It seems everywhere we look, at every corner, under every bed, it is bi girls we want girls girl on girl only. What the hell do the guys ever get anything out of this lifestyle besides a show.
blue balls and sticky fingers??? LOL
Ive seen alot of that too as of late! Who know what the deal is!!
Ive seen alot of that too as of late! Who know what the deal is!!
Wishing I could tag along for the abuse!
what do guys get out of this lifestyle? laid often and well, with some incredibly sexy and fun people. we get friends that are among the best friends we've ever had. girl-girl play is great, and if it is done right you can get fucked until morning.
perhaps you need to hang out with better people.
perhaps you need to hang out with better people.
don't get us wrong we love girl girl play! But we think its about everyone not just the girls!
bi bi baby!!
court you sexy beast!
Part of the problem may be this sites cut and dry sexual status. Many people on this site leave their status as bi-curious because they are not fully bi. Like myself. I consider myself passive-bi. I'm still really into guys, but I dont mind attention from a beautiful hot lady.
We just play it by ear. I think people try to put too much thought into something that comes better with spontaneity. You should definitely express what your limits are, but not expect anything of the night. No one owes you anything.
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What equates to "fun" for some may not add up to the same thing for others. I think that is the point of this discussion. If you are not happy with G-on-G only, move on to someone that goes further. Never expect anything from anyone.
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Playing it by ear is just fine. Only problem is during sex, awkward things can happen. For instance, when a girl touched the other girl, she jumped up and almost broke the guy's dick and said "I'm not a lesbian!!!!". Now if thing has been discussed beforehand or they knew the girl was straight, things might not have developed that way
it does seem cut and dry. i don't mind either, if everyone is okay with it. My guy likes to see me with other women. I don't mind indulging him on it, but I definetely couldn't go without cock.
well the way we are in for this is the girl girl guy only also
Its not that the guy half is not willing her its the girl that does not want other men she feels like its wrong but she loves women and mainly just wants a girlfriend and a husband
though that may open doors down the road for cuples as she gets more comfortable with her self sexually
Its not that the guy half is not willing her its the girl that does not want other men she feels like its wrong but she loves women and mainly just wants a girlfriend and a husband
though that may open doors down the road for cuples as she gets more comfortable with her self sexually
We are both straight with no plans of changing. We have met with a lot of coupleswhere the fem is bi and a few where the men are bi.
We are straight forward and tell them neither of us is bi and we have no tendencies in that direction. 98% understand and respect our decision and the matter doesnt pose a problem during play. In this lifestyle you MUST respect others preferences otherwise NOONE has any fun.
We have had one instance where the fem tried to go down on Ms Motor and she was told AGAIN we are both straight. and if it happened again we were done. She did try again and Ms Motor gave me the signal ,we got up, got dressed and left.
He called the next day apologizing all over himself and his wife apologized all over her self and asked for a second chance.
We have been friends with them now for yrs. Neither has ever tried anything bi again.
So what i am saying is if you find someone you wish to try let them know up front your are straight and what the consequences are if that boundary is crossed 98 % will respect that. The other 2% will be left out.
M&L
We are straight forward and tell them neither of us is bi and we have no tendencies in that direction. 98% understand and respect our decision and the matter doesnt pose a problem during play. In this lifestyle you MUST respect others preferences otherwise NOONE has any fun.
We have had one instance where the fem tried to go down on Ms Motor and she was told AGAIN we are both straight. and if it happened again we were done. She did try again and Ms Motor gave me the signal ,we got up, got dressed and left.
He called the next day apologizing all over himself and his wife apologized all over her self and asked for a second chance.
We have been friends with them now for yrs. Neither has ever tried anything bi again.
So what i am saying is if you find someone you wish to try let them know up front your are straight and what the consequences are if that boundary is crossed 98 % will respect that. The other 2% will be left out.
M&L
Ohh No believe me the guys aren't left out and nothing is Sexier then watching 2 HOT Women going at it licking and kissing each other Mmmm! Just a another woman's point of view also the guys love the DBJ's! 
We 2nd that UTBI !.. All the guys have fun with the girls while they enjoy, everyones spent when the nights over!
TORGAN, I could not have said it any better myself. ;-D lol
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Torgan I totally agree. Its much more rewarding to make a woman come than a man. Men are so easy. Thrust your hips the right way, tighten your PC muscles, etc. And there you go. Women on the other hand is a challenge, and the reward is greater than a grunt and sweat. (no offense guys) With women, there's trembling thighs, bucking hips, sighs of pleasure, obvious wetness, and then the grand finale. Much much more fun.
It all falls to the communication.
Be up front from the beginning, 9 times out of 10 that will keep everyone in the game. If not? find a different game. There are times where I'm just fine holding the camera and enjoying the show. However, I don't make that a general rule - and Ms. K_T agrees. She loves this lifestyle because she gets to play with women...and that gets her going like few things on this earth.
Then she needs cock. Someone in her, someone on her = good times for all! (And me!)
Be up front from the beginning, 9 times out of 10 that will keep everyone in the game. If not? find a different game. There are times where I'm just fine holding the camera and enjoying the show. However, I don't make that a general rule - and Ms. K_T agrees. She loves this lifestyle because she gets to play with women...and that gets her going like few things on this earth.
Then she needs cock. Someone in her, someone on her = good times for all! (And me!)
We are both straight, he doesn't get the thrill seeing girl on girl like a lot of men, and i put bi-curious because there are a couple things that would include another woman we agree that would be hot without it being all girl on girl, I'm not comfortable with putting on a show with another woman because that isn't me, I am turned on by the male gender, although adding another woman to pleasing him would be hot as hell, for him and me. All and all there is a wide variety of what can be done without being bi.
AKLIM69, You should be talking about these things before you even meet in person. Furthmore, reading someone's profile is usually a good indicator of their intent. If they are vague... Ask! Just don't meet with the intent of hooking up the first time. Get to know the couple first if you want to avoid the akwardness. For those of you that just want to fuck and not make atleast some sort of atempt to get to know the people... Don't bitch!
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This site is not really for single guys unless they are looking for single guys.
It seems that most of the people want another woman without a man.
Certainly it is a rarety for someone to put on their profile that they want a single man.
There is nothing wrong with that. It is just the way things seem to be.
If you are a guy just looking for a quick lay, you are wasting time here.
As for women being bi or curious... that is perfectly normal and enjoyable for them.
This is a different relationiship market than what most people believe it is.
It seems that most of the people want another woman without a man.
Certainly it is a rarety for someone to put on their profile that they want a single man.
There is nothing wrong with that. It is just the way things seem to be.
If you are a guy just looking for a quick lay, you are wasting time here.
As for women being bi or curious... that is perfectly normal and enjoyable for them.
This is a different relationiship market than what most people believe it is.