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Majestic was just talking about you two the other day..;) give us a call anytime.
~D&T~
i dont think that they dont want to give you a chance as much as it might be the age differance. the one thing that i saw that would keep me from contacting you is your looking for "good looking peple". i know there are alot of good looking people out there but most people view themselves as average looking. by your own hand you just excluded the majority of the couples. thats just my thought. m
I notice that you two signed up just about two weeks ago?

I would say first off to give it time.

Trust and friendships within the swinging community often takes time and cultivating.

It is a large and close-knit community...which means that the more people that you meet, you will meet their friends and get more peeps in your "swinging network".

Only being on this site for 2 weeks means that your exposure to the social side of the community has been VERY limited. To compound that, you're legally underage for the types of activities (drinking) and venues that many of these activities occur.

Be patient, and look for the other ways to meet people on here.

The chat room is always a good start, there is a good variety of swingers from all age groups and social statuses that are there.

Being active (in a POSITIVE, not argumentative way...we all know who we are) on the Forum threads is another way to get yourselves better known.

What I would NOT do, however...is whine that you're not getting any chances given to you. That arguement is certainly not unique to the younger crowd here, as many of the older people can complain that they're not given a chance either due to their age, gray hair...whatever.

Trust me...you don't want a reputation for being a complainer.

Time & patience....

~J~
TG,

you wrote:

"Being active (in a POSITIVE, not argumentative way...we all know who we are) on the Forum threads is another way to get yourselves better known. "

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I agree there are some major a-holes on this forum. HAHAHA!

-D-
Really Don? A-Holes Here? No way!!!!!
Ya...I'm probably one of 'em...
I'm not. I'm a fuckin saint.
We have met these two and they are a lot of fun, and definitely worth meeting. Very cool couple, and we would recommend them, so hey TC and Missy, you guys rock. Hope you have tons of fun on the site.

Dave and Monica.
TCMISSY,

My advice is don't let the close-minded morons get you down. Chalk it up as their loss, not yours. It's quite likely that you intimidate those that would deny you because of your age. They're probably insecure because the guy can't get it up or gravity has gotten the best of them and they're afraid you may judge them. Concentrate your efforts elsewhere. It's not worth your sanity to obsess over why people reject you. You guys are a young good looking couple, who gives a shit what a few old bitties think.

-D-
tcmissy
critiqueing is a good thing, besides how do you know what you are doing wrong IF you are doing something wrong.. and definatly give it time. best of luck to you two you are a handsome couple and I'm sure everything will work out in the best possible way
welcome to the community
jeremy
These two are awesome, and are very mature for their age. We had a blast we these two at the last summers campout. That was their first event and they did great. Keep it up.

Debi & Lang
Hey Don Im wanted in playgirl so can I be an a-hole now too lol :l

Anyway dont let anyone get ya down the only prob I would have is I like to go to the club an being that ya cant get in might make it hard to sit back socialize and get to know each other but then again theres always area 51, fun club too and you could get in hhuuummm lol. ;)
DREAMIN,

Not you with the playgirl bullshit too???? LOL!

-D-
Oh hell...Area 51. Now that sounds like a damn good idea.
hahaha I have a recording Don dont you believe me??? hahahahaha

I like Area good music to dance too