The wife and I are headed to our first house party in a few weeks. We've had some experiences in the past and just got back into the *ahem* swing of things again recently. Any advice for a couple that has never gone to a private house party? What is the etiquette? Any advice is welcome.
Thanks!
Thanks!
Be yourself. Don't try to pretend to be anything you are not. Also, just like with any swinger event make sure that you and your spouse have clearly talked about what you will allow to happen, what your rules are if anything should happen, and most importantly stick to them.
But the number one piece of advice, is to just have fun. Be willing to let loose and go with the flow.
But the number one piece of advice, is to just have fun. Be willing to let loose and go with the flow.
We have always enjoyed the house parties, weather hosting or attending them alot more than going to clubs. It seems to be more of a relax atmisphere . Most of the ones we have attended have never been pushy, when we host we never pushed anybody to play. Just go with the intent that you are just meeting new and exciting people dont plan on doing anything and it will be more enjoyable but diffently talk if you both find some body that you are both attracted to . D and J
Thank you all so much for your advice. It is appreciated more than you know. We'll go with no expectations, but having talked through our boundaries and limits beforehand. I'm sure it'll be a lot of fun - even if we don't do anything it should be a feast for the eyes!
Play it by ear. If it feels comfortable and there are couples you are attracted to then play. If not then enjoy the show and have fun just the two of you talking about it later.
NIHILIST
Let us know how your first house party goes.
Wish you the best luck.
Let us know how your first house party goes.
Wish you the best luck.