Besides me, list some of the things that really annoy you. Let me start this one by saying... I really think it's childish when someone writes you an email in private, saying all the things that they want to get off their guilty little chest and then they put a block on me, so that I cannot reply. What are these people like 12 years old?
Apparently, following the <a href="post.php?action=view&PID=5750&TID=2" target="_blank">"Why so much hate in the swingers world"</a> thread, the racial comments that followed and my thoughts on the situation, another floridian couple (I won't mention names), thought I was directing my comments toward them. So, they decided to write me and tell me how wrong I was about them and that I must be hiding my picture because it may apply to me and all this nonsensical crap, only to block me from telling them, they had nothing to do with my remarks.
I would just like to ask these idiots that, if what I said <i>didn't</i> apply to them, why did they get so defensive??? It appears as though the truth may have hurt these two tolerant and progressive people. Why write me, trying to justify to me how you're not racist and that black guys in the Florida area are arrogant and "put themselves up on a pedestal? Here is what they wrote me:
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Originally wrote in thread:
<i>"perhaps TEQUILAROSE was confused by my statement, I stated that alot of people have fetish's but I do not know alot of white couples that are interested in black men..."</i>
Email One:
<i>"do not dare accuse me of racism, i have heard of your attacks in forums from other people on this site, it is extremely taboo to say you are not interested in black, and black men seem to love to place themselves on a pedestal, i live in tampa, i know ALOT of black people and honestly i have alot of exposure to them but i have no interest and i voiced what i have noticed in the swing world and i made it clear it was my opinion but do not attempt to play the racist card with me, keep in mind its not nearly as taboo to say your not interested in chinese, mexican, cuban, italian, however its not taboo for a black person to say he or she is not into interracial, its a double standard and its wrong."</i>
Email Two:
<i>"by the way, i do not see your husbands photo, it seems like racism is a sensitive subject for you, since you seem to wear it on your sleeve, is there a reason for the hostility thats closer to home?"</i></font>
WTF?
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Just to kill any presumptuous suspicions that some of you may have, <b>I will say that this couple is from the Riverview, FL area and <u>not</u> Palm Coast, FL area. This mean Kristylynn <u>did not</u> write this.</b> That's the best way to put it without violating someone's privacy. So don't draw any conclusions.
Anyway, I am interested in hearing some of the things that piss you guys off in the lifestyle. So write it down. All I ask is that you not mention any names, 'cept mine. I could give a fuck. I think they best way to understand people is to find out what makes them tick and what ticks them off. No pun intended.
-D-
Apparently, following the <a href="post.php?action=view&PID=5750&TID=2" target="_blank">"Why so much hate in the swingers world"</a> thread, the racial comments that followed and my thoughts on the situation, another floridian couple (I won't mention names), thought I was directing my comments toward them. So, they decided to write me and tell me how wrong I was about them and that I must be hiding my picture because it may apply to me and all this nonsensical crap, only to block me from telling them, they had nothing to do with my remarks.
I would just like to ask these idiots that, if what I said <i>didn't</i> apply to them, why did they get so defensive??? It appears as though the truth may have hurt these two tolerant and progressive people. Why write me, trying to justify to me how you're not racist and that black guys in the Florida area are arrogant and "put themselves up on a pedestal? Here is what they wrote me:
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Originally wrote in thread:
<i>"perhaps TEQUILAROSE was confused by my statement, I stated that alot of people have fetish's but I do not know alot of white couples that are interested in black men..."</i>
Email One:
<i>"do not dare accuse me of racism, i have heard of your attacks in forums from other people on this site, it is extremely taboo to say you are not interested in black, and black men seem to love to place themselves on a pedestal, i live in tampa, i know ALOT of black people and honestly i have alot of exposure to them but i have no interest and i voiced what i have noticed in the swing world and i made it clear it was my opinion but do not attempt to play the racist card with me, keep in mind its not nearly as taboo to say your not interested in chinese, mexican, cuban, italian, however its not taboo for a black person to say he or she is not into interracial, its a double standard and its wrong."</i>
Email Two:
<i>"by the way, i do not see your husbands photo, it seems like racism is a sensitive subject for you, since you seem to wear it on your sleeve, is there a reason for the hostility thats closer to home?"</i></font>
WTF?
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Just to kill any presumptuous suspicions that some of you may have, <b>I will say that this couple is from the Riverview, FL area and <u>not</u> Palm Coast, FL area. This mean Kristylynn <u>did not</u> write this.</b> That's the best way to put it without violating someone's privacy. So don't draw any conclusions.
Anyway, I am interested in hearing some of the things that piss you guys off in the lifestyle. So write it down. All I ask is that you not mention any names, 'cept mine. I could give a fuck. I think they best way to understand people is to find out what makes them tick and what ticks them off. No pun intended.
-D-
I hate it when People Judge by Age and Appearance instead of Maturity and experiance..
Darwin
Darwin
Darwin333,
I agree to a degree. Age and appeance (ie. Hygene, Obesity, skrawny gauntness, sagging etc.) can both affect attraction for some. It's a preference thing. However, I do believe some people are not reasonable in their perception.
URIAH,
Ignoring something doesn't make the problem go away. It's better to resolve the issue, so the annoyance isn't there. Do you remove the underwear from your ass crack or do you walk around with your fruit of the looms hiked up your ass all day, ignoring the incessant irritation of the cotton intruder?
I will agree that one should not focus <u>all</u> of their energy on the negative. I am just saying we should recognize the negative and try to minimize the the impact it has on us be either reducing it or ridding ourselves of it.
-D-
I agree to a degree. Age and appeance (ie. Hygene, Obesity, skrawny gauntness, sagging etc.) can both affect attraction for some. It's a preference thing. However, I do believe some people are not reasonable in their perception.
URIAH,
Ignoring something doesn't make the problem go away. It's better to resolve the issue, so the annoyance isn't there. Do you remove the underwear from your ass crack or do you walk around with your fruit of the looms hiked up your ass all day, ignoring the incessant irritation of the cotton intruder?
I will agree that one should not focus <u>all</u> of their energy on the negative. I am just saying we should recognize the negative and try to minimize the the impact it has on us be either reducing it or ridding ourselves of it.
-D-
I think what pisses me off the most is when i am either in public or at a party and because I am a single man its almost automatically asumed that I am preditory. I'm in fact quite the opposite.
-Richard
PS Rose I live your page!! youre pics look great!
-Richard
PS Rose I live your page!! youre pics look great!
Richard, thanks bro. I will let Tami know you dig her pics. She rarely participates in the forum. She frequents the chatroom more often than the forum. If you see TEQUILAROSE stirring shit up, it's likely to be me, Don. I appreciate you compliment on our profile. I like to code.
-D-
-D-
Don....
I am not sure where you are headed with this thread and it will be interesting to watch. I get quite a laugh out of your postings and they way you like to stir things up. I have to admit that you remind me of my older brother. Loved to see what made people tick and when things got boring he always made it much more enjoyable. I had to learn fast with my brother not to show my weakness off because it would be used against me in the future. When I saw this post I have to admit that was what ran through my head. I will be watching to see where this goes. Have a good one!
Tasha
I am not sure where you are headed with this thread and it will be interesting to watch. I get quite a laugh out of your postings and they way you like to stir things up. I have to admit that you remind me of my older brother. Loved to see what made people tick and when things got boring he always made it much more enjoyable. I had to learn fast with my brother not to show my weakness off because it would be used against me in the future. When I saw this post I have to admit that was what ran through my head. I will be watching to see where this goes. Have a good one!
Tasha
I just really cant stand SNOW! 17 inches so far.
What pisses me off, That VP is there and not here. I so would like to be within touching of him
Thumper
Thumper
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VP, leave my man-bra and moobs out of this conversation, unless they annoy you.
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-D-
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VP, leave my man-bra and moobs out of this conversation, unless they annoy you.
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-D-
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It just annoys me beyond belief when all these single males take over the forums!
Daym! What do they think this is, a single male site?
LMAO
Daym! What do they think this is, a single male site?
LMAO
HAHAHA!
Trixee said:
what I hate is people that are only out for themself... not willing to stop and help anyone out... like those scumbags that sat on the trax train and watched a guy physically assalt a women. everyone of them should be charged with taking apart in the assalt...
I was not going to comment on this one but after reading your post it brought up something from the past. I had a handicapped sister and she broke down heading home from work in the snow in Pennsylvania. Denise was born with spina bifida and chronic renal kidney disease but never let either stop her from living as normal a life as possible. She was the first handicapped person in Pennsylvania to obtain a drivers license. She worked her entire life rather then going on disability. When her car broke down she was able to use crutches to get around on but could never walk so she went "hopping" as she called it to doors of nearby homes and was turned down three times before someone let her use the phone on the front porch to call for help. These were very spread out homes so she had a long way to go on crutches and the leftover snow was refreezing making ice, almost impossible to navigate on crutches. It was obvious looking at her that she could not use her legs so what threat was she really.
I do my best to help anyone that I can so I agree with Trixee that people not willing to help those in need suck.
what I hate is people that are only out for themself... not willing to stop and help anyone out... like those scumbags that sat on the trax train and watched a guy physically assalt a women. everyone of them should be charged with taking apart in the assalt...
I was not going to comment on this one but after reading your post it brought up something from the past. I had a handicapped sister and she broke down heading home from work in the snow in Pennsylvania. Denise was born with spina bifida and chronic renal kidney disease but never let either stop her from living as normal a life as possible. She was the first handicapped person in Pennsylvania to obtain a drivers license. She worked her entire life rather then going on disability. When her car broke down she was able to use crutches to get around on but could never walk so she went "hopping" as she called it to doors of nearby homes and was turned down three times before someone let her use the phone on the front porch to call for help. These were very spread out homes so she had a long way to go on crutches and the leftover snow was refreezing making ice, almost impossible to navigate on crutches. It was obvious looking at her that she could not use her legs so what threat was she really.
I do my best to help anyone that I can so I agree with Trixee that people not willing to help those in need suck.
Missing a particular fantasy forum post and having to wait. ;-)
Male have here....my motto, the more you give the more you get, My 19 year old son slide off of the road last Sunday....In Kaysville, there were 10-12 people that stopped to ask if he needed help....go figure....This while I was there with my truck to pull him out....I am so sorry your sister had to walk so far....another short story....about 5 weeks ago I was getting gas...I noticed two boys (ages 8-10, my guess) placing 2-3 bags over their purchased items. It was raining like hell, I walked over to them and offered a ride....they declined...(I don't blame them) If I had the time I would have called a taxi.....I felt bad they were walking in the rain....
WEFLY, thanks for the kind words. Maybe we should start a thread about who is your idol or hero because I am proud to say that my sister was mine.
I don`t want to steal this thread but have to share two stories and hope they might help someone out there make a dream come true for someone less fortunite. Denise had three dreams in life that she wanted to do like "normal " people. She wanted to ice skate, dance, and ride the waves like everyone else at the beach. Lori and I took her to our beach house in New Jersey and when we got to the beach I had the idea that my rolleeze cart would float 200 lbs and she weighed about 110 so I picked her up and put her in the cart and took her into the ocean. this cart looks like a wheel barrow and she floated on top of the waves no problem and she rode them all day. We got plenty of odd looks but hey, we were having fun.
At our wedding I thought hard before the reception and then dedicated a song to my sister and her husband. The dance floor was theirs and there was an awkward silence over the room till I went over and got him to stand and have her feet on top of his and her hold on around his neck and he moved his feet with hers on top and they got a standing ovation. That was a moment that I will never forget.
Unfortunitely I was not able to take her ice skating before she passed. The reason I posted this long reply is to ask anyone out there to use your creativity and if you have a loved one in my sisters situation try to make a dream for them come true. I promise you will get more out of it then they do.
Joe
I don`t want to steal this thread but have to share two stories and hope they might help someone out there make a dream come true for someone less fortunite. Denise had three dreams in life that she wanted to do like "normal " people. She wanted to ice skate, dance, and ride the waves like everyone else at the beach. Lori and I took her to our beach house in New Jersey and when we got to the beach I had the idea that my rolleeze cart would float 200 lbs and she weighed about 110 so I picked her up and put her in the cart and took her into the ocean. this cart looks like a wheel barrow and she floated on top of the waves no problem and she rode them all day. We got plenty of odd looks but hey, we were having fun.
At our wedding I thought hard before the reception and then dedicated a song to my sister and her husband. The dance floor was theirs and there was an awkward silence over the room till I went over and got him to stand and have her feet on top of his and her hold on around his neck and he moved his feet with hers on top and they got a standing ovation. That was a moment that I will never forget.
Unfortunitely I was not able to take her ice skating before she passed. The reason I posted this long reply is to ask anyone out there to use your creativity and if you have a loved one in my sisters situation try to make a dream for them come true. I promise you will get more out of it then they do.
Joe
what pisses me off
people from UT,lol
girls that play hard to get.
taxes
the price of gas,
having to eat to stay alive,
my dog ,
your dog,
joe dirt
he who makes more money then i,
dicks with ears,
sex starved men,
my vibrator batteries going dead,
men with little dicks,
and that time of the month lol,
god to many to list,
kristy
people from UT,lol
girls that play hard to get.
taxes
the price of gas,
having to eat to stay alive,
my dog ,
your dog,
joe dirt
he who makes more money then i,
dicks with ears,
sex starved men,
my vibrator batteries going dead,
men with little dicks,
and that time of the month lol,
god to many to list,
kristy
So where does that leave those that know it all but don`t think they do? Not claiming to be one of them.
People that have no heart! What is wrong with this world? People murdering, torchering, abusing, hating because of race and because we don't think the same way, ect... Why can't we except eachother for who we are?
~~SARA~~
the fact that my wife cant run the fucking laptop and i have to re-type everything lol
my dick being to small that my wife says are you in me yet! lmao
No hate that this lifestyle feels like highschool sometimes. one more thing that you cant just grab anyones ass you see fuck that hurts when you get slapped
F U C K ~Mike~
~~SARA~~
the fact that my wife cant run the fucking laptop and i have to re-type everything lol
my dick being to small that my wife says are you in me yet! lmao
No hate that this lifestyle feels like highschool sometimes. one more thing that you cant just grab anyones ass you see fuck that hurts when you get slapped
F U C K ~Mike~
Did I stop in at a bad time ?
Ignorance is HIS pet peeve, and that includes ALL kinds....BUT the worst is common sense ignorance...
Hers are the guys who say, "I can fuck for hours, I have a 10 inch cock, I LOVE to do foreplay!" then show up with a baby cock, no tongue and blow their wad by brushing her thigh on the way in...And NO that is not single man bashing...happens with the married ones more than the singles...COME ON GUYS...UNLOAD YOUR GUN BEFORE YOU GO OUT!!!!!
Hers are the guys who say, "I can fuck for hours, I have a 10 inch cock, I LOVE to do foreplay!" then show up with a baby cock, no tongue and blow their wad by brushing her thigh on the way in...And NO that is not single man bashing...happens with the married ones more than the singles...COME ON GUYS...UNLOAD YOUR GUN BEFORE YOU GO OUT!!!!!
VALENCE....Wank before you meet someone, so you don't get overly excited when you do score...that is unloading your gun...
I understand What you say Tequilla rose about appearance and such... i meant that i hate the judging of the Appearance of Age... Just cause i look young does not make it so....
V/R
Darwin
V/R
Darwin
Darwin,
Ah, gotcha. I misread. I apologize. The shitty thing is, we'll always be judged for something. If it's not your "appearance of age", it'll be something else.
JSTJIM72,
You know it also annoys me when my friends inadvertently block me.
-D-
Ah, gotcha. I misread. I apologize. The shitty thing is, we'll always be judged for something. If it's not your "appearance of age", it'll be something else.
JSTJIM72,
You know it also annoys me when my friends inadvertently block me.
-D-
It annoys me when I have a great post all typed and accidently hit the back button and lose it all 
It also annoys me when I havent been online and miss a thread that ends up being 17 pages and I have a lot to add and don't want to be the one who reserects the dam thing....
Classy,
HAHAHAHA!!! That shit really sucks!!!!
-D-
HAHAHAHA!!! That shit really sucks!!!!
-D-
I hate it when so much time goes by and I am yet alone. I never was the type to be imposing and maybe it is taken as "not a good fuck" but this nice guy syndrome is killing me. I would like to play with others in the lifestyle and I can understand the hesitation with contacting a single male. None the less I would like to have a partner eventually, preferably lifetime and although I make attempts to meet those in the "vanilla" world I have a difficult time with that too.
Don: Maybe they blocked you because they knew you wouldn't let them off easy, LOL. I bet you would send quite the rebuttal!
NPNUDISTCPLE: A touching story. Sad to know that people are so cold.
Rick
Don: Maybe they blocked you because they knew you wouldn't let them off easy, LOL. I bet you would send quite the rebuttal!
NPNUDISTCPLE: A touching story. Sad to know that people are so cold.
Rick
DESERT,
They have to live with their own choices. It's just amazing how thick some people are.
-D-
They have to live with their own choices. It's just amazing how thick some people are.
-D-
I hait wen pholks dont use spael chek.I hate when some one rants on about something/someone and leaves out words or spells so bad a person has to read it 3 or 4 times to understand.
What? LOL!
That's my point!!!!!!!
VP, thick huh? hummm :z
Thumper
Thumper