HELLO ,everybody now i am here with serious bussiness what happens when you get in love with the other spouse while fuck...swinging may you , or may you not ?
lets see your views , and has it happend to you... :! i will voice my opinion after yours......
:l Hi everyone and so i decided to give my view here so you don't have to read all pages if you don't want to FIRST: "YES go ahead and get in love ,you may , you should ,it is proper , don't be afraid ,and good luck with your new true loving solemate" and now in detail why is this my opinion and how did i come to this conclution ,well the truth starts with me why did i brake my commitment to my wifey by' marriage ' and became a swinger over 10 years ago ? lets never forget and not fool ourselfs the true definition of marriage is full commitment NO FOUL PLAY under no cercomstence may you go on a fucking rampge and Exchange sex with other spouse doing just that invalids your marriage and you become 2 persons living together like students in a dorm shering rent etc. this in return opens up the old couple to the hot "swinging dateing " for the new 2 singles secure and loving .lol. and so now the ultimate answear to all swingers was and still is 'closure' i was and we all are missing that true love and spark that only a true solemate has to offer, i had and still have more sex then you can imagine and more goodies a marriage can give but when you are missing that spark you will be insearch of that and become a swinger to find your solemate ! when and if you will find it get it and lock it in ...it was well said in the reply here by AKLIM69 and i commend her for it ,now all swingers don't get pissed off if your spouse gave you away puting you on the used spouse market it does not mean other swingers will take you ! i personly am takeing on "virgin only" .lol. thank you all :n


WHAT ,everybody -s respect to you...? You can't NOT understand this and& that's,,,,paragraph!? LOL,,,,,...
Never had it happen. If it does, time to get a divorce.
Why not just explore polyamory?
The author of this post gets an "F" in grammar, spelling, sentence structure, punctuation, correct use of letters of the alphabet to make it legible, and most important... content. It boggles the mind that someone would actually reply to this post with a serious answer... then again, here I am doing it. LOL
Before you answer a post from this person, take a glance at his profile. Please don't read it, (you'll lose some brain cells if you do) you'll get an idea just with a glance.
Is this real? or just someone playing a joke.
**G**
Before you answer a post from this person, take a glance at his profile. Please don't read it, (you'll lose some brain cells if you do) you'll get an idea just with a glance.

**G**
Liaandgio, first you are right makes you feel good so send me a kiss , you are right with the f... word thing twice oh, f...mark 1) i dont have spell check when i am on swigular be so kind email ALL mistakes i will try to fix it "if she is in her 4th month ,sorry cant fix it too late",2) when the kids have been in the classroom and the teacher was 'doing spelling' i admit 'doing the kids 'in the school toilet thats why i ended up here on this site with you i am in this since i was a kid under legal age .lol. 

WTF of course this is just a "Spermint" while other experiment in the flesh, this one just seems to do this on line to get reactions "G"
omg. . .lmao. . . 

my my sounds like someone has an ego the size of texas
i dunno t4. that paragraph has slightly better grammar.
i ddddunno spermijnt - ive seen 1 helluvsalotof kinda sorta semi intelijent shtuff podted on thidplace what dieonthevine kwicker than your incredibly lame ramblings - so, perhaps u r unto wright idear can u teach me please?
In the words of the great Samuel L. Jackson -http://www.soapdick.com/boardstuff/English_Motherfucker_Do_You_Speak_It.jpg
PS - can you not post images on this forum?
PS - can you not post images on this forum?
lmao dave24 that funny
I just wasted 5 minutes of my life reading that profile, who do I see to get my TIME BACK :S
FL4FUN: I am the authority in charge of returning lost time. Please be patient as the process takes time and there's already a line. :P
belnspoons , YES , lets see your input on this
HELLO_KITTY12984, I'm guessing a line bigger than those waiting to get off the Titanic.
BELNSPOONS, make him capitalize your name before you "Input".....
PS: Tampa Florida as NOTHING in common with Miami. :S
BELNSPOONS, make him capitalize your name before you "Input".....
PS: Tampa Florida as NOTHING in common with Miami. :S
yes indeed ,i was born in the u.s.a. , but english was not what mom and dad spoke ,i am doing the the best i can in writing on the fourms ,i do change some sentences to the words i think i can spell better , so now that you all know it can you all start responding to the issues ,enjoy the hummer ,i do speek fluent and a perfect english , so to say i got a sharp tongue in adult talking 'very pleasing ORALLY' oh, this reminds me in sex talk spelling there is no such thing ,'hi come here 'rather 'ha cum here' the wet thing..now i got to tell you the lady is right got to be careful what i write ,the other day i was invited to play in group sex 3sums well i was geting ready for it as allways , the time was set at 1 a.m. and i was there on time as i showed up i was told that its going to be a surprise gang bang ok, i agree ! remember i am the single male i got to go by the rules dictated to me now, so hubby said since its kind of late we cant wait untill the gang shows up so lets start the 3 sums and so he walked me in the bedroom she was all naked and ready so was i when suddenly out of no where came 3 big Obamas one had a hack in his hand the Barak had a big jig saw and Hussan had a sward in their hands !is this bondage i carmly asked NO was answer the guy with the charismatic voice said to me SPERMINT where is the gold ! i said what gold are you talking about i got here with the gas fare i got from the poor lady i had sex before i got here , he got on top of his voice don't you lie here or else... sure enough he pulled out of his pocket my swingular profile and said where are the 'golden hands ' you say you got!! hand them over or we will cut 'em off ......so who says thay dont read my profile worldwide .....lol.
i will post my view on this issue on monday aug. 4 at 8
m.......

oh man. i just about peed my pants laughing.
Yes "TRIXIEE911" you really called that one... LMAO
I don't know if it is the 2 bong hits that I just took or do we need to get rid of pass everyone school system?
My 2-cents!
My 2-cents!
No according to TRIXIEE911 he just from out of town. (I'd say he rode the short bus no matter WHERE he's from. :S
Yes he is really bad, but unfortunately he's not the only one. And yes it does sound like an Illinois type of rant.....Have a good day
my veiw is out , go back to the opening of the fourm its now there......:n
I thank this thread gaved me bain damadge .
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Oh crap my brain hurst..LOL
Obviously this guy got burned in his marraige, doesn't understand the concept of swinging...
and is just an ass trying to get laid and thinks maybe swingers are the easy way to do it.
But hey, what do I know? After all, he's gonna be the next President of the U.S.A.
LMFAO! Oh man! It's just to much!
THIS is the guy that gives single guys a bad rap with some people...but Ihey I generally really like the singles!
Mrs. Hottie
and is just an ass trying to get laid and thinks maybe swingers are the easy way to do it.
But hey, what do I know? After all, he's gonna be the next President of the U.S.A.
LMFAO! Oh man! It's just to much!
THIS is the guy that gives single guys a bad rap with some people...but Ihey I generally really like the singles!

Mrs. Hottie
HOTTIE -N- NAUGHTY can you maybe explain in detail what the concept of swinging is all about in your view i am open to read go ahead.....the way i see it now yeps, the truth can hurt i spelled it out go ahead change my mind and the readers who agree with my view your are an adult at least with fucking-swinging so show respect you got what to say do it with respect we are here for dialogue not filthy child talk , and do you worry about my wify , we got goodys today even not having "all " more that you will have in a full lifetime fucking 1000 men and woman cause i got a real secure marriage my wife is real happy she dosn't need other spouses men to make her happy she got me and ONLY ME ......
Someone mentioned Polyamory. Poly people, at least in most communities, feel that swinging and poly are not compatible.. Fact is, why not? If you are open and honest about your poly leanings and totally honest with your mate and any relationships you may have... then why not poly as well. I know that several people in here and on other sites, swingers feel threatened if you are overtly open abut your feelings. If one truely loves and trusts their partner/SO/wives; husbands/girlfriends; bopyfriends and whatever other relationships that I may have missed, they should not be threatened. If you fall in love with someone that you have sex with.... you have 2 choices..... Tell that person and their spouse and your spouce and see where it goes or simply walk away with the thoughts and get on with your life. The 3rd option is not an option.... If one is poly...thier primary relationship/s take precedence.
It is my belief that poly and swinging are not only compatable but that if love happens when one least expects it it has to be handled. Even the vanilla schmuck sees or talks to others and sometimes form closer relationships but don't wish that to affect their perfect marriage. How is that handled? Sometimes it simply cools down or sometimes it ends in a short or long term relationship with or without sex. So as they used to say on the TV sitcom Carter Country....."Han.dl it Han..dl it" Remember the old sage who said "shit happens"
It is my belief that poly and swinging are not only compatable but that if love happens when one least expects it it has to be handled. Even the vanilla schmuck sees or talks to others and sometimes form closer relationships but don't wish that to affect their perfect marriage. How is that handled? Sometimes it simply cools down or sometimes it ends in a short or long term relationship with or without sex. So as they used to say on the TV sitcom Carter Country....."Han.dl it Han..dl it" Remember the old sage who said "shit happens"
Someone mentioned Polyamory. Poly people, at least in most communities, feel that swinging and poly are not compatible.. Fact is, why not? If you are open and honest about your poly leanings and totally honest with your mate and any relationships you may have... then why not poly as well. I know that several people in here and on other sites, swingers feel threatened if you are overtly open abut your feelings. If one truely loves and trusts their partner/SO/wives; husbands/girlfriends; bopyfriends and whatever other relationships that I may have missed, they should not be threatened. If you fall in love with someone that you have sex with.... you have 2 choices..... Tell that person and their spouse and your spouce and see where it goes or simply walk away with the thoughts and get on with your life. The 3rd option is not an option.... If one is poly...thier primary relationship/s take precedence.
It is my belief that poly and swinging are not only compatable but that it love happens when one least expects it and has to be handled. Even the vanilla schmuck sees or talks to others and sometimes form closer relationships but don't wish that to affect their perfect marriage. How is that handled? Sometimes it simply cools down or sometimes it ends in a short or long term relationship with or without sex. So as they used to say on the TV sitcom Carter Country....."Han.dl it Han..dl it" Remember the old sage who said "shit happens"
It is my belief that poly and swinging are not only compatable but that it love happens when one least expects it and has to be handled. Even the vanilla schmuck sees or talks to others and sometimes form closer relationships but don't wish that to affect their perfect marriage. How is that handled? Sometimes it simply cools down or sometimes it ends in a short or long term relationship with or without sex. So as they used to say on the TV sitcom Carter Country....."Han.dl it Han..dl it" Remember the old sage who said "shit happens"
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where to start, maybe at the beginning, lets try to make it intelligible this time?
where to start, maybe at the beginning, lets try to make it intelligible this time?
Hukd on Foniks werkd four me!!!! LOL!!!
Katey
Katey
SINFULNHIM i like your answer!!!
the good true and smart answers are starting to come in , i love it thanks to both XPLORR94248 and SINFULNHIM
While most people disagree with D and I we play separate, she prefers the chase adn the one night stand, on the other hand I prefer the FWB scenario. whilst D has had a lot of fun over the past several years, on the other hand I have had a steady friend that I do love and care for. In fact she is very much a part of our lives. The 3 of us are awesome friends, there are no secrets, and there is alot of respect. Ultimately, D is the true love of my life and I would never do anything to hurt her.
There are many levels of love, unfortunately my friend will always be second to D and she is willing to accept that. The whole thing really is about courtesy and respect. As many other posts have pointed out the woman rules the path in swinging, if she isnt happy with something then, it either changes or gets dropped.
Like I said earlier everone has their own path.
NOTE: OP you may want to write up your posts in word or something like that and do a spelling and grammar check, then cut and past into your post.
There are many levels of love, unfortunately my friend will always be second to D and she is willing to accept that. The whole thing really is about courtesy and respect. As many other posts have pointed out the woman rules the path in swinging, if she isnt happy with something then, it either changes or gets dropped.
Like I said earlier everone has their own path.
NOTE: OP you may want to write up your posts in word or something like that and do a spelling and grammar check, then cut and past into your post.
To those of you Spermint bashers, supporters and those taking the topic seriously, I just have to say, please stop him. Not only are his posts full of inane garbage, it is apparent that he either is truly driving the short bus and he'll never get it or he is plenty bright and is taking this site as a personal opportunity to fuck with all of us. It is easy to say don't read or respond to his posts but they have become so prevalent that it is nearly impossible not to catch him in a thread.
This lifestyle, this site, is about fun and acceptance of others. There certainly is a lot of single male, bi, religious, republican, democrat, etc. bashing that takes place on here that is unfortunate. Yet, when all is said and done, I believe that most posts are because someone has a genuine interest in exploring others reactions to their opinions.
I for one do not believe that is the game Spermint is playing. He seems like a "bot" sent to drive everyone nuts (and for many of us, we don't need to be driven far). At a minimum, he is nothing but a fake who really should not be permitted to clog these posts with such drivel.
My 3 cents (2 cents doesn't buy squat anymore)
B
This lifestyle, this site, is about fun and acceptance of others. There certainly is a lot of single male, bi, religious, republican, democrat, etc. bashing that takes place on here that is unfortunate. Yet, when all is said and done, I believe that most posts are because someone has a genuine interest in exploring others reactions to their opinions.
I for one do not believe that is the game Spermint is playing. He seems like a "bot" sent to drive everyone nuts (and for many of us, we don't need to be driven far). At a minimum, he is nothing but a fake who really should not be permitted to clog these posts with such drivel.
My 3 cents (2 cents doesn't buy squat anymore)
B
WTF
GROUPTHERAPISTS. Thanks for pointing that out. Guess when I cut and pasted I didnt get everything. Unfortunately the admins bumped me to single cause we play separate. I really wish they would add a married and playing separate as there are quite a few of us out there, and have expressed that to them.
One thing I am is honest about being married as you can clearly read from my posts, and she absolutely comes first.
One thing I am is honest about being married as you can clearly read from my posts, and she absolutely comes first.
Posted By: XPLORR94248 Reply posted on:
Aug 5, 2008 - 7:12 am
Someone mentioned Polyamory. Poly people, at least in most communities, feel that swinging and poly are not compatible.. Fact is, why not? If you are open and honest about your poly leanings and totally honest with your mate and any relationships you may have... then why not poly as well. I know that several people in here and on other sites, swingers feel threatened if you are overtly open abut your feelings. If one truely loves and trusts their partner/SO/wives; husbands/girlfriends; bopyfriends and whatever other relationships that I may have missed, they should not be threatened. If you fall in love with someone that you have sex with.... you have 2 choices..... Tell that person and their spouse and your spouce and see where it goes or simply walk away with the thoughts and get on with your life. The 3rd option is not an option.... If one is poly...thier primary relationship/s take precedence.
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I don't think it is so much of trust and love that is necessary for a poly relationship. There are, in theory at least, benefits. OTOH, NILIF. So, you are going to add complications. Many marriages already are at risk or in divorce. So, it is difficult to handle one person. What about 3? Now, it is a very nice idea to say that whomever the wife plays with is whomever she plays with. However, the reality is that it will have some effect on me. Is it always so easy to divorce yourself from the situation? Yes, in theory, you can say that when you come home, the other people are out of your lives. In practice, it often has a way of creeping back in to the primary relationship.
Aug 5, 2008 - 7:12 am
Someone mentioned Polyamory. Poly people, at least in most communities, feel that swinging and poly are not compatible.. Fact is, why not? If you are open and honest about your poly leanings and totally honest with your mate and any relationships you may have... then why not poly as well. I know that several people in here and on other sites, swingers feel threatened if you are overtly open abut your feelings. If one truely loves and trusts their partner/SO/wives; husbands/girlfriends; bopyfriends and whatever other relationships that I may have missed, they should not be threatened. If you fall in love with someone that you have sex with.... you have 2 choices..... Tell that person and their spouse and your spouce and see where it goes or simply walk away with the thoughts and get on with your life. The 3rd option is not an option.... If one is poly...thier primary relationship/s take precedence.
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I don't think it is so much of trust and love that is necessary for a poly relationship. There are, in theory at least, benefits. OTOH, NILIF. So, you are going to add complications. Many marriages already are at risk or in divorce. So, it is difficult to handle one person. What about 3? Now, it is a very nice idea to say that whomever the wife plays with is whomever she plays with. However, the reality is that it will have some effect on me. Is it always so easy to divorce yourself from the situation? Yes, in theory, you can say that when you come home, the other people are out of your lives. In practice, it often has a way of creeping back in to the primary relationship.
Considering the fact that I am involved with two ladies besides my wife and for about 4 or 5 years ... I think that I can speak with authority. It is very much about love and trust. We, my wife and I are definitely not in any danger of divorce and complications are my responsibility to deal with. My wife knows that while I love both of these women as much as I love her that she is primary and that t akes precedence. My wife knows of my feelings and because she knows me for 35 years and she trusts me, she has opened heself to the relationships. IN fact she loves one of the ladies as much as I do. I do not shut anyone out of my/our lives... If anything happened to the married lady's husband she would be instantly welcomed into our house and lives. While in the hospital this past Jan, that lady and her husband were at the hospital every day. When I came home her husband brought her to my house...30 miles away and left her there until my wife came home. BTW we, my wife and I and her and her husband are great friends like a family. So I think it all depends on the players and how honest and trusting everybody is with each other... and I play the facilitator most of the time.... I have said little to say about the other lady since we have not seen her for a month or more ... Burrying a mother and taking care of those matters and property and then a grandmother..... She has little time to get together... Email me if you'd like to know more.
I don't think it is so much of trust and love that is necessary for a poly relationship. There are, in theory at least, benefits. OTOH, NILIF. So, you are going to add complications. Many marriages already are at risk or in divorce. So, it is difficult to handle one person. What about 3? Now, it is a very nice idea to say that whomever the wife plays with is whomever she plays with. However, the reality is that it will have some effect on me. Is it always so easy to divorce yourself from the situation? Yes, in theory, you can say that when you come home, the other people are out of your lives. In practice, it often has a way of creeping back in to the primary relationship.
I don't think it is so much of trust and love that is necessary for a poly relationship. There are, in theory at least, benefits. OTOH, NILIF. So, you are going to add complications. Many marriages already are at risk or in divorce. So, it is difficult to handle one person. What about 3? Now, it is a very nice idea to say that whomever the wife plays with is whomever she plays with. However, the reality is that it will have some effect on me. Is it always so easy to divorce yourself from the situation? Yes, in theory, you can say that when you come home, the other people are out of your lives. In practice, it often has a way of creeping back in to the primary relationship.
well we have played seperate and have been leaning more towards it but we both trust each other completely.
im a normal male all i want is the booty. i love my wife and would never leave her and she is the same with me.
i can honestly say ass is ass and thats all it is. to me just haveing fun. and when its done im gone.
holly is the same way . and until that changes we will keep on rollin.
im a normal male all i want is the booty. i love my wife and would never leave her and she is the same with me.
i can honestly say ass is ass and thats all it is. to me just haveing fun. and when its done im gone.
holly is the same way . and until that changes we will keep on rollin.
XPLORR--
I am very happy for you all
Whatever you want to call it...those types of relationships do take a lot of love and trust, and sometimes hard work!
But so worth the extra energy. Best wishes.
xoxo
Ms. Sunshine
P.S.
For anyone who is interested, here is a link to a deliciously amusing song that warms my heart. Click on the link, then on "My Boyfriend's Girlfriend Isn't Me" ---MP3. Enjoy!
I am very happy for you all


xoxo
Ms. Sunshine
P.S.
For anyone who is interested, here is a link to a deliciously amusing song that warms my heart. Click on the link, then on "My Boyfriend's Girlfriend Isn't Me" ---MP3. Enjoy!

Oh honestly! You know, it actually helps to PASTE THE DAMN LINK into the post. Here it is.
www.mustbetuesday.com
Click on music at the top of the page. Then on the MP3 for My Boyfriends Girlfriend Isn't Me.
Have a lovely and peace filled day
www.mustbetuesday.com
Click on music at the top of the page. Then on the MP3 for My Boyfriends Girlfriend Isn't Me.
Have a lovely and peace filled day

OMHHHHHHh that hurt who has that bong I need a couple hits after all that 

Posted By: XPLORR94248 Reply posted on:
Aug 6, 2008 - 11:01 pm
So I think it all depends on the players and how honest and trusting everybody is with each other... and I play the facilitator most of the time.
I don't think it is so much of trust and love that is necessary for a poly relationship. There are, in theory at least, benefits. OTOH, NILIF. So, you are going to add complications. Many marriages already are at risk or in divorce. So, it is difficult to handle one person. What about 3?
Now, it is a very nice idea to say that whomever the wife plays with is whomever she plays with. However, the reality is that it will have some effect on me. Is it always so easy to divorce yourself from the situation? Yes, in theory, you can say that when you come home, the other people are out of your lives. In practice, it often has a way of creeping back in to the primary relationship.
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Just glad to be away from all the family squabbles and what not. Not sure I would like to be facilitator or mediator or whatever. Our nearest relatives are literally on the other end of the world if you don't count one cousin in KY.
Not sure of the benefits but as you say, NILIF. We don't have so much time that we can just spend it any way we want. It is a lot of work to keep up just the primary relationship alone. Even with that, we have to cut corners. Add another one and we will be out of corners to cut.
Not sure what effect it has on us. But still, you have to admit that the couple we played with last week has way less effects than a couple we would be in a poly relationship with.
Aug 6, 2008 - 11:01 pm
So I think it all depends on the players and how honest and trusting everybody is with each other... and I play the facilitator most of the time.
I don't think it is so much of trust and love that is necessary for a poly relationship. There are, in theory at least, benefits. OTOH, NILIF. So, you are going to add complications. Many marriages already are at risk or in divorce. So, it is difficult to handle one person. What about 3?
Now, it is a very nice idea to say that whomever the wife plays with is whomever she plays with. However, the reality is that it will have some effect on me. Is it always so easy to divorce yourself from the situation? Yes, in theory, you can say that when you come home, the other people are out of your lives. In practice, it often has a way of creeping back in to the primary relationship.
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Just glad to be away from all the family squabbles and what not. Not sure I would like to be facilitator or mediator or whatever. Our nearest relatives are literally on the other end of the world if you don't count one cousin in KY.
Not sure of the benefits but as you say, NILIF. We don't have so much time that we can just spend it any way we want. It is a lot of work to keep up just the primary relationship alone. Even with that, we have to cut corners. Add another one and we will be out of corners to cut.
Not sure what effect it has on us. But still, you have to admit that the couple we played with last week has way less effects than a couple we would be in a poly relationship with.
ok, before I was "offically" divorced from the ex (he was already mostly living with some other woman) I slept with the Mr that I'm going to marry in 2 months. We discussed it, kinda like in that old country song, and decided that 2x a month or whenever we could meet up was better than the hassle of dating, etc since both of us agreed we did not want to be in a relationship or marry ever again. (boy were we naive!) So, yes, technically I did fall in love with someone I "was swinging" with since I was still technically married.
BELNSPOONS can you tell us a bit more about your experience with the love you got in ? such as did you think about it 24/7 and got the kind of feeling "i think i found my sole mate" or how would you explian it , can you the female handle 2 loves at the same time , try to tell us what feelings you developed ?
BELNSPOONS so you actualy did NOT get full in LOVE ...THANKS
Bel, we feel the same as you do. We very deeply care for a group of friends we made in the lifestyle. There is one couple in particular that have become our best friends and yes we love them. We share family time with them and have a family like relationship with them. Meaning that we feel like one big family most times. Some friends you just seem to grow closer to and it is inevitable that you grow deeper feelings for them.
However, we are not in love with them. We reserve that for each other. We are soulmates and that is something you just know when it is right. There is a difference and maybe someone that understands and is better with their words then I can explain.
Joe
However, we are not in love with them. We reserve that for each other. We are soulmates and that is something you just know when it is right. There is a difference and maybe someone that understands and is better with their words then I can explain.
Joe