Many have made resolutions for 2008, but some of us may have made a resolution to fullfill a fantasy. What's yours?
My fantasy is to spend an evening grooming - shaving one another.
Happy New Year everyone! May 2008 be filled with fantasies fullfilled and desires satisfied.
Ours would be to find a couple who have the desire to do an "actual" full swap. Me (male) with their fem for a night, day, or whatever of conversation, flirting, eye play, and erotic touching leading up to making passionate love to each other and the same for the other halves of both couples.
It seems that most "open-minded" swingers are threatened by this idea. I know that some of you will say, " but we like watching each other." We do too, but think this experience would be hot.
Anyone out there????
Ours would be to find a couple who have the desire to do an "actual" full swap. Me (male) with their fem for a night, day, or whatever of conversation, flirting, eye play, and erotic touching leading up to making passionate love to each other and the same for the other halves of both couples.
It seems that most "open-minded" swingers are threatened by this idea. I know that some of you will say, " but we like watching each other." We do too, but think this experience would be hot.
Anyone out there????
The responses look wonderful so far. I would like to add that I would like to be in a gang-bang!
Great fantasy SOMEONESMISTRES!
C'mon. let's hear some more
I have ben fortunate enough to have swung with some couples, but my fantasy is to go to a pool party at a beautiful home and be in a huge orgy that lasts throughout an entire weekend!
For whatever reason the idea of being in an orgy has always turned me on and I've never had the chance to be in one.
For whatever reason the idea of being in an orgy has always turned me on and I've never had the chance to be in one.
Hee hee.. to get my neighbor laid and maybe join in 
Mine is to be dominated by my husband and another man. Also I really like group sex but honestly the best would be to just find some more really great couples who are full swap and are down to fuck without a lot of drama.With that being said, it would be a lot of fun to gather a few select couples and take a vacation together. We all go out and do fun stuff together but mostly long orgy sessions.
My 2008 fantasy is winning a lottery and taking a motorcycle road trip to UT to meet many of you very nice people. Hey! It's my fantasy... lol
For those of you who arent as nice, I'll shake your hand too, just to show I respect you and your choices.
For those of you who arent as nice, I'll shake your hand too, just to show I respect you and your choices.
My fantasy is simple, 2 women...no wait, an orgy...no wait...man what a tough question, i have lots of fantasies...do i have to pick just 1?
our fantasy for 2008 is to meet as many swingers as we can and also enjoy them
Our fantasy is to have the ultimate "no worries" fuck:
Lady, husband and another guy watching a funny DVD or chick flick with arms around the lady...each of them getting off with her without her HAVING to be subjected to prolonged demonstrations of oral prowess, or absurdly prolonged thrusting(but HARD is nice)....and some food. Comfort food. Oh, and maybe a foot rub for the lady to close...and the click of a light switch.
Lady, husband and another guy watching a funny DVD or chick flick with arms around the lady...each of them getting off with her without her HAVING to be subjected to prolonged demonstrations of oral prowess, or absurdly prolonged thrusting(but HARD is nice)....and some food. Comfort food. Oh, and maybe a foot rub for the lady to close...and the click of a light switch.
Michele would like to find 4-5 good guys for a fun filled night. Guys who are patient, know what they want and how to please a women who is submissive by nature. I would love to sit back and watch the fun!
Clay
Clay
Well our fantasy for 2007 has come true in meeting the perfect couple for us. We are completely open, never any drama, worries, and just pure fun. We can swap for the night or stay together, do threesomes and all with no hassles.
I guess for 2008 we have to say our fantasy is to bring one or two more local couples into the mix that share the same wants and ideas as us. It is an amazing feeling to have your guard completely down to another couple and each introduces the other to new ideas and kinks. We hope everyone gets to experience this at least once in a lifetime.
I guess for 2008 we have to say our fantasy is to bring one or two more local couples into the mix that share the same wants and ideas as us. It is an amazing feeling to have your guard completely down to another couple and each introduces the other to new ideas and kinks. We hope everyone gets to experience this at least once in a lifetime.
I'm always full of fantasies so I suppose my primary fantasy would be to find a couple or small group of people who want to enjoy erotic games and fucking - instead of just standing around all evening waiting for someone to actually start something.
I've been surprised to have 4 or 5 couples now be totally turned off by the idea of simply using a blindfold during sex: "Too much trouble".
I love the idea posted earlier about "true full swap" and would extend it to "extreme swap" - a term coined on RedClouds: trade partners for a whole day - or weekend - or even a whole vacation. Better yet, share a vacation with one or two other couples and trade partners every day: keep rotating, and spend the whole day "being" with that partner - holding hands in public, dining together, going to shows - and sleeping together. Then the next morning, you trade again.
I'd love the "weekend-long orgy" posted previously. I've come close to that where we spent more than 24 hours with another couple - everybody staying nude the whole time and just initiating sex whenever the spirit moved us. Be talking on the deck - looking out over the trees - and just idly begin to eat the genitals of the woman next to me. In that case, it was understood that there would never be any full swap, though, and everyone was purely male/female contact, so it limited the potential interactions.
I'd love to be part of a group of men who "attend to" one lady. I've done that. And I love it.
Overall, my fantasy is to find some partners who enjoy fantasizing and thinking about sex - and living out those fantasies - rather than "drama, talk, drink-until-you're-too-drunk-to perform, then strip,suck,fuck,leave".
Yeah. I obsess about sex. And I don't think that's a bad thing. (big smile).
I've been surprised to have 4 or 5 couples now be totally turned off by the idea of simply using a blindfold during sex: "Too much trouble".
I love the idea posted earlier about "true full swap" and would extend it to "extreme swap" - a term coined on RedClouds: trade partners for a whole day - or weekend - or even a whole vacation. Better yet, share a vacation with one or two other couples and trade partners every day: keep rotating, and spend the whole day "being" with that partner - holding hands in public, dining together, going to shows - and sleeping together. Then the next morning, you trade again.
I'd love the "weekend-long orgy" posted previously. I've come close to that where we spent more than 24 hours with another couple - everybody staying nude the whole time and just initiating sex whenever the spirit moved us. Be talking on the deck - looking out over the trees - and just idly begin to eat the genitals of the woman next to me. In that case, it was understood that there would never be any full swap, though, and everyone was purely male/female contact, so it limited the potential interactions.
I'd love to be part of a group of men who "attend to" one lady. I've done that. And I love it.
Overall, my fantasy is to find some partners who enjoy fantasizing and thinking about sex - and living out those fantasies - rather than "drama, talk, drink-until-you're-too-drunk-to perform, then strip,suck,fuck,leave".
Yeah. I obsess about sex. And I don't think that's a bad thing. (big smile).
Ahh, Mr. Beard you make yet another great point. Vacationing with other lifestyle couples or singles can be more fun then any vacation I went on when I was a kid. After reading your post I guess we can say we enjoyed the extreme swap and would do it over and over again with the right people. We can only do this away from home because to be seen in public holding hands with someone other then your partner can be hard to explain.
And we thought everyone had blindfolds on the night stand next to their bed. I can`t imagine it being to much trouble to use blindfolds if that is what you enjoy. Just the thought of not know what is coming next and the way it seems to heighten the rest of your senses is such a rush. At parties we make sure there are blindfolds, and either restraints or floggers by every bed so if you choose to use them they are within reach from the bed.
And we thought everyone had blindfolds on the night stand next to their bed. I can`t imagine it being to much trouble to use blindfolds if that is what you enjoy. Just the thought of not know what is coming next and the way it seems to heighten the rest of your senses is such a rush. At parties we make sure there are blindfolds, and either restraints or floggers by every bed so if you choose to use them they are within reach from the bed.
Ahhhhh, Beard, you always say the right things. Yet soooo far away. Damn!!!!
our fantasy for 2008 is a joint fantasy of meeting a small handfull of you sexy (in personality)utah couples and become REAL good friends,,, let the fun begin.......dennis and sara
Our fantasy involves hot oil, silly string and a stuffed penguin.
Funny.....I ( N ) just got a stuffed penguin for my birthday a couple of days ago LOL
My (Don) 2008 New Year fantasy is to have two really hot assed women play a few games of darts on my tight stretched scrotum. I think perhaps I'll stetch it out using a "punch needle" embroidery hoop to get it nice and taught. Then it'll be a nice game of 301, cricket or "around the world".
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My fantasy would be to take a trip to Wa. and spend the weekend with DEEDEE I want her to save a horse and ride her cowboy??
My fantasy is to find a couple of ladies that would like to spend a weekend naked in bed with me, doing all sorts of things to each other. Taking pics and video of all the different positions and combinations that the three of us can think of. Thank god for Cialas LOL . How ever i would not mind meeting a couple that would allow me the privilage of playing with them. I love it when the two men get to double her pleasure. What a turn on.
Anyone know where we can get a goat and some live chickens?
On a farm.
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Wifes fantasy for 2008 is to have 4 guys in a hotel and she doesnt know a single one of them. And another fantasy is to have a girl for her and hubby to share.