Well said.
Have a good one!
Have a good one!
Sorry that you are leaving this site. We do meet up with single males, but you are too far away for us. 
Your profile also says that you are looking for height/weight proportionate. Well, don't think we really fit into that category either.
Good luck in your search.
Take care.
Carrie and Steve
Your profile also says that you are looking for height/weight proportionate. Well, don't think we really fit into that category either.
Good luck in your search.
Take care.
Carrie and Steve
Sorry that you are leaving.. I know there are some really good single guys out there. I am sure you are one of them. I have not been with a single guy ... Yet..... I am just not ready to take that step. I hope you have a fun time at what ever you do in life=) take care
Uinena
Uinena
BOO HOO, should we feel sorry for you? NOT !!!!!!!! Don't let the door hit you on the way out !
Actually T4Real69 one of the last things I give is sympathy. Singles (both male and female) have a hard time finding what they want. We have several single male and female friends. Which they understand if you male and have nothing to share it wont happen. Yes females are different because if me (her) being bi and a dominant one to boot. You had 2 out of 3 replies not sorry to see you go. What should that tell you? There are those that may be interested. But be paitent they will find you. Like I have in my profile "If I am ready for a single male we will find one".
We have met people from this site-another Couple to be specific.
As we are a couple, our preference is in meeting other Couples. Single Males are just not a huge turn on for us as a Couple.
I am Bi, so single females-sometimes -yes.
But a single male is just not one of our interests-and we make no appology in saying so. Different couples like different things.
Meeting other Couples is our primary interest.
-Karen
As we are a couple, our preference is in meeting other Couples. Single Males are just not a huge turn on for us as a Couple.
I am Bi, so single females-sometimes -yes.
But a single male is just not one of our interests-and we make no appology in saying so. Different couples like different things.
Meeting other Couples is our primary interest.
-Karen
I JUST WANT TO SAY A FEW THINGS .
FIRST OF ALL I HAVE SPOKEN TO THIS GUY AND HE IS REALLY COOL AND SWEET AND IS ALSO LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL .AND I HAVE ALSO SPOKEN TO OTHER SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE AND STUFF THAT I HAVE HEARD OTHERS SAYING TO THSE SINGLE GUYS IS VERY RUDE AND UNCALLED FOR . IT IS ONE THING TO SAY THAT U ARENT LOOKING TO PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN AND LEAVE IT AT THAT . BUT SOME HAVE GOTTEN VERY RUDE AND IN DETAILS . AND TO ME IT IS JUST SOMEONE ACTING CHILDISH AND HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS . THERE IS A WAY TO SAY NO TAHNKS . AND THERE IS BEING RUDE AND PUSHY AND HATEFUL . AND THERE IS NO REASON FOR THAT IN THE LIFE STYLE .THE LIFE STYLE IS HERE FOR US ALLLLLLLLL TO SHARE . FIND THE ONES U CLICK WITH AND HAVE FUN . BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO BE RUDE TO EACH OTHER . EVERYBODY IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS .
AND IAM THE ONE THAT SAID I HAVE MORE PROBLEMS WITH MARRIED MEN THEN SINGLE MEN . I LIKE LADIES . I PLAY WITH LADIES . IF AND WHEN I FIND A GUY I WANT TO PLAY WITH THEN SO BE IT ILL DO IT . BUT FOR NOW I DONT NEED IT OR WANT IT . AND I TELL EVERYBODY THAT UP FRONT . THE SINGLE GUYS (MOST OF THEM ) ARE VERY RESPECT FUL TO MY LIKES AND DISLIKES . AND NEVER TRY TO TALK ME INTO IT OR ANYTHING . I CHAT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND WE HANG OUT WITH THEM AT CLUBS AND PARTIES . AND FOR THE MOST PART THEY ARE VERY WELL BEHAVED AND JUST WANT TO HANG OUT WITH (NICE PEOPLE ) THAT WILL TREAT THEM LIKE A PERSON .
AND AS FOR COUPLES . YES MOST ARE LOOKING FOR OTHER COUPLES OR FEMALES BUT NOT ALL ARE . AND IF U ARENT LOOKING FOR A SINGLE MAN THEN U CAN SAY IT NICELY .
BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT WE WERE ALLLLLLLLLLL SINGLE ONE DAY . AND WE CAN ALLLLLLLL BECOME SINGLES ANY DAY . AND TO JUDGE SOMEONE OR TREAT THEM BADLY CAUSE THEY FALL IN THE SINGLE GROUP IS JUDGEING A BOOK BY ITS COVER . AND SOMEONE THAT IS SINGLE AT TONIGHTS PARTY MIGHT FIND MRS RIGHT AND BE THE HOTTEST COUPLE AT THE NEXT PARTY . AND I HOPE THE FIRST THING THEY DO IS TELL ALLLLLLLLLLLL THE COUPLES THAT THEY ARENT LOOKING FOR COUPLES . THAT THEY WANT TO GIVE A SINGLE GUY A TRY .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL AND FUN . THE SINGLE MEN ARE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH . AND THE MARRIED MEN NEED TO REALIZE THAT IF IT WASNT FOR THEIR LADY AT THEIR SIDE THEY WOULD BE ON THAT SINGLE MAN BOAT AND WOULD BE SITTING IN THE CORNER WITH NO ONE TALKING TOTHEM . WE TRY TO MAKE EVERYBODY FEEL WELCOME TO THE LIFE STYLE . AND HELP EVERYBODY HAVE FUN . AND MEET NEW FRIENDS AND PLAYMATES . JUST CAUSE THE LIFES TYLE PEOPLE SHARE SEX AND IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS DOESNT MEAN IF THEY DONT FALL IN OUR WANT GROUP THAT WE HAVE TO BE RUDE TO THEM . AND IHOPE U ARE NEVER WALKING IN THEIR SHOES . CAUSE THE WALK IS ALONELY AND HARD WALK TO WALK ALONE .
I DONT PLAY WITH NO MEN . AND FOR SOME REASON THE SINGLE MEN UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT MEANS . BUT I JUST CANT GET THE MARRIED MEN TO UNDERSTAND THAT ..... AND IF AND WHEN IAM READY FOR A (MAN) ILL PROB PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN BECAUSE HE WAS SHOWING ME RESPECT ALL ALONG AND NOT JUST KISSING MY ASS TO GET SOME WHEN I ADDED ON MY PROFILE . HEY I THINK I WANT TO BE WITH A MAN . A MAN SHOWS RESPECT . MARRIED OR SINGLE . A DOG MISBEHAVES ALLLLLLL THE TIME . STRAYS AND TAKEN ONES . BUT I WOULD UNDERSTAND MORE IF THE HORNY SINGLE GUY WAS THE ONE BEING A DOG .
IAM SORRY THAT THE PEOPLE ON THE SITE HAS MADE U FEEL LIKE U NEED TO LEAVE . BUT U DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO CAUSE ITS ALL ABOUT FUN . AND IAM SORRY FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO CALL THEMSELVES OPEN MINDED LIFE STYLE SWINGERS CANT ACT SO DAMN CLOSED MINDED MOST OF THE TIME . KEEP LOOKING CAUSE U WILL FIND THOSE THAT ARE LOOKING FOR U .... OOOPPPSSS SORRY. IAM SURE THEY ALL SAY THAT RIGHT .
WHEN WE WANT U WE WILL FIND U . WELL DAMN WHO IS TREATING WHO LIKE A SEX TOY AND BEING RUDE . I THINK IT IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND . COUPLES TREAT SINGLE MEN LIKE HOW THEY SAY SINGLE MEN ACT TOWRDS THEM . I JUST DONT GET IT .
I WORK FOR A SWINGERS SITE AND U ARE MORE THEN WELCOME TO JOIN THE SITE AND TRY TO MEET SOME NEW FRIENDS . THEIR IS A PHOTO CONTEST GOING ON NOW SO PLEASSE ADD SOME OF THOSE HOT PICS OF YOURS ... I PROB WONT BE ABLE TO GET ANY WORK DONE... BUT IKNOW THE MEMEBER S WILL LIKE TO SEE U TO . HA HA
SWINGERS OF AMERICA.COM
WE WELCOME ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT IS FRIENDLY AND FUN .
NO RUDE OR PUSHY OR STUCK UP PEOPLE .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
I SENT IN A PIC OF WHAT I THINK ABOUTMEAN PEOPLE
FIRST OF ALL I HAVE SPOKEN TO THIS GUY AND HE IS REALLY COOL AND SWEET AND IS ALSO LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL .AND I HAVE ALSO SPOKEN TO OTHER SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE AND STUFF THAT I HAVE HEARD OTHERS SAYING TO THSE SINGLE GUYS IS VERY RUDE AND UNCALLED FOR . IT IS ONE THING TO SAY THAT U ARENT LOOKING TO PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN AND LEAVE IT AT THAT . BUT SOME HAVE GOTTEN VERY RUDE AND IN DETAILS . AND TO ME IT IS JUST SOMEONE ACTING CHILDISH AND HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS . THERE IS A WAY TO SAY NO TAHNKS . AND THERE IS BEING RUDE AND PUSHY AND HATEFUL . AND THERE IS NO REASON FOR THAT IN THE LIFE STYLE .THE LIFE STYLE IS HERE FOR US ALLLLLLLLL TO SHARE . FIND THE ONES U CLICK WITH AND HAVE FUN . BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO BE RUDE TO EACH OTHER . EVERYBODY IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS .
AND IAM THE ONE THAT SAID I HAVE MORE PROBLEMS WITH MARRIED MEN THEN SINGLE MEN . I LIKE LADIES . I PLAY WITH LADIES . IF AND WHEN I FIND A GUY I WANT TO PLAY WITH THEN SO BE IT ILL DO IT . BUT FOR NOW I DONT NEED IT OR WANT IT . AND I TELL EVERYBODY THAT UP FRONT . THE SINGLE GUYS (MOST OF THEM ) ARE VERY RESPECT FUL TO MY LIKES AND DISLIKES . AND NEVER TRY TO TALK ME INTO IT OR ANYTHING . I CHAT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND WE HANG OUT WITH THEM AT CLUBS AND PARTIES . AND FOR THE MOST PART THEY ARE VERY WELL BEHAVED AND JUST WANT TO HANG OUT WITH (NICE PEOPLE ) THAT WILL TREAT THEM LIKE A PERSON .
AND AS FOR COUPLES . YES MOST ARE LOOKING FOR OTHER COUPLES OR FEMALES BUT NOT ALL ARE . AND IF U ARENT LOOKING FOR A SINGLE MAN THEN U CAN SAY IT NICELY .
BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT WE WERE ALLLLLLLLLLL SINGLE ONE DAY . AND WE CAN ALLLLLLLL BECOME SINGLES ANY DAY . AND TO JUDGE SOMEONE OR TREAT THEM BADLY CAUSE THEY FALL IN THE SINGLE GROUP IS JUDGEING A BOOK BY ITS COVER . AND SOMEONE THAT IS SINGLE AT TONIGHTS PARTY MIGHT FIND MRS RIGHT AND BE THE HOTTEST COUPLE AT THE NEXT PARTY . AND I HOPE THE FIRST THING THEY DO IS TELL ALLLLLLLLLLLL THE COUPLES THAT THEY ARENT LOOKING FOR COUPLES . THAT THEY WANT TO GIVE A SINGLE GUY A TRY .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL AND FUN . THE SINGLE MEN ARE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH . AND THE MARRIED MEN NEED TO REALIZE THAT IF IT WASNT FOR THEIR LADY AT THEIR SIDE THEY WOULD BE ON THAT SINGLE MAN BOAT AND WOULD BE SITTING IN THE CORNER WITH NO ONE TALKING TOTHEM . WE TRY TO MAKE EVERYBODY FEEL WELCOME TO THE LIFE STYLE . AND HELP EVERYBODY HAVE FUN . AND MEET NEW FRIENDS AND PLAYMATES . JUST CAUSE THE LIFES TYLE PEOPLE SHARE SEX AND IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS DOESNT MEAN IF THEY DONT FALL IN OUR WANT GROUP THAT WE HAVE TO BE RUDE TO THEM . AND IHOPE U ARE NEVER WALKING IN THEIR SHOES . CAUSE THE WALK IS ALONELY AND HARD WALK TO WALK ALONE .
I DONT PLAY WITH NO MEN . AND FOR SOME REASON THE SINGLE MEN UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT MEANS . BUT I JUST CANT GET THE MARRIED MEN TO UNDERSTAND THAT ..... AND IF AND WHEN IAM READY FOR A (MAN) ILL PROB PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN BECAUSE HE WAS SHOWING ME RESPECT ALL ALONG AND NOT JUST KISSING MY ASS TO GET SOME WHEN I ADDED ON MY PROFILE . HEY I THINK I WANT TO BE WITH A MAN . A MAN SHOWS RESPECT . MARRIED OR SINGLE . A DOG MISBEHAVES ALLLLLLL THE TIME . STRAYS AND TAKEN ONES . BUT I WOULD UNDERSTAND MORE IF THE HORNY SINGLE GUY WAS THE ONE BEING A DOG .
IAM SORRY THAT THE PEOPLE ON THE SITE HAS MADE U FEEL LIKE U NEED TO LEAVE . BUT U DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO CAUSE ITS ALL ABOUT FUN . AND IAM SORRY FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO CALL THEMSELVES OPEN MINDED LIFE STYLE SWINGERS CANT ACT SO DAMN CLOSED MINDED MOST OF THE TIME . KEEP LOOKING CAUSE U WILL FIND THOSE THAT ARE LOOKING FOR U .... OOOPPPSSS SORRY. IAM SURE THEY ALL SAY THAT RIGHT .
WHEN WE WANT U WE WILL FIND U . WELL DAMN WHO IS TREATING WHO LIKE A SEX TOY AND BEING RUDE . I THINK IT IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND . COUPLES TREAT SINGLE MEN LIKE HOW THEY SAY SINGLE MEN ACT TOWRDS THEM . I JUST DONT GET IT .
I WORK FOR A SWINGERS SITE AND U ARE MORE THEN WELCOME TO JOIN THE SITE AND TRY TO MEET SOME NEW FRIENDS . THEIR IS A PHOTO CONTEST GOING ON NOW SO PLEASSE ADD SOME OF THOSE HOT PICS OF YOURS ... I PROB WONT BE ABLE TO GET ANY WORK DONE... BUT IKNOW THE MEMEBER S WILL LIKE TO SEE U TO . HA HA
SWINGERS OF AMERICA.COM
WE WELCOME ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT IS FRIENDLY AND FUN .
NO RUDE OR PUSHY OR STUCK UP PEOPLE .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
I SENT IN A PIC OF WHAT I THINK ABOUTMEAN PEOPLE
RUDE AND PUSHY PEOPLE TO AND I DONT CARE IF THEY ARE MARRIED OR SINGLE . MALE OR FEMALE . THERE IS NO REASON TO BE MEAN TO PEOPLE .
When one is dissatisfied with the results of a particular exploit, one must learn to look at ALL of the reasons for the failure. While it may be true that the experience of meeting couples was not a success, you cannot place all of the blame on those couples that were contacted. Yes, some of the couples MAY have been rude or "unreal", but by the same token your approach could have been the wrong one at the wrong time. Consider too, that the response that YOU received was the result of their experiences with another single (male or femlae) that left THEM feeling used and unhappy and unwilling to open their lives to a similar outcome.
My Princess and I have had situations wherein we were stood up by single males AND couples. When adding the fact that My Princess, who is the most important person in our dealings with single males, was very unhappy with the outcomes of a majority of our single-male meetings, it would be unfair to categorize us as being unreal to single males simply because SHE has chosen not to deal with the possibilities of feeling used again.
While we empathize with your plight, we must remind you that there are a lot of people in the lifestyle and there are just as many reasons why something may or may not work for them. You need to respect that and move on. Good luck.
My Princess and I have had situations wherein we were stood up by single males AND couples. When adding the fact that My Princess, who is the most important person in our dealings with single males, was very unhappy with the outcomes of a majority of our single-male meetings, it would be unfair to categorize us as being unreal to single males simply because SHE has chosen not to deal with the possibilities of feeling used again.
While we empathize with your plight, we must remind you that there are a lot of people in the lifestyle and there are just as many reasons why something may or may not work for them. You need to respect that and move on. Good luck.
I think that there are a lot of people in Florida who are not nice.... Well, not exactly correct.. Why do all the good ones live in Florida.... Aren't you just a bit afraid that another hurricane will cum thru and leave you with nothing? Move to NC...central NC lot of nice people here but too many are afraid of the small town know it all blues.. They grew up here and everyone knows when someone farts and what they had for supper last night. So Floridians who are tired of the "can't count election ballots comments" move to here and lets have fun...
Ray
Ray
Kitty once again you are wise beyond your years I have had the oppurnity to be on both side frist a part of a couple now as a single male I can see it from both sides but like Kitty said just be treat others as you want to be treated while true there are alot of single guys out there that give the rest of us a bad name but there are couples and single female that give them a bad name as well can't we all just get along lol
Hi everyone. I'm another male in the florida area. alot of good points by everyone except whoever said "don't let the door hit you on the way out"(open minded you say?). and yeah there are not so nice people in florida. I've been in the lifestyle for a while, single and as a couple. My advice is. patience. I know this isn't what anyone wants to hear but it is the key. As a single male I've spent times where people want to hang out all the time and sometimes none wants to hang out at all.
the other advice I have is you have to be willing to travel. as a single male it's your job to try a little harder to meet people, most single guys only want to hang out with people that only live 15minutes away. in the last couple of months I've found myself driving over 200 miles to meet people. totaly worth it, I've meat more laid back people farther away than close by . it does suck to drive that far. but if your truthfully interested in the lifestyle then you wanna meet people and you'll go anywhere to meet people like you and I'm telling you if you meet a couple you click with you'll drive out there all the time. me and a couple take turns driving from ft lauderdale to orlando and we think we're totaly worth it to each other.
So dude keep looking around. so post your pic back and relax
For couples and single females though. My advice is if someone spends anytime writing you (not sending a kiss) and you don't want to meet, send them a no thank you one liner. they took time to write you write them back. it should be taken as a compliment that someone would be interested in you
the other advice I have is you have to be willing to travel. as a single male it's your job to try a little harder to meet people, most single guys only want to hang out with people that only live 15minutes away. in the last couple of months I've found myself driving over 200 miles to meet people. totaly worth it, I've meat more laid back people farther away than close by . it does suck to drive that far. but if your truthfully interested in the lifestyle then you wanna meet people and you'll go anywhere to meet people like you and I'm telling you if you meet a couple you click with you'll drive out there all the time. me and a couple take turns driving from ft lauderdale to orlando and we think we're totaly worth it to each other.
So dude keep looking around. so post your pic back and relax
For couples and single females though. My advice is if someone spends anytime writing you (not sending a kiss) and you don't want to meet, send them a no thank you one liner. they took time to write you write them back. it should be taken as a compliment that someone would be interested in you
I KNOW THIS GUY . AND WHEN HE SAYS THAT PEOPLE ARE BEING RUDE AND MEAN ON THIS SITE . I MEAN THEY ARE REALLY BEING MEAN AND HATEFUL TO HIM FOR NO REASON ...
THE LIFE STYLE IF MADE UP OF ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE LOOKING FOR DIFFEENT THINGS .
AND IF SOMEONE WRITES U OR TRIES TO TALK TO U . IF U DONT WANT TO BE FRIENDS OR PLAY WITH THEM ALL THAT IS NEEDED IS A NO THANK YOU . BUT FOR SOME REASON THERE IS SOME PEOPLE THAT HAVE WRITTEN HIM WITH HATE MAIL . JUST CAUSE HE IS A SINGLE MAN . THERE IS NO REASON TO EVER BE MEAN TO PEOPLE THAT HAVE DONE NOTHING TO CAUSE IT . JUST CAUSE U DONT LIKE THE GROUP THAT THEY FALL IN DOESNT MEAN U CAN GO AROUND AND SEND HATE MAIL TO THE ALL AND TELL THEM TO GET OUT OF THE LIFE STYLE CAUSE THE ONLY THING U SEE BAD ABOUT TEH LIFE STYLE IS THEM PEOPLE .
I HAVE SEEN THE MAIL AND I HAVE SEEN WHAT HE WROTE AND I FOUND NO REASON FOR ANYONE TO TREAT ANOTHER PERSON LIKE THAT . HE WASNT DISRESPECTFUL OR RUDE OR PUSHY OR ANYTHING . AND SOME PEOPLE JUST KEPT SENDING HIM LONGGGGGGGG HATE MAIL JUST TO BE MEAN . AND I GIVE HIM ALOT OF RESPECT FOR BEING ABLE TO WRITE BACK SO NICELY AS HE DID AND JUST TRIED TO TELLTHEM SORRY THEY FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT SINGLE MEN AND TO PLEASE JUST STOP WRITING HIM . HE WAS NICE THE WHOLE TIME . I KNOW I COULDNT KEEP A SMILE ON MY FACE AND KEEP TALKING NICE TO SOMEONE THAT WAAS BEING SO MEAN . FREAKY KITTY IS NICE . BUT PISS ME OFF AND U WILL SEE THE TIGER IN ME.
I DONT CARE WHAT GROUP PEOPLE FALL IN . THAT CAN CHAGE ANY DAY .
AND U CAN NEVER JUDGE ANYONE BY THE GROUP OR LABEL THEY FALL UNDER .THOSE ARE ALL LABLES AND THEY SUCK .
I DONT WANT ANYONE JUDGEING ME CAUSE IAM A (COUPLE) . OUT OF ALL THE YEARS IN THE LIFE STYLE I MET ALOT OF PEOPLE FROM ALL THE GROUPS . AND I HAVE HAD MORE PROBLEMS WITH THE (COUPLES) . THE MEN PART .
YES THE COUPLE GROUP IS THE MAIN GROUP IN THE LIFE STYLE . BUT THATS BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT STAY SINGLE 4 EVER . BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN EVERYBODY SHOULDNT STILL BE WELCOME TO JOIN AND EXPLORE .
AND WHAT IS RIGHT FOR U MIGHT BE WRONG FOR ALOT OF OTHERS .
NO EVERYBODY ISNT LOOKING FOR THE SINGLE MEN . AND SOME STILL WRITE EVEN IF U PUT IT IN YOUR PROFILE . OK THOSE ARE RUDE AND PUSHY PEOPLE . BUT WHAT ABOUT ALL THE RUDE AND MEAN AND PUSHY PEOPLE THAT ARE (COUPLES ) .THATS WHY ALL THE SINGLE LADIES STAY IN HIDING . AND ARE AFRAID TO COME OUT ..
SOMEWHERE ALONG THE LINE COUPLES HAVE GOTTEN THIS ATTUITUDE THAT THIS LIFE STYLE IS JUST ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL ABOUT THEM . AND ALL THE SINGLE MEN NEED TO LEAVE .
YES SOME ACT LIKE THEY ARE GODS GIFT TO WOMEN AND ACT LIKE THEY ARE DOING U A FAVOR BY LETTING U GET A CHANCE WITH THEM . BUT COME ON HAVENT WE ALL MET (COUPLES ) THAT ACT LIKE THAT TO ? SO WHATS THE DIFFERENCE .
JUST LIKE WITH EVERYBODY ELSE . U HAVE TO PUT YOUR BOOTS ON AND TAKE THE WALK THROUGH THE CRAP TO GET TO THE NICE PEOPLE . BUT ITS SO WELL WORHT THE LONG WALK .
I DONT THINK ANYONE SHOULD JUDGE OR BE MEAN TO ANYONE .
CAUSE NO ONE IS GOING TO BE EVERYBODY S TYPE .
THE LIFE STYLE IS FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO LIVE A OPEN LIFE STYLE . AND EXPLORE NEW THINGS AND HAVE FREINDS AND GO TO WILD PARTIES AND LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST .
THERE IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE PEOPLE U CLICK WELL AND PEOPLE U DONT . BUT I THINK U WILL FIND BOTH IN ALL GROUPS ...... CAUSE EVERYBODY CANT CLICK WITH EVERYBODY .
BUT TO BE MEAN TO SOMEONE JUST CAUSE THEY FALL IN A GROUP ISNT RIGHT .
AND I GET SO TIRED OF HEARING EXCUSES ABOUT HOW A SINGLE MAN ACTED OR TREATED THEM OR WAHTEVER ....... OPEN YOUR EYES . THAT CAN HAPPEN IN ANY GROUP WITH ANY TYPE OF PERSON . JUST CAUSE IT IS A MARRIED COUPLE DOESNT MEAN THINGS ARE GOING TO GO THE WAY U WANT IT TO . OR NOTHING CAN EVER HAPPEN WRONG .
IT REALLY HELPS TO CHAT WITH PEOPLE ON LINE TO SEE WHAT THEY ARE ALL ABOUT .
AND PICK THROGUH THEM BEFORE U TRY TO MEET AND HOOK UP . THAT WAY U HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF FINDING THE RIGHT PEOPLE FOR WHAT U ARE LOOKING FOR .
IF U ARE LOOKING FOR A FAST HOOK UP THEN DO SO . IF U ARE LOOKING FOR FRIENDS ALSO AND THEN PLAYMATES THEN TAKE THE TIME TO CAHT AND SEE IF YALL CLICK .
IF U ARE LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL BUT THE ONLY TIME THEY WANT TO TALK IS WHEN THEY SEE U ARE ON CAM AND ALWAYS WANT U TO SHOW THEM BUT CAN T EVER JUST TALK .THEN I WOULD SAY THEY ARENT WHAT U ARE LOOKING FOR .
JUST CAUSE SOMEONE IS IN ONE GROUP OR THE OTHER DOESNT MEAN THE OUT COME IS GOING TO BE DIFFERENT BETTER OR WROSE . IT ALL HAS TO DO WITH THE PEOPLE INVOLED . AND FOR THAT U HAVE TO GET TO KNOW PEOPLE FOR WHO THEYA RE AND NOW WHAT GROUP THEY ARE IN .
I TALK AND HANG OUT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND I DONT PLAY WITH THEM . SO I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT SOME ARE JUST LOOKING FOR FRIENDS . AND ENJOY HANGING OUT . MOST HAVE NEVER TRIED ANYTHING . BUT THERE IS ALWAYS A FEW THAT THINK U WILL CAHNGE YOUR MIND . BUT OUT OF SINGLES AND THE MARRIED COUPLES . THE SINGLE GUYS UNDERSTAND WHAT I WANT AND DONT WANT A HELL OF ALOT BETTER . SO IT REALLY UPSETS ME WHEN PEOPLE TALK SOOOOOOOO BAD ABOUT SINGLE GUYS ........
BUT I NEVER HEAR PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT RUDE OR PUSHY COUPLES OR THE MEN HALF .
THEY JUST SEE THEM AS (POEPLE ) AND KNOW THEY ARENT ALLLLLLLLL LIKE THAT . ANDPEOPLE JUST MOVE ON AND FIND OTHERS . SO WHY CANT PEOPLE DO THAT WITH THE SINGLE MEN ? TREAT EACH ONE AS A PERSON . AND TREAT THEM AS THEY TREAT U .
NO THANKS MEANS NO THANKS . NO MATTER WHAT GROUP THEY FALL IN. AND JUST LIKE EVERY GROUP SOME DONT UNDERSTAND IT . BUT MOST DO . AND SOME ARE CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT THE LIFE STYLE AND THE PARTIES ARE ALL ABOUT . BUT THERE IS ALOT OF PEOPLE IN THAT GROUP ......
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
PS. SORRY TO VENT . BUT IT REALLY UPSETS ME WHEN PEOPLE ARE MEAN FOR NO REASON .
THE LIFE STYLE IF MADE UP OF ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE LOOKING FOR DIFFEENT THINGS .
AND IF SOMEONE WRITES U OR TRIES TO TALK TO U . IF U DONT WANT TO BE FRIENDS OR PLAY WITH THEM ALL THAT IS NEEDED IS A NO THANK YOU . BUT FOR SOME REASON THERE IS SOME PEOPLE THAT HAVE WRITTEN HIM WITH HATE MAIL . JUST CAUSE HE IS A SINGLE MAN . THERE IS NO REASON TO EVER BE MEAN TO PEOPLE THAT HAVE DONE NOTHING TO CAUSE IT . JUST CAUSE U DONT LIKE THE GROUP THAT THEY FALL IN DOESNT MEAN U CAN GO AROUND AND SEND HATE MAIL TO THE ALL AND TELL THEM TO GET OUT OF THE LIFE STYLE CAUSE THE ONLY THING U SEE BAD ABOUT TEH LIFE STYLE IS THEM PEOPLE .
I HAVE SEEN THE MAIL AND I HAVE SEEN WHAT HE WROTE AND I FOUND NO REASON FOR ANYONE TO TREAT ANOTHER PERSON LIKE THAT . HE WASNT DISRESPECTFUL OR RUDE OR PUSHY OR ANYTHING . AND SOME PEOPLE JUST KEPT SENDING HIM LONGGGGGGGG HATE MAIL JUST TO BE MEAN . AND I GIVE HIM ALOT OF RESPECT FOR BEING ABLE TO WRITE BACK SO NICELY AS HE DID AND JUST TRIED TO TELLTHEM SORRY THEY FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT SINGLE MEN AND TO PLEASE JUST STOP WRITING HIM . HE WAS NICE THE WHOLE TIME . I KNOW I COULDNT KEEP A SMILE ON MY FACE AND KEEP TALKING NICE TO SOMEONE THAT WAAS BEING SO MEAN . FREAKY KITTY IS NICE . BUT PISS ME OFF AND U WILL SEE THE TIGER IN ME.
I DONT CARE WHAT GROUP PEOPLE FALL IN . THAT CAN CHAGE ANY DAY .
AND U CAN NEVER JUDGE ANYONE BY THE GROUP OR LABEL THEY FALL UNDER .THOSE ARE ALL LABLES AND THEY SUCK .
I DONT WANT ANYONE JUDGEING ME CAUSE IAM A (COUPLE) . OUT OF ALL THE YEARS IN THE LIFE STYLE I MET ALOT OF PEOPLE FROM ALL THE GROUPS . AND I HAVE HAD MORE PROBLEMS WITH THE (COUPLES) . THE MEN PART .
YES THE COUPLE GROUP IS THE MAIN GROUP IN THE LIFE STYLE . BUT THATS BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT STAY SINGLE 4 EVER . BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN EVERYBODY SHOULDNT STILL BE WELCOME TO JOIN AND EXPLORE .
AND WHAT IS RIGHT FOR U MIGHT BE WRONG FOR ALOT OF OTHERS .
NO EVERYBODY ISNT LOOKING FOR THE SINGLE MEN . AND SOME STILL WRITE EVEN IF U PUT IT IN YOUR PROFILE . OK THOSE ARE RUDE AND PUSHY PEOPLE . BUT WHAT ABOUT ALL THE RUDE AND MEAN AND PUSHY PEOPLE THAT ARE (COUPLES ) .THATS WHY ALL THE SINGLE LADIES STAY IN HIDING . AND ARE AFRAID TO COME OUT ..
SOMEWHERE ALONG THE LINE COUPLES HAVE GOTTEN THIS ATTUITUDE THAT THIS LIFE STYLE IS JUST ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL ABOUT THEM . AND ALL THE SINGLE MEN NEED TO LEAVE .
YES SOME ACT LIKE THEY ARE GODS GIFT TO WOMEN AND ACT LIKE THEY ARE DOING U A FAVOR BY LETTING U GET A CHANCE WITH THEM . BUT COME ON HAVENT WE ALL MET (COUPLES ) THAT ACT LIKE THAT TO ? SO WHATS THE DIFFERENCE .
JUST LIKE WITH EVERYBODY ELSE . U HAVE TO PUT YOUR BOOTS ON AND TAKE THE WALK THROUGH THE CRAP TO GET TO THE NICE PEOPLE . BUT ITS SO WELL WORHT THE LONG WALK .
I DONT THINK ANYONE SHOULD JUDGE OR BE MEAN TO ANYONE .
CAUSE NO ONE IS GOING TO BE EVERYBODY S TYPE .
THE LIFE STYLE IS FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO LIVE A OPEN LIFE STYLE . AND EXPLORE NEW THINGS AND HAVE FREINDS AND GO TO WILD PARTIES AND LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST .
THERE IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE PEOPLE U CLICK WELL AND PEOPLE U DONT . BUT I THINK U WILL FIND BOTH IN ALL GROUPS ...... CAUSE EVERYBODY CANT CLICK WITH EVERYBODY .
BUT TO BE MEAN TO SOMEONE JUST CAUSE THEY FALL IN A GROUP ISNT RIGHT .
AND I GET SO TIRED OF HEARING EXCUSES ABOUT HOW A SINGLE MAN ACTED OR TREATED THEM OR WAHTEVER ....... OPEN YOUR EYES . THAT CAN HAPPEN IN ANY GROUP WITH ANY TYPE OF PERSON . JUST CAUSE IT IS A MARRIED COUPLE DOESNT MEAN THINGS ARE GOING TO GO THE WAY U WANT IT TO . OR NOTHING CAN EVER HAPPEN WRONG .
IT REALLY HELPS TO CHAT WITH PEOPLE ON LINE TO SEE WHAT THEY ARE ALL ABOUT .
AND PICK THROGUH THEM BEFORE U TRY TO MEET AND HOOK UP . THAT WAY U HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF FINDING THE RIGHT PEOPLE FOR WHAT U ARE LOOKING FOR .
IF U ARE LOOKING FOR A FAST HOOK UP THEN DO SO . IF U ARE LOOKING FOR FRIENDS ALSO AND THEN PLAYMATES THEN TAKE THE TIME TO CAHT AND SEE IF YALL CLICK .
IF U ARE LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL BUT THE ONLY TIME THEY WANT TO TALK IS WHEN THEY SEE U ARE ON CAM AND ALWAYS WANT U TO SHOW THEM BUT CAN T EVER JUST TALK .THEN I WOULD SAY THEY ARENT WHAT U ARE LOOKING FOR .
JUST CAUSE SOMEONE IS IN ONE GROUP OR THE OTHER DOESNT MEAN THE OUT COME IS GOING TO BE DIFFERENT BETTER OR WROSE . IT ALL HAS TO DO WITH THE PEOPLE INVOLED . AND FOR THAT U HAVE TO GET TO KNOW PEOPLE FOR WHO THEYA RE AND NOW WHAT GROUP THEY ARE IN .
I TALK AND HANG OUT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND I DONT PLAY WITH THEM . SO I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT SOME ARE JUST LOOKING FOR FRIENDS . AND ENJOY HANGING OUT . MOST HAVE NEVER TRIED ANYTHING . BUT THERE IS ALWAYS A FEW THAT THINK U WILL CAHNGE YOUR MIND . BUT OUT OF SINGLES AND THE MARRIED COUPLES . THE SINGLE GUYS UNDERSTAND WHAT I WANT AND DONT WANT A HELL OF ALOT BETTER . SO IT REALLY UPSETS ME WHEN PEOPLE TALK SOOOOOOOO BAD ABOUT SINGLE GUYS ........
BUT I NEVER HEAR PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT RUDE OR PUSHY COUPLES OR THE MEN HALF .
THEY JUST SEE THEM AS (POEPLE ) AND KNOW THEY ARENT ALLLLLLLLL LIKE THAT . ANDPEOPLE JUST MOVE ON AND FIND OTHERS . SO WHY CANT PEOPLE DO THAT WITH THE SINGLE MEN ? TREAT EACH ONE AS A PERSON . AND TREAT THEM AS THEY TREAT U .
NO THANKS MEANS NO THANKS . NO MATTER WHAT GROUP THEY FALL IN. AND JUST LIKE EVERY GROUP SOME DONT UNDERSTAND IT . BUT MOST DO . AND SOME ARE CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT THE LIFE STYLE AND THE PARTIES ARE ALL ABOUT . BUT THERE IS ALOT OF PEOPLE IN THAT GROUP ......
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
PS. SORRY TO VENT . BUT IT REALLY UPSETS ME WHEN PEOPLE ARE MEAN FOR NO REASON .
HEY AND WHAT DO YALL MEAN BY THERE IS ALOT OF MEAN PEOPLE IN FLORIDA ???????????
TAMPA IS THE PARTY SPOT . FOR ALLL KINDS OF STUFF .............
THERE IS ALOT OF STUCK UP AND MEAN AND RUDE PUSHY PEOPLE ALL OVER ...........
MAYBE NOT SOMUCH IN THE SMALL TOWNS ...... BUT THERE IS ALWAYS A BAD APPLE IN EVERY BUNCH .AND SMALL TOWNS ARE WAY TO JUDGEMENTAL ABOUT EVERYTHING .
EVERYBODY THINKS EVERYTING IS THEIR BUSSINESS TO KNOW AND TALK ABOUT AND TELLL U WHAT THEY DONT LIKE AND THINK U SHOULD CHANGE . THATS WHY EVERYBODY IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BORED ALLLLLLLLLLLLL THE TIME . EVERYBODY IS AFRAID TO DO ANYTHING DIFFERENT AND BE TALKED ABOUT . IF I WAS TO MOVE TO A SMALL TOWN ... I WOULD MOVE IN AND TRY TO TAKE OVER AND TURN THEM ALLLLLLLLLLLL INTO FREAKS .
THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY ABOUT FLORIDA IS THAT ALOT OF THE OLDER PEOPLE COME HERE ....... I DONT MIND THEM COMING HERE . BUT I DONT WANT THEM TO TRY TO TURN IT INTO A QUIET LITTLE OLD PEOPLES COMMUNITY EITHER .
TAMPA IS A GREAT PARTY SPOT . ALL IS WELCOME TO COME AND PARTY ........
BUT IF U ARE LOOKING FOR QUIET DAYS AND NIGHTS TO RELAX AND JUST SIT AROUND
PLEASE TRY ONE OF THOSE SMALL LITTLE QUIET TOWNS ......
CAUSE WE WANT TO PARTY AND BE WILD . AND HAVE FUN AND LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST .
COME YOUNG COME OLD . AS LONG AS I CAN CUM .... I WANT TO BE HAVING WILD FUN WITH FRIENDS AND OUT MEETING NEW ONES ....
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
TAMPA IS THE PARTY SPOT . FOR ALLL KINDS OF STUFF .............
THERE IS ALOT OF STUCK UP AND MEAN AND RUDE PUSHY PEOPLE ALL OVER ...........
MAYBE NOT SOMUCH IN THE SMALL TOWNS ...... BUT THERE IS ALWAYS A BAD APPLE IN EVERY BUNCH .AND SMALL TOWNS ARE WAY TO JUDGEMENTAL ABOUT EVERYTHING .
EVERYBODY THINKS EVERYTING IS THEIR BUSSINESS TO KNOW AND TALK ABOUT AND TELLL U WHAT THEY DONT LIKE AND THINK U SHOULD CHANGE . THATS WHY EVERYBODY IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BORED ALLLLLLLLLLLLL THE TIME . EVERYBODY IS AFRAID TO DO ANYTHING DIFFERENT AND BE TALKED ABOUT . IF I WAS TO MOVE TO A SMALL TOWN ... I WOULD MOVE IN AND TRY TO TAKE OVER AND TURN THEM ALLLLLLLLLLLL INTO FREAKS .
THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY ABOUT FLORIDA IS THAT ALOT OF THE OLDER PEOPLE COME HERE ....... I DONT MIND THEM COMING HERE . BUT I DONT WANT THEM TO TRY TO TURN IT INTO A QUIET LITTLE OLD PEOPLES COMMUNITY EITHER .
TAMPA IS A GREAT PARTY SPOT . ALL IS WELCOME TO COME AND PARTY ........
BUT IF U ARE LOOKING FOR QUIET DAYS AND NIGHTS TO RELAX AND JUST SIT AROUND
PLEASE TRY ONE OF THOSE SMALL LITTLE QUIET TOWNS ......
CAUSE WE WANT TO PARTY AND BE WILD . AND HAVE FUN AND LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST .
COME YOUNG COME OLD . AS LONG AS I CAN CUM .... I WANT TO BE HAVING WILD FUN WITH FRIENDS AND OUT MEETING NEW ONES ....
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
yeah tampa is cool as shit.
yeah tampa is cool as shit.
TR send me a pic.. I think your cool.. =)
OK,
I have read all three pages of posts on here, and now it is time for me to throw my two cents into the pond. Also, I am happy to announce that I am a SINGLE MALE...(oh my ..everybody run)
I say I am happy for reasons I will not get into here, but let's get to the point shall we?.I know a few people from this site personally, and I also know the rules...as far as they have put them...this applies not only to me, but anyone....no couple no play....pretty simple and straight forward. Does this mean that I am no longer their friend, or that they are no longer mine,...no! As a matter of fact there is one cpl on here I am very close to..so close that it might be awkward to actually play with them. I do believe, as was stated in the original post, that this man is not just here or was not just here for sex. I can say that, because right now, sex is the furthest thing from my mind as far as people on this site go. I used to be quite active in the lifestyle when I was married, but that is gone for now...why?...because I am a single male. I understand that, and am fine with it. Actually, if it weren't the case I would be the one who might feel used. Nothing more than a toy for the moment. Does that sound strange? I think the lifestyle is much more fullfilling when you have a partner to share it with...just my own personal opinion.
So why the hell am I here? Easy...friendship, WOW friends...do you believe this guy actually wants friends?...Yes....friends. I have found for the most part that the acceptance, and open-mindedness I find so relaxing is usually found when I am with people in the lifestyle. We are a different breed. So to those who have supported people like me..even if you didn't want to play...I say kudos. You are to be commended. To those who would like to see "the door hit us on the way out"...sorry, I prefer to hold the door open for you. You do not deserve to have someone like me in your life anyway.
Yes, there are some single males that are just pigs..there are also some single females that are the same way..and couples...etc etc. People are who they are no matter what their marital status. So try to get to know someone before you pull out the book of judgement. You may be surprised what you find and who you meet.
Ok, so that was more like four cents, but at least it was worth saying.
Take care people.
Scott
I have read all three pages of posts on here, and now it is time for me to throw my two cents into the pond. Also, I am happy to announce that I am a SINGLE MALE...(oh my ..everybody run)
I say I am happy for reasons I will not get into here, but let's get to the point shall we?.I know a few people from this site personally, and I also know the rules...as far as they have put them...this applies not only to me, but anyone....no couple no play....pretty simple and straight forward. Does this mean that I am no longer their friend, or that they are no longer mine,...no! As a matter of fact there is one cpl on here I am very close to..so close that it might be awkward to actually play with them. I do believe, as was stated in the original post, that this man is not just here or was not just here for sex. I can say that, because right now, sex is the furthest thing from my mind as far as people on this site go. I used to be quite active in the lifestyle when I was married, but that is gone for now...why?...because I am a single male. I understand that, and am fine with it. Actually, if it weren't the case I would be the one who might feel used. Nothing more than a toy for the moment. Does that sound strange? I think the lifestyle is much more fullfilling when you have a partner to share it with...just my own personal opinion.
So why the hell am I here? Easy...friendship, WOW friends...do you believe this guy actually wants friends?...Yes....friends. I have found for the most part that the acceptance, and open-mindedness I find so relaxing is usually found when I am with people in the lifestyle. We are a different breed. So to those who have supported people like me..even if you didn't want to play...I say kudos. You are to be commended. To those who would like to see "the door hit us on the way out"...sorry, I prefer to hold the door open for you. You do not deserve to have someone like me in your life anyway.
Yes, there are some single males that are just pigs..there are also some single females that are the same way..and couples...etc etc. People are who they are no matter what their marital status. So try to get to know someone before you pull out the book of judgement. You may be surprised what you find and who you meet.
Ok, so that was more like four cents, but at least it was worth saying.
Take care people.
Scott
Hi Photoman. Your comments truly hit a chord with us. Like minds and all that. We certainly wish that there were more like you and we feel certain that your attitude will serve you well.
I know where this guy is coming from... I've been on here for a couple months and have had several couples contact me and I've contacted a couple too. For the most part, they've been real nice. I've always responded, when not very interested in them, very politely and considerately. Hell, I'm always looking for another friend or someone to chat with even if I don't want to hook up. I don't email couples that aren't looking for single males either, if they wanted a single male they'd say so in thier profile. Life's way too short for a-holes and jerks, so don't let it bother you. Blow off the rude people, they're not worth it. I have yet to hook up with anyone on this site but I'm really not in any kind of rush anyway. If it happens great, if not oh well! Good luck!
PS Mean people suck.
PS Mean people suck.
there are alotta good points posted to this topic .. i started in the life style as a single male ..
when i was 20 yrs old ... by way of a couple that lived next to me .. and stopped the life style when i met my wife of 12 yrs .. and about 3 yrs ago we got into the life style together after a yr or so of talking about it .. and we have found that we have more luck with single guys than we do anyone ... and yes we have been stood up by many but only one or 2 were single males ..we say thats thier loss ... we are not the best looking couple in the world ,, not in the best of shape but there is someone who wants to play with you somewhere no matter what you look like .... we dont contact alotta of people because of hwp and a few other things that people put in thier profiles we mostly sit back and let people contact us ..
unless we think that they are almost a perfect match to us .. if others contact us we decide if we want to or not .... does not matter if they are male , female , or couple ..... we have even beem called strange because i only watch ... i very seldom join and alotta people dont like that idea ... so we say stick around and just wait to see what may become of things ...
tim and cathy
aka sextra
when i was 20 yrs old ... by way of a couple that lived next to me .. and stopped the life style when i met my wife of 12 yrs .. and about 3 yrs ago we got into the life style together after a yr or so of talking about it .. and we have found that we have more luck with single guys than we do anyone ... and yes we have been stood up by many but only one or 2 were single males ..we say thats thier loss ... we are not the best looking couple in the world ,, not in the best of shape but there is someone who wants to play with you somewhere no matter what you look like .... we dont contact alotta of people because of hwp and a few other things that people put in thier profiles we mostly sit back and let people contact us ..
unless we think that they are almost a perfect match to us .. if others contact us we decide if we want to or not .... does not matter if they are male , female , or couple ..... we have even beem called strange because i only watch ... i very seldom join and alotta people dont like that idea ... so we say stick around and just wait to see what may become of things ...
tim and cathy
aka sextra
jaxguy i totaly agree,, you hit it right on the head yet seems most never bother to reply anyways...lol us single guys are a dime a dozen on pretty much every adult swingers website
I've found that being able to take no for an answer is the key. When I played as part of a couple (I admit to being a serial monogamist) we would get many messages from single men. Although we liked to add single males to our playtime some were obvious losers. After a while we adopted a policy of sending a polite "no thank you" message to all of them. The ones that responded politely and took no for an answer got our attention and some of them got to have a very good time.
I've been a member of Swappernet for many years, both as a couple and single, and have several couples that I play with on a regular basis. I don't know maybe it is an attitude thing, damn sure can't be my looks:l
Hey, it takes all kinds and I prefer those who take it kindly. Have fun and share it
I've been a member of Swappernet for many years, both as a couple and single, and have several couples that I play with on a regular basis. I don't know maybe it is an attitude thing, damn sure can't be my looks:l
Hey, it takes all kinds and I prefer those who take it kindly. Have fun and share it
Florida might be a cool place to live(except in the summer,when it\'s a bloody hot place to live),but the number of people who are not genuine on these sites is vastI still think many just come here to look at pictures.
I think the reason why single males don\'t get a lot of luck on these sites is because the male part of the couple want some action too.
I do feel sorry for you guys,but even though we like to see our wives with other guys,we also like to have the women side of the couple.
Single females?of course they do better.Many couples have bi wives so both sided of the couple are satisfied.
Have a nice Christmas everyone.
Luv
A&M xx
I think the reason why single males don\'t get a lot of luck on these sites is because the male part of the couple want some action too.
I do feel sorry for you guys,but even though we like to see our wives with other guys,we also like to have the women side of the couple.
Single females?of course they do better.Many couples have bi wives so both sided of the couple are satisfied.
Have a nice Christmas everyone.
Luv
A&M xx
Do you realy think it was going to be easy???? As a couple it is just as difficult to find another couple with whom you really \"click\" with. Couples get rude with us all the time for one reason or another. The biggest reason is because they think that since we are in the lifestyle we are supposed to jump right in bed with them. If you thought everyone you contacted was going to jump up and down with joy you were wrong.
This is like a treasure hunt, mostly disappointment. But every now and then you stumble on to the good stuff.
The rewards are well worth the hunt.
Mason
This is like a treasure hunt, mostly disappointment. But every now and then you stumble on to the good stuff.
The rewards are well worth the hunt.
Mason
we have to agree with some of the points made...by far the worst expeirances we have had have been with couples, but even so, Dawn is Bi and I am not, so really what\'s in it for me? I have seen her with men before. There are exceptions, we are talking to a single guy right now, but we don\'t want to fill up the date book with them. There are times I enjoy watching my wife pleasure someone with out some one playing with me. I enjoy watching her pleasure a woman more mostly becuase I know it was a dream for a long time for her and only recently started coming true. But with a single guy, unless he lets me take photos while they play, I am either working one end (Which can be fun), or I am sitting there with my woodie in the wind. We do play with singles, but couples are just better for us most of the time.
We try to be open and if we see a single guy we like Dawn\'s attracted to him and I have a good feeling about him, even with couples, it\'s about that feeling right at the start, we will hit him up and the same rules apply to all. We don\'t play on the first date, we like to feel it out and discuss it and all that. Some may see if diffrently but that\'s how we do it and we are comfortable with it.
The one thing from single guys we take BIG exception with is that if we don\'t play with singles guys it\'s the same as being a racist or that we are discriminating agaisnt them.
We have enough PC pressure in our normal life. This is what we do for fun and the last thing we need are to be painted as bad guys because we don\'t play with a part of the swinger population. We already have full time jobs to feel like we have to conform.
We play with who we feel like playing with...if there\'s a single guy we like, then we will play. If we don\'t feel like playing with a single guy then we won\'t.
Like was stated above, this can be a treasure hunt and you don\'t alway have good luck even as a couple. There is still a lot on unanswered emails and rejections and no shows. The fact is, as single guys are not our main focus, we do not spend as much time looking for them and therefore your chances with us as a single male are less than a couple for the most part. There\'s nothing personal and nothing mean about it. If you hit us out of the blue, then you get the same chance as everyone else (Unless we get hit by a stream of single guys...you know how it ebbs and flows, but we never just toss out those who we are not interested in, we believe in emailing back everyone, except extremely rude people)
We know a bit where you come from as a \"BBW\" couple..but that\'s life and it\'s that much sweeter when you meet up!
No worries..it\'s all good sooner or later.
If just friendship is what you are looking for (It\'s a long distance from you) feel free to hit us up.
Sorry for the ramble, I guess I shouldn\'t type these things while having the morning coffee!
Happy Holidays!
Art and Dawn
We try to be open and if we see a single guy we like Dawn\'s attracted to him and I have a good feeling about him, even with couples, it\'s about that feeling right at the start, we will hit him up and the same rules apply to all. We don\'t play on the first date, we like to feel it out and discuss it and all that. Some may see if diffrently but that\'s how we do it and we are comfortable with it.
The one thing from single guys we take BIG exception with is that if we don\'t play with singles guys it\'s the same as being a racist or that we are discriminating agaisnt them.
We have enough PC pressure in our normal life. This is what we do for fun and the last thing we need are to be painted as bad guys because we don\'t play with a part of the swinger population. We already have full time jobs to feel like we have to conform.
We play with who we feel like playing with...if there\'s a single guy we like, then we will play. If we don\'t feel like playing with a single guy then we won\'t.
Like was stated above, this can be a treasure hunt and you don\'t alway have good luck even as a couple. There is still a lot on unanswered emails and rejections and no shows. The fact is, as single guys are not our main focus, we do not spend as much time looking for them and therefore your chances with us as a single male are less than a couple for the most part. There\'s nothing personal and nothing mean about it. If you hit us out of the blue, then you get the same chance as everyone else (Unless we get hit by a stream of single guys...you know how it ebbs and flows, but we never just toss out those who we are not interested in, we believe in emailing back everyone, except extremely rude people)
We know a bit where you come from as a \"BBW\" couple..but that\'s life and it\'s that much sweeter when you meet up!
No worries..it\'s all good sooner or later.
If just friendship is what you are looking for (It\'s a long distance from you) feel free to hit us up.
Sorry for the ramble, I guess I shouldn\'t type these things while having the morning coffee!
Happy Holidays!
Art and Dawn
It is a shame single guys get such heat. We look for singles and have found a few we would like to get with. There are some singles who fit the reputation of being too pushy, arrogant, jerks or what ever. We do however try to judge as individuals same as we do for couples. Not all couples are folks we would like to meet either. I would also have to say that it is a shame that some of the folks like the one who created this thread are so far away. Too bad we can\'t have a transporter that will allow instant transfer to far locations. I do have to say one comment did stick out for me. Stay persistent. I know it is hard to do but persistence pays off in most cases. :-)
i think this whole thing has got out of control. i can understand that it is hard for a single male. which i am. but i used to be with a great couple when i was stationed in florida. but i have yet found that great couple in Illinois. but you can not force couples to invite single males if that is not what they are into. alot of couples are more interested in people like them (couples). but i do have to say there have been a few couples on this web site who do give singles a hard time. but hey thats fine, that is just the world we live in today. don\'t knock the person who started this message he just wanted to say what was on his mind. what ever happened to that saying \"if you have nothing nice to say, don\'t say anything at all\"......lol. well i guess i\'m done i just wanted to put my 2 cents worth....lol. oh wait one more thing.....HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
I think this is a simple matter of respect. There is another thread that talks to this as well. If you have clearly posted NO SINGLE MEN and they contact you anyhow, they are not respecting your boundaries, and do as we take it they think she is so hot they cannot resist, a delete button is an easy fix and takes me only seconds, but drafting a rude return can take many minutes. I could easily take the rude stance and make comments about \"why would we be interested in men so stupid they cannot read\" or comments of the like (as I have heard that one a few times) but that just seems to perpetuate anger and is a waste of my time, and they simply do not deserve any of my time.
Now, we have also been contacted by single males who simply said \"I know you
Now, we have also been contacted by single males who simply said \"I know you
Seems everybody should just let everybody be. If a couple is into single males so be it. We have partied with several single males & females too. Threesomes can be a lot less complicated and sometimes even more fun than couples or groups. We have had more trouble with couples than single men or women. If the singles here are polite and respectful leave them alone.
T4REAL69 please come back when you have a lady because your moping sucks.
has anyone noticed that the origonal post was on Sep 26, 2004!?!?!? this is over a year ago! and obviously this member never left since his last visit was Yesterday Dohhhhhh
Good point...hmmm he left in \'04...good to know his ghost lives on,lol. Is he in need of attention I wonder?
O.K. been following this post and time for us to add our opinion we have been in the lifestyle for going on 7 yrs now began our swinging in Europe and have met epople from all over this world and we can truthfully say we have had more problems with cpls than the single guys BUT there is ALWAYS that one or two who have to spoil it for the rest by far we have met many more gentalman like single guys than jerks but its the JERKS that make cpls leary about meeting the good single guys infear of running into another one of those JERKS. Take for example on another site this single guy from Calif. sends us a message and tells us he is intersted in meeting and that he trtavels to our area in Florida quite often so we make tentative plans by telling him keep in touch and we willlet him know when we are avail to meet then comes the \"DUMBASS\" part he then says \"so when can I see a face pic of her\". Our profile clearly states we do not post face pics due to job concerns after replying to this JERK two more times he comes back with once again \"When can I see a face pic of her\". Needless to say we have now put him on the \"HELL NO\" list. Its just a matter of RESPECT if single guys RESPECT a cpls wishes and actually READS the profile and doesn\'t act like a \"DUMBASS\" when a cpl tells him NO NO means NO it doesn\'t matter if its NO we are not unblocking a pic or a simple NO thank you we do not want to meet single guys, or a Not right now we have a full plate or whatever single guys just need to do as we do with someone we do not seem to click with and say \"NEXT\" you cannot possibly appeal to all do not try to just move on and as far as T4R obviously he must be having some kind of luck as he is still on here at least to answer these post.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
more room on the cam
I had no problem with your sex,status,or race. It was the attitude! Asta la vista, baby
T4REAL is a great guy
I\'ve been chatting with him for quite a while and he has been nothing but a true gentleman.
Never said anything inappropriate.
T!!!! Anytime you are this direction you know I\'d love to see you! You\'re a sweetheart.
I\'ve been chatting with him for quite a while and he has been nothing but a true gentleman.
Never said anything inappropriate.
T!!!! Anytime you are this direction you know I\'d love to see you! You\'re a sweetheart.
LOL
KRISTYLYNN
KRISTYLYNN
omg get over it,,,move on !!!!!
Lets see, posted in September that was leaving the site and felt sorry for all of us. Now January 8th and still responding to posts.........sure sounds like somebody that is looking for sympathy to me. Not saying that it is not deserved but if you are going to do it, then do it and find something that brings you happiness!
WE
DON\'T SEE YOU PACKING !!!!!!!!!!!!!
DOES BABY NEED A BOTTLE
or do you need a Quater
LOL
kristylynn
DON\'T SEE YOU PACKING !!!!!!!!!!!!!
DOES BABY NEED A BOTTLE
or do you need a Quater
LOL
kristylynn
\"I just want to meet people for friendship and chatting!\"
Yeah right, in all the emails we have received from single men, they all just want to fuck and friendship is the farthest from there minds, which is alright since we are all her for the same thing, but do not feel you need to think that all couples are out to get the Bad single man, unless you are covering up for something you have done or will do.
We do not mind single men, but it is on our terms that we meet them and as for bad expierences with couples, it has only happened once in 10 years and it wasn\'t all that bad, so I would say we are hitting 99.7% approval rating with couples.
As for leaving in a week, I think it was just a way to get people to acknowledge you and pity you and thank you for your pity to us couples who are meeting people on our own terms, we need all the pity we can get.
Hopefully you can find someone to enjoy the lifestyle with you and if you do, I am sure you will see both sides of the fence once it does happen.
Well we are off to live our sexually fulfilled life with those other couples on this site and maybe a single man if we feel like it.
Have a good one and I think the week is up! lol
Yeah right, in all the emails we have received from single men, they all just want to fuck and friendship is the farthest from there minds, which is alright since we are all her for the same thing, but do not feel you need to think that all couples are out to get the Bad single man, unless you are covering up for something you have done or will do.
We do not mind single men, but it is on our terms that we meet them and as for bad expierences with couples, it has only happened once in 10 years and it wasn\'t all that bad, so I would say we are hitting 99.7% approval rating with couples.
As for leaving in a week, I think it was just a way to get people to acknowledge you and pity you and thank you for your pity to us couples who are meeting people on our own terms, we need all the pity we can get.
Hopefully you can find someone to enjoy the lifestyle with you and if you do, I am sure you will see both sides of the fence once it does happen.
Well we are off to live our sexually fulfilled life with those other couples on this site and maybe a single man if we feel like it.
Have a good one and I think the week is up! lol
99% of all single males REALLY DO want to be just friends ............................................. as long as their still FUCKING you. So you see it the I\'ll be your friend as long as you fuck me sindrome
Unfortunately there are all too many single men out there that give the good ones a bad name. I was the dreaded single male for a year before coupling with my love. I was always polite and courteous and never contacted those that said \"no single men\". Nevertheless, I was placed in the \"dreaded\" bin because of those bimbo males out there that annoy couples and others. Would that there were a way to separate the good from the morons so that the nice guys would get the attention they should.
When we\'re contacted by a single male we almost always respond .... with a polite,
\"no thanks but good luck\" But when couples have been hounded by the moronic males I can understand their eventual anger.
I got the most attention as a single male when I responded and wrote in the various forums because it was there that someone might recognize that I had my best talent between my ears and that was sexy to others.
Good luck.
When we\'re contacted by a single male we almost always respond .... with a polite,
\"no thanks but good luck\" But when couples have been hounded by the moronic males I can understand their eventual anger.
I got the most attention as a single male when I responded and wrote in the various forums because it was there that someone might recognize that I had my best talent between my ears and that was sexy to others.
Good luck.
You know what I find funny is that people are complaining that singles are only here to screw women. I am assuming they don\'t include single women although that could be true too. My feelings on this are so what?!?!?! It is like nobody else is on here for that. They aren\'t that much different in that respect from singles. LEt\'s face it folks we are ALL here for that. Married guys want to be with other women, married women to be with other women, married women with other men. And let\'s not even throw the bi males in there. LOL Single men can be looking for friendship as well as the sex. They are not just objects or toys. The can actually serve a purpose. If you want a threesome with a single girl you don\'t have a problem with them contacting you. Well what do you do if you want a threesome with a male joining you and your lady. HMMMM well you can ask a married couple if they mind the lady sitting out (which may not likely happen) or you find a single guy. And if the lady is wanting to try a nice little gangbang and be the center of attention well then I guess a single guy fits the bill.
Bottom line if if you don\'t want a single guy involved with you and your lady (or you and your man) then don\'t contact them and say so on your profile.
in other words folks. DON\"T BE SO DAMN JUDGEMENTAL! If the single is a jerk cut him off, but do the same if it is a married man or women who is a jerk.
Just our input.
Bottom line if if you don\'t want a single guy involved with you and your lady (or you and your man) then don\'t contact them and say so on your profile.
in other words folks. DON\"T BE SO DAMN JUDGEMENTAL! If the single is a jerk cut him off, but do the same if it is a married man or women who is a jerk.
Just our input.