unfortunitly people will always do as they want. Thinking they are the one exception to the rules. Then they blame others for any inconviences this causes when people pull pics, vids, any rule or law. Sorry but that is life.
No matter how appealing and sexy pics can be...we never engage in contact (e-mail/meeting), until we have read the profile, and ensure compatiblity.
We may be a small part of the swinger population that actually reads the profiles, in fact, I know we are; no matter how clear and frank we are on our profile, we still get the unwanted e-mails from those that we have stated we're not interested in.
We may be a small part of the swinger population that actually reads the profiles, in fact, I know we are; no matter how clear and frank we are on our profile, we still get the unwanted e-mails from those that we have stated we're not interested in.
THOUGHTGARDEN we are in the same boat as you. Hope your enjoying Cali
K & N & P
K & N & P
Actually, HOTCPL34, we did not contact you bcs we DID read your profile and decided we may not be a match. The wife in us in bi-curious, but is not fully bi. As such, we felt you may be disappointed in us and we refrained from wasting your time. Don't get discouraged bcs. some people are short sighted and cannot read. We CAN read, and often try to do so, to make sure the problems you are encountering do no happen. Hang in there, though. You look like a great couple who will assuredly find what will make you happy.
Here's how I see it: if I am reading a profile, and the author says they are looking for xyz, and I don't feel I/We am xyz material......I move on. I think this can lead to many missed matches. If a couple says they want the perfect woman, the perfect body, smile, etc........if I had those to give, I might still move on because of how I feel about myself. Also, with the male part of the profile, if a male says he has too much, or too little to offer, he may be passed over. (just generally speaking, this isn't the way I/we choose anyone, but just saying.)
Generally when picking a profile to respond to, I go for someone like me, bi or bi curious, with a plus size figure, usually this person's signifigant other will be a lover of curvier women. Does that mean I miss out on a possible match? Yes, and probably quite a few given what my male half has to offer. But in this way I'm not outside my comfort zone.
Hope that helps
Garnet
Generally when picking a profile to respond to, I go for someone like me, bi or bi curious, with a plus size figure, usually this person's signifigant other will be a lover of curvier women. Does that mean I miss out on a possible match? Yes, and probably quite a few given what my male half has to offer. But in this way I'm not outside my comfort zone.
Hope that helps
Garnet