There are no rules per se, which specifically forbid that...just perhaps unwritten guidelines, which I don't think you need to be Einstein to figure out.
As a hubby...who has had males attempt to contact my wife on the side and talk dirty to her, I'd have to say that it's probably not apropos to do so without knowing either the couple or do it without the hubby's knowledge.
We put in our profile that we got into swinging as a couple and play as a couple. We did so in part because this scenario has happened. If wifee enjoys talking dirty to a male friend...it's fine by me, and chances are I'll know about it as we often share conversations we have.
What I DO take exception to however are the guys that seemingly try to circumvent not only US as a couple but me as her hubby. That's sneaky, dishonest...and really torques my ass (and my wife's as well); I have to wonder what their hidden agenda might be?
I'm not saying that this is what you do, merely to suggest that you make a conscientous effort to make sure everyone is cool with it. Also, keep in mind that that ladies that you talk dirty to ARE somebodies loved one and special person, and be respectful...always!
~J~
As a hubby...who has had males attempt to contact my wife on the side and talk dirty to her, I'd have to say that it's probably not apropos to do so without knowing either the couple or do it without the hubby's knowledge.
We put in our profile that we got into swinging as a couple and play as a couple. We did so in part because this scenario has happened. If wifee enjoys talking dirty to a male friend...it's fine by me, and chances are I'll know about it as we often share conversations we have.
What I DO take exception to however are the guys that seemingly try to circumvent not only US as a couple but me as her hubby. That's sneaky, dishonest...and really torques my ass (and my wife's as well); I have to wonder what their hidden agenda might be?
I'm not saying that this is what you do, merely to suggest that you make a conscientous effort to make sure everyone is cool with it. Also, keep in mind that that ladies that you talk dirty to ARE somebodies loved one and special person, and be respectful...always!
~J~
Thoughtgarden,
Couldnt agree with you more... however on a lighter note... How about Mrs Drew torques your ass
Couldnt agree with you more... however on a lighter note... How about Mrs Drew torques your ass
lol!
i'd love to tongue your ass J.
THOUGHTGARDEN we love your pics, who is the photographer, the wife or the hubby? You guys always have great pictures.
SOUTHERNFOX,
You said:
"If you all look down on me for that well then I guess that says it all that all
I dont see how anyone in this thread is looking down at you.
You also state:
"There are lines that I will not cross and I would not do anything to make the females uncomfortable."
How do you know what will make Mrs Drew uncomfortable, vs Mrs Thoughtgarden, vs. Mrs Tubs, vs Your sexy wife?
You further went on to state:
"If you aren't Ken and Barbie or rich then you are the bottom of the barrel"
?????? What are you talking about? This thread was about you talking to women in a "nasty" manner, who are members of this site. There was 1 reply that others agreed with and tried to turn into a happy thread. How does this statement have anything to do with it?
You said:
"If you all look down on me for that well then I guess that says it all that all
I dont see how anyone in this thread is looking down at you.
You also state:
"There are lines that I will not cross and I would not do anything to make the females uncomfortable."
How do you know what will make Mrs Drew uncomfortable, vs Mrs Thoughtgarden, vs. Mrs Tubs, vs Your sexy wife?
You further went on to state:
"If you aren't Ken and Barbie or rich then you are the bottom of the barrel"
?????? What are you talking about? This thread was about you talking to women in a "nasty" manner, who are members of this site. There was 1 reply that others agreed with and tried to turn into a happy thread. How does this statement have anything to do with it?
Southern: HUH?!?
Nayir: Thank you. Sirensextress and I are both afficionados of photography.
Drew: Jenn may torque my ass anytime!
Nayir: Thank you. Sirensextress and I are both afficionados of photography.
Drew: Jenn may torque my ass anytime!
In all honesty, there may be a rule about that depending on the wife of the couple you're talking to. Some couples have more rules than others and some women enjoy that kind of thing and others don't.
So, the long and short of it is, feel free to ask the woman you're interested in doing that with if she's open to that, but just know that not all women are into it and not all couples allow that kind of thing in their lifestyle activities.
-SG
So, the long and short of it is, feel free to ask the woman you're interested in doing that with if she's open to that, but just know that not all women are into it and not all couples allow that kind of thing in their lifestyle activities.
-SG
This thread makes my balls itch!
In a good way or bad way??