I think you should just tell them descretly. Most everyone in the lifestyle should be very understanding of this. A lot of people in my area have to sign morality clauses for their work or have a very public side and descretion is a must. plus no everyone wants everyone to know who they are having fun with. I belive what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. hope this helps.
I've never run across anyone who isn't understanding in this situation. If you tell your lifestyle friends that your other friends are vanilla, and you wish to be discreet, I don't see how anyone worth their weight wouldn't agree to respect your wishes.
Just be honest and open with your lifestyle friends (and your vanilla friends, should they start asking).
-K_T
Just be honest and open with your lifestyle friends (and your vanilla friends, should they start asking).
-K_T