Well said Mr. X
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Posted By: TEQUILAROSE Reply posted on:
Jan 8, 2008 - 4:14 pm
If a single guy is at a party and you pack up and leave because you've got this preconceived notion that all single males are pigs and are just waiting for you to take a piss, so they can approach your wife, while you're away... I say this...
1) So what? Is your wife not capable of handling herself?
2) Are you not capable of saying, "Hey, Sorry man, we're not into single guys." I see that as no different that taking care of a couple you're not interested in.
Quite frankly, there are far more asshole, disrespectful men in couples that we've encountered, then the single variety.
I wouldn't pack up and leave just because there is a single guy there. Just like anything else, if I found that this club has single guys there and I don't like them, I can not go to that club and find another more to my liking.
Actually, yes. She is too nice to them. Then when I come back from taking a piss, I have to do the dirty job. She signs up for trial stuff and if she doesn't like it, it gets cancelled. Unfortunately, my job is to be the heavy. She, like many women the bouncers tell us about will tell the guys "not now. Maybe later.". Well, later comes along and so do they. However, because they didn't say "No thanx", if they bug her, the bouncer can't do much. That is why the club bouncers always ask the girls "Did you say no thanx" or "not now"? If it is the former, they will tell the guy off. If it is the latter, they will tell the girl "Next time, say NO. If he still bothers you, I will eject him."
Unfortunately, I am. Which is why I tend to get the dirty job. When the wife wants to return something, it too is my job. When she wants to buy something and the store is pretty dead, she feels sorry for the salesman and I have to go do the dirty work.
Actually, we have found the reverse to be true for us anyways. However, like I said before, even though they are more trouble, they bring things to the table that we are both interested in so the greater risk is worth it for us.
Jan 8, 2008 - 4:14 pm
If a single guy is at a party and you pack up and leave because you've got this preconceived notion that all single males are pigs and are just waiting for you to take a piss, so they can approach your wife, while you're away... I say this...
1) So what? Is your wife not capable of handling herself?
2) Are you not capable of saying, "Hey, Sorry man, we're not into single guys." I see that as no different that taking care of a couple you're not interested in.
Quite frankly, there are far more asshole, disrespectful men in couples that we've encountered, then the single variety.
I wouldn't pack up and leave just because there is a single guy there. Just like anything else, if I found that this club has single guys there and I don't like them, I can not go to that club and find another more to my liking.
Actually, yes. She is too nice to them. Then when I come back from taking a piss, I have to do the dirty job. She signs up for trial stuff and if she doesn't like it, it gets cancelled. Unfortunately, my job is to be the heavy. She, like many women the bouncers tell us about will tell the guys "not now. Maybe later.". Well, later comes along and so do they. However, because they didn't say "No thanx", if they bug her, the bouncer can't do much. That is why the club bouncers always ask the girls "Did you say no thanx" or "not now"? If it is the former, they will tell the guy off. If it is the latter, they will tell the girl "Next time, say NO. If he still bothers you, I will eject him."
Unfortunately, I am. Which is why I tend to get the dirty job. When the wife wants to return something, it too is my job. When she wants to buy something and the store is pretty dead, she feels sorry for the salesman and I have to go do the dirty work.
Actually, we have found the reverse to be true for us anyways. However, like I said before, even though they are more trouble, they bring things to the table that we are both interested in so the greater risk is worth it for us.
Posted By: TEQUILAROSE Reply posted on:
Jan 8, 2008 - 4:33 pm
I have a question for those of you that allow single females and not single males. You could use the they "bring nothing to the table" argument as well. After all, many of them don't want to play with the male half.
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Well, here is our take on it. BTW, we don't play with single anythings. If we know you well enough and say one of you is going thru our state, we don't mind playing with you as a single provided we know your other half won't mind. Played with a single girl who turned out to be in a possessive relationship. Ditch the bitch was the operation that followed. Anyways, with a single girl, lets say she only wants to play with the lady. Guys are fine with it since they can watch 2 girls go at it.
Jan 8, 2008 - 4:33 pm
I have a question for those of you that allow single females and not single males. You could use the they "bring nothing to the table" argument as well. After all, many of them don't want to play with the male half.
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Well, here is our take on it. BTW, we don't play with single anythings. If we know you well enough and say one of you is going thru our state, we don't mind playing with you as a single provided we know your other half won't mind. Played with a single girl who turned out to be in a possessive relationship. Ditch the bitch was the operation that followed. Anyways, with a single girl, lets say she only wants to play with the lady. Guys are fine with it since they can watch 2 girls go at it.
AKLIM,
1. I was never trying to convince you to accept a single guy. I was only saying that there are many reasons, to include insecurity, that people don't like single guys. I think that's the biggest reason, to tell you the truth. I was pointing out that it was ok to say no to anything you don't want. However, it's not ok to get in a thread not addressing you to defame and stereotype others because of your unique experience.
2) If you are into "watching" girl on girl, that maybe something the single female brings to the table (for some). In fact, it would equate to what a single male would bring to the table for those guy that want to watch their wife get fucked by a strange dude.
3) It's all a matter of preference. No one should ridicule anyone for their own preference. If you don't want single males, fine. But don't ridicule the single male for wanting the couple.
4) You seem to be addressing my points as though I were directing them at you. I am speaking in general and to those that posted personal attacks and remarks about the author of the thread as though he was some sort of a self-serving asshole for posting this thread. These same people that pigeon hole a group for what the minority do. When we are all here for self-gratification and to say any less would be dishonest. I find it difficult at time not to call people out on their hypocrisies. Do I mean you? NO. I mean any moron that wants something and is fine happy when they get it, but will stop at nothing to deny others the same satisfaction. I say fuck em.
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1. I was never trying to convince you to accept a single guy. I was only saying that there are many reasons, to include insecurity, that people don't like single guys. I think that's the biggest reason, to tell you the truth. I was pointing out that it was ok to say no to anything you don't want. However, it's not ok to get in a thread not addressing you to defame and stereotype others because of your unique experience.
2) If you are into "watching" girl on girl, that maybe something the single female brings to the table (for some). In fact, it would equate to what a single male would bring to the table for those guy that want to watch their wife get fucked by a strange dude.
3) It's all a matter of preference. No one should ridicule anyone for their own preference. If you don't want single males, fine. But don't ridicule the single male for wanting the couple.
4) You seem to be addressing my points as though I were directing them at you. I am speaking in general and to those that posted personal attacks and remarks about the author of the thread as though he was some sort of a self-serving asshole for posting this thread. These same people that pigeon hole a group for what the minority do. When we are all here for self-gratification and to say any less would be dishonest. I find it difficult at time not to call people out on their hypocrisies. Do I mean you? NO. I mean any moron that wants something and is fine happy when they get it, but will stop at nothing to deny others the same satisfaction. I say fuck em.
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K_T, hmmm...now I can't wait to see what you and Mr. Two come up with, though remember Mrs. K_T and I probably have a few really good ideas of our own too 
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"now.. waiting for the attacks.. which usually come from those who feel inadequate, inferior or cannot make a rational decision.. "</i></font>
Kinda like what you just did eh? LOL!
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"I find it quite amusing as well as revealing how some of the comments made in this forum by some mebers are diametrically opposed to their previous posts."</i></font>
Could it be personal enlightment?
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"now.. waiting for the attacks.. which usually come from those who feel inadequate, inferior or cannot make a rational decision."</i></font>
According to who? You? lol. Replies are welcome in a forum. If it were not in good form to reply to your drivel, this would be a monologue with your delusional ass talking to yourself. Well, that's just the first part of your day. This is the second part. It's called a dialogue, unlike the personalities with in your dementia, we have our own voices and opinions, born in other perspectives. ;-)
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Kinda like what you just did eh? LOL!
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"I find it quite amusing as well as revealing how some of the comments made in this forum by some mebers are diametrically opposed to their previous posts."</i></font>
Could it be personal enlightment?
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"now.. waiting for the attacks.. which usually come from those who feel inadequate, inferior or cannot make a rational decision."</i></font>
According to who? You? lol. Replies are welcome in a forum. If it were not in good form to reply to your drivel, this would be a monologue with your delusional ass talking to yourself. Well, that's just the first part of your day. This is the second part. It's called a dialogue, unlike the personalities with in your dementia, we have our own voices and opinions, born in other perspectives. ;-)
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"pecksniffian" lol
I would go break out the scrabble dictionary for that one but you dont want to appear too self righteous.
JIM
I would go break out the scrabble dictionary for that one but you dont want to appear too self righteous.
JIM
That's where he got it. He broke out the thesaurus to show us all on the forum, how educated and deep he is. LOL! Someone used that word to describe him and he had to bust out a Websters... HAHAHA!
He wrote:
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Kristylynn... Alton... who really gives a shit if one's grammer and or spelling is not perfect..I would offer this.. " a pecksniffian"</i></font>
I think anyone that spells grammar, "grammer", whilst trying to give people vocabulary lessons from a websters reference set, is fuckin' priceless in the dumbshit sense. Way to go buddy. Talk about hypocrisy. Look up the word "irony". Oh and sorry to keep you waiting. LOL!
He also wrote:
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Some people on here think way beyond their mental ability."</i></font>
I think he proves that point himself. LOL!
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He wrote:
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Kristylynn... Alton... who really gives a shit if one's grammer and or spelling is not perfect..I would offer this.. " a pecksniffian"</i></font>
I think anyone that spells grammar, "grammer", whilst trying to give people vocabulary lessons from a websters reference set, is fuckin' priceless in the dumbshit sense. Way to go buddy. Talk about hypocrisy. Look up the word "irony". Oh and sorry to keep you waiting. LOL!
He also wrote:
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Some people on here think way beyond their mental ability."</i></font>
I think he proves that point himself. LOL!
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<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Ya know.. you are so "FUCKING STUPID" and in my opinion a fucking coward, asshole, moron, scumbag,racist sexist pig fucking ,deserting, lowlife worthless piece of shit.." </i></font>
Uh, you don't even know me. LOL!
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Wow so that's what it feels like to be on your mentality level? And I use the word kindley.
And once again asshole, you proved my point! You are so uneducated and have no self worth that you must attack personally."</i></font>
Kindley??? Oh you mean Kindly!
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Seems I read someplace.. now I am not saying this is true, that such anger could be THE SIGNS OF A CHILD ABUSER AND WIFE BEATER..or a victim of abuse..,can't remember where I read that. Remember you told me in previous post.. old.. fat..no memory. "</i></font>
Wow, thanks for that Doctor Phil.
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>""YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE A CLUE WHEN YOU ARE BEING BAITED.
YOU ARE NO FUN ANYMORE.
I don't like you any more. "</i></font>
I knew you were addressing me dummy. LOL! It's you that was baited, you that got personal with me. HAHAHAHA! Oh, and I never liked you.
;-)
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Uh, you don't even know me. LOL!
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Wow so that's what it feels like to be on your mentality level? And I use the word kindley.
And once again asshole, you proved my point! You are so uneducated and have no self worth that you must attack personally."</i></font>
Kindley??? Oh you mean Kindly!
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Seems I read someplace.. now I am not saying this is true, that such anger could be THE SIGNS OF A CHILD ABUSER AND WIFE BEATER..or a victim of abuse..,can't remember where I read that. Remember you told me in previous post.. old.. fat..no memory. "</i></font>
Wow, thanks for that Doctor Phil.
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>""YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE A CLUE WHEN YOU ARE BEING BAITED.
YOU ARE NO FUN ANYMORE.
I don't like you any more. "</i></font>
I knew you were addressing me dummy. LOL! It's you that was baited, you that got personal with me. HAHAHAHA! Oh, and I never liked you.
;-)
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P.S.
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You feel such a compulsion to return to the forum and bathe in hypocrisy, why?
You wrote:
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Why must you constantly mock people?"</i></font>
Just the assholes.
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You wrote:
<font color="#4e6dab"><i>"Why must you constantly mock people?"</i></font>
Just the assholes.
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I take none of this seriously man. This is just a means for me to express myself at the time I happen to be writing.
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**Why must you constantly mock people? Why are you feeling so worthless in life.
Suicide is a viable option for you.
And you are right, I do not know you. I could not associate with a person who feels no self worth other than by being a bully.
I do indeed feel so sorry for you.
Can I loan you a rope or something? **
Jesus Christ, that's a horrid thing to say to anyone- even someone you may dislike!
*makes mental note of pictures so I know who to avoid at future get togethers*
Suicide is a viable option for you.
And you are right, I do not know you. I could not associate with a person who feels no self worth other than by being a bully.
I do indeed feel so sorry for you.
Can I loan you a rope or something? **
Jesus Christ, that's a horrid thing to say to anyone- even someone you may dislike!
*makes mental note of pictures so I know who to avoid at future get togethers*
No I don't.
What you wrote was offensive under any circumstance.
What you wrote was offensive under any circumstance.
Ali,
He's just frustrated with me. LOL! I am a mouthy prick a few people would probably like to punch. LOL! I know this guy is a vet, because he talks like one. LOL! I do not take offense to what he said. I think, in reality, by reading him, he'd probably save a life before he'd take one. Let us boys bask in our bantor.
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P.S. Thanks Ali, you're such the mother spirit. <script>document.write('<img src="ht'+'tp://ww'+'w.msnhiddenemoticons.com/Library/extra_large/merende/default/angel.gif">')</script>
He's just frustrated with me. LOL! I am a mouthy prick a few people would probably like to punch. LOL! I know this guy is a vet, because he talks like one. LOL! I do not take offense to what he said. I think, in reality, by reading him, he'd probably save a life before he'd take one. Let us boys bask in our bantor.
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P.S. Thanks Ali, you're such the mother spirit. <script>document.write('<img src="ht'+'tp://ww'+'w.msnhiddenemoticons.com/Library/extra_large/merende/default/angel.gif">')</script>
I feckin exhausted on this one... LOL! Night e'one.
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Mouthy prick or not Don, (which is exactly why I luv ya!) it's still a really nasty thing to say.
Mother spirit? Hmmm... You have been rather naughty lately.. Maybe I should get out my belt and spank you! All in a "motherly spirit" of course!
Mother spirit? Hmmm... You have been rather naughty lately.. Maybe I should get out my belt and spank you! All in a "motherly spirit" of course!
Whats the ratio between a nice single male and an arrogent one, perhaps that will answer your question.
Probably the same as the ration between a nice married male and arrogant married male. LOL!
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I'm far from PC, but there are some things I don't find funny.
Very thought provoking. Thanks. :-) I think it's also safe to say that for most, like me, the forum is an entertainment tool and nothing more. I do not walk away from it carrying any feelings of contempt... Ever.
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As a couple we have played with single gentlemen many many times over the years. The only time that I can consider upleasent feelings or hate ever came up with any single is when I was told by him to please leave the room while he made it with my wife. We show that we do not play alone ( I do not mind watching her have fun at all ), and will often just watch. As couples the single gents must realize it may not be hate but protectiveness of our loved ones. It does only take one bad apple to ruin it for many. If the couple does not want to have contact with a single, they should just block them is all. Or just make it clear that both parties will always be present. No way do I mean to offend any single guy out there or single lady, both have the right to pursue their desires and pleasures.
It seems the bad experiences with a few select single males has lead to such "hatred" in the lifestyle. We don't have an interest in playing with single males but we can say that for the most part they have been very respectful upon our reply. Hopefully as time passes the single male will continue to get a better name and those that are disrespectful will be in the minority.
R&S
R&S