We have been wondering in most relationships who brings the idea of swinging up first the male or the female?
The male brought it up in ours actually. We had talked about it before but not seriously until he mentioned it. Sure glad he did. ;-D
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Seems I remember a lot of our friends saying the female talked about it first. Personally, we were at a nudist resort and overheard a lot of couples talking out loud about the previous nights activities so we looked into it and found some people we know on a site. So we contacted them, talked about the lifestyle and we were lucky to have experienced friends in the lifestyle to guide us. So we brought it up together but we both were wondering what it is that we seem to be missing out on. Glad we found out.
It was my idea at first to swing with some good friends of ours.... Very bad idea..... The swingers site was his idea.... Very good idea!!!!!!
HOTFORSEX622, hey there. We were just curious what made swinging with your good friends a bad idea. We have often wondered if that would be a good or bad move. We have made good friends through swinging but haven't swung with already good friends so to speak. We haven't pursued it because of being apprehensive. Would love your feedback and any others as well. Thanks all. Have a great friday night and weekend.
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