So whats the deal, in the profile rules, it states no "Hard Ons', or genitial shots. Yet they are quite prevelant amoung the single males. Do they not get the idea of what attracts them to their profile.
We been discussing it and think perhaps that they are really gay and that showing the ole dick is kinda like tapping the shoe of the partner in the next stall.
Is it because of their failure to turn on the light or perhaps no light exists that so many parties have the no single males attached.
I'm lucky to have a beautiful wife who loves to show her bod, so I need to knw should sh get tired of my old ass and then what should I post for my profile picture. Would it detract from the photo if I had to hold a magnifying glass in front of it...
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We been discussing it and think perhaps that they are really gay and that showing the ole dick is kinda like tapping the shoe of the partner in the next stall.
Is it because of their failure to turn on the light or perhaps no light exists that so many parties have the no single males attached.
I'm lucky to have a beautiful wife who loves to show her bod, so I need to knw should sh get tired of my old ass and then what should I post for my profile picture. Would it detract from the photo if I had to hold a magnifying glass in front of it...
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what about the couple profiles where the man is exposed... or those with the woman exposed?
I myself would rather seen none exposed... some eyefulls I can do without
maybe require nipple shots only? lol
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I myself would rather seen none exposed... some eyefulls I can do without
maybe require nipple shots only? lol
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We agree with WANDERLUST...you can certainly tell alot about couples, their personalities and what they're looking for based on pics. 
Definately can tell so much about people by there profile pics!! I get bored and frustrated looking through a profile of a couple that only have pics of one person, or even better, pics of twelve people and no indication to which pics are the said people on the profile!
Hows that for a run on sentence?? :s
So sad that real people are so few and far between!!!
Hows that for a run on sentence?? :s
So sad that real people are so few and far between!!!
THoughtgarden, and Hotforsex, have some of the best pictures we have seen on this site. I never meant to say that your pics should be as great as theirs. It would be had to compete. Many of us are just regular folks and simple pictures of themselves are fine. lets us know what there into, their likes and such.
We laughed and laughed at the 100 things that let you know your a swinger, the best one was you take pictures and intentionally cut off the head.
We have our faces on most of our private photos, yet only share that with folks we meet and feel we will continue to see around and get to now. No expectations of anything beyond a continued friendship.
As you can see were not a full swap couple, but we do enjoy a good romp in the bed with others and seeing their pictures helps us get a feel for who they are.
We also send out happy birthday cards every day, and only send them to folks with profile pictures of at least one of them.
So the question is, who is going to come up with a list that defines who a couple is by looking at the type pictures they post.
We laughed and laughed at the 100 things that let you know your a swinger, the best one was you take pictures and intentionally cut off the head.
We have our faces on most of our private photos, yet only share that with folks we meet and feel we will continue to see around and get to now. No expectations of anything beyond a continued friendship.
As you can see were not a full swap couple, but we do enjoy a good romp in the bed with others and seeing their pictures helps us get a feel for who they are.
We also send out happy birthday cards every day, and only send them to folks with profile pictures of at least one of them.
So the question is, who is going to come up with a list that defines who a couple is by looking at the type pictures they post.
Yep...VP is right, I actually should've stated instead of just couples, everyone's profile says alot about them. That would included not only the pictures, but the content of the body of the profile (you know, the part that more people should read??)!
SIMPLE: Thank you for your kind words
SIMPLE: Thank you for your kind words
Thank you kindly for the compliments!
I feel the need to clarify that many of the people on our friends list
dont have pics, or have very few. We understand descretion. We still
think its sad that we live in a world/era where alot of people are afraid
to put themselves out there for who they are!! Honesty and sincerity are
soooo very attractive!!! And people who are comfortable with themselves,
hell ya its a turn on!
And denying the fact that you can tell about people by thier profiles is a statement
of unobservance!!
I feel the need to clarify that many of the people on our friends list
dont have pics, or have very few. We understand descretion. We still
think its sad that we live in a world/era where alot of people are afraid
to put themselves out there for who they are!! Honesty and sincerity are
soooo very attractive!!! And people who are comfortable with themselves,
hell ya its a turn on!
And denying the fact that you can tell about people by thier profiles is a statement
of unobservance!!
I originally did not have my cock on my profile and I got criticized for it, so I added it and now I actually get more responses...I just think it's a good idea to have the primary picture be G-rated or a bit more soft core, but ultimately whatever a single male does on his profile will be bashed by someone.
I think you should be able to put what you want, and what you think will get you the most action! If you dont like it change the chanel. we are all on here for one reason but some think it is for a chat line!!!!
No we are not all on here for one thing. We all have different things on our mind. Some are here for friends, some are here for fuck buddies, and some are here just to talk (a good chat line).
From: FLATLANDER
Subject: No subject
Date: February 21, 2008 (9:28 PM)
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go to my space or some other site if you want a chat line. my god,it says swingers not your good buddy network.
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He didnt have the balls to post this for everybody to see, so I thought I would help him out.
Subject: No subject
Date: February 21, 2008 (9:28 PM)
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go to my space or some other site if you want a chat line. my god,it says swingers not your good buddy network.
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He didnt have the balls to post this for everybody to see, so I thought I would help him out.
TG, VP - Well said!
The profiles, the pictures should give you a good impression of who these people are and whether or not you want to contact them. It's a pity more people don't put time and thought into either one. You don't need to be a world class photographer or writer - but planning out some photos and writing more than a couple of lines? Well...that's not too much to ask, is it?
As for cock pics. Hmm. Both rounds of my Single Male days it was inevitable that I was eventually asked "Let me see your cock." I never made it my main pic. I never sent it out as a "First Contact" image.
However, that's just me. If someone else wants to do it? I know plenty of women who love looking at cocks. For that matter, I know plenty of men who do too. I always find it odd to hear other men complaining about men's cocks...
...My advice (please feel free to ignore it if you don't want it) - if you don't want to see another cock? Then just don't look at them! But hey...you're on a Swinger's site. The cocks kinda come with the territory. Until someone comes up with a way to automatically insert one of those blur filters we see on TV? You're kind of outta luck.
The profiles, the pictures should give you a good impression of who these people are and whether or not you want to contact them. It's a pity more people don't put time and thought into either one. You don't need to be a world class photographer or writer - but planning out some photos and writing more than a couple of lines? Well...that's not too much to ask, is it?
As for cock pics. Hmm. Both rounds of my Single Male days it was inevitable that I was eventually asked "Let me see your cock." I never made it my main pic. I never sent it out as a "First Contact" image.
However, that's just me. If someone else wants to do it? I know plenty of women who love looking at cocks. For that matter, I know plenty of men who do too. I always find it odd to hear other men complaining about men's cocks...
...My advice (please feel free to ignore it if you don't want it) - if you don't want to see another cock? Then just don't look at them! But hey...you're on a Swinger's site. The cocks kinda come with the territory. Until someone comes up with a way to automatically insert one of those blur filters we see on TV? You're kind of outta luck.
If you are here just for someone to talk to go to EHARMONY.com it is for swingers not gossip!
thank you cowboyleggs=he was to dense to get it from me-same idea,different sites.
Seems (like normal) everyone has different taste when it comes to exposed cocks lol
Cowboy and Flat; Why does Swingular have a webcam chat set up?There is a big difference in eharmony and a swing site as far as chatting goes.On the swing site I think you can one can be a bit more risque.Now on the other hand wouldn't it be considered chatting here on the forums? I say to each their own,live and let live. But hell I live in Florida so what do I know?
Peace and Love
Peace and Love
Can't we all just GET IT ON!!!!:z
k this is getting out of hand, every one has there own tast and prefrences so let them do what they want with their profiles. If you don't like it move along there is plenty of fish in the waters. So just keep it to yourself, why should we all sit around and put down others when we don't want to be put down. So have fun anyway you can, and heck thats what we are all here for anyway right. Lets just live and let others live how they want to with out complaining, is this what we have all come to or something? Come on now, "really"
Very well said. Now lets all have fun!
thank you very much cowboy
I guess guys who can't stand seeing cocks should bow out of doing MFM. Kind of self-education, there.
valence-buy an atlas with directions for using-you might find it.
What do our pics say about us, I'm curious! 
Posted By: ECSTASYNOW Reply posted on:
Feb 24, 2008 - 7:50 pm
I guess guys who can't stand seeing cocks should bow out of doing MFM. Kind of self-education, there.
Don't think it is that they can't stand seeing it. Problem is that a cock and pussy and tit shot is hardly informative. Yes, we know you have those parts. What now? We don't know what the rest of you looks like.
Feb 24, 2008 - 7:50 pm
I guess guys who can't stand seeing cocks should bow out of doing MFM. Kind of self-education, there.
Don't think it is that they can't stand seeing it. Problem is that a cock and pussy and tit shot is hardly informative. Yes, we know you have those parts. What now? We don't know what the rest of you looks like.
WELL atastefully done pic I think is ok....I see nothing wrong with showing the cock as matter of fact knows quite a few ladies who keep playgirl maga hidden under there bed........smiles ....jon/simplyhung
Heck..we posted our faces on here when we joined this site...hasn't done us much good...lol...guessing we're not the perfect 10's so many in our town are looking for...(or elsewhere for that matter..lol)...
Bottom line not everyone is a good writer, photographer or model. Some people don't even manage to say what they want to well (hmm did that come out right?).
If you're here to meet people the best way is to get out from behind the computer and do it. If you're here for chat well say so in you profile... The profile is your means of advertizing why you are here and as that changes so should what you say and do...
And somepeople travel good distances to see good people
If you're here to meet people the best way is to get out from behind the computer and do it. If you're here for chat well say so in you profile... The profile is your means of advertizing why you are here and as that changes so should what you say and do...
And somepeople travel good distances to see good people
Amen to that!!!! If the good people are not in our backyard, we'll go where they be...
Well all I can say is this...
I have had both the Honor and Pleasure of knowing both these couples (HAWKEYE34 and BERRYCOUPLE) over the past few years. They are perfect 10's in My book and are both great couples and friends. That is very special in today
I have had both the Honor and Pleasure of knowing both these couples (HAWKEYE34 and BERRYCOUPLE) over the past few years. They are perfect 10's in My book and are both great couples and friends. That is very special in today
You last few couples are making me wish we lived closer.