Have you ever wanted to get together and discuss the benefits and pitfalls surrounding the Swinger lifestyle. Do you know anyone who is interested in the lifestyle but is afraid to jump in with both feet? If so come meet us at Green Street Social Club for drinks and great conversation. The Discussion will be on the upper level on the dance floor and will start promptly at 7pm Feb.23. Green St also serves food if you'd like to have dinner while we converse. We hope to see everyone there.
Debi & Lang
Debi & Lang
what was the date?
Feb. 23 Can you guys make it?
Sound like a great idea for those that want to talk and have clarity on many of the mine fields and bunje jumps we find people deal with in this lifestyle. There are great fun times as well as those that make you shake your head and say WTF.
Can we talk about rather we should have a "committed sexual relationship" with another couple... LOL ...(as we have seen and heard many are doing now a days in this lifestlye! Wow what drama we have seen comes out of them as well) .... and or be here to enjoy all everyone has to offer with many different experiences?
What about the "Clicks" that newbiees experience like in high school, that is a good topic. Of course those that need to really hear how new people feel won't be there, they already found what they are looking for, well until that HOT new couple comes along and then the group opens up for a moment and then oppps SHUT! LOL
This sounds like a great fun idea. Hope many support and go to have some great open communication. As many know we have been here to give good support and great information to many new people for the last year or so as we experienced things that were very uncomfortable when we were new in the lifestyle. We hope many others will remember "where they came from, and how they felt" when they were new.
We will be there, cause we care to share!
Can we talk about rather we should have a "committed sexual relationship" with another couple... LOL ...(as we have seen and heard many are doing now a days in this lifestlye! Wow what drama we have seen comes out of them as well) .... and or be here to enjoy all everyone has to offer with many different experiences?
What about the "Clicks" that newbiees experience like in high school, that is a good topic. Of course those that need to really hear how new people feel won't be there, they already found what they are looking for, well until that HOT new couple comes along and then the group opens up for a moment and then oppps SHUT! LOL
This sounds like a great fun idea. Hope many support and go to have some great open communication. As many know we have been here to give good support and great information to many new people for the last year or so as we experienced things that were very uncomfortable when we were new in the lifestyle. We hope many others will remember "where they came from, and how they felt" when they were new.
We will be there, cause we care to share!
we are discussing it...
I think it's a fabulous idea! We should look into modeling something similar here in SoCal
THOUGHTGARDEN, you would be awesome at doing this and we think you should. You helped us and made us both feel so comfortable with things, with your open talks, and fun house parties. We miss ya both! But we will be your way here soon and will let you know before we cum. Opps mean arrive - LOL
We are both major newbies and something like his is a fantastic idea! We have seen comments and questions posted here already that strike a strong chord for us. Looking forward to i!
Excellent...Lisa will be delighted
Can we bring things to throw in case we start discussing religion, politics, sexual preferences, the color of my car, circumcision, underwear preferences, the cut of our gib, trim of our mainsail, Left-handed bastards, right-handed bastards, ambidextrous bastards, golf, single men, single men who are left-handed bastards (and play golf), golf, ...did I leave anything out?
Seriously, it's a great idea! We'll have to catch it next time though.
-K_T
Seriously, it's a great idea! We'll have to catch it next time though.
-K_T
We understand that there are many levels of the lifestyle. From newbies to alumni, from polyamory to single lifestylers. By no means do we claim to be experts, but we just thought it would be nice to meet for drinks and discuss the In's and Out's of the lifestyle. Many times we've talked to others who were going through to exact same things we were. Its good to hear how they handled things and learn from each other.
Agreed. We'd love to sit down and hear what everyone has to say from the many angles.
BI-COUPLE, will they allow the demonstration at the club? It would be great for people to talk about, and have you and them show us the "INs-n-OUTs" 
so to speak 
of the lifestyle. :P But maybe we can do that "Show and Tell" or "Show and Hear" at our "Group Therapy" sessions we hold! LOL
Therapy sounds good to us, as many know we will be changing our handle to "The Therapists" LOL
so to speak of the lifestyle. :P But maybe we can do that "Show and Tell" or "Show and Hear" at our "Group Therapy" sessions we hold! LOLTherapy sounds good to us, as many know we will be changing our handle to "The Therapists" LOL
Fundo4you-Changing your name to the therapist would be a great idea!
I think Lang and I would be first in line for a little Sexual Healing Therapy!
And Yes! They will allow demonstrations at the club! Will you be our first subject?
I think Lang and I would be first in line for a little Sexual Healing Therapy!
And Yes! They will allow demonstrations at the club! Will you be our first subject?
How late are you planning on being there? we cant get out till after 8. We dont want to miss this. Hope to find an earlier babysitter so we can enjoy all the discussion.
ABCMAN, thank you for recognizing we are just shy and not snobs - LOL Thank you for the nice comments as we do desire that eveyone in the lifestyle has good clarity to make for some good fun, hot experiences and not the drama filled bad ones we often hear about. If the misses can't make it, come anyway and give your input, no one said that you can't come stag!
If anyone can't make this, (BUT DO TRY!) and you would like some answers to be posed to the group anonymously with total 100% anonymity for you, you can send them to us and we will bring them up and get back with the answers (if we don't already have them - LOL)
And or you can pose them on this forum for Debi and Lang as well as us to get and then discuss. We will post something after the group discussion as a summary (if we can summarize it all - LOL) for a help to others that desire to know.
If anyone can't make this, (BUT DO TRY!) and you would like some answers to be posed to the group anonymously with total 100% anonymity for you, you can send them to us and we will bring them up and get back with the answers (if we don't already have them - LOL)
And or you can pose them on this forum for Debi and Lang as well as us to get and then discuss. We will post something after the group discussion as a summary (if we can summarize it all - LOL) for a help to others that desire to know.
Our regrets for not being able to make this one. We would both love to be at the next gathering.
Being fairly outgoing is really a key to this lifestyle, especially when you first start out. It's not enough to toss out some pics, a profile and wait for people to come to you. To most people (us included) this is a pretty uncomfortable place to be! Out there, taking risks of rejection in a fairly new and "scary" thing.
Gatherings like this are perfect places to "get out there". They're safe, neutral, open minded and fun.
-K_T
Being fairly outgoing is really a key to this lifestyle, especially when you first start out. It's not enough to toss out some pics, a profile and wait for people to come to you. To most people (us included) this is a pretty uncomfortable place to be! Out there, taking risks of rejection in a fairly new and "scary" thing.
Gatherings like this are perfect places to "get out there". They're safe, neutral, open minded and fun.
-K_T