Would it be possible to include some type of rating system that is visible in a search but only to the person who placed the rating on a profile? A simple 1-10 or HOT, POSSIBLE, NO WAY would work quite well.
Rating people seems kinda shallow to us, plus, different people have different tastes in what they're looking for i.e. your 8 might be our 4, and visa versa, hopefully you aren't deciding on who you sleep with based only on looks. If so, you're missing out on a lot of cool people, and possibly some awesome erotic encounters.
Sandro that was exactly what I meant. It seems to work extremely well on Swappernet.com.
if that's the case, then i apologize completely
Personally, I think that it should be a private type. Public would cause too many hard feelings and unnecessary inquiries. A 1-10, 1-5, or even A-F could work.