Recently, I have been asked to join several MFM situations. While I am very flattered, and would like to try this, I am also a bit apprehensive. I have never been in that situation before and I want to make sure I am comfortable,know what to expect, and what is acceptable.
So I thought that I would turn to the experts... who has had experience here and what wisdom can you impart to ease my apprehensions. If you are a couple, what do you expect from a guy joining you and how do things play out?
Thanks for your help.
So I thought that I would turn to the experts... who has had experience here and what wisdom can you impart to ease my apprehensions. If you are a couple, what do you expect from a guy joining you and how do things play out?
Thanks for your help.
Why not just ask the couple that invited you?
I haven't done many, but my advice would just to be honest with them about your aprehension, honest communication between all involved is key! Also, be flattered by the invitations. There aren't many other couples on here that are willing to invite a single guy, so don't do what most have done to us.. DO NOT act like you are doing them a favor by joining them, or act in any way like it's about you.. That's just my 2 cents.
Bren
Bren
well, honey....there is going to be another cock in the room. Get over that one, and you're good to go! It bears repeating. MFM is for the pleasure of a woman, and FMF is for the pleasure of a man. (barring bi play, we won't go into that, to many combinations!) So what you can expect is the lady is going to want more than one cock (duh) and she wants to leave Very happy.
Well said Fun & Garnet. The lady wants to be the center of attention! Sure is fun tho when you find the 3rd that understands that.
Well you could be in for some very new experiences like I have had with couples...especially when the lady gets to enjoy her fantasies... check out my profile for ideas and enjoy your couples
I know I love being with a couple it's so fun and so natural for me.
I know I love being with a couple it's so fun and so natural for me.
Thanks for all the comments... I am truly appreciative to the couples that I have talked to and I am being open and honest with them. I think that is the best policy as well. Thanks for sharing you wisdom with me. I want this to be a great experience for all involved.
If you ask what it is that they are expection, then you are half way there. Are they looking for a cock to suck and one in the vagina? Are they looking for DP, on ein the front door and one in the backdoor? Are they looking for a double in the vagina?? Depending on their answer you muct decide if you are comfortable with that situation. Even DP will include balls to balls or balls to cock touching... DP in the vagina is another situation where you are in direct contact with another cock. If OTOH she is looking for intercourse with a mouthfull, then that should present no problem at all, for most men.
So first off you need to see what is expected from a MFM situation. Then proceed at your own comfort level.
So first off you need to see what is expected from a MFM situation. Then proceed at your own comfort level.
People that aren't understanding about your comfort level are the exception not the rule in this lifestyle. Everyone has had their "first time" at something or another, someone or another. Have an open mind and expect the unexpected. If you over think the situation your in you will not enjoy it.
sexyk... Your so right! If he thinks it out at all he more then likely will not have a good time! Don't forget its about her! Let her do the thinking!
Mr.
Mr.
I have been with a few couples, and just mainly her direct the action. Also don't forget about the Mr and let him play also, unless he just likes to watch.
Thanks Sexyk and Hot...
I agree.
I agree.
Usually in any 3 some the new partner is the guest and gets the attention from both partners. With MFM and you are both straight then its both you guys giving the girl all the attention. Just start out slow and relax. You and the other guy may touch bits and parts, dont freak!! It happens. Go to pleasure the girl and have fun
We love a 3 some, she gets all the attention and it really turns him on to watch her writhe with pleasure!
I dont have an issue being with a couple I just feel more comfortable meeting them in a casual situation first. I am straight but I dont have a problem with another naked guy in close proximity. I too get turned on watching a women get pleased, by me or another.