Hi.
We have noticed that the chat room seems to be somewhat devoid of action. Don't get me wrong, there are almost always beautiful ladies on cam. But there just isn't much happening on there.
We've been paying relatively close attention to the chat room for the last couple of months. Other than a show that we put on a week or so ago I've never seen any couples action on there. Even while our 'show' was on couples and ladies basically continued to talk about the weather(they were watching us all the time). We had some male admirers who participated and that was nice but some couples participation is what we really like.
We're far from ugly - especially her - so I'm guessing it isn't due to our looks ....
Are we missing something? Is that chat room really not a swinger chat? Does this all work differently in Utah? Can someone show me some boobies? Are you all just a little shy?
2nluv
We have noticed that the chat room seems to be somewhat devoid of action. Don't get me wrong, there are almost always beautiful ladies on cam. But there just isn't much happening on there.
We've been paying relatively close attention to the chat room for the last couple of months. Other than a show that we put on a week or so ago I've never seen any couples action on there. Even while our 'show' was on couples and ladies basically continued to talk about the weather(they were watching us all the time). We had some male admirers who participated and that was nice but some couples participation is what we really like.
We're far from ugly - especially her - so I'm guessing it isn't due to our looks ....
Are we missing something? Is that chat room really not a swinger chat? Does this all work differently in Utah? Can someone show me some boobies? Are you all just a little shy?
2nluv
I have been frequently in the chat room for a year now and it would depend on what time of the day, or even what day of the week it is. We have frequently watched and even participated in a "show" here and there.
But, from what I have noticed in the chat room is that there is some "regulars" in there, and they are more interested in carrying on a conversation most days.
The chat room is slowly getting more chatters in there and hopefully one day it will have everything everyone is wanting....whether it be a "show" or a conversation. Maybe the word needs to be spread about how GOOD the chat room is!!
But, from what I have noticed in the chat room is that there is some "regulars" in there, and they are more interested in carrying on a conversation most days.
The chat room is slowly getting more chatters in there and hopefully one day it will have everything everyone is wanting....whether it be a "show" or a conversation. Maybe the word needs to be spread about how GOOD the chat room is!!
I think it is great that you put on a show for everyone. I know that I would have watched and participated.
As far as others...There is plenty of flashing in the room. All you need to do is ask nicely....right "Stac". Its not 24/7 though.
Part of being in the lifestyle is getting to know the people you are getting with. So the chat room allows people to just chat, be themselves and get to know each other. Its a lot easier when you meet if you know a little bit about someone else before hand. Makes that first encounter go much better and get to the good stuff quicker.
Enjoy the chat room for what it is. A place for like minded people to chat.
CB
As far as others...There is plenty of flashing in the room. All you need to do is ask nicely....right "Stac". Its not 24/7 though.
Part of being in the lifestyle is getting to know the people you are getting with. So the chat room allows people to just chat, be themselves and get to know each other. Its a lot easier when you meet if you know a little bit about someone else before hand. Makes that first encounter go much better and get to the good stuff quicker.
Enjoy the chat room for what it is. A place for like minded people to chat.
CB
If I am understanding you right 2nluv, you are wondering why there is not more action going on on cam right? If that is the case, then you are likely going to be disappointed. Just because this is a swinger site and a swinger chat room, does not mean that it is going to be a live 24/7 sex show everytime you go in the chat room. Like the other 2 have said, the chat room is a great place to get to know people, hence the name "chat" room. I do know that there are some sites out there with chat rooms specifically designed just for cam shows, if that is what you are interested in then maybe that is where you need to go. If you are interested in actually meeting like-minded people then the chat room here is great, even better now that we don't have to guess if there is anyone in the chatroom.
Great replies with some good points.
I've been in the chat room at all sorts of times of day on all 7 days. We were not expecting a 24/7 sex show -- that's rediculous and not at all what I said(please re-read as needed). We simply expected more participation and fun from the group. Isn't that what swinging sort of is - participation?
We plan to make a different kind of 'friend' when we're on this site and that's not a bad thing. It's a good thing.
I think we'll adjust our expectations and I bet it's still fun. We've noticed that there are very nice people on the site and in the chat. They aren't very responsive to people they don't know but I think that's to be expected to some degree. We'll be more friendly and less naked/sweaty in the future
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To put it in Jamaican terms the chat room seems more Breazes than Hedo if you know what I mean. We'll try to be more Breazes in the future.
I do notice that of the three responses to this post so far two are from single males(no offense intended as you both seem nice). That combined with the fact that the participants that night were males leaves me wondering if this site is dominated by such. I think that's not true but ...
This has been Mr 2nluv by the way. Mrs 2nluv will probably smack me in the back of head for even bringing it up in this forum(she small but powerful).
I've been in the chat room at all sorts of times of day on all 7 days. We were not expecting a 24/7 sex show -- that's rediculous and not at all what I said(please re-read as needed). We simply expected more participation and fun from the group. Isn't that what swinging sort of is - participation?
We plan to make a different kind of 'friend' when we're on this site and that's not a bad thing. It's a good thing.
I think we'll adjust our expectations and I bet it's still fun. We've noticed that there are very nice people on the site and in the chat. They aren't very responsive to people they don't know but I think that's to be expected to some degree. We'll be more friendly and less naked/sweaty in the future
.To put it in Jamaican terms the chat room seems more Breazes than Hedo if you know what I mean. We'll try to be more Breazes in the future
.I do notice that of the three responses to this post so far two are from single males(no offense intended as you both seem nice). That combined with the fact that the participants that night were males leaves me wondering if this site is dominated by such. I think that's not true but ...
This has been Mr 2nluv by the way. Mrs 2nluv will probably smack me in the back of head for even bringing it up in this forum(she small but powerful).
I'll definately say hi to you next time your in the room.
I (Thumper) would have to say it depends on the day of the week and the time of day...
Now Im not one to have sex on cam, But theres always are TorD games that are always fun and girls flashing, even guys showing there stuff.
I would say about every other night there somone in there playing on cam (sex), or girls hanging out naked.
Maybe you should try diffrent times of day..
I know for me and my Husband Were not going to go in there at noon and play on cam or even at 7pm we have kids running around the house and its just not going to happen.
and For me Chating on cam or playing T or D is Great but would rather be at the club or partying at my house with everyone then finding someone sexy to look at on cam...
its just all so much hotter in person xo
thats just my two cents
Thumper xoxo
Now Im not one to have sex on cam, But theres always are TorD games that are always fun and girls flashing, even guys showing there stuff.
I would say about every other night there somone in there playing on cam (sex), or girls hanging out naked.
Maybe you should try diffrent times of day..
I know for me and my Husband Were not going to go in there at noon and play on cam or even at 7pm we have kids running around the house and its just not going to happen.
and For me Chating on cam or playing T or D is Great but would rather be at the club or partying at my house with everyone then finding someone sexy to look at on cam...
its just all so much hotter in person xo
thats just my two cents
Thumper xoxo
It depends on my mood and the time of day and whether or not I'm even in a spot that I can turn my cam on at. Sometimes I just feel like chatting with friends, other times I feel a bit frisky and show off a little bit. If I'm not already topless and people are being bossy and rude, I'll stay that way deliberately. I am disappointed in the fact that if I am NOT topless, I tend to get completely ignored, but I guess I'm looking for a different kind of chatroom than 2nluv? *shrugs*
HI i dont answer to many of these but with this one i will we cann't enter the chat room unles we're on are comp with a cam so that's are problem with the chat room we aren't alway on the comp with the cam
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2nluv,
My apologies, I jumped the gun and put my own assumptions in with what you had originally asked. There has a rash of people (mostly singleguys I know) that have taken to expecting every girl on cam in the chatroom to be there to show off their bodies for every horn dog watching. Even though I am a single guy I try very hard to project an image contrary to the populary held belief of other single guys on this site.
To address you other comment about single guys overrunning this site, yes there are a large number of single guys that inhabit the chatroom. I know that for me, the chatroom is about the only place that I am not immediately snubbed for being a single guy. The chat room has been a great place to make friends so that when I do get a chance to attend a meet and greet or party/event I am not the typical single guy wallflower.
If I catch you in the chatroom I will make a point to say hi.
My apologies, I jumped the gun and put my own assumptions in with what you had originally asked. There has a rash of people (mostly singleguys I know) that have taken to expecting every girl on cam in the chatroom to be there to show off their bodies for every horn dog watching. Even though I am a single guy I try very hard to project an image contrary to the populary held belief of other single guys on this site.
To address you other comment about single guys overrunning this site, yes there are a large number of single guys that inhabit the chatroom. I know that for me, the chatroom is about the only place that I am not immediately snubbed for being a single guy. The chat room has been a great place to make friends so that when I do get a chance to attend a meet and greet or party/event I am not the typical single guy wallflower.
If I catch you in the chatroom I will make a point to say hi.
I honestly can't remember a single day that has passed where some type of "boobage", "ass-age" or otherwise hasn't been shown in the chatroom.
For the most part, those that frequent the chatroom become well-acquainted and close to varying degrees, and sometimes it just takes time for those that are new to the room to become and "feel" integrated.
Also keep in mind that any webcam action that you broadcast is not necessarily watched by all in the room. Currently, there is only availability to watch six cams simultaneously, and yours may not be one that is being watched. Hence, the blabber about the weather and whatnot while you're getting your fun on may happen, but certainly because no one is interested in watching and/or enjoying your show.
If you want viewer ratings...simply announce "Hey...we're doing a show here dammit", and give peeps a chance to activate your cam on their screens.
Make sense?
One consistent mistake that people new to the chat make (and I'm not saying you have done this), is to become a proverbial Martin Scorcerse in the chatroom.
In otherwords...a movie director.
Comments such as, "Hey...show me this", or "Why don't you do that" are most often recieved by a complete and utter lack of anything being shown on cam. Not to mention that you risk the wrath of the significant others of the ladies that are being demanded to show their goodies.
It's simply poor etiquette and lacks respect.
Other than that, there's a good bunch of peeps in there. Be patient, sit back and enjoy the show...and of course...participate.
J
For the most part, those that frequent the chatroom become well-acquainted and close to varying degrees, and sometimes it just takes time for those that are new to the room to become and "feel" integrated.
Also keep in mind that any webcam action that you broadcast is not necessarily watched by all in the room. Currently, there is only availability to watch six cams simultaneously, and yours may not be one that is being watched. Hence, the blabber about the weather and whatnot while you're getting your fun on may happen, but certainly because no one is interested in watching and/or enjoying your show.
If you want viewer ratings...simply announce "Hey...we're doing a show here dammit", and give peeps a chance to activate your cam on their screens.
Make sense?
One consistent mistake that people new to the chat make (and I'm not saying you have done this), is to become a proverbial Martin Scorcerse in the chatroom.
In otherwords...a movie director.
Comments such as, "Hey...show me this", or "Why don't you do that" are most often recieved by a complete and utter lack of anything being shown on cam. Not to mention that you risk the wrath of the significant others of the ladies that are being demanded to show their goodies.
It's simply poor etiquette and lacks respect.
Other than that, there's a good bunch of peeps in there. Be patient, sit back and enjoy the show...and of course...participate.
J
I was able to get on only once. Now I can't. Not sure why. It tells me that I have to enter some pass code in. It is very weird, but doesn't matter what I put in it still doesn't work. Kind of a bummer. WISH I KNEW WHY. lol Jazz
Try using internet explorer or a newer version of Firefox. That worked for us.
2nluv, you are 100% right in your first statement as you stated dont be shy about makeing a true point, maybe its time for 2 chatrooms , 1 for swingers and sex fun for this should be an adult site and the second for' the friend makers chat '....