We are filing up cards for a game we are trying to put together and we've run out of dares. Give us some more ideas. Remember this is for a game with very "risky & daring" swingers and everything goes. These are some dares we've come up with so far...
- take a shot and everyone slap your ass
- remove an article of clothing
- take a shot and everyone slap your ass
- remove an article of clothing
My fav version of truth or dare growing up was truth, dare, double dare, promise or repeat... more options, so many possibilities.... this one girl always went straight for the double dare.... she was SO naughty! God bless her. I hope those are self-explanatory, but in case they're not.... promise was, you had to promise to do something at some point, either in the game, or at school the next day, etc... repeat, was, you did it first, then they had to do the same exact thing.... good times!! Have fun with that.... can we be your guinea pigs?
We know one girl who would go for the "triple" dare always. Right *S*?
We like your suggestions 333 ... specially the "guinea pigs" tempting one... wink wink.
We like your suggestions 333 ... specially the "guinea pigs" tempting one... wink wink.
Kiss the person to your left without actually kissing them. Get you lips within 1/2 inch of theirs and hold.
Question? Why do a lot of these dares have to do with taking a "shot" in them? Why can't they be done without one? That is more of a dare for most people we find in this lifestyle - LOL
What about those that don't drink? That is one thing we have found in this lifestyle is some people have to get so fuckin drunk to play, that it does become a turn off. Especially when they want to kiss you and or be all over you and use the excuse they were and or are drunk! Just our opinon, and have found many share it as of late about comments after some parties, and after parties. :P Don't get us wrong we do drink, just not excessivly to where we offend others.
Now for our suggestions. We do a lot of games and have many in our FunDo kit we have created. Most we have found have to at least be respectful that if someone doesn't want something to happen that it is not forced, Swingers or not. We do realize these are DARES and they have a choice not to do them. But what about the ones that don't want it done to them when the other is dared? Example - "......to slap everyones ass ......... that is OK with it" Some don't like this type of play and if they are subjected to it out of pressure and or aggressiveness the party and games go down hill fast. Now if EVERYONE is OK then party on!

Now for our suggestions. We do a lot of games and have many in our FunDo kit we have created. Most we have found have to at least be respectful that if someone doesn't want something to happen that it is not forced, Swingers or not. We do realize these are DARES and they have a choice not to do them. But what about the ones that don't want it done to them when the other is dared? Example - "......to slap everyones ass ......... that is OK with it" Some don't like this type of play and if they are subjected to it out of pressure and or aggressiveness the party and games go down hill fast. Now if EVERYONE is OK then party on!
We've asked and they are Ok. We don't drink that much either, just enough to be silly & happy. We do like it when the party is always on... So far so good. Any more suggestions for text in the cards?
HMMMM RDY... that one is going in... it's been written!!!
HMMMM RDY... that one is going in... it's been written!!!
How about the dare to where the person must allow not only ice on a nipple, but why not expand it to genitals, while your get the help of two others in the group to do the nipples - LOL
That is 4-play (four people - LOL) where they can select the ones they want then to do this. So Pleasure and pain!
You can do something with candle wax too - well not on the genitals :P
That is 4-play (four people - LOL) where they can select the ones they want then to do this. So Pleasure and pain!
You can do something with candle wax too - well not on the genitals :P
Here is a twist you might like...when I was still living in Utah, a guy I know had the game JENGA that most of are familiar with. The fun part came in like this. He took the blocks and put numbers on about 1/2 of them (1,2,3,4....etc.). When the blocks were stacked for the start of the game, they made sure to stack them so that no one could see the numbers. Before the game started, everyone got a piece of paper with the numbers on it. Depending on the number of people playing, each person was assigned their share of the numbers. You would then write down a sexy or nasty dare or a sexy question, a different one for each number. All of the papers went into a pile and the game began.
As people pulled the blocks, if you got one with a number on it, someone would find that corresponding number on the papers and whoever pulled the block had to do whatever was written on the paper. The best part was that no one knew who wrote what dares. Gets pretty exciting.
Note: Ground rules that are appropriate for the group (if there are any) need to be laid out before people write down the dares so as to avoid any akward situations. The only one we came across was MM dares, but the FF ones were never a problem
We now have our own set of blocks here in SD.
Kisses
Lori
As people pulled the blocks, if you got one with a number on it, someone would find that corresponding number on the papers and whoever pulled the block had to do whatever was written on the paper. The best part was that no one knew who wrote what dares. Gets pretty exciting.
Note: Ground rules that are appropriate for the group (if there are any) need to be laid out before people write down the dares so as to avoid any akward situations. The only one we came across was MM dares, but the FF ones were never a problem

We now have our own set of blocks here in SD.
Kisses
Lori
Great ideas...
We've added the Ice going to the genitals FUNDO. We figure if you are already taking some clothes off why not spice it up and go for the gold... As long as everyone is comfortable and you like what is around you.
As for the wax... Maybe nipples but keep that hot stuff away from my goodies! Great ideas you sexy thinkers!
As for the wax... Maybe nipples but keep that hot stuff away from my goodies! Great ideas you sexy thinkers!
How about kissing the Ice cube to your Favs.Make out with the host/hostess, one minute.Everyone stand tightly in front of each other and pass the orange forward using chin/shoulder.Penis bagle tossTwo girls tie a ribbon on a penis only using there mouthsAll girls have to kissBlindfolded oral sex (guess who the partner is)Everyones blindfold and try to find your partner.Remove an article of clothing from your fav. and it has to stay off the whole evening.Try a friends drinkPass the cherry, lips only.Fondle For Fun (1 min.) your choice.Men, serve the woman through out the night; fruit, (periodically). There choice who.8:30 Clothes, 10:30 Lingerie, 11:30 one article of clothing. turn out the lights.Hope this helps, sounds like fun. Oh and the Bagle toss is a real ringer.
OMG *K* aka 22play... You have this game going already. We are sooooo glad you're going to be at the party. Can't wait!!!
What happens to the begal afterwards?
What happens to the begal afterwards?
Dare: The person to your left ties your hands and blindfolds you. The person to your right chooses one person from the group to do one of 3 things to you for 2 minutes (the chosen person picks).
1. Perform oral sex on you.
2. Have you perform oral sex on them.
3. Wildcard...you are theirs for the 2 minutes to do whatever they ask.
1. Perform oral sex on you.
2. Have you perform oral sex on them.
3. Wildcard...you are theirs for the 2 minutes to do whatever they ask.
HMMM KT that one is very good, only YOU can think of something as erotic as that... Can we choose ALL OF THE ABOVE? lol
Hehehe...thanks! And yes, I think "All of the Above" should be a choice - might need more than 2 minutes...got an egg timer?
Another good one:
Dare: A good man/woman is hard to find and even harder to hold on to. Be creative...how many bits of how many good men/women can you hold onto at once?
Another good one:
Dare: A good man/woman is hard to find and even harder to hold on to. Be creative...how many bits of how many good men/women can you hold onto at once?
Mike16 a bit off topic but... loved the very nice landing strip mrcheez favorite....
Missy, nice twist on the game
Missy, nice twist on the game
.... "Give oral to the person to your left" or stuff like "make yourself orgasm in front of everyone" and the list goes on and on and gets even naughtier but nothing that pushes the limits of most...
Can we push the limits a little?
TCmissy... We are shocked and more than a little impressed... The two you wrote down were placed on the list as soon as you posted them, specially the second one. We like the way you think!!!
Can we push the limits a little?
TCmissy... We are shocked and more than a little impressed... The two you wrote down were placed on the list as soon as you posted them, specially the second one. We like the way you think!!!
Alright...let's push the limits.
Dare: Name 2 things (sexually) you've never done before and name 2 people from the group to do them (You can join in or be one of the two).
To help move that one along, you might want to have everyone playing list 3 or 4 things they've never done (but wanted to) on a piece of paper before the game starts.
Dare: Name 2 things (sexually) you've never done before and name 2 people from the group to do them (You can join in or be one of the two).
To help move that one along, you might want to have everyone playing list 3 or 4 things they've never done (but wanted to) on a piece of paper before the game starts.
We are adding a short sexual questionary at the start of the festivities. What a better way to find out who we are and get an insight of what turn us on and off.
This party is sounding very fun.
1. Exchange clothes with the person to your right (left) and wear as much as you can.
2. Eat an item of your chose off of the person to your left (right).
3. Sit throw one round of play with a toy on you. ( leaves alot to the imagination and room for interpertation)
4. sit on the lap of the person to your left(right) for one round
5. Dance to a song erotically with a broom or like item to the song chosen by the person 3 seats to your left (right)
6. Tease the person to your left(right) with a feather
7. eat whip cream off of someone of your chose they pick the place
there are so many others. We actually have a card game called fore-play that has 104 dares on them, then we also have truth or dare Jenga and a third of the blocks are blank and the rules actually say to write your own truth or dares on them with pencils..
2. Eat an item of your chose off of the person to your left (right).
3. Sit throw one round of play with a toy on you. ( leaves alot to the imagination and room for interpertation)
4. sit on the lap of the person to your left(right) for one round
5. Dance to a song erotically with a broom or like item to the song chosen by the person 3 seats to your left (right)
6. Tease the person to your left(right) with a feather
7. eat whip cream off of someone of your chose they pick the place
there are so many others. We actually have a card game called fore-play that has 104 dares on them, then we also have truth or dare Jenga and a third of the blocks are blank and the rules actually say to write your own truth or dares on them with pencils..
TCMISSY... Let us know where to get that game (Blush).
A good dare for a woman is........ she has to put her cell phone on vibrate and insert it inside herself. Everyone takes turns calling her. We have a game that has that and it was hilarious.
A good dare for a woman is........ she has to put her cell phone on vibrate and insert it inside herself. Everyone takes turns calling her. We have a game that has that and it was hilarious.
WOW! We especially like the blindfold ideas... those are HOT! Sign us up TCMissy... we don't need our own version, we'll come over and play yours 

The blindfolded one is Lucky Number 13 with a twist... It just sounds really good!
We've added yours too TNB. Thank you.
We've added yours too TNB. Thank you.
We just need 10 more to complete the list... Any thoughts?
all males/females change places
change places with the (same gender) person across the table from you
while blindfolded identify your spouse (date?) without using your hands
change places with the (same gender) person across the table from you
while blindfolded identify your spouse (date?) without using your hands