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I'm a total dork, I'm so ADHD I just can't help it. I'm always going going, and don't know how to do the hole slick ladies man thing! But wish every now and then i did. I like who I am, and don't care all that much. I kind of go threw life looking for the punch line! I've found most of the time I am the punch line, witch has grown on me! So what do all of you think?
thanks
Chris
Heheh, I feel for ya man.

Ms. K_T (bless her twisted little soul) has been crutched with a mix of both in me. I'm a Jekyll and Hyde of Ladies Man/Dork. Depends on what wine I'm drinking and the mood I'm in.

Oh...and if there are any implements of destruction anywhere within the grasp of my hand.

I believe that you are in good company and a refreshing change for a discerning woman. After all, look at who you're with!

-Mr. K_T
Hehe well I'm a bit red!!! Thanks for the kind words and your point of view!
C
My wife knows exactly the time when I've had too much too drink. She always says I am acting like a goofy dork. I can relate too.

*G*
I like the dork.. the ladies man is always in it just for himself.. thinks that he's doing you some huge favor by being with you.. dorks are in it for you and happy to be there. Give me a nerd who thinks about sex all day long over an adonis who thinks about nothing but his abs any freaking day of the week.
this is grate feed back! I'm glad I'm not the only one! I know I'm blessed with the amazing woman I'm with! She blows my mind day to day, just glad she puts up with me! She will love reeding all this and the fact your all makeing me blush! Hehe
Chris
LOL your cute!
Man, my balls itch, what were we talking about again?
Thank you for the kind words, funinut. Now if I could only find a profile that reads, "Give me a nerd who thinks about sex all day long..."

I won't hold my breath. :)
where's my guitar??? No not that one honey!!! The other one!! Theres 20 of them!!! Oh right!!
oh well my balls ich!:$:
I have to say there are a lot of dorks out there who have no idea how sexy they are. I think it's hot when a hot guy is shy, too. Or guys who know they are attractive but have developed a well rounded personality. Guys who know they're hot and have nothing else to go with it are nice to look at, too. But i'm definately into someone who is witty and comfortable being dorky~, that makes them every bit more attractive to me.
:z Hey I married the tall geeky/biker wanna-be. not one single regret!!!!! he has a brain and we can talk and discuss things but he is also slightly big and tall and can be intimidating looking! I never went for the pretty boy or the jocks! Give me a nerd, outcast or freek anyday!!!!!
Our feelings are it doesn`t matter if you are a dork or not. As long as you are comfortable in your own skin and know who you are that makes you attractive. Being able to laugh at yourself is always a big plus.

The wife is a bit like you, and being a country girl from a political family where the big concern is how does the public feel about every thing we do in life. I am the city boy, very outgoing and social not giving a shit what you think because I am just being myself. We have been able to blend into each others personality and we feel make both of us better people and better personalities. You have not said anything about your wife so maybe she has had an influence on you like this but you don`t realize it. You may not be as geeky as you think.
Well now I've been vary selfcentered ic now! My wife is a socal butterfly, beautiful and not a dork! She has a filter betwen her brain and her mouth unlike me and there for what she has to say is well thought out! I just go the fact she's always right because she's not kiding all the time! I know I need a foot tattooed in my mouth, so when I get "Chris" I can say I know... But the foots already there babe might as well run with it!
Chris
Dude...We are ALL dorks in different circles...

If you are a mechanic, your circle of mechanic buddies will think of you as an equal, BUT get into the circle of engineers, and you are a dork...

Being an (INHM) average looking dude, I am SHY as hell face to face...Online...I am a ladys' man...I am a mack daddy...BUT get me face to face...I am stuttering, making stupid jokes, drinking (water, I do not do alcohol) so I am CONSTANTLY haveing to excuse myself to the restroom, you name it...if it is a isgn of nervousness, I display it...

Hell...I cannot tell a lady likes me until we are mid-session...and then I sometimes think, "Meh...She likes Sandra...but she is with me cause she likes her...Her husband likes Sandra too...This is a sympathy f*ck, etc"

Anyway...By looking at your profile...I would estimate you are not a dork...maybe shy...and apparently your lady likes dorks or does not see you that way...either way...be happy...she likes you...