It depends. My usual is 27-47. Thats 10 above and ten below. However I have meet MANY hot women who are over 47 and have asked for the honor to play with them. I think height and weight proportion is more important. And even more important is Hip to waist ratio. That is when looking at photos.
To many other factors come into play to say its just one thing that makes me go for a woman.
you will have to pm me if you want me to tell you what really happens in the decision making process...Hmmmm
To many other factors come into play to say its just one thing that makes me go for a woman.
you will have to pm me if you want me to tell you what really happens in the decision making process...Hmmmm
Well I hope I'm not too old..?
Age is only a number in my mind as long as the couple (people) have taken care of themself/selves. I've seen many older couples and ladies I would enjoy spending time with, and I've seen younger couples and ladies I hope dont contact me.
Its all in how well maintained the people are. IF they are HWP I'm ok from 21 to 60 something (damn did I just say that out loud? lol) It also says alot if the couple has a sense of humor, and look much younger than they really are, of course it doesnt hurt if they act much younger than they really are.
Now as for the 21 age barrier, if the person is NOT older enough to buy their own alcohol, I'm not interested, as I'm not going to jail for anyone especially for charges of serving alcohol to minors.
JMHO
Its all in how well maintained the people are. IF they are HWP I'm ok from 21 to 60 something (damn did I just say that out loud? lol) It also says alot if the couple has a sense of humor, and look much younger than they really are, of course it doesnt hurt if they act much younger than they really are.
Now as for the 21 age barrier, if the person is NOT older enough to buy their own alcohol, I'm not interested, as I'm not going to jail for anyone especially for charges of serving alcohol to minors.
JMHO
We've had playmates as young as their early 20's. This is rare though as most younger folks we meet don't seem to be wrapped tight enough for this. On the other end, we've been with folks in their 70's and really had a great time. Age is just a number.
To us, it isn't so much the age, but a combination of everything that helps us decide who we would like to play with 
Though, it does seem that older couples seem to be more grounded and know what they want.. (without drama).
So to us, age isn't really a factor, if we are attracted to them, and we all have a few things in common, and there without drama lol, let's go !!
Though, it does seem that older couples seem to be more grounded and know what they want.. (without drama).
So to us, age isn't really a factor, if we are attracted to them, and we all have a few things in common, and there without drama lol, let's go !!
I'm 59 years young. But sexual health knows no limits. I certainly don't disdain playing with couples in their 20's, despite their lack of experience and finesse. What is more important than age is maturity and realizing that it AIN'T ABOUT YOU. Be open, be honest, be ready to experience things on a different level.
Hey sexy WEFLY! How are you guys? You guys coming to the sugar and spice xxxxmas party? 
NO way S... 69 is a great age!!!!
Age is mearly a number, and we have had wonderful older people that will absolutely rock your world, on the same token, younger couples are absolutely fantastic!!, and we are totally for passing on this fantastic lifestyle to the next generation!..lol
~D&T~
~D&T~
1SEXYMRS, Would you believe our cut off for age is 47 for the female and 50 for the male? 
We are not the youngest couple on the block but we seem to have quite a bit of fun. I'm also poly over 60 and have one girlfriend who is 46 and another who is 38. My oldest child is 42 and my youngest is 34... I have no problem with age at all and apparently they have no problem with my age either. We seem to do alright at the clubs as well... Yes my wife looks great and could be a drawing card but I have been approached as well. What can I draw from this experience... I guess that age is secondary to personality, humor, intelligence and just plain respect for others.
The age that is too old is for those who fell too old, who act too old and who think of themselves as something other than desirable... For the men... if you can't cut the mustard... you're never too old to lick the jar it came in... Oh, and another thing... Guys.... Women are not about destinations, most of the time, It all about the journey....
Damn I just finish and there is someone who tells it like it is... Kisses, Hugs and LiXXX
The age that is too old is for those who fell too old, who act too old and who think of themselves as something other than desirable... For the men... if you can't cut the mustard... you're never too old to lick the jar it came in... Oh, and another thing... Guys.... Women are not about destinations, most of the time, It all about the journey....
Damn I just finish and there is someone who tells it like it is... Kisses, Hugs and LiXXX
Can I have an AMEN from the Congregation ? ? ? AMEN AMEN AMEN my brother ! ! !
jim
jim
Looks like we need to move further west a lot of you seem to be more open minded when it comes to age. Most younger cpls in our parts of Florida are too busy looking for young Ken and Barbie types don't get us wrong we have our full share of fun but we know some cpls in the 30-40 range in this area consider us too old hell my wife looks younger than most of them lol and she is approaching 50 :-)
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
1SEXYMRS, what a coincidence
For me,(Mrs.) USUALLY if the guy is the same age as my dad or older, it creeps me out....silly I know. I don't seem to have that same problem with the gal, although I think my "age cap" is late 30's....there are some exceptions and you know who you are
For the Mr. he doesn't seem to have a problem with age.
For both of us, taking care of yourself and having fun has alot to do with our "play with" factor. If you are 25 and suck to hang out with, we aren't interested. If you are 10-15 years older than us and we have a blast with ya, there could be playing in our future!!
For the Mr. he doesn't seem to have a problem with age.
For both of us, taking care of yourself and having fun has alot to do with our "play with" factor. If you are 25 and suck to hang out with, we aren't interested. If you are 10-15 years older than us and we have a blast with ya, there could be playing in our future!!
1sexymrs, if you guys are over the hill, what does that make us.... in the hospital or in the marble orchard? I figure we'll be over the hill when we can no longer walk, talk or lose all interest. As for what others think... I guess I'm pretty much with TR... who cares what others think....
Look close, you will see what apparently is too old....
1sexymrs....I said there were exceptions now didn't I?
Just because I say that being hit on by some one as old as my Dad creeps me out doesn't mean that its the same for everyone in the lifestyle. Everyone is different, my opinions are just that, MINE. Doesn't mean that I will ignore everyone over 40...just means that we might need to do more talking and flirting first before the fun stuff begins.
Don't wanna cause feelings here....
Just because I say that being hit on by some one as old as my Dad creeps me out doesn't mean that its the same for everyone in the lifestyle. Everyone is different, my opinions are just that, MINE. Doesn't mean that I will ignore everyone over 40...just means that we might need to do more talking and flirting first before the fun stuff begins.
Don't wanna cause feelings here....
Maybe the best way is to look at the person's photo and decide if you think they look too old for your liking. If so, politely pass on them, if not, let the games begin.
BUNNYPLUS1...I couldn't have put it better myself...nor made it any funnier. Thanks, I needed the midday chuckle!
Who cares how old someone is as long as things click then we will enjoy the fun!
hell ya all hope your not to old or to young.... now I not only gotta think about that one but now I have to wonder if I'm to fat as well :l
For us its usually 10 years above or below like another responder, we have had many much younger that were interested but the line was mutually drawn at the youngsters and so we don't cross it.
Age for us really doesnt matter, with basically one exeption and that is must not be to young as to where my ass is sitting in jail. But not many younger people like to hang with us old farts either. just my 2 cents
Age has no meaning. Mature couples have the expertise and experience to make a 20 year old beg for more. Be open and explore what mature couples have learned and experienced over the years. You you become a better lover!!!!
Ray & Di
Ray & Di
He prefers a more mature lady...BUT she is moreso into someone our age...So it really depends on the person...
I agree it really depends on the person..
If she takes her teethe out before she goes down on me and/or he tells my wife to keep the tip and walks off with a headless cock... That's too old..
WEARETHROBBING.............. Fantastic reply!!!!!!! COOL!
It's ALL relative.
It's ALL relative.
wearethrobbing....VERY good comment, I wish most people thought as you guys do on here. This isn't a beauty contest and we all don't look like ken and barbie.
To answer the question we prefer someone that can carry on a mature conversation and also that I don't have to use CPR on while in the bedroom.....LOL So age doesnt matter to us.
To answer the question we prefer someone that can carry on a mature conversation and also that I don't have to use CPR on while in the bedroom.....LOL So age doesnt matter to us.
i call b.s. on "weflys" age no fing way shes 69, him either!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOT!!
The age thing dosen't concern us at all as long as there is no pig tails (except Halloween) or walkers. My hubby and I are 19 years apart in age, and he jokes he married me so I could take care of him when he did get old. LOL. We have had issues with us being accepted though. Most of the people my age think he's to old, people his age are thrilled to pieces (except for the few that the wives said no, I was to young. And I just think that was a hang up on their part.). But hey, I have had a wonderful time with the older couples that we have met, and the LS has been sweet to us. I would like the chance to play with some younger folks just to see what it's like. The youngest we've been with is mid to late 30s. But hey, age dosen't really matter. I like to think that I have learned a few "techniques" from our more experienced frineds. Shamie