We would love to be validated but have no cam so its got to be that we meet a VIP or Real couple single female who is more than willing to help... Its not like we are an ugly couple but seem to have the hardest time finding people who will just get naked.. Why is it so hard to find sexy Real VIP's
good luck on thatwemet two different vip's and even done things on cam and we still havent got our vip symbol andeven sent emaills to admin with no reply.
carol and joe
carol and joe
well that just does not make it easy for us does it... OMHHHHHHHHH maybe we should just say HEY ALL OF U lets FUCk LOL
We usually validate couples we meet who ask, but we can't VIP them.
we are VIPs
we do have our meet n greets here in the salt lake area
we are always willing to validate anyone who points out they need one.
of course we must meet both persons of a couple at the same time.
if we attend a mutual party, we are also always willing to validate but
we do request you let us know you are needing one at the time we meet
and then a followup email to us so we can find your profile and give it a validation.
there are lots of ~ sexy Real VIP's ~ that go to the parties and meet n greets here in utah.
Misskitty >> Only the administrator can give a ~VIP~ validation - The Vips can give Real validations
kk
we do have our meet n greets here in the salt lake area
we are always willing to validate anyone who points out they need one.
of course we must meet both persons of a couple at the same time.
if we attend a mutual party, we are also always willing to validate but
we do request you let us know you are needing one at the time we meet
and then a followup email to us so we can find your profile and give it a validation.
there are lots of ~ sexy Real VIP's ~ that go to the parties and meet n greets here in utah.
Misskitty >> Only the administrator can give a ~VIP~ validation - The Vips can give Real validations
kk
wershy.. we have wanted to meet the 2 of you for awhile now... the meet and greets do not work for us because he has terribale allergies to alachol and can not take the chance.. We would love for you to validate that we are as real as it gets lets meet:z
VIP = Verified In Person (by Rob). Rob, the owner/administrator is the only one that can give you VIP. Any VIP can verify you as "REAL" by either 1) meeting you in person or 2) meeting you on a webcam. Having pics on your profile that look like the people on the cam help. I would also like to say that <b>it behooves you to get a webcam.</b> You can get one for less than <b>$40 dollars</b>. If you get a cam, let us know and we can validate you. All you have to do is email.
-D-
P.S. Again, get a <script>document.write('<a href="ht'+'tp://w'+'ww.walmart.com/catalog/catalog.gsp?adid=1500000000000003757080&cat=4437&dest=56665" target="_blank">webcam</a>')</script>.
-D-
P.S. Again, get a <script>document.write('<a href="ht'+'tp://w'+'ww.walmart.com/catalog/catalog.gsp?adid=1500000000000003757080&cat=4437&dest=56665" target="_blank">webcam</a>')</script>.
call me camera shy LOL I am all good in person but sumthing about being on cam is alittle nerve racking to me.. we have talked abut it and talked about it but seems that when it comes down to it live in person is the way to go hell we can touch ourselfs anytime we want its the whole thought of touching other people that gives me a thrill... the whole smell touch lick and so on woohoo exciting for sure
Well, you'll be hard pressed to find anyone that will meet you with no face pics and no willingness to cam. This lifestyle is full of fakes and bullshitters. I am not saying this applies to you, but you have to be willing to give to get. You know what I mean? Oh and just because you cam doesn't mean you have to perform on cam. You don't have to get naked. You just have to show your faces. Hell, we aren't even into the cyber on cam thing. That shit is sexually unrewarding. For those of you into that, by all means.
-D-
-D-
We have done both, camming and met people in person, oh also we are on video chat quite often too ( when it is up lol )...... so not sure how all this works We will sometime i guess E & K
Aye,
Have to agree with Don.
Needless to say, almost every person here (with some exceptions) will not meet without at least seeing a face pic. Those can be in a Private Gallery, or on Public...your choice. Being in a face to face is great, but it's a show of trust (which is a HUGE component in this lifestyle to most of us) to swap faces if there's any chance of meeting.
-K_T
Have to agree with Don.
Needless to say, almost every person here (with some exceptions) will not meet without at least seeing a face pic. Those can be in a Private Gallery, or on Public...your choice. Being in a face to face is great, but it's a show of trust (which is a HUGE component in this lifestyle to most of us) to swap faces if there's any chance of meeting.
-K_T
Again, get a <script>document.write('<a href="ht'+'tp://w'+'ww.walmart.com/catalog/catalog.gsp?adid=1500000000000003757080&cat=4437&dest=56665" target="_blank">webcam</a>')</script>. It's inexpensive and will open doors to social success on the site. To ease your minds, no one expects a performance on cam. All we wanna see is your faces.
-D-
-D-
we have face pics and just took the other pics off cause its time for a change .. our face pics r just in a private album and have no problems sharing them with people just a discretion thing found that some of our family memebers posted thier face pics and do not think its such agood idea to put them out there like that... We have met many people from another swinger site and have a ton of friends.. just not up north of SLC as i am sure you that live up this way know not much to do or not many places to go
Now you just have to find a VIP willing to meet you face to face after having added them. Pics are not even a sure thing. I can post anyone face I like. You're not willing to cam, not willing to go to a meet and greet. You have to be willing to give some. ;-) You can't complain about meeting people if you're not willing to accomidate. If it's all gotta be on your terms, you are going to meet with rejection.
-D-
P.S. Again, get a <script>document.write('<a href="ht'+'tp://w'+'ww.walmart.com/catalog/catalog.gsp?adid=1500000000000003757080&cat=4437&dest=56665" target="_blank">webcam</a>')</script>. LOL!
-D-
P.S. Again, get a <script>document.write('<a href="ht'+'tp://w'+'ww.walmart.com/catalog/catalog.gsp?adid=1500000000000003757080&cat=4437&dest=56665" target="_blank">webcam</a>')</script>. LOL!
Teq.. no offense taken and yes there are ALOT of fake people and people who use old pics ect... totaly agree about the whole face thing and attration for sure.. we are def not newbies.. and have been into the lifestyle for years now just honsetly want some new friends that do not live so dan far away hell if we want a quickie it takes 30 min or so to drive to SLC... LOL
Then get a cam LOL! If you want the REAL seal, you have to meet or cam. That is the way it goes LOL. Most people that meet want to do it at a meet and greet because meeting someone over drinks can be akward if you find that you are not attracted. YOU CAN'T GET OUT! However, at a meet and greet, you can simply move to the next couple. Webcams are even less personal.
-D-
-D-
your point is taken and very well said yes it must be the way to go... damn it anyways LOL.... after all is said and done things sometimes just happen ... working on that cam hehehe
I apologize if I seemed direct. I just know that people are very hesitant to meet people for the first time in location that is hard to just leave, if things don't click. They want a quick out. This is why meet and greets are so successful. Webcamming in the chatroom is another place that it's easy to meet VIP's that will make you real as soon as they verify you both on the cam (at the same time). I know this, because we are VIP and have done it countless times. We <u>will</u> do it for you. Looks have nothing to do with it. Legitimacy is the key. If you want your real, we are willing to help. You just have to be willing to help us, help you. :-)
-D-
-D-
directness is 1 of my qualities almost to a fault and totaly understand for sure.. Being that way makes it easy for me not to take things to personally and certainly will work on getting a cam set up so you can see us .. as far as the validation thats great for sure .. we would love to have the VIP.. Very real in perosn hehehe anybody can cam and maybe thats Y I am not into it much.. hell i am a perv and still do not watch cams .. the no skin to skin maybe the whoe no hot breath on my thighs hehehe the whole thought of cam directors and so on.. I am sure you have been there dun that too... thanks so much for your input for sure... Would love to have U check us out and meet if its there 
canitb
we are also willing to help you be validated
and TR is Sooo right.. that is the beauty of the meet n greets and parties
no pressures, just fun, dancing and partying and socializing. you meet lots of fun friends and find those you have mutual interests with.
as i emailed to you, we can try and work out a place to meet after the holidays if you dont get your real validation first through the cam method or meeting some other vip first.
Getting your VIP validation will be much harder than getting a real validation
keep in touch
kk
we are also willing to help you be validated
and TR is Sooo right.. that is the beauty of the meet n greets and parties
no pressures, just fun, dancing and partying and socializing. you meet lots of fun friends and find those you have mutual interests with.
as i emailed to you, we can try and work out a place to meet after the holidays if you dont get your real validation first through the cam method or meeting some other vip first.
Getting your VIP validation will be much harder than getting a real validation
keep in touch
kk
wershi.. sounds wonderful for sure and as you know we already have a few friends in common and would just love to get our seal for sure... Def stay in touch KnK
Bunny.. your pretty hot too man o man what do we have to do to meet U 2 LOL
bunny... the friends list done now dan it I have to go to the wal-mart LOL
bunnyplus1
you know who we are, so while you are awaiting a response from the administrator
you can introduce us to any of your friends that may be needing validation, and we will take care of it until you are able to get your VIP.
xoxo
kk
you know who we are, so while you are awaiting a response from the administrator
you can introduce us to any of your friends that may be needing validation, and we will take care of it until you are able to get your VIP.
xoxo
kk
Might be a little late, but we are more than willing to offer up the real seal to couples we have met online or on cam. We prefer the face time, but no biggie either way. Oh and Teq, I've seen web cams for like $10..LOL
its never too late hehehe thinkin we ALL should just go to the walmart to meet LOL
THE2UVUS,
I have too, but quality versus well... shite, is my point. LOL!
-D-
I have too, but quality versus well... shite, is my point. LOL!
-D-
yes web cams have become real cheap but remember you get what you pay for to lol we have been trying to get validated as well but can never seems to find anyone to do it when we both have the time to sit down on cam .. we sent countless pics to the admin when we first got our lifetime membership with no luck .. so maybe we can catch one of you guys on one night when we both have a few min.. if anyone is willing to validate us lol
We will.
-D&T-
-D&T-
kewl thanks don .. the mr likes your posts says he likes the way you speak your mind and thinks its funny how it gets under peoples skin lol
Tell the Mr. that I aim to please. LOL! Seriously though, we should all speak our mind, no matter how skewed our view maybe. An open mind is all that is require for a stimulating conversation.
-D-
-D-
that is so true he said and trust me lol he does it to
We even add one component to the face pics, and thats meeting in a public place that we are going to be in anyway; ie habits or bliss as its looks to be the new friday night thing.
We have refused to meet at a restaurant etc. i mean what do you do if show up 2 on 2 and your repulsed at their little toe oar something. how do you get away without offending someone. At the club at least there are others there and you jsut talk between dances or watching the gals kiss....
We then open our private pics up to the ones we have meet or to the ones that we are going to meet that night. then if a couple of months go by and were not hangin out with them we take that priviledge away. needless to say our friends list is less than 15.
do otheres treat the private pics the same or are we just being prudes.
We have refused to meet at a restaurant etc. i mean what do you do if show up 2 on 2 and your repulsed at their little toe oar something. how do you get away without offending someone. At the club at least there are others there and you jsut talk between dances or watching the gals kiss....
We then open our private pics up to the ones we have meet or to the ones that we are going to meet that night. then if a couple of months go by and were not hangin out with them we take that priviledge away. needless to say our friends list is less than 15.
do otheres treat the private pics the same or are we just being prudes.
personally being brutally honest as we are must see recent pics of the whole entire package talk on the phone and so on.. I totaly understand the whole cam thing for sure.. But we change our pics on a regular basis and keep them current.. Our private pics are always our face shots never left in the open so to see you would have to be a friend to be able to see us..The rest its for yur pleasure and we show it all.. and nothing at the same time hehehe
hmmmmmm wellunless i cant read or im missing something it does not say that only(rob) the owner/adminastrator can only give you a vip symbol here is what it says. The VIP seal stands for 'Validated In Person.' It means you've been validated in person or by webcam (single females & couples only). The REAL seal means you've been validated by a VIP member, webcam or through email. and plus admin was watching us on cam the other night.my point is take 3-years to be validated asa vip or anything else.
joe
joe
Here's an interesting question to pose...
...If someone has met a couple in the past, at a swinging event, even as part of another couple - not Swingular related, and they meet up with that couple a few years later. Could they use that experience to validate the couple in question?
Hmmmmm?
-K_T
...If someone has met a couple in the past, at a swinging event, even as part of another couple - not Swingular related, and they meet up with that couple a few years later. Could they use that experience to validate the couple in question?
Hmmmmm?
-K_T
Misskitty -
As a VIP, I only have the option to give someone a Real seal. Whether I see them in person or on cam.
Only an Admin can give the VIP seal.
As a VIP, I only have the option to give someone a Real seal. Whether I see them in person or on cam.
Only an Admin can give the VIP seal.
Kitty... Again, only Rob can give <img src="images/thvipseal.gif">. We too are VIP and got it from Rob himself. We as VIP can only give you the <img src="images/threalseal.gif">
-D-
-D-
we understand that utyou should agree with us on this in the rules it should say that.plus if you have to meet rob in person that would suck for the members that dont live in utah so i guese they cant get a vip symbol there stuck withareal symbol lol
Yes, although Rob has the prerogative to give it out if he cams with a couple on yahoo. REAL is all ya really need anyway.
-D-
-D-
Real is all we are looking makes it alot easier to find others for sure.. .. Thanks to everyone for the great response and emails and advice we will be getting a cam soon for sure.. K
.. Thanks to everyone for the great response and emails and advice we will be getting a cam soon for sure.. KVal,
Correct you are. Ms. K_T and I have validated a lot of people on here...knowing first hand how difficult it can be (from single guy and single woman perspective) how difficult it can be. We're never hesitant to validate once we've met the person(s) in the profiles. Most of the VIP members we know are more than willing to validate.
But, yes, I imagine Rob is swamped.
Correct you are. Ms. K_T and I have validated a lot of people on here...knowing first hand how difficult it can be (from single guy and single woman perspective) how difficult it can be. We're never hesitant to validate once we've met the person(s) in the profiles. Most of the VIP members we know are more than willing to validate.
But, yes, I imagine Rob is swamped.
:z No worries made it happen hehehe We got our seal of approval now hehehe Now let the Games begin hehehe
We've been members here almost since the site started, and had no problem getting validated.
As for Rob not having time to validate someone, they're online all the time, but you have to log onto YAHOO messenger to catch them and ask for the VIP seal.
As for Rob not having time to validate someone, they're online all the time, but you have to log onto YAHOO messenger to catch them and ask for the VIP seal.
We also have a VIP we dont mind validate people that want to meet face to face.
Thumper
Thumper
Hey THUMP come validate me in person anytime : )
We have validated two couples, and that was only after meeting them face to face..VIPs are around at every venue, just say hi!..
~D&T~
~D&T~
It wasn't so hard, or difficult, Just got the VIP seal... TY Admint
Jamie, where would you like me to stamp the seal ??
Thumper
Thumper
hey tumper how is it going we are at the real status can you give us VIP?
J & P
J & P
I sure would like to lovers But I cant, only admin can give "VIP" seals, VIPs can only give "REAL" seals.... you will have to look for to the Admin to get the "VIP"
sorry
Thumper
sorry
Thumper
RIGHT HERE :z