We are a straight couple but for a while I have thought the wife might be curious about the touch of another woman. This past weekend she recieved oral satisfactionfrom a very close bi lady friend of ours. She enjoyed it and wants to make sure the four of us get together at least once a month for the ladies to enjoy their special play. The wife had considered bi activity with a lady friend but she relocated before anything ever happened between them.
My question is do we now adjust our profile to say bi for her or do we just state in the profile that she might enjoy girl play if she develops that female bond with another female like she shares with this particular friend. We do not want to mislead anyone but do want to let them know exactly where we stand.
My question is do we now adjust our profile to say bi for her or do we just state in the profile that she might enjoy girl play if she develops that female bond with another female like she shares with this particular friend. We do not want to mislead anyone but do want to let them know exactly where we stand.
I totally agree because some of our close friends are Bi courious and when the times are right they get to play, and when the chemisty is wrong then they can just say no, but here use him.. lol
I would think you should change it. Just because she is interested in girls doesnt mean straight couples or women wont be interested in getting to know you. If she is curious then let people know it.
Thanks to all that replied. I think we will change it to bi curious but at the top of our profile make it known that the bi thing is new and she will need to make that female bond before going any further with another lady.
Funny thing is the special lady friend has a birthday tomorrow so she got an early birthday present from Lori by being the one to pop her cherry. It was completely unplanned but as they say, things just always seem to work out for the best.
Funny thing is the special lady friend has a birthday tomorrow so she got an early birthday present from Lori by being the one to pop her cherry. It was completely unplanned but as they say, things just always seem to work out for the best.
Just because two bi women are in a room together doesn't mean that they will rip each other's clothes off and have their way with each other. There has be a connection, an attraction, some chemistry for the love of all that is fun and erotic. Please re-read till you get this through your heads (those of you who can't seem to comprehend this fact of life).
A straight man isn't expected to be attracted to every woman that crosses his path. A straight woman isn't expected to be attracted to every man that crosses her path. A bi female ISN'T going to be attracted to every other bi woman either. I would imagine its the same for bi males as well.
My rant is over for today, thank you.
-SG, bi and proud of it
A straight man isn't expected to be attracted to every woman that crosses his path. A straight woman isn't expected to be attracted to every man that crosses her path. A bi female ISN'T going to be attracted to every other bi woman either. I would imagine its the same for bi males as well.
My rant is over for today, thank you.
-SG, bi and proud of it
siren could not agree with you more
NP I think you have alot of good advice here..Just ALWAYS be honest about your wife's newfound interest in the same sex ..and that it does ALSO take a mental ALONG with a...physical attraction..And by seeing your new pics I see why the ladies are after her..But MY advice from being married to a BI FEMALE..sit back and enjoy..BUT always be SUPPORTAVE in WHATEVER SHE chooses..Have fun..take care..BE SAFE..KattNJohn
Thanks everyone, being the male half I am trying to understand the bond that we have heard of between two women. Having exactly one week to refelct on it Lori is realizing that it is something she has wanted to explore but needed to feel a special connection to act on it.
We went out tonight to the mall and Lori picked out a lot of new outfits that her and her friend would look good in for us guys. They are able to share clothes even though her friend is 8 inches taller then her. Lori is enjoying the newness of this and I am just enjoying the sight of her being happy in life. I have always encouraged her to just be herself and she loves me for not trying to restrict her in any way.
We went out tonight to the mall and Lori picked out a lot of new outfits that her and her friend would look good in for us guys. They are able to share clothes even though her friend is 8 inches taller then her. Lori is enjoying the newness of this and I am just enjoying the sight of her being happy in life. I have always encouraged her to just be herself and she loves me for not trying to restrict her in any way.