So the question of the day is
What do you men do to lengthen your staying power for us women?
Would it be exercises or creams or a small little pill.
What is your proven theories
What do you men do to lengthen your staying power for us women?
Would it be exercises or creams or a small little pill.
What is your proven theories
I dream about Elephants playing baseball; Hey it works for me.
For me it's mind over matter. I wait until I've been instructed by the women to cum inside or where ever she wants. . . 
at the young age of 61 I have never been concern about staying power as I always work on for-play to the point of bringing her to at lease 1 or more climax before penetration
I had my 40,000 mile/40 year rebuild..nice being 20 again!!!
drug free pumpin blood!
drug free pumpin blood!Its all about Kegel exercises and pulling your ball sack down when you feel it start to pull up towards your body! I do have to admit if I'm going through a dry spell and its been a while since I've had sex I last about two thrusts and thats it! Good thing there's always seconds and thirds.....
I've also noticed I always last forever while wearing a condom. Which brings me to my next question, is sex less pleasurable for you ladies with condoms or does the extra staying power make it worth the trade off?
I've also noticed I always last forever while wearing a condom. Which brings me to my next question, is sex less pleasurable for you ladies with condoms or does the extra staying power make it worth the trade off?
There are also creams and such that are sold, a good source is SlumberParties.com, they have the best line of bedroom stuff I have come across so far.
What makes me last a long time? Soft Swap.
Making out for hours isn't a problem. I never orgasm while playing uvula hockey. Grab-ass doesn't get me off either. Nothing makes me last longer than a good round of Utah County style dead end levi-lovin.
Fuck, I bet I could last for 3 days as long as the energy drinks keep flowing.
Line up ladies, I'm stamina man (soft swap style). You may not get off, and neither will I.... but we can tell our religious friends that we are swingers, and that's what it is all about, right?
Making out for hours isn't a problem. I never orgasm while playing uvula hockey. Grab-ass doesn't get me off either. Nothing makes me last longer than a good round of Utah County style dead end levi-lovin.
Fuck, I bet I could last for 3 days as long as the energy drinks keep flowing.
Line up ladies, I'm stamina man (soft swap style). You may not get off, and neither will I.... but we can tell our religious friends that we are swingers, and that's what it is all about, right?
Well barring a condom breaking I can usually last a very long time with a condom on. On the very, very rare occurances, and only with someone I trust implicitly, that I go without a condom, my staying power depends on how many times I took care of business myself.
I just choke the chicken before we go out then when everything starts I can control myself all the way
then when everything starts I can control myself all the wayWe can't believe that in today's lifestyle anyone would go bear back but we see it all the time. What is wrong with people? There is shit out there that will kill you and drain you bank account for medication before it kills you. Wearing a condom does make me last longer and I know I have peace of mind.
How does wearing a condom help if you have unprotected oral and/or anal sex?
Oh..I'm sorry...I must have the wrong thread, I didn't know this was a condom debate. I thought it was about how men last longer?
At any rate...if there are so many nasties out there, combined with the proven unreliability of condoms (not 100%), why are you even swinging if you're so worried about it?
At any rate...if there are so many nasties out there, combined with the proven unreliability of condoms (not 100%), why are you even swinging if you're so worried about it?
Do you care enough about who you are having sex with to last long enough for them to enjoy it also. If you are a two pump chump then try harder. It really is simple.
Mike here, I have never given it a second thought. I know that when my wife and I are together it is all about my wanting to satisfy her. She is multi-orgasmic so one would think that is an easy way out. To only have to go just enough. Not true. I know that she enjoys the touching and close intimacy of us being together as long as we can be. When it comes to being in the company of others, it is just a matter of your mind set and why you are there in the first place. You enjoy being with the people you are with. You are comfortable enough that it should not matter.
laundry starch doesn't work worth a shit!
I find that if I unload my gun, I will not shoot quickly...
Seriously, if I wank or have some play time with the Mrs. before we go out, I will not have any real issues with it. I have a tendancy to assist with climax well before penetration anyway, so it is not to much of an issue....
Seriously, if I wank or have some play time with the Mrs. before we go out, I will not have any real issues with it. I have a tendancy to assist with climax well before penetration anyway, so it is not to much of an issue....
I yet have to find a topically-applied product that has any effect on stamina, hardness or size.
That includes the so-called "warming gels", that effectually only work on mucosal tissues found in the oral and vaginal cavities. In other words...they'll work on women, or males that are taking it up the bum.
Magic creams sold to enhance male performance are most often a scam or gimmick.
Any additional products to enhance or prolong performance, and clinically proven to do so, must still be taken orally and/or ingested to have any effect.
Other than that...it's up to the greatest sex organ/toy of all. One's imagination/mind.
J
That includes the so-called "warming gels", that effectually only work on mucosal tissues found in the oral and vaginal cavities. In other words...they'll work on women, or males that are taking it up the bum.
Magic creams sold to enhance male performance are most often a scam or gimmick.
Any additional products to enhance or prolong performance, and clinically proven to do so, must still be taken orally and/or ingested to have any effect.
Other than that...it's up to the greatest sex organ/toy of all. One's imagination/mind.
J
Lasting long enough? I wish that was my problem. My issue is that I last way too long. I honestly have the hardest time taking LESS than 20-30 min. to finish, often times its MUCH longer than that, which I worry makes the women we play with feel like they are inadequate, (not to mention sore and irritated bcs. I'm not small).
I can go for several hours and have multiple orgasms, but I do NOT always want to. I get blocked and then 45 minutes later I am still hard, but nowhere near finishing.
I'm NOT being facetious. It's irritating. If anyone has advice on sure fire ways to make a man cum in less than 30 minutes, let me know.
I can go for several hours and have multiple orgasms, but I do NOT always want to. I get blocked and then 45 minutes later I am still hard, but nowhere near finishing.
I'm NOT being facetious. It's irritating. If anyone has advice on sure fire ways to make a man cum in less than 30 minutes, let me know.I have found that practice helps quite a bit. You don't have to last forever when you start practicing. You just increase the amount of time on every session. At first it can be difficult, but over a few weeks you will find that you can go 5 to 10 min without problem. Note, I did most of my practicing solo. I guess it helped because I didn
Lots and Lots of fore play before the final thrust.....weg
JDLOVE, I used to have the same problem or even worse, you simply will not be cumming at all. What I learned is that if I am in control then I am able to cum much sooner. Give it a try and see if it helps you. I do know what you mean by having to explain to the lady that it is not her fault but they still seem to want to blame themselves.
Some SSRIs have been known to help with that. Urologists have prescribed them in low doses for just that purpose.
"If anyone has advice on sure fire ways to make a man cum in less than 30 minutes, let me know."
Easy. Go faster.
Easy. Go faster.
Time is relative what do you consider long time? 3min. 30min. 1hour or longer. do you include forplay in the 30 min. or straight fucking?
I will relax or rub one out 10-30 min prior if I think it will be a marathon style session. (30min or more). I will also switch it up a bit and slow down and tease/please her. Tension and anticipation can make it so all bets are off tho. Depends on the situation and what the overall goal is, and if lube is available too.
OK... am I the only one who has tried the little blue pill (or something similar)?
I don't have a problem with lasting. The biggest issue I have is my sensitivity (ie. it is very difficult for me to get off on things like blowjobs). When I wear a condom it quite often makes me even less sensitive, so that sometimes makes things not function the way they should. I have to say... for those of you who haven't ever tried the little blue pill, ask your Dr for a free sample the next time you go to see him! I thought I got hard before, but when I tried the pill, I felt like I was 12 years old again! First time I played with someone after taking the pill, they told me that they would pay for a prescription for me because they liked it so much!
I don't use it (since the trial ran out), but it definitely something you should try if you can! That thing in the commercials about if you have an erection lasting more than 4 hours you should seek medical attention... hell... I was just getting started after 4 hours of play! The rest of my body was exhausted, but the other part of my body was ready to go!!!
I don't have a problem with lasting. The biggest issue I have is my sensitivity (ie. it is very difficult for me to get off on things like blowjobs). When I wear a condom it quite often makes me even less sensitive, so that sometimes makes things not function the way they should. I have to say... for those of you who haven't ever tried the little blue pill, ask your Dr for a free sample the next time you go to see him! I thought I got hard before, but when I tried the pill, I felt like I was 12 years old again! First time I played with someone after taking the pill, they told me that they would pay for a prescription for me because they liked it so much!
I don't use it (since the trial ran out), but it definitely something you should try if you can! That thing in the commercials about if you have an erection lasting more than 4 hours you should seek medical attention... hell... I was just getting started after 4 hours of play! The rest of my body was exhausted, but the other part of my body was ready to go!!!My husband lasts atleast 30m to an hour. THe other night he went with me and a female friend of ours for 2 hours. Don't know how he does it but he does
Well as for me I can last a very long time when it is just the wife and I. She and I have been known to go for hours. But when we play with another couple I do have to try very hard not to cum it seems that I am just so turned on by watching her and by having something different that I find myself ready to cum in just 10 mins. And then I have to try to stop it and when I do that sometimes I will loose it and the other woman will have to work to get it back and that is embarrassing also because then they think what's wrong with this guy, but what they don't know is that there is nothing wrong but the fact that they are so good and it is something different that I get there too quick.
Ok, we all know that guys have good and bad days right. Most of it is mental, well at least for me. Some times it's being with someone new that just increases the intensity level, and gets ya all wound up. Or sometimes it may have been awhile.
Well good day or bad one of my favorite tricks to lasting... which may not be for all, but it works for me... is while we are going at it and I get the "tingle" I stop, pull out and go down on her! I don
Well good day or bad one of my favorite tricks to lasting... which may not be for all, but it works for me... is while we are going at it and I get the "tingle" I stop, pull out and go down on her! I don
XXXNSA - Great concept and solution. Have done that as well and it does seem to work well Hope to hear the feedback from others as to if it works for them, sounds like it would for EVERYONE involved
Hope to hear the feedback from others as to if it works for them, sounds like it would for EVERYONE involved mrs here. okay, I have yet to find a spray on, pill, cream or whatever that makes the Mr last longer. But they are all fun to try! plus, how long is long enough? sometimes we want to pretend to be 18 again, and other times once is enough or more than enough.
as a woman, its not the guy "lasting" or staying hard until I come that makes me think "this is a great guy". If he gets off fast, so be it. but now here's the challenge, getting *ME* off, even though your manhood is now soft. Surprisingly enough, I have only met 2 men other than mine who will do *whatever it takes* to ensure the lady orgasms if they do before she does.
as a woman, its not the guy "lasting" or staying hard until I come that makes me think "this is a great guy". If he gets off fast, so be it. but now here's the challenge, getting *ME* off, even though your manhood is now soft. Surprisingly enough, I have only met 2 men other than mine who will do *whatever it takes* to ensure the lady orgasms if they do before she does.
Group... thank you. I'm interested in seeing who has and or will try it also. Makes for a great night.
Garnet... What you said is along the same lines... but it goes one step further. Like I said it is usually done before I finish, but on the occassion that I can't stop it before I finish I still pull out and put the "money shot" on her tummy, that way I can still go down on her till she gets hers. Now if you're talking about a man finishing inside of you then going down... :s That is a whole other thing. The reason you only found two men that were "man enough" to do what ever it takes, is because most men aren't comfortable tasting their own cum. But I guess that could be its own forum topic?
Dee
Garnet... What you said is along the same lines... but it goes one step further. Like I said it is usually done before I finish, but on the occassion that I can't stop it before I finish I still pull out and put the "money shot" on her tummy, that way I can still go down on her till she gets hers. Now if you're talking about a man finishing inside of you then going down... :s That is a whole other thing. The reason you only found two men that were "man enough" to do what ever it takes, is because most men aren't comfortable tasting their own cum. But I guess that could be its own forum topic?
Dee
Dee, I actually wasn't refering to oral sex. I actually *don't* like oral sex. (surprising for a bi girl huh? I like to give it, not get it) Anyway, your finger(s) or a toy will work just fine but nooooo........... soome guys can't even do that! As to where they deposit the cum, I'm not picky. (see comment about oral) I don't make guys eat me if they deposited in me. Ick