soft swing you gota be kidding us ..
what is soft swing ... full swing or get of the bed ,,lol
we just wanted to say hi to you all hope the new year brings you new friends ...
what is soft swing ... full swing or get of the bed ,,lol
we just wanted to say hi to you all hope the new year brings you new friends ...
In our opinion: soft swing, in addition to being boring and kind of pointless, is nothing more than a prick tease.
If we need stimulation, we have a porn collection. If a soft swinger gets really adventurous and goes for an hand job or oral- whoopdefuckingdoo. We're in this for the big one.
Most of the soft 'swingers' we have met have been more like the 'Don't fuck my wife but can I fuck yours?' types
Yawnnnnnnnnnn
Damn there I go offending the soft 'swingers' again... Nobody more sensitive around here than the softies
If we need stimulation, we have a porn collection. If a soft swinger gets really adventurous and goes for an hand job or oral- whoopdefuckingdoo. We're in this for the big one.
Most of the soft 'swingers' we have met have been more like the 'Don't fuck my wife but can I fuck yours?' types
Yawnnnnnnnnnn
Damn there I go offending the soft 'swingers' again... Nobody more sensitive around here than the softies
OMG not another soft swap thread 
eating pussy and blowjobs
utfc111.....where the hell is riverton ut???? just wondering if we get the privledge of passing through on one of our trips...mmmm we have been curious for quite some time now... Dennis and Sara
I just have to wonder what it takes to make sex so boring that if you can't have it all right now you would rather have nothing....so sad
I hope I never get that desensitized to good old fashioned foreplay.
I hope I never get that desensitized to good old fashioned foreplay.Foreplay according to one online dictionary: foreplay - mutual sexual fondling prior to sexual intercourse
There you have it. We like foreplay as much as anyone.... as long as it leads to the action that it is 'before.'
For us, swinging includes all that foreplay stuff (sometimes hours and hours of it) as well as the after play stuff- you know: sex. penetration. the big nasty. the trust that comes from sharing these things.
Soft activities are fine, but we really enjoy what comes after. I guaranfuckingtee you that if we played 'soft' with people too often we would get BORED. It is all a lead up to the deed. If the deed is cut short before the deed is done, I'd rather stay home and build a fence.
We understand that real swinging isn't for everyone, and that's ok. We don't suffer from some of the relationship issues that some people seem to.
BTW- before you all get twisted into a soft fuzzy little foreplay knot: please notice that my original post indicated it was an OPINION.
There you have it. We like foreplay as much as anyone.... as long as it leads to the action that it is 'before.'
For us, swinging includes all that foreplay stuff (sometimes hours and hours of it) as well as the after play stuff- you know: sex. penetration. the big nasty. the trust that comes from sharing these things.
Soft activities are fine, but we really enjoy what comes after. I guaranfuckingtee you that if we played 'soft' with people too often we would get BORED. It is all a lead up to the deed. If the deed is cut short before the deed is done, I'd rather stay home and build a fence.
We understand that real swinging isn't for everyone, and that's ok. We don't suffer from some of the relationship issues that some people seem to.
BTW- before you all get twisted into a soft fuzzy little foreplay knot: please notice that my original post indicated it was an OPINION.
from what i have seen alot of people who put soft swing on thier profiles is bacause they want to test the waters before diving in see how the couples they are with act during forplay, if they are too agressive, to rough, lousy kissers ect. why go further not all of them stand with the rule soft swing only its an option to see how they get along with the other couple stop see how thier partners felt about who they were with and IF they all agree maybe thenext time going further will be what they all strive for. besides its all a matter of personal preference. As for the i want to fuck your wife but dont touch mine you get that from all types no matter hwat they put in thier profiles
Just an observation i have Jim
Just an observation i have Jim
we will keep that in mind thanks
Theres 11 pages of this thread that was just finished..not even gonna go here again..lol. Any NEW subjects out there?
LOL wolfmajestic....
Soft Swap=Have great sex everyday. Not desperate enough to venture into unfamiliar territory just to get our rocks off.
Random, unfamiliar sex is not fun, its awkward and hard to get in sync. Why would I pass up a T-bone for what most of the time ends up being hamburger?
Random, unfamiliar sex is not fun, its awkward and hard to get in sync. Why would I pass up a T-bone for what most of the time ends up being hamburger?
Isn't a soft swing the black thing you hang from the ceiling that holds the legs up?
So by that definition, full swap=don't have great sex every day....I call bullshit on this one!!!!! Desperate and need to get our rocks off???????? DAMNIT! And here I thought it didn't show :P
sorry, had to tease a litttle bit, I can't believe this subject causes so much fucking stress in the forums.......who the hell cares who is soft swap, full swap, bi swap, crazy swap or whatever else as long as the couple YOU choose to be with is on your level???????
sorry, had to tease a litttle bit, I can't believe this subject causes so much fucking stress in the forums.......who the hell cares who is soft swap, full swap, bi swap, crazy swap or whatever else as long as the couple YOU choose to be with is on your level???????
lol brent, on the soft swing issue, some people are sooo black or white....try it ya just might like it....wink wink...mrs. tart
two4fun,
I only posted that because if you have the "Go big or go home" attitude towards sex, well seems like desperation to me...makes me wonder how boring someones sex life really is if only full swapping will do it for you.
I only posted that because if you have the "Go big or go home" attitude towards sex, well seems like desperation to me...makes me wonder how boring someones sex life really is if only full swapping will do it for you.
Classy- you really think that 'hard' swingers actually have random sex ???
We've never done anything random or haphazardly or out of desperation. We choose our partners carefully, get to know them and when the time is just right, we go for the gold.
Nothing awkward or uncomfortable about it. Everyone knows what's going to happen- fucking isn't that big a deal, we've all done it a time or two.
We're not afraid of fucking new people, you are. Big difference. Again: our OPINION is that soft swap is a big tease. Mrs U has expressed her displeasure many times when things ended up with foreplay rather than culminating in some of that random, awkward penetration....
Most of the time we risk getting arrested after such an incident by getting it on in the car....
Now that's a reason to follow through after getting the motors running- it isn't worth spending the night in jail for reckless driving or indecent exposure just because our chosen partners are afraid of penetrating each other.
I'm done bitching about this. Off to fuck someone. You softies have fun groping each other.
We've never done anything random or haphazardly or out of desperation. We choose our partners carefully, get to know them and when the time is just right, we go for the gold.
Nothing awkward or uncomfortable about it. Everyone knows what's going to happen- fucking isn't that big a deal, we've all done it a time or two.
We're not afraid of fucking new people, you are. Big difference. Again: our OPINION is that soft swap is a big tease. Mrs U has expressed her displeasure many times when things ended up with foreplay rather than culminating in some of that random, awkward penetration....
Most of the time we risk getting arrested after such an incident by getting it on in the car....
Now that's a reason to follow through after getting the motors running- it isn't worth spending the night in jail for reckless driving or indecent exposure just because our chosen partners are afraid of penetrating each other.
I'm done bitching about this. Off to fuck someone. You softies have fun groping each other.
I think intercourse or anticipated intercourse actually has to happen for FOREPLAY to occur...right? Otherwise...it's just "petting".
Wow...flashback to High School.
Oh...and the intercourse HAS to happen WITH whom you are foreplaying! Otherwise, it's just petting and then going home or to the next room and having intercourse with your spouse/partner.
As CLASSY so "eloquently" put it...the "go big or go home" attitude is hardly desperation.
Puhleeze Classy...I wish you'd fill in a few more details on that line of reasoning. I find it jumping to conclusions and probably informed by a distasteful experience in the past.
We know several of the couples on here that have said that they don't soft swap, and can attest to the fact that they are not:
#1) DESPERATE
#2) BORED IN THEIR SEX LIFE
#3) ALL ABOUT THE GO BIG OR GO HOME ATTITUDE.
All they have said is that it's a "why bother?" situation.
A cock teasing situation at best.
We're of the same feeling, and it's funny how offended some of the soft swappers get because the full swappers don't wanna participate in what they have to offer. Almost sounds like that old argument from single individuals of a particular gender that often whine about nobody wanting what they have to offer.
As I mentioned...Siren and I are full swap, and are NOT desperate nor bored in our sex lives.
Merely a choice...like yours to stop at what you call "foreplay".
~J~
Wow...flashback to High School.
Oh...and the intercourse HAS to happen WITH whom you are foreplaying! Otherwise, it's just petting and then going home or to the next room and having intercourse with your spouse/partner.
As CLASSY so "eloquently" put it...the "go big or go home" attitude is hardly desperation.
Puhleeze Classy...I wish you'd fill in a few more details on that line of reasoning. I find it jumping to conclusions and probably informed by a distasteful experience in the past.
We know several of the couples on here that have said that they don't soft swap, and can attest to the fact that they are not:
#1) DESPERATE
#2) BORED IN THEIR SEX LIFE
#3) ALL ABOUT THE GO BIG OR GO HOME ATTITUDE.
All they have said is that it's a "why bother?" situation.
A cock teasing situation at best.
We're of the same feeling, and it's funny how offended some of the soft swappers get because the full swappers don't wanna participate in what they have to offer. Almost sounds like that old argument from single individuals of a particular gender that often whine about nobody wanting what they have to offer.
As I mentioned...Siren and I are full swap, and are NOT desperate nor bored in our sex lives.
Merely a choice...like yours to stop at what you call "foreplay".
~J~
Sometimes the "go big or go home attitude" is awesome...sometimes that's just what the evening calls for. But that doesn't mean that the sex life at home is boring....I know, just speaking for us, that it is anything but......it's new and fresh and exciting, and god hot, hot, hot.....did I mention hot? every time. But we'll play full swap, soft swap, girl play....whatever the moment calls for when the moment calls for it....not because we're bored, but because we want more, more, more, more, more...
Okay, so we're sluts. Maybe that's just it (yes, yes I'm kidding again.....well, sort of )
But honestly, neither side of this full swap/soft swap issue should be trying to knock the other side....at least until you try it
Just my .02 cents
Okay, so we're sluts. Maybe that's just it (yes, yes I'm kidding again.....well, sort of
)But honestly, neither side of this full swap/soft swap issue should be trying to knock the other side....at least until you try it
Just my .02 cents