To us Drama free means that we will not have to explain to our children or other family members who this woman or man is that thinks I or my wife is in love with them and that we are breaking up the family to be with them. Also that our friends in the lifestyle are not going to hear all about how this or that happened when we ourselves did not even know it had taken place. If you cannot watch your partner enjoy someone else don't get started in this, and if you do it just for them then don't put us in the middle of your relationship problems. Drama is acting and in this lifestyle it is acting badly. BTW; good subject.
The way we see it, you know what you are getting into and don't freak out on us at the last minute with all kinds of surprises and do stupid things.
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The words are just a gloss to ease others into considering you. Everyone eperiences drama to some extent or another. Often, those that have those words on their profile, are some of the biggest instigators. No one can guarantee a "drama free" encounter. Shit happens and people clash. Those that tell you that they are "drama free" are fooling you and most likely themselves, if they honestly believe what they're saying.
Consider this... some of the biggest advocates of a "Drama Free" environment are the first to take issue when someone doesn't post in a manner consistent with their idea of proper etiquette, cordiality and especially morality, here in these very forums. Hell, I am probably gonna stir up some shit with them with this post. LOL!
Anyway, I still maintain that people are attracted to drama whether they admit it or not. Otherwise, reality T.V. wouldn't be so popular, people wouldn't know who Jerry Springer was and people like Paris Hilton (a talentless moronic bimbo), wouldn't be plastered all over the television on a daily basis. People like to watch drama, the just don't wanna be on the shit end of it. That is why people write that shit on their profile.... To gloss reality.
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The words are just a gloss to ease others into considering you. Everyone eperiences drama to some extent or another. Often, those that have those words on their profile, are some of the biggest instigators. No one can guarantee a "drama free" encounter. Shit happens and people clash. Those that tell you that they are "drama free" are fooling you and most likely themselves, if they honestly believe what they're saying.
Consider this... some of the biggest advocates of a "Drama Free" environment are the first to take issue when someone doesn't post in a manner consistent with their idea of proper etiquette, cordiality and especially morality, here in these very forums. Hell, I am probably gonna stir up some shit with them with this post. LOL!
Anyway, I still maintain that people are attracted to drama whether they admit it or not. Otherwise, reality T.V. wouldn't be so popular, people wouldn't know who Jerry Springer was and people like Paris Hilton (a talentless moronic bimbo), wouldn't be plastered all over the television on a daily basis. People like to watch drama, the just don't wanna be on the shit end of it. That is why people write that shit on their profile.... To gloss reality.
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For us Drama is the whole falimy and lifes dealings.. Talking about other couples or people you meet that are just not what you were looking for or the lack of sex ect.. Drama is anything other than getting naked and fucking .. Plain and simple thats just the way we like it...
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Which I am sure you have experienced and contribute to yourself right? Everyone has cause and experienced it. For some to speak as though they are free from it, is a testament of just how "in touch" with themselves, these individuals are (not). "Drama Free" people do not exist. A drama free encounter may happen, but there is always potential with anyone.
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P.S. Well said Bunny.
Which I am sure you have experienced and contribute to yourself right? Everyone has cause and experienced it. For some to speak as though they are free from it, is a testament of just how "in touch" with themselves, these individuals are (not). "Drama Free" people do not exist. A drama free encounter may happen, but there is always potential with anyone.
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P.S. Well said Bunny.
This to me is Drama.
I believe couples usually fight about topics, not issues. Then they in turn make their latest dealings the newest Topic and never fix the issue. Then they lay in wait for the next opportunity to attack each other for something stupid.
Couples tend to get upset and fight in front of people and make everyone uncomfortable. If your not on the same page and need to check in, take it outside or to the bathroom or something.
Bringing you emotional baggage around your friends at all is not cool, yes we all are guilty of doing it, but its Drama.
Swinging is about sex, not emotion. sex and love don't have anything to do with each other if sex life is effecting your love life maybe you need to reconsider why you are here.
Just my 2 cents
~K~
I believe couples usually fight about topics, not issues. Then they in turn make their latest dealings the newest Topic and never fix the issue. Then they lay in wait for the next opportunity to attack each other for something stupid.
Couples tend to get upset and fight in front of people and make everyone uncomfortable. If your not on the same page and need to check in, take it outside or to the bathroom or something.
Bringing you emotional baggage around your friends at all is not cool, yes we all are guilty of doing it, but its Drama.
Swinging is about sex, not emotion. sex and love don't have anything to do with each other if sex life is effecting your love life maybe you need to reconsider why you are here.
Just my 2 cents
~K~