My Husband and i are looking for Signgle Males/Females and Couples, and it seems imposible for us because of age and my husband and i love older Couples.
Please Email us if you are interested in meeting or have adive.
Thank you,
CHRISANDCARRIE
Please Email us if you are interested in meeting or have adive.
Thank you,
CHRISANDCARRIE
Hi,
It may be the fact that a lot of us have children older then you and it just seem - wrong.
I know that you two are probably a lot of fun and it is just getting over that - mental image.
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The reverse is true too if someone is over 60 we have seen some adversion to meeting as well.
It may be the fact that a lot of us have children older then you and it just seem - wrong.
I know that you two are probably a lot of fun and it is just getting over that - mental image.
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The reverse is true too if someone is over 60 we have seen some adversion to meeting as well.
Be patient. Get to know people first and it will happen.
For us the concern of not having much in common outside of the sex would be the only thing stopping us from meeting. We look for people we can enjoy our time with both before and after the sex and with the age difference there might not be that much. On the other hand, you may have a different perspective on topics then us and it would be refreshing to hear them. I say, get out to the meet and greets and just be yourself and the rest will fall into place. We did have single females, aged 19 and 22 that we met and because they were mature way beyond their ages had great friendships with.
Experience has taught us that if you lived near us, we would meet with it being known that there may not be a connection but we will never know unless we try. Age really is just a number. I hope others read this and give you the chance to meet them. Good luck.
Joe and Lori
Experience has taught us that if you lived near us, we would meet with it being known that there may not be a connection but we will never know unless we try. Age really is just a number. I hope others read this and give you the chance to meet them. Good luck.
Joe and Lori
CHRISANDCARRIE.......are we old enough....lol......sounds like its time to visit Florida for a vacation......WEG
As a single male it hard to find people that want a single male. When I was part of a couple it wasnt so hard. Just be patient and it will happen. I never thought I would be emailed by couples, but to my suprise I have been. Sometimes it will take awhile for people to approve of you. Since I have been swinging I have met some great people. Even before I started swinging I got to know alot also and they were great people. In this lifestyle they either accept you or they dont.
Try going on booty call.
As others have said before this .. Relax and get to know people. Once they get to know you I have no doubts that you will have more offers than you can respond to easily.
Maybe you should add that to your profile....say that you are looking to meet older couples. They may feel shy about your age and feel like you wouldn't be interested in playing with anyone out of their 20's.
join a local group. you're in utah for crying out loud, thats where all the swingers are.
seriously, don't knock it till you try it. one of our most sucessful swinging encounters was with a couple old enough to be my parents.
seriously, don't knock it till you try it. one of our most sucessful swinging encounters was with a couple old enough to be my parents.
IN THE SHORT TIME I'VE BEEN DOING THIS (I'M SINGE) I HAVE LEARNED IT'S ALL CONTROLLED BY THE WOMAN. IF THERE IS AN GAP THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE THAT IS TO SEND UR SEXY WIFE OVER TO MAKE THE CONNECTION. IF THERE'S A PHYSICAL CONNECTION THAN THERE SHOULD BE NO PROBLEM, LET'S FACE IT THIS LIFESTYLE IS ABOUT MUTUAL PLEASURE FIRST THEN MAYBE FRIENDSHIP.
CHRISANDCARRIE,
The house/club party scene helps a great deal. Get in and you'll never have another problem.
-D-
The house/club party scene helps a great deal. Get in and you'll never have another problem.
-D-
I'm surprised. I think with both your ages and looks, it would be like blood in the water and having to fight off all the sharks....lol. Dont worry about it. I have a feeling that your in box is about to get filled.
We all set some boundaries, but its definately fun to be flexible
. Sometimes thats always easier in a group setting, and moved to private later.
. Sometimes thats always easier in a group setting, and moved to private later.its not easy being a newbie either way old or young its just plain hard... dont give up check your profile and give it time
Age is nothing but a number.Weather it be old or young. Is up to the couples to decide if they are compatible. Keep up the faith it will happen.
This is going to SCREEN NAME: GARNET. we live in a town with nothing and any City is two-3 hours away just because we are in Utah and it is Swinger Capitol doesnt mean anything.
Thanks for your comment.
Thanks for your comment.
Is this really about age, or is preference the real question? We have no problem playing with people of most any age (as long as they are legal ..LOL..), however, the real issue for us is that we want to create friends we can do things both inside and outside of the bedroom.
One thing we like to do (and we find this is true with many others in the lifestyle - Hell this is why Habits is so full most times with people from this site on Fri and Sat.) is go out to a club and sexy dance with other single girls and/or couples. If you aren't old enough to get into a club where you can get to know someone and see if things click (flirtatiousness etc.) in a comfortable non-committal setting then we find it will be harder. Meet-n-greets are generally at the clubs as well as most parties (as most like to drink to be comfortable). So yes age here is an issue.
So as TR suggested, which we find is true as well, you should get involved with some that are doing house parties and or things outside the clubs. Once that happens you will find that more will open up to you after others can get to meet and talk with you in a place where there are no expectations. Then it can now be about preference.
One thing we like to do (and we find this is true with many others in the lifestyle - Hell this is why Habits is so full most times with people from this site on Fri and Sat.) is go out to a club and sexy dance with other single girls and/or couples. If you aren't old enough to get into a club where you can get to know someone and see if things click (flirtatiousness etc.) in a comfortable non-committal setting then we find it will be harder. Meet-n-greets are generally at the clubs as well as most parties (as most like to drink to be comfortable). So yes age here is an issue.
So as TR suggested, which we find is true as well, you should get involved with some that are doing house parties and or things outside the clubs. Once that happens you will find that more will open up to you after others can get to meet and talk with you in a place where there are no expectations. Then it can now be about preference.
we agree meeting at a club works best for us.
then we would not invite underage folks to a party at our house for all the legal issues associated wit underage drinking.
stinks and isn't fair.
then we would not invite underage folks to a party at our house for all the legal issues associated wit underage drinking.
stinks and isn't fair.
Chris and Carrie,
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WELL Thank you everyone! All of you have been alot of help and we really appriciate it!
Our biggest problem has been trying to find people where we live (St. Augustine)...most everyone we know lives out of town..and even then we have for the most part felt like second-hand friends; (with the exception of 2-3 couples we consider dear and close..problem is they don't live HERE!!!).....Take tonight for example.....we're both off work, looking to play and no one is around....it gets frustrating and makes us wonder why we even bother doing this in the first place......does anyone else have this problem where they are?
We feel your pain. We have plenty of friends in our area but seems life has been in the way for most of them lately. This is why we feel we can never have to many friends.
well at least your in the same state as most in this website. lol but you will find out there are so many people on here and just about everywhere else that are swinger wanna be.
we cant count just how many times w ehave tryed to meet cpls or male sor even females just to talk and see what happends. and turned out to be noshows . it is because of this that the wife here has stoped all together .
we also have went to parties and have had the cold shoulder.
w ehave even been told by others that we was not cute enough or not fat enough or not skiny enough,
always something . way to much drama.
and then there is the lets be friends and we will see .
haveing friends is ok but lets not forget why we are here. and also if we do go to paties and clubs everybody has there own little groups and if you arent in there groups then your a outcast.
just our input on this .
we cant count just how many times w ehave tryed to meet cpls or male sor even females just to talk and see what happends. and turned out to be noshows . it is because of this that the wife here has stoped all together .
we also have went to parties and have had the cold shoulder.
w ehave even been told by others that we was not cute enough or not fat enough or not skiny enough,
always something . way to much drama.
and then there is the lets be friends and we will see .
haveing friends is ok but lets not forget why we are here. and also if we do go to paties and clubs everybody has there own little groups and if you arent in there groups then your a outcast.
just our input on this .
Input is well taken Play4..and NPcouple.. we get that too....our favorite excuses have been like:
Cat's having a Whisker-ectomy.....we need to prepare for new furniture next week, tonight's our Men at Work club meeting....etc.... We have been to parties too with people we have known for 3 years and gotten the cold shoulder as well....again, we believe because we don't live in Jacksonville....and they all do...and see us as outsiders..... as for St. Augustine people...we're not too proud to say, you're talking to the only real couple here.....we Triple dare anyone in this town to challenge us...hahahahahahaha....
Cat's having a Whisker-ectomy.....we need to prepare for new furniture next week, tonight's our Men at Work club meeting....etc.... We have been to parties too with people we have known for 3 years and gotten the cold shoulder as well....again, we believe because we don't live in Jacksonville....and they all do...and see us as outsiders..... as for St. Augustine people...we're not too proud to say, you're talking to the only real couple here.....we Triple dare anyone in this town to challenge us...hahahahahahaha....
Play4sex, we have good friends in Marysville if I spelled that right. If that is not to far from you let us know and we will put you in touch with them.
Hawkeye, we think you are fake. Prove us wrong. A friend hosts parties in Orlando every now and then at their condo and the last one was so much fun a few weeks ago that they want to do one in October again. It is a 2 1/2 drive for us and we stay the night but it is nice to go to a party rather the nbe the hosts all the time.
And if you can`t make that, we are coming to your town sometime after new years with a few lifestyle friends just for a fun filled weekend getaway, adults only. So we accept your challenge. Hopefully you will get many more takers.
Joe and Lori
Hawkeye, we think you are fake. Prove us wrong. A friend hosts parties in Orlando every now and then at their condo and the last one was so much fun a few weeks ago that they want to do one in October again. It is a 2 1/2 drive for us and we stay the night but it is nice to go to a party rather the nbe the hosts all the time.
And if you can`t make that, we are coming to your town sometime after new years with a few lifestyle friends just for a fun filled weekend getaway, adults only. So we accept your challenge. Hopefully you will get many more takers.
Joe and Lori
never fear im on my way soon if you will still let me?
Hahaha..a challenge........ Love it...ok, check us out on our Swinglifestyle profile..Kalel35... and we were in Northport for a week on vacation...Manasota Key Beach...Ringling Museum...very nice... we're not much into the club scene (but we do like Club Elite)..prefer private home parties....let us know when you'll be in town...
.... Love it...ok, check us out on our Swinglifestyle profile..Kalel35... and we were in Northport for a week on vacation...Manasota Key Beach...Ringling Museum...very nice... we're not much into the club scene (but we do like Club Elite)..prefer private home parties....let us know when you'll be in town...We either host or attend events most weekends so if you vacation here again let us know. When we get exact dates we will let you know about your area too.
Hawkeye we know what you mean seems as though the cpls you are compatible with always seem to live far away we have plenty of swingers in our part of the country but most think we are too old for them we look in better shape than those who say we are too old lol. Hell we still both snow ski and even do a black run on occasion who is calling who old lol. Wish we lived closer to all of you who have added us to friends list and have said wish we could meet who knows maybe some day we will ski your neck of the woods not meaning you Hawkeye we know you have no snow but if we ever head your direction we will be sure to let you know :-)Good luck in finding close compatible cpls.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon