One thing that has been a great side benefit of our learning about the lifestyle is learning how much room for improvement there is in our communications with each other. We reveling in this new enhancement to our relationship. It does beg the question, however, just how far does one go in revealing their innermost self?
Given the nature of folks in this forum, one would think it would be pretty much "let it all hang out". But I suspect there would be as wide of a range of answers to this question as there is to most others.
So, on a 100% scale, how much does your SO know?
Given the nature of folks in this forum, one would think it would be pretty much "let it all hang out". But I suspect there would be as wide of a range of answers to this question as there is to most others.
So, on a 100% scale, how much does your SO know?
Before she passed away, she knew 110%.....as did I....
We tell each other everything because we seem to be able to read each other's minds anyway. Plus, there would be no way we could be in teh lifestyle if we weren't completely open. We learned very early that if we didn't communicate in general we would have problems. Now she is trying to get me to shut up. ;-) lol
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my fisr husband after 8 years knew a handful of things about me. My current partner knows more than that. I wouldn't say anyone knows me 100%
sexy sara knows all i do and or say and even think... this is all inclusive of past and present situations.. she is as open as i am.... we just have a time trying to ANALise (no pun intended), some of the things one or the other says or why they act a certain way.. its a growing experience and we have done real well at FINGERING out eachothers thoughts and feelings based on very subtle actions...and its getting better all the time of us becoming more as one.. we thought b4 we began swinging that we were close and shared alot of the same thoughts.. but swinging has delved us into another region of comunication... happy playing dennis and sara