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i was just wondering if there was a good effective way to tell who is phonie and who is real thing so i figured this would be the best way to find out



crazy mj
Ok, I will bite...how do you propose to do that?

I don't really bite...but if I did, I've had all my shots! :D

If we can spell phoney, do we pass the test?
Good question......just because we dont have pics in our public file doesnt mean were not real.
to separate the single women from the men posing as single women I request a photo with them holding a sign with a written message with a word I provide.

Turns out they're all men posing as single women... Good luck
Good question......just because we dont have pics in our public file doesnt mean were not real.
I cant understand why single guys would waste their time???
Put your cell phone number out there and ask to speak to both parties.
Well, thats whay meet-n-greets are for. Also, what do you lose if you DO meet an fake? just say no and blow em off.

Its hilarious how the fakes put so much effort in trying to meet and hoping all the BS is just enough to work for them... They'd have better luck at a bar.
The "REAL" seal a.k.a. <img src="images/threalseal.gif"> or the "VIP" (<b>V</b>erified <b>I</b>n <b>P</b>erson) seal a.k.a. <img src="images/thvipseal.gif"> is a better indicator, though does not validate the couple 100% as relationships change, people break up etc. Common sense applies to this one. You should never meet anyone, for the first time, in a private location, regardless of whether you think they are real or not. Parties, Clubs and other public venues are the best way to distinguish real from fake.

-D-
yup :) agreed.
There are other indicators. Take <a href="profile.php?memberid=639ef5ea-8282-8373-dc6f-e05e9f1e7ed9" target="_blank">this</a> profile for example. Can you tell me what's wrong with it?

-D-
wow i can't spell but once again the people that are on these orums are great and really give good ideas thanks you all are awsome



p.ps. that profile is funny

crazy
Hahah! That profile reminded me of an old story series I once read, Bastard Ops from hell
or BOFH... One story had this one guy walking around pretending to be a sheik hoping to get laid. hilarious.
She needs a shave, real bad! :!
I can tell you that people who aren't being honest, men and women alike, tend to be impatient with the 'process' of getting to know you. They get pushy and agressive but are unwiling to share photos or phone numbers and seem to demand yours. They are online at odd hours and suddenly disappear for no reason.

While it's time consuming, frustrating and otherwise a pain in the ass, finding real people who are going to be respectful is worth the effort!

Good Luck!

-Te
well the real or vip rating would be nice if you could get someone to anwser a email but i guess when you are so busy fucking off you really dont have the time cause fucking off is a art and you know what they say about artist. as for finding out who is real and who are bullshit artist is simple if you ask and they keep coming up with excuses then you know they are not real. and we have found that if you are not in the age,body,political, in the click and or a number of other thing you are how you you say it out in the cold. but then my old grand dad passed one of the most inportant thing a person can be armed with in life, the ability to spot a bullshit artist after a five min. of chit chat. but then that is how we see it.
I am a phonie....

LOL

I have a real picture and not afraid to give out my number... But I have to wonder.. Why the hell are guys acting as single girls...

LOL
Kitty,

you wrote:

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That's not necessarily the case. People can also do that if they are not interested in meeting you. LOL! I know some people will shine you on if they don't want to meet you.

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Tara...

DAMN girl, I forgot about that till you mentioned it... LOL... I KNOW... and he was so cute too!! I should have known something was up when the work thing came up huh? <sigh>

Ahh well! It's on to the next, not real hottie... you tag em girl... I'll bag em or er... share em with ya... <snicker>

-Te
Hi ya!

We always require a phone call, and to speak to both M & F.

Found this weeds out about 80% of the people we have talked 2 lol

Best of luck !!
There are a lot of phonies out there for some reason....

We have found that there are varying degrees of that too. Typically the phonies won't go deep and tend to focus on one thing, if you do chat with them they wonder off if your not in tune with what they want to talk about.

Few if any pics and always have a excuse as you why no (or at least not recent) pics.

Now, don't anyone go and get their panties in a wad and post a bunch of retorts stating that they "have" their reasons for not posting pics but they are real. We all realize that there are "real" couples out there without pics...but to stick with the point of the original post here, there should be a way of reporting people whom you find to be "fake" to the admin and have them removed.

That's my 2 cents