I just had to throw this topic out there. What is it with people in this lifestyle giving others hiki's? It's difficult to keep your private life private with a golf ball size hiki planted on the side of your neck. I think it shows lack of respect for the other party when you "surprise" them with it. When has it been cool to have a hiki since Jr. High? Don't get me wrong if your into marking others, that's cool, to each their own. To not give the other person a choice shows lack of class.
yes we agree... it does show a lack of respect we have had instances when sara breast was bruised from the squeezing but she didnt think it was that hard at the time... i feel hiki's are a step closer to the negative side, unless discussed b4 hand that it'd be ok.. sara bruises easily and as a result she got the bruising, i bite and on occasion too hard, but i tease sara and tell her that if she ever wanted a divorce all she'd have to do is take off her shirt and say abuse.. she occasionally is bruised from shoulder to shoulder usually the only time i get in trouble for it is in the spring when sara gets ready to start wearing wife beaters some times she forgetts and gets some real strange looks when doing the wally thing.....but back to the forum... if all agrees prior then i guess it would be ok... if not then it shouldnt happen....dennis and sara
We could not agree with you more. Had it done once and that wasn`t cool. Shows a lack of respect.
I have to agree, it is a total disrespect. I do not like visible marks, although if it is below the neck line that is ok. But you have to ask first.
Not cool, we dealt with this not too long ago(Majestic did) Glad she wears a tie and collar at work...
As long as you ask first, we don't have a problem with it.
I was gunna say the same thing I think hickeys have been uncool since the early 80s havent they???? Plus it sures a total disrespect and lack of talent and control with your tongue and lips 
I know just to nibble and suck without leaving a mark at least not one that shows, but it leaves a good mark that are unseen, so no worries wefly there are more of us out there lol :h
Visible marks? Yeah...not a good thing and very disrespectful.
Marks that public can't see? Well...if you ask nicely we can turn you into a GREAT canvas.
-K_T
Marks that public can't see? Well...if you ask nicely we can turn you into a GREAT canvas.
-K_T
I have been active in the lifestyle for years and have yet to have someone leave that kind of mark on me, Especially without my permission.
Territory? Oh geez, don't even get me started...... blech.
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Territory? Oh geez, don't even get me started...... blech.
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