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This ? is mainly for the women cause come on guys lets face we can look at a can of coke and start thinking sexual inuendos right.

Just curious, I know what its like being a guy and what makes me tick, but what is it that you women see or feel that just gets your pulse racing???? Im always looking for ways to better my understanding of women and the way they think, feel, and respond. Ive read men are from mars and women are from venus and it makes little sense unless your a woman lol :p What the author forgot is us men are pretty simple and kinda duh haha so layman terms would be a much better way to describe it to us, dont believe me think bout these simple scenerios

We ask whats wrong you say nothing even though there is something wrong, so we drop it and you get mad at us for not trying harder to find out whats wrong, answer we're stupid and you said nothing so we dropped it.

Ok need another, we ask what you want for dinner or what you want to watch on TV you say you dont care but what you really mean is i want to see if this selfish ass will pick a program or food he knows I like and not just think of himself, but more often than not you end up watching a sports program and eating pizza delivered fresh to your door. haha

See I am getting better at reading the fine print but the sexual and social end of it is still a bit disconcerning so hence why I am asking ;)
Good advice Sexed...especially the biting and hair pulling!

And important to remember...not all guys are so, um, simple in their desires. ;) Some of us have a bit more depth than standard.

-K_T
Amen Brother Kinbaku...way to speak up for all us more-complex-than-average guys :)
Thank you Brother Thought. I'm always here to help!
We all want to say we are more complex as to impress said women, and as i too like alot more than to jump in the sack and screw, you two both know it doesnt take much more than a naked hot body to get your blood racing. Hence the title of this topic I wasnt saying what sends you into an orgasmic coma, I said what provides that little spark to get you thinking the most intricate of sexual details.

I just like to keep myself eduacated into the likes and dislikes of "most" women I know everyone is different and that is a good thing otherwise life would be boring. But just like women us men are different too some love boobs, some love butts, legs, hair, eyes,heck some like some things i dare not mention.

I am just looking at certain similarities that all women share and one answer that I have always gotten is a man that can use his tongue. Not so much in those words but more so i hear the same answers, such as a man that can kiss, a man that can perform a wonderful symphony of sexual tones using his tongue as a director and the womans sweet body as an instrument. I also hear mainly that a woman wants a man that lets them be themselves and is secure in who he is, demenstrated by the comment above that he is ok being naked.

I too agree with all answers that were given so far kissing is a long lost art that not many guys take the time to learn. If you havent then trust me on this one thing guys learn to kiss your woman right. No i dont mean grab her and stick your tongue down her throat. Do it, heres the key word, "right" start off slow, make sure you touch her face, her body, play with her hair, take your time its not a sprint its a marathon. :p Kissing is just a starting point I have found that your fingers can explore an entice the body in an almost unreal way. There are just so many tools to our disposal that it shocks me to see many guys dont bother to practice with the rest of their bodies, they think its all about the dick. Guess what, I dont think I have ever once, not to say it will never happen, had a woman say well his dick is the best thing in the world. Im sure all women to some degree like one but from what Ive seen its not on the top of the priority list hahaha. ;)
Dreamin:

You should probably know that the two gentlemen (TG and KT) who have written above are indeed more complex and 'deep' than the average guys. (Not to mention more honest and real than most)

Sure, they enjoy a peek at a nipple, a grab on the ass and all the other things that make a regular guy cream their jeans. But what guys like theis REALLY get into are things like a moment of flirtatious eye contact, the recognition of a change in breathing patterns, a subtle biting of the lip, little innuendos and subtle signs of attraction.

Not every guy is the same, just like women. Women are inherently more complex (and confusing) than men, and that really bothers some guys. Other guys, such as the aforementioned pair, are really into getting to know what makes a lady tick, but they don't have to ask- they would rather figure it out without being so heavy-handed. The journey from being strangers to being intimate (at whatever level) is at least as enjoyable as the actual process of 'doing it'
Touche!! I was not for one second saying the guys aformentioned were not deep and complex i dont know them therefore i cant judge them, so if I mispoke and that is what came across, my apologies.

I know there are more complex guys just as there are more complex girls. So then I guess i should start by saying this is open to all, what makes ya tick???

Asking can be just as intimate and rewarding as discovering, almost sounds like an old cliche used for men "Arent you going to stop and ask directions???" male answers back "I dont need directions." Well I perfer to ask and be open to what my partner wants to tell me. I want to be able to have an open line in communtication just as I want an open ear to know secret desires and wants.

Getting to know someone intimately is not a one night thing its something that developes over time and the more you know the better it gets.
I found out more about kissing by watching 2 women than any other time in my life, It seems that they first touch the cheek and hold em in a seemingly locked gaze and then softly draw them close. Then its little bit of nibbling and soft lips touching ok got to stop getting my own motor primed here lol. :p
Hubby's been doing the laundry all day and he's already gotten lucky twice cuz watching him help me out is hot. Lame huh?
wann hang dry wall? I'll get really hot and bothered ;)
Mrs. Curious
not lame at all and I think if i were, or you hubby were hangin that drywall without a shirt on and getting a little sweaty and glistening from the hard work it would get you going probably more than you know :p
Strange as it may sound...I love this lifestyle and yes, sometimes I do just like to jump in to someone and go.

Mostly, however...no. I like the game that comes before any clothes fall. I enjoy seducing, being seduced. I want to make a woman feel that she is the most important person on the planet - right then, right there.

What turns a woman on? Well, rather than following the pattern, why not simply take the time to show them who you are. Maybe you'll fall into something they see to be tried and true.

Mostly...heheh, they'll probably learn a little something about themselves. Perhaps a like they didn't know existed?

THAT is what moves me when it comes to playing in this lifestyle. ;)

-K_T
I'm into the ever-elusive "girl fart".

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ow my god hahahaha :s well to each his own right
You know you wanna gobble the crotch of those britches, Bo.

-D-
Dress up like a Mormon soccer mom and I'll show you lovin'.

-D-
Well, you got me kneading my peter with a thumb inserted.

-D-
Break out the baby oil. I wanna giggle whilst I pound this dough.
Aspiration isn't a necessity. Perspiration, masturbation, excitation, fornication.... your turn.

-D-
Let's not forget copulation.

-D-
;-) night dollface.

=D
forgot a big one retardation ;) lol
true, true.
roflmao don you kill me lol