So me & the Mrs. are sitting around discussing the talking points of same room vs. separate rooms and it occurs that we don't know what we're talking about (presumbly we will soon).
I know from the limited forum studying that I've been doing that there probably a couple of varied opinions out there.
(I'm sure this has been discussed in forum before, but rather than making me find it how about just starting a new one please?)
I know from the limited forum studying that I've been doing that there probably a couple of varied opinions out there.
(I'm sure this has been discussed in forum before, but rather than making me find it how about just starting a new one please?)
We must agree here 100% about the degree of comfort and joy of seeing the other play and enjoy. There is also the desire of protecting the other from any harm from others, many times in play some will become overbearing if not watched. Overall the joy of seeing your loved one doing what he/she enjoys most and hearing them in purest of pleasure moans and groans does a lot for both. This is a lifestyle that should be enjoyed by both and together. After 26 yrs of marriage and all, we still enjoy the sharing and warmth our friends bring to our hearts. Would miss a lot of that if using separate rooms.
emptynesters I loved your comments! - we will be celebrating our 25th this summer - your comments really struck a chord - THANK YOU!
CHRKE2, we very much agree with EMPTYNESTERS. Comfort level is everything. If you become very close with a couple you two may be okay playing in separate rooms because of the trust you have developed but when you are meeting a new couple or one you have only met a few times you will probably still be a little cautious, and you should be. It is good to see you are seeking answers to your questions because that goes a long way and it is also great to see that you two are having open discussion about it together. Communication is always key. Good luck and have a wonderful Friday!
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