We couldn't find any info anywhere on the site about it so we thought we'd ask. No information on google or urban dictionary, either. Is this some kind of coded, hidden term that only the inner swinging echelons get to know? Why won't anyone post about this on the forums?
soft swap is nothing past oral.
ha ha ha ha 

Goodgenes..look a lil harder on this site, you will O.D on the sublect!..lol
Soft swap means you want to do it but you are not ready for your spouse to have intercousrse with someone else. I have found that many soft swap couples one wants to and the other does not. But hey do the oral get off and have fun! You can watch each other screw and still have fun!
Yahoo search soft-swap swinging...you'll get a wealth of references.. 

LMAO
No fucking way, nice one goodgenes, lol
I was thinking of doing the same thing, haha. 2 points for you
I was thinking of doing the same thing, haha. 2 points for you
i thought soft swap was just fucking real gentle like.
Damn GG...I originally typed something to the effect of, "GG...are you seriously asking this question??"!
Haha...nice one
Haha...nice one
soft swap = using lube
hard swap = dry fucking
hard swap = dry fucking
Did this really get started AGAIN???????? OMH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
well, soft swap can b what u want it to b......i agree with trixee, let it b hard and wild and wet..A n S wink wink

as your probably learning by now every one has there own definition of soft swap and in my opinion none of them are wrong
think of it this way soft swap anything YOUR comfortable doing with someone other than your spouse with the exception of sex
i think that might help
think of it this way soft swap anything YOUR comfortable doing with someone other than your spouse with the exception of sex
i think that might help

We agree with you NYMPHOSROCK everybody have there taste and varieties of what soft swap should be and how they want to go about it.
P.S. Nice main photo nymphosrock--very sexy
P.S. Nice main photo nymphosrock--very sexy

If you ever have a chance to meet wolf and his wife in person, you will find out what the perfect definition of soft swap is. They are great!!!
WOW! Thanks for the info! ~ we just assumed it was a function of having pillows on the bed or not. That explains some of the stressed looks we got. LOL Also, somebody better explain to us what "twirler couples" are before we install a giant lazy suzan.
Soft Swap - Guy with ED and forgot to take his magic pill. Sure fire way to get the wife upset because she likes them hard :-)