Adding a photo of you two might be a good way to improve your search odds 
As well as some content to your profile.
Good luck in your search for the single female. Your looking for a needle in a hay stack LOL you might try really opening up and instead of being one way look for a fun couple that you both enjoy. Just a thought.
Just curious .. how is it different in " trusting your mate" than with a mff? As a couple we have had more MFM 3sums than anything and really dont see how a Trust issue is any different isnt open comunication and honesty the most important part of this type of lifestyle that and love for your partner ... sorry curious if we see it different than most
Jim and Terrie
Jim and Terrie
finding a single female would be like Elway coming out of retirement and taking us back to the superbowl. LOL 
Well-put KNIGHT...we were also thinking it'd be interesting to know if it was the male or female aspect of NOSNAR that posted that?
Why would one want or need to "test" their mate in the first place? And what exactly would they be testing?
Stamina?
Technique?
Jealous tendencies?
Or overall fidelity?
I'd sure hate to be the guinea pig being the single male/female in ANY couples bed such as that. Smells of drama and potentially unresolved swinging issues.
~J~
Why would one want or need to "test" their mate in the first place? And what exactly would they be testing?
Stamina?
Technique?
Jealous tendencies?
Or overall fidelity?
I'd sure hate to be the guinea pig being the single male/female in ANY couples bed such as that. Smells of drama and potentially unresolved swinging issues.
~J~
WOW How the hell did this get to be a trust issue? I don't think any of us would really be that stupid as to think that you could be in this lifestyle if you didn't completely trust your partner and if they are!!!!!!!!!!!! get some help because you've got problem. We are her for the SEX with other people and we prefer couple's and even better we like to go to house parties were there are a lot of couples that's even more for everyone to choose from. We miss you Jared and Lisa hope you can come and visit us soon Russ/Kim and yes this is Russ writting
Thanks you guys...we miss you too. We're planning on being through Utah around April or so...