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Hello, again. I'm (he) still on my never-ending quest to find out the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

The topic is: is it always good to make your fantasies come true? Personally, past experiences of fantasies (or wishes) coming to fruition rarely evolve as anticipated, frequently falling short of expectations. I know we have all degree of risk takers and many folks aren't phased at all by deviation from there expectations. But with that in mind, could it sometimes be better to save, savor and otherwise keep pristine the best of one's fantasies?

Sub topic: Of course, there are always some fantasy areas that are safe from ever becoming reality. For example, just how talented do you think Lauren Hutton is with that wonderful tooth gap during blowjobs? Perhaps some folks would like to add ideas to a "SAFE" fantasy list everyone could borrow from (price is right after all).
i have thought about this before, mainly before we started playing, but i think if your not sure if you want to follow through with fantasies, you might not be ready to jump in head first to the life style, i think that is what took us so long to just do it, but now, my thoughts are that we have really enjoyed fulfilling some of our fantasies and that when we have it has been so easy afterwards to add to them, i guess it helps broaden your mind, there are so many things we would like to do now that we did'nt even think of before we started into this, and sure most fantasies will farr short of what you imagine, but if you really realize how far you get into it, it can blow your mind, it has mine and i love it, so never be afraid of your fantisies, they are there to be fulfilled, hope all that made sense and that it helped with your question. may all your fantasies come true
Hell NO!

I think fantasies are to be expressed. No, the outcome won't always live up to the expectation, but then again, you don't know till you try, right? The great thing about sexuality, sensuality and the expression of desire is that ANYTHING can happen. Who know? You might wind up with even more than you ever expected. Blows your mind, don't it?

Enjoy!

-Te