It says it on their profile. You can also search your area:
http://www.swingular.com/search.php
Good luck.
-D-
http://www.swingular.com/search.php
Good luck.
-D-
No, but it will bring up the people in your area and you can then look at their profiles. Their profiles <b>do</b> tell you.
;-)
-D-
;-)
-D-
Notning wrong with this post, I am one to respond here.
I have had an interest but the phobia is so great! It is difficult to know how to approach it.
I know I love to watch women together, they seem to have all the fun!
I have had an interest but the phobia is so great! It is difficult to know how to approach it.
I know I love to watch women together, they seem to have all the fun!
I'm bi. Not a big deal. Don't know why everyone has such a double standard. I know women are beautiful and most certainly fun to watch.. but oh nevermind.. I'm not going to get into all that. I'm young and I just want to have fun. I don't want to get in my old age and wish I had tried something.
Both bi here it makes it so much easier when you are in group sex situations to have people that are not homophobes around you.
We enjoy giving and getting pleasure no matter what sex its to/from.... labels are so over-rated!
There seems to be just a little mis-communication here as to how to find the bi guys. Even if you read some profiles, not all that are bi say they are in their profile. I think this is the reason "Mysexylittlebitch" has added that you may email them privately, instead of posting it on the forum for everyone to read. Alot of men's profiles on here reads str8, and only by talking, have I discovered (and I'm sure alot of others) that alot of men do not wish to broadcast to everyone that they are infact bi or curious. I personally believe this is due to alot of ppl on here (and other sites as well) are extremely narrow minded when it comes to swinging with a bi or curious man and str8 man being in this situation together. When in fact, a bi or curious man would most likely enjoy the woman's company better, and would be perfectly fine respecting the wish of no m/m contact if it was presented. Like I say...it's because of alot of ppl being too closed minded in the lifestyle. Just my 2cents worth..
Mr Honey
Mr Honey
HONEYPOT_G - We totally agree and have come across many who's profile says st8 but they later indicate that they are curious or bi.
Another common term that is often used is "open" and maybe this means different things to different people, but if someone lets us know they are "open to anything" we take this to mean that they bi or curious. Of course when we get the emails that say "I want to F**K your wife, no male contact but we are open to everything" we always smile and hit delete.
One word of warning; we have found is that if a profile doesn't indicate "bi" but at some point in the communication between us and them they indicate they are... it doesn't mean they are. We have had a couple of experiences where people have indicated that they are curious nature only to use it as a mechanism to meet and hear "I'm not as bi as I thought I was, but I can still play with her right?".
Another common term that is often used is "open" and maybe this means different things to different people, but if someone lets us know they are "open to anything" we take this to mean that they bi or curious. Of course when we get the emails that say "I want to F**K your wife, no male contact but we are open to everything" we always smile and hit delete.
One word of warning; we have found is that if a profile doesn't indicate "bi" but at some point in the communication between us and them they indicate they are... it doesn't mean they are. We have had a couple of experiences where people have indicated that they are curious nature only to use it as a mechanism to meet and hear "I'm not as bi as I thought I was, but I can still play with her right?".
Just in case anyone wants to hear my opinion, here it is. I am sure there are a lot of guys who would not mind exploring that idea. (m/m) In the right situation of course. Yet I can also understand why they can NOT put it on their profile. TR take notes here...Because of various careers and the possibility of people finding out something with such a stigma attached to it, men can't put it on their profiles.
Labels I also don't believe work. Whether or not you are bi, bi curious, les, gay or hetero. my personal belief is that it relates more to who you can fall in love with and have a relationship with. Not who you can have sex with. Sex is an adventure! It is something to have fun with, and try new things. I enjoy having sex with a woman, but I could never be in a relationship with one. That is why I am married... to a man! lol I also enjoy two men having sex with me, it just sucks if they get freaked and "OMG another guy's leg touched mine!" I mean honestly. Get over it. Talk about a quick way to ruin a good orgasim!
This site only allows you to put certain "labels" on your profile. We are confined to that structure until we talk to the people we want to and have discussions that inform all involved of one another. Sometimes that means that I am "bi" sometimes that means I am not. To me it means I may or may not have sex with another woman, based on whether or not we all click.
Just one girl's opinion
Jazz
Labels I also don't believe work. Whether or not you are bi, bi curious, les, gay or hetero. my personal belief is that it relates more to who you can fall in love with and have a relationship with. Not who you can have sex with. Sex is an adventure! It is something to have fun with, and try new things. I enjoy having sex with a woman, but I could never be in a relationship with one. That is why I am married... to a man! lol I also enjoy two men having sex with me, it just sucks if they get freaked and "OMG another guy's leg touched mine!" I mean honestly. Get over it. Talk about a quick way to ruin a good orgasim!
This site only allows you to put certain "labels" on your profile. We are confined to that structure until we talk to the people we want to and have discussions that inform all involved of one another. Sometimes that means that I am "bi" sometimes that means I am not. To me it means I may or may not have sex with another woman, based on whether or not we all click.
Just one girl's opinion
Jazz
OK, then if that's true, saying it in the forum is just as likely to get them caught. In fact one is just as likely to get them caught, since the forum is crawled by google. Thanks, but I think you should be "taking note". You are far less likely to be caught if you have <u>private pics only</u>, don't mention your name and you put it on your profile. The profiles are crawled, but if you don't have identifying information on it, you are safe.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=tequilarose+%2B+swingular
;-)
-D-
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=tequilarose+%2B+swingular
;-)
-D-
Maybe I am missing the point here....if you are straight but don't mind having MFMs are people here saying you should put that you are bi on your profile? Doesn't being bi or bi-curious mean that a person would like to be with someone of the same sex?
I don't think that when if a person is ok with "parts that may happen to touch" during a threesome means that a person is bi or bi curious. (just my 2 cents)
I don't think that when if a person is ok with "parts that may happen to touch" during a threesome means that a person is bi or bi curious. (just my 2 cents)
How about someone (with a helluvalot more experience than me) developing a "MALE SCALE"?
It could go something like this:
10 - 100% hetero
9 - able to tolerate incidental contact
8 - incidental contact goes with the territory
7 - occasional contact actually a natural part of multi-sex
6 - minimal male/male contact actually enjoyable
5 - I'll play with yours if you'll play with mine, but that's it!
4 - I'll suck yours if you'll suck mine, but that's it!
3 - Here comes anal!
2 - I prefer you to her, but happy to have her along!
1 - 100% Gay
Seems to me that the old 4 category system(straight/bi-curious/bi/gay) just doesn't adequately cover the variability that seems to be out there.
It could go something like this:
10 - 100% hetero
9 - able to tolerate incidental contact
8 - incidental contact goes with the territory
7 - occasional contact actually a natural part of multi-sex
6 - minimal male/male contact actually enjoyable
5 - I'll play with yours if you'll play with mine, but that's it!
4 - I'll suck yours if you'll suck mine, but that's it!
3 - Here comes anal!
2 - I prefer you to her, but happy to have her along!
1 - 100% Gay
Seems to me that the old 4 category system(straight/bi-curious/bi/gay) just doesn't adequately cover the variability that seems to be out there.
I have been bi most of my life. I know society has stigmas attached to the word bi, but i beleave that if all party,s involved are agreeable to it then why not have the best of both wourlds. My g/f know,s i,m bi & has never had a problem with it. She has even incouraged it becuase seeing me with abither man runs her on............I,m lucky to have found her.:h
UTFunCouple: I don't think anyone is saying that if a person is most certainly straight they should put "bi" in their profile just because they understand that sometimes.. body parts touch. At least I hope they aren't. Anytime there is alot of fun going on, there is bound to be contact, accidental or not.
I think the OP is just saying it's hard to find guys that are bi easily via the search engine because most guys won't put the label on their profile. There's such a negative stigma against a man being bi it's disgusting. The social stigma that it's ok for two women to be in love or to make love to one other is ok, but a man touching a man.. well he's not much of a man if he does that. What bullshit.
I don't hold it against anyone if they are closet bi or even curious. Jobs are funny things and like TR mentioned things are crawled on google. I put it out there, because frankly I just don't give a shit. If someone wants to hold sexuality against me, then I really wouldn't want to associate with them in any shape or fashion to begin with.
I like the scale idea that was mentioned earlier. There really is no sure fire way to resolve this issue as long as society keeps it's stupid labels in place and continues to persecute those they deem unworthy. I prefer the company of a woman, but the company of a man can be just as fun. Hence the reason I put the label "heteroflexible" on myself a while back. That doesn't always fit the mold but no label is ever a true definition.
/end ramble.
I think the OP is just saying it's hard to find guys that are bi easily via the search engine because most guys won't put the label on their profile. There's such a negative stigma against a man being bi it's disgusting. The social stigma that it's ok for two women to be in love or to make love to one other is ok, but a man touching a man.. well he's not much of a man if he does that. What bullshit.
I don't hold it against anyone if they are closet bi or even curious. Jobs are funny things and like TR mentioned things are crawled on google. I put it out there, because frankly I just don't give a shit. If someone wants to hold sexuality against me, then I really wouldn't want to associate with them in any shape or fashion to begin with.
I like the scale idea that was mentioned earlier. There really is no sure fire way to resolve this issue as long as society keeps it's stupid labels in place and continues to persecute those they deem unworthy. I prefer the company of a woman, but the company of a man can be just as fun. Hence the reason I put the label "heteroflexible" on myself a while back. That doesn't always fit the mold but no label is ever a true definition.
/end ramble.
Ok I love the scale! It is perfect. UTFUNCPL thank you for the understanding of what I was talking about. TR as I have noticed in many of your postings you do not pay attention to what is said. I did not say anything about saying one thing in your profile and then posting something different in the forums. That would be completely stupid! I did say that some people I am sure, whether it has anything to do with this subject or not, while talking privately to people will let some people know more about of them. So pay attention before you decide to comment on something please.
Jazz
Jazz
This is from the Kinsey Website
"The Kinsey Scale"
Copyright
"The Kinsey Scale"
Copyright
Don't want to hijack the thread, but while I'm not bi, nor am I bi-curious, it's worth mentioning that some of us hetero guys aren't homophobic either. Even though some of us don't dance to a certain tune, we can still have fun in a situation where others do their thing. Have to love an open mind!
Even if you aren't able to include certain topics or phrases in your profile, and bear in mind the nature of this site anyways, there's always a certain amount of communication in any situation. Theres nothing to stop you mentioning something that feels good, or that accidentally happens that you'd like to happen again. Just a thought
Even if you aren't able to include certain topics or phrases in your profile, and bear in mind the nature of this site anyways, there's always a certain amount of communication in any situation. Theres nothing to stop you mentioning something that feels good, or that accidentally happens that you'd like to happen again. Just a thought
Thank you game! Your point also adds to what I was saying. There are two sides to this and it is fun either way! Have an open mind and let the adventure begin! 
Jazz
JazzThe Kisney Scale is the best scale to use. It is concise and simple. Sign me up for a #2.
JAZZ, you wrote:
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"TR take notes here...Because of various careers and the possibility of people finding out something with such a stigma attached to it, men can't put it on their profiles. "
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You wrote this after I suggested that the author do a profile search in her area. Now, I hate to verbally spank you like a child and stuff some crow down your throat, but it appears that it's you that needs to read a little closer and pay attention.
If you apply some common sense, I was saying that it makes no more sense to jump into a thread that is just as <i>'public'</i> as the profile and admit one's bisexuality. So, how about you quit being snide and save your bullshit.
As I said, if you are looking for bisexual males, a good place to start looking is the search feature. The forum also works, but you may run into people that are not willing to openly admit or flaunt their sexual orientation in the forum. Anyway... Good luck to the author.
-D-
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"TR take notes here...Because of various careers and the possibility of people finding out something with such a stigma attached to it, men can't put it on their profiles. "
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You wrote this after I suggested that the author do a profile search in her area. Now, I hate to verbally spank you like a child and stuff some crow down your throat, but it appears that it's you that needs to read a little closer and pay attention.
If you apply some common sense, I was saying that it makes no more sense to jump into a thread that is just as <i>'public'</i> as the profile and admit one's bisexuality. So, how about you quit being snide and save your bullshit.
As I said, if you are looking for bisexual males, a good place to start looking is the search feature. The forum also works, but you may run into people that are not willing to openly admit or flaunt their sexual orientation in the forum. Anyway... Good luck to the author.
-D-
ULUV: Thanks for the honesty. There is nothing wrong with boundaries. It's hard enough (no pun intended) being a single guy because well let's face it.. there are alot of guys who ruin it for those of us who get it. Being a bi male makes it even more difficult. I think what I've come across the most is that when a bi male is involved, most people think that I'm just going to want to jump on the man bone without askin or start looking at the male funny. That's not the case. I fully respect boundaries and have no issues with straight play. It's fun no matter what way you cut it. Having a fully bi male is just a bonus when it happens.
I AM A LITTLE NAIEVE? BUT I AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH BI MALES. I DON'T MIND PLAYING WITH WOMEN BUT THE THOUGHT OF A GUY WITH A GUY GROSSES ME OUT. I'VE ASKED OTHER PEOPLE WHY I HAVE THAT ATTITUDE AND THEY SAID IT WAS OK TO FEEL THAT WAY. I THINK PEOPLE ARE NOT HONEST WHEN THEY DON'T LIST THAT THEY ARE BI. MAYBE I THINK THE CHANCES OF DANGER ARE GREATER WITH MEN WHO PLAY WITH OTHER MEN. I TEASE STRAIGHT GUYS ABOUT WATCHING THEIR BACK IN A GROUP SITUATION.
I am a BiMale who truely enjoys the company of a man and woman, man and/or woman. The only problem for me is find a couple that is really willing to party. I wish all the BiMen out there all the luck finding couples.
Shareware: Dude.. if it's not your thing it's not your thing. There's nothing wrong with disliking it. There are a ton of women who don't like women either.. no big deal. The only time I have a problem with it really is when I'm supposedly a lesser person because I enjoy something that another person doesn't.
I'm also curious as to what you mean by "chance of danger is greater".
I'm also curious as to what you mean by "chance of danger is greater".
Imagine.. people who expect one to knock first.. LOL
I was approched by a guy that in no way on his profile stated he was bi and my gf had been approched by this same guy a few days prior. I do have a hard time with bi-men and hope that everyone is being honest. After this email I will be sure to watch my back in a group situation... lol.
My gf feels the same way. It just isn't the same for 2 guys as it is for 2 woman.
Please be honest with everyone after all isn't that what it is all about. NO DRAMA which that could cause a lot of it.
My gf feels the same way. It just isn't the same for 2 guys as it is for 2 woman.
Please be honest with everyone after all isn't that what it is all about. NO DRAMA which that could cause a lot of it.
There was a saying I heard a while back that went like: "Played in the Minors but never went to the Majors" as a way to describe that person's approach to bi-sexuality.
Like her, I will admit that I "took a dip into the other side" once, it was back when I was in my early 20's and extremely drunk. It wasn't for me.
That being said, I consider myself to be 100% straight. However, I have been a several group situations and accidental contact is bound to happen. I have never jumped up and left the room but neither have I gotten aroused by it. I believe that if boundaries are established and firmly upheld by everyone then a great time can be had by everyone involved.
Just my 2cents
I guess on the kinsey scale I would be about a .5 ... or maybe a 1.5 .. LOL
RIP Dr Kinsey... you are my hero.
Like her, I will admit that I "took a dip into the other side" once, it was back when I was in my early 20's and extremely drunk. It wasn't for me.
That being said, I consider myself to be 100% straight. However, I have been a several group situations and accidental contact is bound to happen. I have never jumped up and left the room but neither have I gotten aroused by it. I believe that if boundaries are established and firmly upheld by everyone then a great time can be had by everyone involved.
Just my 2cents
I guess on the kinsey scale I would be about a .5 ... or maybe a 1.5 .. LOL
RIP Dr Kinsey... you are my hero.
wow, really enjoyed this topic. as a bi crossdresser, i guess i'm a little further out of the mainstream sex crazed population. there is a lot of truth though in the excitement and variety that comes when 3 or 4 people just enjoy each other's company no matter the sex. i've met several couples over the years, and we have always had an awesome time (almost always come back for more).
btw, i personally don't like 1:1 with males, and only like other cd/tv if they are thin, fit and feminine (like me), as a girl. i definitely think it's a scale thing, and people are somewhere along that continuum. i pretty much stop at oral, though i have to admit, with my love of toys, the anal thing would be an easy step for me. for now i'll stick with strapons though :-)
dana
btw, i personally don't like 1:1 with males, and only like other cd/tv if they are thin, fit and feminine (like me), as a girl. i definitely think it's a scale thing, and people are somewhere along that continuum. i pretty much stop at oral, though i have to admit, with my love of toys, the anal thing would be an easy step for me. for now i'll stick with strapons though :-)
dana
Male speaking:
Shareware: Whats up with the all caps?? Sorry, but that annoys the hell out of me.
As far as this post goes, I think the poster wanted a response of who is bi or bi-curious-NOT a debate. I don't understand why people twist the post to something it shouldn't be. For the record, I am straight. But if we playing, the sight of a throbbing cock does not bother me. I always felt that a man who gets freaked out about a cock in their presence is in denial about their own sexuality.
Shareware: Whats up with the all caps?? Sorry, but that annoys the hell out of me.
As far as this post goes, I think the poster wanted a response of who is bi or bi-curious-NOT a debate. I don't understand why people twist the post to something it shouldn't be. For the record, I am straight. But if we playing, the sight of a throbbing cock does not bother me. I always felt that a man who gets freaked out about a cock in their presence is in denial about their own sexuality.
Jelly,
I disagree. Having an adversion to something doesn't mean you secretly desire it. LOL! Everyone is revolted by something. Do you like the idea of me grunting out a hot corny turd on your chest and smearing it all over you. I would hope not. Now, if you told me that it makes you sick, would that make your a dookie-loving fecalphile? NO! LOL!!! Just fuckin with ya. Seriously though... I don't agree with you.
-D-
I disagree. Having an adversion to something doesn't mean you secretly desire it. LOL! Everyone is revolted by something. Do you like the idea of me grunting out a hot corny turd on your chest and smearing it all over you. I would hope not. Now, if you told me that it makes you sick, would that make your a dookie-loving fecalphile? NO! LOL!!! Just fuckin with ya. Seriously though... I don't agree with you.
-D-
(male here)
Being one with an inquisitive and experimental nature, I have indulged in some bisexual experimentation, not so much out of sexual desire but rather out of a desire for self understanding and knowledge. I have never been attracted to men or had any sexual desire for a man, the experimental encounters I have had were difficult to get into enough to derive much pleasure. All in all I found the experiences less than satisfying. The self understanding was worth the effort in my assessment, I have no fear of male to male contact, however, I would not seek it out or derive much pleasure from it. I would participate in M/M only in so much as needed to satisfy the desires of my girls or as a means to get or fulfill desires of a female I crave. I think It would be most accurate to describe myself as indifferent to male bisexuality, I am neither aroused nor repulsed by it. Besides living with two women in a poly context, playmates are more for them and offer me a welcomed respite. But I digress, in answer to the original post; I
Being one with an inquisitive and experimental nature, I have indulged in some bisexual experimentation, not so much out of sexual desire but rather out of a desire for self understanding and knowledge. I have never been attracted to men or had any sexual desire for a man, the experimental encounters I have had were difficult to get into enough to derive much pleasure. All in all I found the experiences less than satisfying. The self understanding was worth the effort in my assessment, I have no fear of male to male contact, however, I would not seek it out or derive much pleasure from it. I would participate in M/M only in so much as needed to satisfy the desires of my girls or as a means to get or fulfill desires of a female I crave. I think It would be most accurate to describe myself as indifferent to male bisexuality, I am neither aroused nor repulsed by it. Besides living with two women in a poly context, playmates are more for them and offer me a welcomed respite. But I digress, in answer to the original post; I
Ok, I would like to admit a couple of things here.. first I was with another man about 24 years ago and second, I would like to do it again.
I am not gay, I consider myself BI. I love the women and I like to be their object of desire. I also like the kinky side of sex.
I am not gay, I consider myself BI. I love the women and I like to be their object of desire. I also like the kinky side of sex.
why do so many people think that being bi means being anal?
perhaps Imus can answer that or Rev Jackson or someone like that
people are people..and sex is fun
women know that more than men...
and some women don't want their guy to know
just how fun it is
lol
lighten up...
I agree kinsey scale shouldn't use the 'homo' word
that's offensive to bi people... kinda like
saying 'oriental' to a chinese or japanese
if you don't think there are a lot of bi minded
couples and people then look up on goggle
bisexualplayground
I'd love to see a bisingular version of this site.
and a chat main bisexual room... not a user created room
agree that their should be a question on the profile that
shows your open mindedness
and is searchable
who wants to go looking at a bunch of profiles from the area
on a serial search instead of a keyed search... for you programmers
hence why I use my username hint
you know about the girl girl search
how about orallybi or socially bi
or like someone said... open minded
I really think that the site should not be goggle searchable...
make it discreet and searchable only by a user who has signed up
then we can open up more and be ourselves.
p.s. thanks to the many couples and people that enjoyed reading my profile
perhaps Imus can answer that or Rev Jackson or someone like that
people are people..and sex is fun
women know that more than men...
and some women don't want their guy to know
just how fun it is
lol
lighten up...
I agree kinsey scale shouldn't use the 'homo' word
that's offensive to bi people... kinda like
saying 'oriental' to a chinese or japanese
if you don't think there are a lot of bi minded
couples and people then look up on goggle
bisexualplayground
I'd love to see a bisingular version of this site.
and a chat main bisexual room... not a user created room
agree that their should be a question on the profile that
shows your open mindedness
and is searchable
who wants to go looking at a bunch of profiles from the area
on a serial search instead of a keyed search... for you programmers
hence why I use my username hint
you know about the girl girl search
how about orallybi or socially bi
or like someone said... open minded
I really think that the site should not be goggle searchable...
make it discreet and searchable only by a user who has signed up
then we can open up more and be ourselves.
p.s. thanks to the many couples and people that enjoyed reading my profile
First I'm not gay or bi, to my knowledge..LOL... Been in the lifestyle for about 12 years now and I always wonder why, a group who is supposed to be so openminded and progressive have their heads firmly where the sun don't shine. Virtually everyone in the lifestyle accepts female bisexuality almost universally. When it cum to bi sexual males they are somehow dirty, unclean and dangerous. They are carriers of disease and STD's but women bisexuals are fine.. The whole premise is dead wrong... If men engage in unprotected intercourse/anal penetration with anyone they are at risk. Therefore, women who engage in anal sex are or have a risk potential. If someone get an STD via anal sex they are simply at risk. So it is with men who engage in anal sex with either gender. So to simply say that bi men are a risk factor is not the whole story.
I don't know where the bi male thing started but you can bet 1986 was probably the icing on the cake. HIV-AIDS came out of the preverbial closet. What are your chances of catching anything from a bisexual male who does not engage in anal sex...unprotected anal sex...it's about the same as being with a straight male or a straight female or a bisexual female. People need to stop being afraid of bi males because they are no more dangerous than anyone else that they have sex with.
I really don't know why so much homophobia in the lifeatyle either. The ladies 70 - 80% are bi and nobody gets upset about that. If you were in a pile and someone started expertly sucking your cock are you going to look down with the express purpose to make sure it's not a male? Just think about it a moment.... Everytime you go down on a woman .....aren't you sucking the last guy's cock by proxie??? I'm not saying she didn't wash up but the fact is that you simply are sucking someones cock by proxie. Then there are the straight guys who like eating creampies. I'd say that counts as a near hit for sucking cock....
I'm not taking shots at anyone...simply pointing out that the fact that someone is bi does not mean that they are any less clean than we are. That there are many things done during sex that, in fact, put us in very close proximity for bi activities via proxie and that disease is not really any more dangerous with a bi male that anyone else. Wake up swinging world ... I personally feel that if one has the desire, bi wise, then they have doubled their potential for fun.
Maybe I should become bi... Except that I have no desire to be with a male...Don't want to suck anything on a male.... don't want to kiss any males, don't wish to fondle or fuck anything on a male....
Just my thoughts on bi males... What's the problems......
Added 7/31
I just got an email about this post...it was positive. But how many of you, who are so homophobic, have ever considered that when you eat pussy or kiss a lady that you are sucking a dick by proxy. And you straight gals, when you suck your guys dick that you are probably eating pussy by proxy. So if you kiss a guy that has sucked a dick.... it's about the same as kissing anyone... your guy has eaten a pussy that has had another dick in it and therefore you are eating pussy. Guys, you eat a pussy, aren't you sucking a dick 2nd hand.... Just a thought.....So why the BS about bi guys .... Oh lest we forget... the guys who like to snowball; i.e., eat a woman with a cream pie.... So what is all the homophobia all about... We are all getting a little homo action even when we don't think about it.....
Now go out and everyone can vomit ....Just like eating snake or chocolate covered roaches....Tasted good until you knew all the facts......
I don't know where the bi male thing started but you can bet 1986 was probably the icing on the cake. HIV-AIDS came out of the preverbial closet. What are your chances of catching anything from a bisexual male who does not engage in anal sex...unprotected anal sex...it's about the same as being with a straight male or a straight female or a bisexual female. People need to stop being afraid of bi males because they are no more dangerous than anyone else that they have sex with.
I really don't know why so much homophobia in the lifeatyle either. The ladies 70 - 80% are bi and nobody gets upset about that. If you were in a pile and someone started expertly sucking your cock are you going to look down with the express purpose to make sure it's not a male? Just think about it a moment.... Everytime you go down on a woman .....aren't you sucking the last guy's cock by proxie??? I'm not saying she didn't wash up but the fact is that you simply are sucking someones cock by proxie. Then there are the straight guys who like eating creampies. I'd say that counts as a near hit for sucking cock....
I'm not taking shots at anyone...simply pointing out that the fact that someone is bi does not mean that they are any less clean than we are. That there are many things done during sex that, in fact, put us in very close proximity for bi activities via proxie and that disease is not really any more dangerous with a bi male that anyone else. Wake up swinging world ... I personally feel that if one has the desire, bi wise, then they have doubled their potential for fun.
Maybe I should become bi... Except that I have no desire to be with a male...Don't want to suck anything on a male.... don't want to kiss any males, don't wish to fondle or fuck anything on a male....
Just my thoughts on bi males... What's the problems......
Added 7/31
I just got an email about this post...it was positive. But how many of you, who are so homophobic, have ever considered that when you eat pussy or kiss a lady that you are sucking a dick by proxy. And you straight gals, when you suck your guys dick that you are probably eating pussy by proxy. So if you kiss a guy that has sucked a dick.... it's about the same as kissing anyone... your guy has eaten a pussy that has had another dick in it and therefore you are eating pussy. Guys, you eat a pussy, aren't you sucking a dick 2nd hand.... Just a thought.....So why the BS about bi guys .... Oh lest we forget... the guys who like to snowball; i.e., eat a woman with a cream pie.... So what is all the homophobia all about... We are all getting a little homo action even when we don't think about it.....
Now go out and everyone can vomit ....Just like eating snake or chocolate covered roaches....Tasted good until you knew all the facts......
As long as they respect our decision to both be straight then we will respect their decision to be bi or gay or what ever. We really never did understand the whole bi male thing like they are bad people. Her best friend is a gay male back in Texas who is in a committed relationship with his partner and both are wonderfull and very loyal friends.
Yes, I am bisexual, and have been since I was a teen. We both play for the bisexual fun, it is a huge turn on. We like to be able to play with another couple and have wonderful sex together.
I don't understand the double standard either, and the way bisexual men are dipicted as being more promiscuous. It is disheartening and untrue. I think many people will shy away from bisexual men, thinking they are unsafe, or they will push their bisexuality onto others.
We don't play like that. we NEVER push the bisexual envelope. That is why we are up front about it. We can easily play without the same sex aspect, but, that is the big turn on for us.
Please give us bisexual men a try, we are very talented individuals.
I don't understand the double standard either, and the way bisexual men are dipicted as being more promiscuous. It is disheartening and untrue. I think many people will shy away from bisexual men, thinking they are unsafe, or they will push their bisexuality onto others.
We don't play like that. we NEVER push the bisexual envelope. That is why we are up front about it. We can easily play without the same sex aspect, but, that is the big turn on for us.
Please give us bisexual men a try, we are very talented individuals.
My comments....
Oh stop for Christ's sake!
I just took a look at AMPUSSY's profile and photo album; that is some "Little Toy" she has!
I dont see what the big deal is. I know people that have lived on both the east and west coast, and (for the most part)...they are not ashamed to be bi-costal.
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CB, I don't think that bi-coastal is what is beiing talked about here. And it's also not bi-polar either. Bi sexual is the subject.