we have been swinging for 8 years now and have heard everybody say what fun it is . we have been to just about every party and club around here you can think of. and we have made very good friends from all this but we got into this to spice up our marrage.
when we go to any party people are very nice to you but just dont want to have much to do with you .
and no we didnt just set there and act like a wall flower.
but its everywhere we go .its like we scare people or something.
as of last year my wife said she has had enough of spending money to go to parties and have people not want to even talk to us except to say hi thanks for showing up and giveing us your money. so she stoped she said she is over all the drama from everybody. i cant blame her now .
what ever happend to haveing good sex and go on ?
we wa seven going to throw some parties here at our private campground for free. but thats most likely not going to happen now .
we have tryed for 8 years thats a little bit stupid dont yeh think.
east tennessee is not the place to meet swingers. at all.its full of fakers and wanna be
and those that are real are the ones throwing the parties and they just want your money.
with the exception of one cpl in cosby tenn. they are honest to goodness for real people
they told us that they was to old to play with us , the age differance. so i ask you where does that put us now . and we cant move.
when we go to any party people are very nice to you but just dont want to have much to do with you .
and no we didnt just set there and act like a wall flower.
but its everywhere we go .its like we scare people or something.
as of last year my wife said she has had enough of spending money to go to parties and have people not want to even talk to us except to say hi thanks for showing up and giveing us your money. so she stoped she said she is over all the drama from everybody. i cant blame her now .
what ever happend to haveing good sex and go on ?
we wa seven going to throw some parties here at our private campground for free. but thats most likely not going to happen now .
we have tryed for 8 years thats a little bit stupid dont yeh think.
east tennessee is not the place to meet swingers. at all.its full of fakers and wanna be
and those that are real are the ones throwing the parties and they just want your money.
with the exception of one cpl in cosby tenn. they are honest to goodness for real people
they told us that they was to old to play with us , the age differance. so i ask you where does that put us now . and we cant move.
I looked at your pics after reading your profile after reading your post here.... Out of the pics you have in here only one shows a real smile.. If you are at parties at a club, and you can't get anyone to join in then maybe you can just start the action in the hospitality suite and maybe someone will join in.... I am so laid back that people think I'm dead at parties until they see me in the hospitality suite with some lady.. or B with someone... Spending money to go to a party/dance/social and not getting into people doesn't make sense.. Get to be friends, at least, with the organizers and people will get to know you. Have someone over to your house or go out with a couple... Have a few drinks and let your hair down... then go home or to a motel.... Imagination sometimes wins where your good looks and personalities fail.. Also look at some of the people who would not be first choice.... We've found that some of the definitely not Barbie and Kens are reeally the best people... People who are a little heavy but not obese and some bigger women are actually gorgeous faces and personalities... One reason we like to know people before we play...
Clubs can be fun and many are very dull.... fakers and wannabees and people who only play with the beautiful people... So pic your parties and float around and get to really know people... You may find some great play partners in the people who are not considered the beautiful people..
Just my opinion... Been there done that.... Now into our 12th year in the lifestyle
Clubs can be fun and many are very dull.... fakers and wannabees and people who only play with the beautiful people... So pic your parties and float around and get to really know people... You may find some great play partners in the people who are not considered the beautiful people..
Just my opinion... Been there done that.... Now into our 12th year in the lifestyle