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This is my thought of the day. Take it as you will. Why is it that people make a big deal about peer pressuring when it comes to sexual advances and drugs, but it seems to be acceptable to do peer pressure when it comes to alcohol? I can't tell you how many comments I get when I choose not to drink and walk around with my water bottle. Some people take it so far that I would call it harrassive. Just my thoughts. Comment if you'd like. :)
those are the ones that think thats the only way to get in your pants lol or any lady's pants lol they think if i get them drunk they will give it up ..lol
If someone is trying to get you to do what you don`t want to do then simply move on to someone else that will respect your desires. My wife can`t drink because of her seizure medication so we know exactly what you mean. I drink very rarely and anyone we are around respects it.
SEXTRA: Apparently they didn't get the memo that I get naked and have sex even if I'm sober? :P

NP: I definitely move on. :) It was just my random thought as I was recently annoyed by it. By the time the 10th person has harassed me, I'm kinda grumpy. :P
I chose not to drink as well last night and got a bit harrassed for it as well LOL. Still had fun still got a bit naked and still was naughty LOL Just do what feels right to ya hun
My hubby also can't drink since he gets seizures- so we totally understand your position ;)

Even I prefer not to drink, especially straight vodka-way too much for me LOL

Hey KITTY, maybe when theres more parties around, We'll hang out with ya and us foursome could be naughty, no drinks needed!
:p
LOL kitty ... we dont drink much at all and when someone tries to push things on us we get a little snappy because its just disrespectful to bug the crap out of someone to get them to do something they dont want .. we respond best to respectful people .. and by the way we would be more interested in finding out what turns you on than trying to get you drunk lol very hot pics
Thanks for the comments AND compliments. :)
Glad to know someone feels the same about it as I do. :)
Kitty, I feel for ya. I don't drink that much when I am out. Mostly because I never have anything to drink when I know I have to drive later. Of course no one really tries to get a guy drunk to get their pants off, its pretty much assumed that we will take them off at just about any request.. :z

On the opposite end (and playing a bit of devil's advocate here) I know that some people will think they are just offering to help you feel a part of the fun going on and sometimes don't realize that they are seriously offending someone else.
GOLDEN: I understand about just trying to let me in on the fun. That's totally cool as long as you don't ask me more than say, 5 times? :P
Yeah after that many refusals then it gets to be overly pushy and the guy needs to either get a clue or get a knee in the groin and an escort out of the event.