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Here is an article I read on Yahoo in reference to women dating younger men:

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/relationships/23981/whats-behind-the-trend-of-women-dating-younger-men/

what is everyone's opinion on this and how does it circumvent into your own lives, swinger or not.

My experience has mostly been with women older than me. When I was 28, I dated a few women who were 35-42. As far as biologically, I was peaking, she was peaking, and it was a beautiful thing!! Now being 38 I still seek women in that age group.

Anyone wish to share?
After 19 years its still working beautifully for me :)
the male half dated a female in her early 40's when he was 18. Worked well for him.
I dont know. I dont like younger men. Shrug, In my opinion a guy isn't worth my time unless he's 24. No offence, they are boys until they are like 22, but normally around 24 in my experience guys start acting like men.

I just get tired of the guys who dont know what they want, live with mommy and daddy, and dont have any goals. You know. so I dont think i could ever date a younger guy.
My general rule has always been not to date a male younger than me. I guess when I hit 30 (if I were still in the dating game) I would prolly change it to not dating any males under 24/25.
honestly.. Don't think that age really matters..what does matter is their maturity level.. we can all agree that there are some pretty immature guys in their 30's 40's and even older..and we've come acroos a few pretty mature younger ones... so...really..for us..it comes down to maturity more than age.. just our thoughts.
I have always well with one exception, dated older men. They just get me going! My circle of friends has always seemed to be with the older crowd. Men my age group in the past, were just to childish and maybe I just seem old! I don't know. It is usually at least a 4 year age difference. My hubby is 8 1/2 years older than I am. It is wonderful. The one time I dated someone my age...well lets just say he ended up being my EX-husband. lol Never again! I am not saying that I would not play with men in my age group or younger. It just seems to end up that they are older. I find out that part after we meet and get together of course it comes into conversation. Rich just laughs and wonders if I have an age radar. :) Don't know but it works for me. lol very interesting topic though. I'd like to hear other people's opinion and experiences, Jazz
I personally love younger guys. Dont know what the attraction is maybe I can teach them something but age is relative it is the chemistry that turns me on. Younger ones are willing to please. My hubby loves older women ok young ones to. I guess whatever turns you on is what you need to stick with.
I enjoy couples my own age, but men who are younger.

I have found that men my age seem to have a certain mind-set when it comes to sex and play. They're not able to grasp that sex, dating, play and friendship are all part of how I, as a women want to interact with men. Meaning - that meeting them 'here' or other sexual sites, I'm in 'play' mode and I'm a slut and a sleeze and should be treated as such. Now if they're just being playful it's fun... but this age group can't seem to pull their head out of their fanny and treat me with respect OUT of the bedroom. Crazy huh? I'm not kidding - I've yet to meet a man close to my age (45) who doesn't act this way and it's insulting. Whereas men who are younger than me seem to be cool with the play thing, yet know how to treat a woman.

As much as I enjoy men, this gets tiresome very fast... now women my age? Rock! You know who you are... :D

-Te
All my life I have been attracted to women older than my age. I am usually most attracted to women about 10 years older or more. I have been with some women who were 18 years older. It just seems to work best for me. Also I think it is best because the women have a lot more self confidence and they have a stable life. I also LOVE a womans hips. I don't like it when a girl looks like a 15 year old boy. She needs some curves on her!