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I know we may not be the barbie and ken couple but i thought we were alright. We have been members for a while now and have not been able to full fill our fantasies yet. Are we doing or not doing something? Any tips? I have read alot about others success storys and i am a bit jelous. I have even posted new pictures and nothing...Why cant we find anyone?
Be patient...I know that might not be want you want to hear but it is SO true.

I would suggest you get your profile validated/certified so that when people search for members, they see that you are willing to get out and meet people. This lets them know you aren't pic collectors or never-ending IMers.

And mentioning pics, I think I only saw one that showed more than just a head shot. We try to include head to toe full body (G rated/PG rated or whatever) but it gives an idea of your figures. Remember, this is about attraction and pics are important.

Another suggestion would be to use spell/grammar checker on your profile info. I'm guilty of mispellings and improper grammar but I try to go back and ammend it whenever possible.

These are all just suggestions but since you're looking for answers/reasons for the lack of response to your profile, hopefully this might help.

Again, you've been on this site for about 6 months or so (if I recall correctly) so try to be patient. Keep a positive attitude and enjoy the anticipation in the meantime. Take advantage of opportunities to go to Meet-n-Greets, parties, or clubs. Get into the forums or chat room if that's what you enjoy. The more contacts you make, the better your chances that you'll find the perfect couple/single female to fulfill that fantasy for you. Good luck!!!
I see nothing really wrong with either your profile or the pics. It might be better though, to follow the suggestions above. Post a nice full body pic without railings blocking the view.

The biggest piece of advice though is to get out there and either go to the meet and greets, make a trip to Eden House or other club, even getting in the chat room here will help you meet some people.

Give it time, if I had a GF to play with I would love to get together with you guys. I wish you the best in finding the right people to help your fantasies come true.