush signed an historic resolution of both congressional Houses , Recognizing The Noachide Laws as the " bedrock of society from the dawn of civilization " He urged the U.S. to take lead in " Returning The world to the Ethical Values contained in the seven Noahide Laws " . so we the people know what is right and wrong ,we the swingers want to know what we may or may not , YES INDEED we most of us in swinging are not stupid and fear God's award and punshment and this is the point of this thread i am asking all who fallow a religion what does your religion permit in swinging and is not called SIN for example , such as all singles may swing and it is not a SIN all males can fuck up any female including your wifey provided your are not fucking a wifey married according to your religion or soft swap laws pent. laws the diff. laws that apply only to males or only females , there are so many diff. laws lets talk about it and sort it out , we all know the basic laws of Noachide and i found most swingers go by it , some had said to me 'with you or in this case or this couple we can go only soft swap' it was amazing to me to hear this from a swinger... let me put it this way" we swingers are Religius waste up on top of the belt... but very liberal waste or belt down" i would like to add to the people who claim "atheism" you people are Equivalent to cannibals if you are not afraid of god you can kill ,steal , rape, do anything a big animal does to a small one or as a big fish does to a small fish and that is scary you are willing to murder if you won't get caught !!! i would not play or even be with you behind closed doors......NOTE to readers all postings after i came back to define this issue starts after page 3 please reply to the "sex laws " of your religion only we are not here to debate or dispute any religion thanks;) ;)
Huh?
Very simple. Don't believe in a deity.
Who says that swinging is sinning anyways?
Yeah, it's called Atheism and I joined that club when I was a kid. It didn't take me long when I was growing up to figure that bullshit lie called "religion".

-D-
YOU KNOW I HAD TO DO THIS LOL

A & K
Wow, I am glad you went through all that trouble. It's good to know that I get under your skin that much. I must be doing something right. HAHA! I would return the favor, but I wouldn't waste my time in such a fruitless way. I will continue winning the debates. ;)

-D-
Wow, I am glad you went through all that trouble. It's good to know that I get under your skin that much. I must be doing something right. HAHA! I would return the favor, but I wouldn't waste my time in such a fruitless way. I will continue winning the debates

you can't get any lower then you are now,,
and you do waste your time every night when you go to bed.lol
you have more problems then i want ,,lol

k

ps i do get under your skin hehe
Wow that was as unimaginative as your pathetic drawing. Perhaps you can get your weasel-lookin man to photoshop it for ya, he's good at halfass covering up your imperfection. ;)

-D-

P.S. you make my skin crawl.
mybe so but i don/t see your ass on here.
except for a few copright photo violations your doing good
are you to ashamed to post your photos,
im not lol..

hehe

k
ps.
if you were not such a know it all you would be all right in my book.
i hate to say but you don't know everything
First off, Kris, this is not Tami (Mrs. TR). This is Don, her asshole of a husband. Tami will sign her posts as "Tami". HAHA! We removed our photos because of our occupation and this website's presence on google. Whilst I respect your endeavor to spread your pics all over the web, we've elected to refrain from it. I never said I was right about everything. You just think I am. HAHAHA!!! See ya in the next thread. ;)
Your occupation now that's a joke. If You really gave a shit about your job you wouldn't be on here in the first place. And to me that's just one big copout. So your kinda playing a cat and mouse game. I been on here for a long time and its my opinion. That your opinion is the only thing that matters. And when you don't like something someone writes you start throwing sucker punches. And as your woman said weasel looking man where did that come from? I could say if you wash a little harder it might come off but I doubt it. You two have a definite hatred for people and it shows in your writings. My opinion you need serious counseling. It just too hard for you to be nice to anyone but then again I can see why. Reach deep you might find the answer. But then again probably not in your lifetime. Your so educated that you can't see past your stupidity. And if we were all alike it would be one big boring world we live in. So roll another joint and get high and when you come down the problems will still be there. And try this once in awhile just try being nice. But then again I can see why you can't, and for her she did it to herself we had nothing to do with it. Life is what you make it, take responsibility and get over it.
But you know its funny I don't think I asked your opinion. But then again your from Utah what can I say. I love my pictures, and I been published, so to answer your questions is no. But then again are you jealous? I find that jealousy has a lot to do with likes and dislikes, as in your inner child. I see alot of women that are a lot nicer looking than I am, but you don't see me calling them names. But because I don't have a low self esteem about myself. I'm happy with my body, and I like to flaunt it. But those who don't like their bodies are jealous. So where does that leave you. I've seen your photo's have I called you names? Or said anything bad about your body? I don't think so. So try being "nice" and minding your own business. Even though this is a public forum this is between Tequilarose and me! Just read on and keep your opinions to yourself lol. But then again birds of a feather they flock together. lol.

k
Sounds like some people here have a love hate relationship they both love to hate each other!!! Oh and i hate my body But am FAR FAR from jelouse of anyone!!!!!
Kris,

No dummy, my occupation does matter. If you reread the thread, you will see that you threw the "sucker punch" first with your drawing and the your comment about my wife wasting her time in bed. I think you need to look up the word hypocrisy. I gave my opinion on the topic of sin and you attacked it. So do me a favor a go away. Don't go away mad... just go away. You are right, that when it comes to conversations with you, my opinion is the only one that matters. You have no credibility with me. So I guess you won that one.

;)

-D-
I see nothing wrong with your body. But I don't see you cutting anyone because of it either. One thing about it your not one of the one's I speak of. So be proud of what you have and have fun.

k
I wasn't aware that I was up for you to judge? HAHA! But yes, I am a sexy fat greek bitch with a hot wife ad a tuna can cock.

-D-
I SAID,

you can't get any lower then you are now,,
and you do waste your time every night when you go to bed.lol
you have more problems then i want ,,lol


when you go to bed what do u do sleep and if you do is that not wasting your time .
now bwcause you are mad at the world you took it another way..loose the chip dude
like i said before you have more problems than i want.

a
you know all n all im just fxxking with you..
don't take everything so seriously lol

a & k

ps we do have to keep some entertainment going on in here lol
and you have to admit we can do that
Posted By: KRISTYLYNN2002 Reply posted on:
Aug 13, 2008 - 7:32 pm

Blah Blah Blah
... But then again your from Utah what can I say.
Blah Blah Blah..
k

Kristy
As I am from Utah - care to opine further on this statement?????

(in case you need to know what that word mean here are some other words that share a simialr meaning Speak Out (verb), Harangue, Preach, Orate, Lecture, Discourse, Go On,
Rant)
LMAOOO @ SUGARBRITCHES



Lifetime Member
Location: Tampa, FL
Join Date: Jul 10, 2008
Posted By: SUGARBRITCHES Reply posted on

Aug 13, 2008 - 3:58 pm

Huh?

Are ya with us Sugar??? hahahhahaha
NO you all spend to much time inside you need to get out more
you all are wound up to tite..loosen up a abit lol

a & k
Ashton,

Let me educate you again. Sleep is restortive and necessary for your survival, therefore not a "waste of time". How's that for stirring the pot. Might I also add, I take nothing you say "seriously". You talk smack, I talk it back. It's been my modus operandi since day one.

;-)
so i guess a blowjob is out the question then.lol

a & k
Sure, you can blow me Kris. Ashton can watch.. Can you say cuckold? HAHA!
you grew it you chew it.lol

a & k
SPERMINT,

What in your "God's" name are you doing on this site?
Go thump your bible elsewhere. JACKASS!!

Mrs Classy
mrs. Classy ???.lol. are you frightened that you can't swing anymore ? this post is for REAL CLASSY SWINGERS , real poeple ,real ideas , seriously if you can't handle it emotionally skip it ! don't show us all how stupid and uneducated you are and lack basic knowledge of the daily routines of normal people that live anywhere in the usa .
Well, if there is a heaven and hell then the choice for us is obvious. We want to keep swinging and go straight to hell as quick as possible please. Got a hunch heaven is full of vanilla couples and what fun could that be.

As Monty Python would sing...Always look on the bright side of life
to all SWINGERS this is for people that want info. ONLY i don"t care if you want to go to hell..... read the thread again if you don"t know any rules or laws so let it be ...skip it ! we got on this site a large amount of singles male and female we got couples that ain't married we got men that play with out wifey and we all fuck with 'no sin at all'....this fourm is for people who got some knowledge to share with all of us who are seeking info. lets face it we can't talk to our freinds about this issue so this is a good fourm to get the info.::h
Fuck Heaven....and fuck Hell.

They're both abstracts arising from fear and ignorance, from minds that lack that ability to think autonomously....
ULUVBIGBLKDICK whats wrong with one of the most attractive woman on this site KRISTYLYNN ? is it because she did not want to play with you ? look in the miror your cock is like your mind runing left off track you should be embarrassed to display such crooked dick in public i think even privite when you go pee pee in toilet you should wear pull ups don't look at it makes your mind think crooked !!! can you post some pic. how you actual have sex sideways ? how would any woman agree to have sex with you sideways you got to know how to aim .lol. don't blame KRISTYLYNN for not wanting to have sex-play with you see this site has KEN'S and BARBEE'S and we like to play with each other but then this site has grade -f players too the opposite sex of KEN'S and BARBEE'S like CHRKE2 ,SEXTRA , GROUPTHERAPISTS ' try them they may embrace you and play they are allways complaining about good looks ,age , etc. ,fucken BARBEE ...what not, see if you can't swim don't jump in the water .lol.:p I came up with an idea ULUVBIG...ETC.. go for a cock alignment to straighten out your dick and while at surgery ask docs. to align it with nose and brain .lol...:l
TG,

HEAR HEAR!

-D-
didn't blood sweat and tears say it best when they sang "i can swear there ain't no heaven , but i pray there ain't no hell"
NPNUISTCPLE can you tell me if the"hell "you so want to go fast... is it the same place where you find the Islamic suicice bombers 'sixteen virgin chicks' that they ware promised before thay ware recruited to blow them self up on innocent people??????:$: well if you see them send 'em regards from heavens members of swingular .lol.:D
"In Heaven, all the interesting people are missing" --Friedrich Nietzsche
Hey sperm, go reread your previous post where you say you don`t care if we want to go to hell or not.
Go ahead, they are your words, so if you now care that means one of two things. You lied in the previous post so you are going to hell with me for lying. Or you are just trying to stir shit and start drama. So which is it, are you a liar or a drama queen? Either way you have no place on the site or the lifestyle.

Let me guess, the next post you do is the one where you look at my pics and make rude remarks about them all this coming from a queen with no pics of himself. Need I say the obvious, you are a pathetic little bitch and the best part of you ran down the mailmans leg.

By the way, while you were sitting home on a Saturday night making your posts to the forums, the rest of us were out committing sins of the flesh and it felt sooo fucking good. Maybe you should try it sometime with someone other then yourself.

I have heard the phrase troll used but not quite sure exactly what one is so I will just leave you with a one word name that even you might understand.

FUCKTARD
Posted By: ULUVBIGBLKDICK Reply posted on:
Aug 17, 2008 - 6:02 am

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Can the admin just ban spermint and Kristylynn already.


I don't think so i have been a member since 2002
long before you came here lol..

k
NPNUDISTCPLE I am just kiding with you .lol. we all know why we are here .lol. but i hate the people who deny god or the bible for sining !!! yes , we sin and yes , we express remorse or yes , don't ask me i don't want to think of it when i am horney . period . this was not the intend of this thread at all !!! as i said i think you should read the thread again i just wanted info. on this topic what the hell fuck is going on here i don't post on threads i have nothing to add or say;)
You said you would explain how to swing without sinning. Most expressed apathy for the offer. Why, because "sinning" is something most swingers don't care about with regard to the activities in the lifestyle. Most either don't care or don't apply the word to their lives. I, as an atheist, do not give the word value. Sinning is a religous mans burden. So when you say you can "show me how to swing without sin", I reply, "I already am." ;)

-D-
well let me tell you something that you will understand me better , look you got to get that lady laid ...but she is making you crazy about sin we don't know to much about what is real sin and she wants to know" we got to get her to spread her legs in bed a.s.a.p. " got it ! so we are here to find out about this topic and we are geting a much harder time here !!!! now come on you know something ,anything, tell us about it ::(
I don't speak jive. Sorry... I don't even know what the fuck you are saying to me man. SERIOUSLY! Break it down into plain english. What is it that you are wanting man?
it is better to put thy seed in the belly of a whore then spill it upon the ground.
not exact but it is in the bible somewhere .

there is something else about spreeding thy seed.

might be a good idea to look it up.

as well its not cheatting if everybody knows about it
ok..so we have been trying to think about what sermint is actually asking here. So we are going to be nice and actually take a stab at this. First we respect everyones right to practice whatever religion or non religion they like. It is their personal choice just as it is ours to believe what we want. To us looking at Spermints post we are guessing he is a religious believer and what he is asking is this. Is it sin to swing or is it not sin and if its not can you explein how it isn't. Are we right here spermint? Our response to that question is this. The biblical basis ( in our opinion) for claiming that what we partake in is sin is based and centered on a few verses. 1 being that we would be commiting aduletry based on the ten commandments . The 2nd being that Jesus says if a man looks upon another woman lustfully he has already committd adultery with her and 3rd Paul says we should have but one wife and be committed souly to her. Our response to thsoe verses are this. 1. Adultery defined means that you are commiting sexual acts with another person that is not your wife. We'll add to that by saying that it also means without their knowledge. Cheating.. Now I don't know of to many swing couples that would disagree with that.. Swinging without their partner or spouse knowing would constitute adultery or cheating.. I know in our relationship it would.. But..if the other partner is present, knows about it or is in agreement with the act it..in our opinion it no longer falls under adultery or cheating it becomae a shared experience.. Just like if we had gone out to dinner and a movie would be a shared experience.. we just choose to do it naked....with othre cpls. :D

2. Jesus' claim. Lust can be defined as wanting so bad that it consumes you..its all you think about, its all you want to do.. It becomes you and defines you.. He is correct in saying that if you lust after someone other than your wife you commited adultery...because the attention and desires you should be directing at your wife/husband or partner are now being stolen from them and being directed at your new interest. Your new love becomes that which you do not have and instead of that which you do. Our opinion.. again..our relationship comes first. WE come before THEY and in this lifestyle we feel there is no need to lust or want..simply because if the urge to be with someone else comes about.. we are opne enough with each other to just ask for the opportuntiy to play.. and a good percentage of the time it is given and the urge is satisfied. Lust has no place because it generally arises from the desire to have something you know you cannot..

3. Pauls charge for one wife. Our opinion. We are not married to anyone but each other.. and this is a joint decision that we are making. The claim that he made was based on the men at the time had multiple wives that were arguing and fighting and there was non stop drama. So it was better for them to have one wife.. to better focus on God and not the issues going on around them.. Paul also said that its better for man not to marry at all for that reason. But if they did they should love their wives etc. Again..we are not married to more than one wife.. We just enjoy sharing with other husbands and wives of like mind. When the experience is over.. we go home..or they go home.. with their own spouse..

This is a topic that many swing couples we know struggle with. They have a hard time accepting our view because of what a previous poster said..fear and what organized religion has told them to believe. Organized religion ( again in our opinion) sucks. We don't want to be scared into believing what pastor billy bob perfection tell us is right or wrong. Or told to believe what they do.. Its about personal choice and in our opinion personal relationship with whatever God you choose..or not.. to believe in. The bottm line is this..wether you believe in something or not is your own personal choice. Do what you want. Enjoy what you want..But don't not do something out of fear or just because someone else told you that it was a sin. Thats not for them to decide..
thanks for some info. may a single male or female swing not attached ? is what you are saying aply to all religion ? can i say it safely so ? can i fuck someone outside my religion is it still sin ?
For what it's worth here is my 2 cents on the subject.

I agree with Don on what he said earlier in this thread. The entire concept of sin was created by the religious leaders as a form of control. Every organized religion serves 3 primary purposes; 1) to explain the why's and how's of creation, 2) to give a foundation of how to live, 3) to give comfort about death. From the beginning of time religious leaders have used the power of religion as a means of controlling the masses to do what the leaders wanted or at least thought was best.

Judao-Christian and Islamic religions went a step farther and created the concept of sin as a method of control. They created a list of commandments and declared that to violate these was to be in sin. Some sins were of greater import than others but it all equalled to the same thing, commit too many or even one of the wrong ones and you would be barred from from enjoyment and peace offered in the afterlife.

So to answer the original question here, Can you swing and not be in Sin? Absolutely you can. Sin cannot exist seperate of heavily regulated and controlled organized religion. Since Religion itself is a fabrication of man, then so Sin is also a fabrication. I don't know too many swingers that particularly care for anyone else telling them what to do, how to do it, or whom they can do it with, regardless of the area of their life. Especially when it comes to their sex life.
What we were saying is that it is a personal choice you need to make. Wether single, married, attached, or whatever your relationship may be. Don't decide what is sin based on what someone else tells you is sin. Find out for yourself. Make your own decisions. There are plenty of religious people that claim having sex itself is sin..and then find out they had sex with little boys etc. According to religion ALL of us sin.. so to me.. if that is the case. Then no pastor or priest or rabbi or whatever they may be have any right to tell me what im doing is sin. According to the bible ( if thats what you read) all sin is equal.. therefore the "sin" of swinging..if there is one.. is equal to lying..or assaulting your neighbor.. or saying "fuck" in church.. you get my point.. Alot of christians ( here comes the bashing..we can feel it) seem to think that their " sin " is less than that of our "sin".. They feel that their little white lies and backstabbing and down talking of others is lesser than our swinging.. and why? Becasue thats what they are led to believe and are told..by churches..by society etc.. But bibically...for those that read it.. it is not so.. they are equal...

Again..our position is this.. We are not going to be told what is right or wrong by someone whose opinion of right or wrong doesn't matter to us. Its a personal choice and if God..or Mohammed, or Buddha or whomever you believe in and pray to.. And believe they talk back.. If they tell you its wrong. then you listen to them.. not people.. because most people have a set whats right or wrong mentality...and they generally expect those around them to have that same mindset..but it is not so.. Be your own person or couple. Don't conform to those around you..rather conform to what you personally believe is wrong or right..

Make sense?
GOLDENHANDZ77 thanks ,can you tell me more of what you know ? like about god without religion you know basic the world got a god , a maker , what do we say to the girl what is the original law with out adding the new laws before religion came in ?
TNDPLYCPL , thanks you seem to have got the knowledge here but you are completely confusing me can you please sort out for me what is real sin and what is not ? i don't know too much and i got to find out here just say it in short so i can repeat it right .
SPERMINT,
If you are worried about going to hell get your ass off the computer and get to church, leave the rest of us in peace.

Who brought back this ridiculous thread? LET IT DIE ALREADY!!!!
TRASHY what !!! why are you back here ? i told you this thread is for adults only over 18 !:p
Is that what you said???? Couldn't read your gibberish sorry...


This site is about swinging, really not for you...It is VERY apparent that you are NOT a real swinger.
Try match dot com, there are even some "Church" based sites to meet people on, PLEASE go check them out and leave us.
Well Spermint, let me try to be serious and give you my answer and see if it applies to your question.
I used to date this girl and we went to different churches. My catholic church said she is not welcome to worship there since she is presbyterian. Her presbyterian church said I am welcome there anytime. I told my catholic church what they could do with their church and that they would not be getting any more donations from us and our company pulled our advertising. At this time in my life I fell into your don`t ask my now because I am horney catergory.
Then comes along my fiance who did not care about religion but 8 months before we were married she passed away suddenly. Why would any god do this and leave me to raise her two kids from before we met. But we are told to never doubt the word of god...why not?
Now I meet my wife Lori and she used to serve in the episcopal church and going to church is important to her. We get all involved, start a youth movement in the chuch and and we get a lot of younger couples to come back to church. Suddenly the church is the cool place for kids to hang out on weekends doing things with the youth directors.
Then we move to Florida and don`t find a church we like but we do find this site. On this site we found our god, the man we worship. We found a god that welcomes our doubts and questions and answers them with reason. Our god, the almighty god, will lead us to the horney land. He is a brave man, and educator of all who doubt their current god. How ironic is it that he is named after my former favorite drink and my wifes favorite flower. Wont you all please join us in the FUCTARD fellowship led by our god, the one and only Tequila Rose.
OK ,if you made it this far, really, just listen to the guy. Don makes sense and we agree most times with him. If we were still religious we would probably feel guilty about swinging. By reading topics on this site in forums we have decided that religion and worshipping anyone other then each other is not for us.
Hope that answer is relavent to the question.
NPNUDISTCPLE thanks for your reply i do understand that some people have issues with god well , i don't !!! i might have issues with religion but never with god , in this thread i was looking to get info. from people that are swingers and believers in god and find no contradictions doing so , and find out witch religion they follow and how they practice swinging and so i only would like them to reply i do know some basics witch i shared with all here like the diff. with singles or couples of other religions , males only or females only rule but want to know more like is it from god or is it from religion if it is from religion witch one , if you don't know or don't want to know just skip this thread .
Sweet, I have disciples!!! HAHA!

-D-
my stand on people who claim atheist is in the thread start reading it again it wounders me if your claim atheist appliess only to the commandment of adultery or you claim the same to the commandment of no murder and killing and the other commendments.:!
Okay I am convinced, I will drink the Koolaide first just to end this nonsence........................
SPERMINT,

I am an atheist through and through. You don't need a fictional deity to tell you that murder, rape, violence etc. is not productive or conducive with a free society.

-D-
In a great orgasmic state who does an atheist yell to? They don't say Oh My God, OMG, OMG, right - LOL
I yell... "AHHHH FUCK!!!!" and follow it up with high arcing jets of hot dick snot.
i will try sum up all info. i got here and some info. i got off the net on sunday , thanks for the emails in my box and phone calls
Okay, so I too cannot understand the posts our friend Spermint is making. It's not the content, I'm a smart guy, I just can't read what you write. Please, don't treat the English language like a cheap foreign hooker. Use proper punctuation, a spell checker, and capital letters in all the right places. Throw in periods so we know when a thought is over and 90% of the misunderstanding here will disappear.

As for asking what you can do in the lifestyle without breaking God's law, you have so many problems. First you have to determine which Christian sect you want to try and live up to, then you have to face the simple fact that in general, organized religion has been barely tolerant of sex between a married man and his wife!

It's a noble goal to try and find a religion you can swing in, but it's easier, and frankly, more practical to simply align yourself with what you believe is a good way to live. In the end, all you're doing is trying to find a way to get around religion, and you can't.
thank you all for your replies , i hope to do better in spelling shortly, ok , about swinging and still not be in SIN , i found my self Browseing the net for some time now , i viewd as much religions that i could and some splinter groups of religions , i found that almost all agree or allow for single males and females to swing while some strongly characterize it as not proper or immoral none said it is a actual SIN to do so, some religions even have rules for single females how it should be done in a proper manor,I found some religions actualy permit GIRL ON GIRL good turn on .lol. I found that all men may actual swing as long it is not with someone else's wife , i even found a religion that says a male may fuck your wife as long she is not from your own religion or married according that religion , sorry I did not find any religion permiting couples exchange spouses but did find soft swap so called everything allowed but penetration so oral -blow job, huging ,kissing is permitted so i did find some good ways to enjoy our sex life , so good luck all and have a good fucking life. SPERMINT:) Can we combine all goodies from all religions together and make a good group sex ??? .lol.
Since I've been sucked into the swirling vortex of this thread, the only way I can feel like I haven't been robbed of the last 1/2 hr (give or take) of my life is to add my .02 Ok, I know I could just chalk it up to that which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger, but adding my input seems more satisfying.

I'll start off by saying that if you are doing this much research regarding religions and what they allow or don't allow regarding sexual activity it has to make me wonder if you're seriously considering converting to another religion just to save yourself the guilt of sin brought upon by whatever religion you happen to be at the moment. All religions have been formed and molded over the years by people. People who are not perfect, who have their own agendas. A sense of right and wrong doesn't come solely from religion. Many religions would like you to think that in an attempt to keep you in their camp and they'll be more than happy to tell you what is right and wrong for the rest of your life (in case you can't think for yourself).

But if you have to switch religions just so that you can sleep at night after a fun-filled evening of swinging, you have some other things to figure out. Or perhaps you should just start you're own religion, where you can make all the rules. In any case, I think its fairly safe to say that most religions believe quite strongly that those of us engaging in the swinging lifestyle are sinning by engaging in immoral activities, just cuz they don't use the actual word sin, doesn't mean anything. Its just more politically correct these days to say immoral. In any case though, they most certainly believe that we (swingers) will most definitely be going to a very special level of hell, a level reserved for... (sorry, narrowly avoided an obsure pop culture reference)

As for me, yes I believe there is a God. And one of the few things that I think is accurately stated repeatedly in the bible is to love thy neighbor and I'm more than happy to spread the love around in whatever way/shape is available to me.

-SG
CIDDNSG thanks for your reply , as a matter of fact i just saw on a site of one of the oldest regligions that says , if you basically believe that there is a "god " who created the world , it is just enough ,you can swing with couples as much as you want and can ,wow .lol. , provided you don't add to god any so called father and son concept ,holy caw , helpers , or idles and do not take upon yourself " any regligions at all " , it says there the bible is not for the entire world population , only for jews to follow , so looks like you are on the right track , interesting ,how do you like that ? or rather how did you guess it , I love it , just makes things easy and fun :)