we like to have friends with the opposite sex, now this dosn't mean sexual alone friends. it seems hard for some to have that, are we just strange?
I don't think you guys are strange at all. The majority of my friends are female, and not more than half have I had sexual relations with or will ever have.
Glad to see it is not just us that feel this way. We think it is normal but seems like a lot of others do not agree.
I think gender or sex has little to do with friendship.
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teq. we think the same.
We both have friends of the opposite sex, we believe its perfectly natural to be able to talk, and have a good time with both. 
Mainstream society doesn't allow for comfortable, opposite-sex friendships where either (or both) of the two has a significant other. It's unfortunate!
I'm not so sure that society frowns on opposite sex friends so much as individuals who are not confortable with that situation. I met a couple at a swinger club Sat night where the fellow introduced his wife and his wife. He explained that she was not really his wife but wa like a wife. His real wife and her seemed to be great friends as well. I have two ladies besides my wife that My wife knows that I love. She, in fact, is not upset with the arrangement and really likes both women. One is married and we are two families that are as close as one.. My wife and my lady friend's husband are not currently involved in any way other than very good friends. Leave it up to his wife and I and they will be at some point down the road. So why should society look down it's collective nose at friends of opposite sex?
thanks barbie that is how we feel.
yes you can never have too many friends. They help end the long loney nights. With or without benifets. Im just tired of having no one to go to play pool or movies with or ect...