Issue 1.
I love single women as does my other half but lately we have been getting a plethora of single bi women at our club. I should be in heaven right? I am but I an finding that alot of them are looking for looking for single men and couples and its like being a matchmaker. So guys and couples I need your advice. How do I handle this?
Issue 2.
A couple comes to the club and everything is fine until one of them has too much to drink and starts spouting off trying to get a single woman to play (see issue one) I know how to handle a guy doing this but how do I handle it when its a woman who is the perpatrator?
Thanks
Richard
I love single women as does my other half but lately we have been getting a plethora of single bi women at our club. I should be in heaven right? I am but I an finding that alot of them are looking for looking for single men and couples and its like being a matchmaker. So guys and couples I need your advice. How do I handle this?
Issue 2.
A couple comes to the club and everything is fine until one of them has too much to drink and starts spouting off trying to get a single woman to play (see issue one) I know how to handle a guy doing this but how do I handle it when its a woman who is the perpatrator?
Thanks
Richard
Hhhhm.Yes we have encountered this also-among other things.As for the Bi-women We have tried to set up our male friends.BAD IDEA.Because if it ends bad you will ALWAYS be the BAD COUPLE.Just point her in the direction of the SINGLE guys lurking around!Now about Drunk and Rowdy..WE never drink at any swinger functions because of this..some people are VERY different when the are FEELING FINE.Just let the people who are throwing the party or if its their house or club/group handle it.Never understood all that drinking?Just me I guess. KattNJohn
Issue number one..introduce them and leave the rest to them. If they are adults they will figure it out. If they are not adults then you don`t want them there anyway.
Issue number two..no matter who it is causing trouble, it is a disturbance to the club and should be handled as such. Get rid of the problem or risk losing other members of the club.
Issue number two..no matter who it is causing trouble, it is a disturbance to the club and should be handled as such. Get rid of the problem or risk losing other members of the club.
law enforcement handles drunk women the same way they handle drunk men. Why should it be any different for you?
Excellent point THUMBS....
I find I can align with the general input here. I do as well think it is considerate to give some leeway before someone has to be handcuffed and in the parking lot freezing and in front of headlights while awaiting to be taken to the local PD, after all they are or were customers of the establishment. Of course it is a fine line.. one should be careful about consumption, wouldn't want any bad raps about the place. Establish a set of hard rules and no tolerance policies. And of course you're too busy to know anyone's personal affairs or preferences, right?
Not much, just my thoughts.
Not much, just my thoughts.