I have been given a lot of shit lately for a comment I made in a forum post about being picky and looking for Hotties....I cant help but wonder why this offends people.
Why does anyone care if we are looking for Hotties, clowns, or hairy old man balls? isn't that a personal preference type of thing?
People have honestly tried to make me feel bad about myself.........WHY?
I have heard people use the phrase "Ken and Barbie syndrome" in the forum before, this tells me that it bothers enough people enough of the time they made up a phrase as a "shot" to people like us (obviously) who have the nerve to let it be known that they would prefer couples who are "easy on the eyes."
In my own defense I am every bit as picky about personality types, nothing wrong with that right?
I would be willing to bet that 80% of the people on this site would prefer "Hotties" and just don't say so. (you know who you are)
All I can say is at least I am honest about what I want, and how many of you can really say that?
So here I go opening another can of worms, but.......what do you have to say about this "Ken and Barbie" thing? Is it a real affliction, or made up by people with low self esteem?
~K~
Why does anyone care if we are looking for Hotties, clowns, or hairy old man balls? isn't that a personal preference type of thing?
People have honestly tried to make me feel bad about myself.........WHY?
I have heard people use the phrase "Ken and Barbie syndrome" in the forum before, this tells me that it bothers enough people enough of the time they made up a phrase as a "shot" to people like us (obviously) who have the nerve to let it be known that they would prefer couples who are "easy on the eyes."
In my own defense I am every bit as picky about personality types, nothing wrong with that right?
I would be willing to bet that 80% of the people on this site would prefer "Hotties" and just don't say so. (you know who you are)
All I can say is at least I am honest about what I want, and how many of you can really say that?
So here I go opening another can of worms, but.......what do you have to say about this "Ken and Barbie" thing? Is it a real affliction, or made up by people with low self esteem?
~K~
You are absolutely right, you have every right to want something hot, doesn't everyone? Yes I think people are of low self esteem if they think badly of you for this. Personally I think all of us have are prefences and we are just plan afraid to spell them out! Sign Kar
So I went back to you looking for that post I could not find it.... I not you to put call you "Ken and Barbie syndrome".....But is that I have to say (may 2 cents)....... in my mind the "Ken and Barbie syndrome" is when you see couple if there not 10's they are 1's there is nothing in the middle and you act like clueless chick sheer a total bitch and like your better then them.....
Now you have all the right in the world to be choice who you swing with and you
Now you have all the right in the world to be choice who you swing with and you
It is pretty simple....We all have the right to choose who we meet and move forward with, we all have different things that attract us. You should not feel guilty at all for who you choose to meet or not meet, as long any contact with someone is respectful. Michele and I are not Ken and Barbie we are both bigger folks, but we too have things we are looking for before we will meet someone, we all do. It is a simple fact, we have been told not interested and have let others know we dont think it will work, it is part of the deal here.
Clay and Michele
Clay and Michele
Ken and Barbie are dolls, they are plastic, Ken has no cock and Barbie has no vjayjay. If you want plastic dolls, help yourself, it is your life and you can do what ever you want to do. Enough said.
Well first thing is that you both are active in the threads here and you know the saying, if you are not the lead dog then the view never changes. We consider you to be one of the lead dogs on this site so when you post, even if we do not agree, we do appreciate you taking the time to keep this site active and entertaining. Of course when you are one of the leaders it seems to put a bullseye on your back. so criticism should be expected but in a respectfull manner would be nice. If you don`t plan on meeting any of the people giving you a hard time then the hell with them. I don`t care if a stranger likes me or not. Now my friends are a different story.
You already know that it is your decision who you meet and nobody elses business and all that so I won`t bother to write it all again. I have not read your profile but if you say on it that you are looking for hotties then someone you might think is a hottie but they don`t see themselves that way could pass you by thinking you would never be interested.
Our take on the syndrome is that couples sometimes overrate themselves and when they start listing a million qualitites they seek we sit back and look at them and laugh. So much emphasis is put on height and weight but just because you are skinny does not mean you clean yourself or have at least half your teeth. And some guys think they look good because they are thin but when I was thinner I had a lot of muscle mass but to be thin with man boobs and consider oneself in shape or hot is funny. If I had the choice between a Barbie that just lay there and was a dead fuck or a bbw that got into it and was a lot of fun my choice would be the bbw every time. Aren`t we in this to have fun and some to make new friends? Maybe we should start posting that we are looking for people with similar interests and want and know how to have fun. Maybe you won`t get attacked.......or not as hard if you worded it like that. Anyway, thanks for giving us something to talk about and keeping these threads going.
Joe
You already know that it is your decision who you meet and nobody elses business and all that so I won`t bother to write it all again. I have not read your profile but if you say on it that you are looking for hotties then someone you might think is a hottie but they don`t see themselves that way could pass you by thinking you would never be interested.
Our take on the syndrome is that couples sometimes overrate themselves and when they start listing a million qualitites they seek we sit back and look at them and laugh. So much emphasis is put on height and weight but just because you are skinny does not mean you clean yourself or have at least half your teeth. And some guys think they look good because they are thin but when I was thinner I had a lot of muscle mass but to be thin with man boobs and consider oneself in shape or hot is funny. If I had the choice between a Barbie that just lay there and was a dead fuck or a bbw that got into it and was a lot of fun my choice would be the bbw every time. Aren`t we in this to have fun and some to make new friends? Maybe we should start posting that we are looking for people with similar interests and want and know how to have fun. Maybe you won`t get attacked.......or not as hard if you worded it like that. Anyway, thanks for giving us something to talk about and keeping these threads going.
Joe
Mickylee,
Just to clarify, we are not looking for Ken and Barbie, but also not looking for Kermit and Piggy. (also not looking for single males that look like Gollum)
We are looking for people like us, fun, classy, pleasant, pleasing to the eye, funny would help, not stuck up, not desperate, old but not too old, young but not too young, well.......shit, maybe we are looking for a unicorn in a pen full of goats?
Oh well....HAPPY SWINGING ANYWAY!
~K~
Just to clarify, we are not looking for Ken and Barbie, but also not looking for Kermit and Piggy. (also not looking for single males that look like Gollum)
We are looking for people like us, fun, classy, pleasant, pleasing to the eye, funny would help, not stuck up, not desperate, old but not too old, young but not too young, well.......shit, maybe we are looking for a unicorn in a pen full of goats?
Oh well....HAPPY SWINGING ANYWAY!
~K~
Bah bah bah
P.S.
Was kidding about the Goat thing, please dont send hate mail!
Was kidding about the Goat thing, please dont send hate mail!
As mentioned above, Ken and Barbie are plastic. In a lot of cases, not all, those plastic bodies come complete with plastic personalities. Just my .02
CLASSY,
We agree with you 100%. Our rule is apples for apples. Who wants to swing and trade their partner for a rotten melon? The funny thing about the "Ken and Barbie" syndrome is, even if you don't act pretentious, and have the horrible affliction of having a hot wife, or as a couple, have above average looks, will get penned "the Barbie" couple even if you don't ask for it. I think it is insecurity and jealousy all coming out. So if anyone is giving you shit about trying to find something hot or hottie-like, fuck-em! They can continue doing Ma and Pa kettle and having barn parties! You can tell I'm a little bitter about this subject because we've been given a lot of shit about thinking we are better than everyone, when everyone that knows us, knows we are far from being stuck up assholes. Oh, and we think you both are Ken and Barbie, and we are Rocker Ken and Malibu Barbie. Want to have a Barbie fuck party? LOL
BTW, since we're on your "preferred" list, when do we really get to play?
PS - YOUNGANDSEXY, WTF? Can you translate that garbble into English? Thanks.
Mr. UtHot ~
"The greatest deception men suffer is from their own opinions". -Leonardo da Vinci-
We agree with you 100%. Our rule is apples for apples. Who wants to swing and trade their partner for a rotten melon? The funny thing about the "Ken and Barbie" syndrome is, even if you don't act pretentious, and have the horrible affliction of having a hot wife, or as a couple, have above average looks, will get penned "the Barbie" couple even if you don't ask for it. I think it is insecurity and jealousy all coming out. So if anyone is giving you shit about trying to find something hot or hottie-like, fuck-em! They can continue doing Ma and Pa kettle and having barn parties! You can tell I'm a little bitter about this subject because we've been given a lot of shit about thinking we are better than everyone, when everyone that knows us, knows we are far from being stuck up assholes. Oh, and we think you both are Ken and Barbie, and we are Rocker Ken and Malibu Barbie. Want to have a Barbie fuck party? LOL
BTW, since we're on your "preferred" list, when do we really get to play?
PS - YOUNGANDSEXY, WTF? Can you translate that garbble into English? Thanks.
Mr. UtHot ~
"The greatest deception men suffer is from their own opinions". -Leonardo da Vinci-
people who want to only hook up or associate with "ken & Barbie" types are fine to us except when they "think" that they are the hottest thing since sliced bread and the truth is they must not have a Mirror in the house. The classic line is "take a look at our pictures if you don't compare don't contact us"
We are average and we would never make a statement that we are better looking than anyone because (and i know it a cliche) but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
for example the Mrs thinks I'm good looking... (I think she needs glasses)
We are average and we would never make a statement that we are better looking than anyone because (and i know it a cliche) but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
for example the Mrs thinks I'm good looking... (I think she needs glasses)
cant we all get along. if everyone liked the same thing you would all want to be married to my wife .she has her hands full with me think about it lol .
Hey flcpl, your wife must use the same eye doctor as my wife or else our perfect heads that don`t need to be hidden by hair are in style.
As someone said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder...Or beerholder...whatever the case may be...
Coming from an average guy viewpoint, I would not call you Ken and Barbie (nor you UTEXTREME) but you seem to think you are...so thats cool...I think the whole Ken and Barbie syndrome is based not on what you hang out with, but your attitude towards those who are not Ken and Barbie...Have not seen neither of you act, as we are in Florida, sort of a long way to see, BUT have seen many act in that manner...once...Ken and Barbie asked US to play with them, fucked our heads up so bad, we couldn't accept the invite...So maybe that plays a part...Who the hell knows...
I had a point, but I lost it...
P.S.- I repeatedly tell my gal to get new glasses...Along with the other ladies who think I am hot...But then there are a lot who don't think I am...So, doing the math...I come out to average...
Coming from an average guy viewpoint, I would not call you Ken and Barbie (nor you UTEXTREME) but you seem to think you are...so thats cool...I think the whole Ken and Barbie syndrome is based not on what you hang out with, but your attitude towards those who are not Ken and Barbie...Have not seen neither of you act, as we are in Florida, sort of a long way to see, BUT have seen many act in that manner...once...Ken and Barbie asked US to play with them, fucked our heads up so bad, we couldn't accept the invite...So maybe that plays a part...Who the hell knows...
I had a point, but I lost it...
P.S.- I repeatedly tell my gal to get new glasses...Along with the other ladies who think I am hot...But then there are a lot who don't think I am...So, doing the math...I come out to average...
JSTJIM72,
my point is that we absolutely DO NOT think we are Ken and Barbie. We have been "labeled" that before, but that has come from others, not from us. Speaking for my wife, she is the most humble, sweet, charismatic person you could ever meet. I think personally, I just ride her coat tails because steering away from biased opinion, think she is beautiful. Thanks for letting us know that we aren't Ken and Barbie. We would rather it be that way....
UtHot
my point is that we absolutely DO NOT think we are Ken and Barbie. We have been "labeled" that before, but that has come from others, not from us. Speaking for my wife, she is the most humble, sweet, charismatic person you could ever meet. I think personally, I just ride her coat tails because steering away from biased opinion, think she is beautiful. Thanks for letting us know that we aren't Ken and Barbie. We would rather it be that way....
UtHot
The secret to a happy life: lower your expectations. Works in every aspect of life.
Seeing as we're a mostly Utah (the pyramid-scheme capitol of the world) site, I do have an idea. Everybody gets a hotness number from the admin from 1 - 17.3519 (17.3 being the lowest). You are only allowed to fuck those who are your level or higher unless the couple lower than you can earn a "dispensation fuck." The way you can earn a dispensation fuck: convert 3 "vanillas" and you get to fuck a couple up to 2.3516226 hotness points above you. Once you fuck 3 couples above you, you get promoted by 1.371999 hotness points.
Problem solved, right?
(P.S. Just kidding.)
-Mr.
Seeing as we're a mostly Utah (the pyramid-scheme capitol of the world) site, I do have an idea. Everybody gets a hotness number from the admin from 1 - 17.3519 (17.3 being the lowest). You are only allowed to fuck those who are your level or higher unless the couple lower than you can earn a "dispensation fuck." The way you can earn a dispensation fuck: convert 3 "vanillas" and you get to fuck a couple up to 2.3516226 hotness points above you. Once you fuck 3 couples above you, you get promoted by 1.371999 hotness points.
Problem solved, right?
(P.S. Just kidding.)
-Mr.
GOODGENES,
so how do we get enough points to have a conversation with you? Apparently we didn't have enough because we did meet you at a party and weren't acknowledged or given the time of day for that matter. We must have been several hotness points lacking obviously. We don't have "good genes", but think we have decent genes. Just curious. Maybe we can save up and you can take 2 mintues to say hi. That would be cool..
Mr. UtHot
so how do we get enough points to have a conversation with you? Apparently we didn't have enough because we did meet you at a party and weren't acknowledged or given the time of day for that matter. We must have been several hotness points lacking obviously. We don't have "good genes", but think we have decent genes. Just curious. Maybe we can save up and you can take 2 mintues to say hi. That would be cool..
Mr. UtHot
UTHOT,
<em>"so how do we get enough points to have a conversation with you?"</em>
Oh, you guys have way more hotness points than us. We're at least a 16.851 (17.3 being the lowest) seeing as how we can't get anyone to answer our emails, including you guys.
Regarding the night in question... I remember conversing for about 5 minutes with you at said party. We talked about you guys winning the photo contest and how we'd voted for you, among other things. This was after you guys didn't reply to a few of our emails (check your email record). Dude, you're the in-crowd here. Alas, we've been trying to raise our points, but maybe our point meter is broken.
Anyways.
<em>"so how do we get enough points to have a conversation with you?"</em>
Oh, you guys have way more hotness points than us. We're at least a 16.851 (17.3 being the lowest) seeing as how we can't get anyone to answer our emails, including you guys.
Regarding the night in question... I remember conversing for about 5 minutes with you at said party. We talked about you guys winning the photo contest and how we'd voted for you, among other things. This was after you guys didn't reply to a few of our emails (check your email record). Dude, you're the in-crowd here.
Alas, we've been trying to raise our points, but maybe our point meter is broken.Anyways.
Really? Damn, talk about putting my foot in my mouth.. We never answered your emails? I'm sorry. I usually do all the forum crap on the weekends and once in awhile if I get home early enough on the weekdays. I'm not sure why we wouldn't have resonded. You guys are a very attractive couple. Don't remember talking about the photo contest but I'm sure it happened. By the time we were talking about it, we were pretty burned out on the whole thing.
You have plenty of points. Maybe we should have all of the girls points end with 3.14159 better known as PI, or is it Pie? Hmmm... lol
Ok, round two. If we see you guys again, we'll make it a point (pun intended) to trade points until were even.
Mr. UtHot
You have plenty of points. Maybe we should have all of the girls points end with 3.14159 better known as PI, or is it Pie?
Hmmm... lolOk, round two. If we see you guys again, we'll make it a point (pun intended) to trade points until were even.
Mr. UtHot
I have to say that it is more than either "side" makes it to be. At least the way I see it anyway. To me "ken and barbie syndrome" is not whether you have a "hottie" as part of your couple, or that your looking for the unicorn within a pen of goats (that is a hilarious way to put it by the way) but instead is that you insult and put down those that aren't "up to standard" in such a way that is both disrespectful, and outright rude in many cases.
I have seen very little of this attitude here on this site, which is refreshing. Personally, do we want hotties, sure everyone does, but the question to me is more than that.
At what point does average count? At what point does you putting others down to boost yourself up add up to you being a good person? At which juncture does it actually become someone who isn't serious except to look for that which they can't have?
To me that is what signifies this, is someone that isn't actually here to swing, they are here to put others down that they feel are beneath themselves, and to try and obtain that which they know they can't have. They are shallow, and purely self serving and nothing is good enough for them.
It's the same behavior by the exact opposite extreme in the emotional spectrum I think as the people that cry "ken and barbie syndrome" the moment they are turned down by anyone. One has an overblown ego and needs to cut others down to keep it inflated, the other has an extremely bruised ego that needs to cut the egomaniacs down to boost themselves up in their own eyes.
In the end though, it's those in the middle that can see there are always some it fits, and then there is those that are just picky with what they want.
The views herein are not pointed at anyone in particular. Any reference or similarity to real people is purely coincidence.
I have seen very little of this attitude here on this site, which is refreshing. Personally, do we want hotties, sure everyone does, but the question to me is more than that.
At what point does average count? At what point does you putting others down to boost yourself up add up to you being a good person? At which juncture does it actually become someone who isn't serious except to look for that which they can't have?
To me that is what signifies this, is someone that isn't actually here to swing, they are here to put others down that they feel are beneath themselves, and to try and obtain that which they know they can't have. They are shallow, and purely self serving and nothing is good enough for them.
It's the same behavior by the exact opposite extreme in the emotional spectrum I think as the people that cry "ken and barbie syndrome" the moment they are turned down by anyone. One has an overblown ego and needs to cut others down to keep it inflated, the other has an extremely bruised ego that needs to cut the egomaniacs down to boost themselves up in their own eyes.
In the end though, it's those in the middle that can see there are always some it fits, and then there is those that are just picky with what they want.
The views herein are not pointed at anyone in particular. Any reference or similarity to real people is purely coincidence.
Correlation does not imply causation...
Perhaps the reason someone didn't respond to an email is not because they are "too hot" but maybe they didn't do it right away and forgot to respond later, maybe the sendee didn't put much effort into the email and was deemed not worthy of a response, or perhaps the recipient is just ignorant. As for in person, I can think of any number of reasons why a person might not be outgoing on a particular day when they are generally a sociable person. We are generally open to meeting just about anyone who has similar interests if there aren't any expectations. Unfortunately that is rarely the case. You swing therefore you will swing with us. Another logical fallacy...
If people are really cool, but not physically appealing then hopefully everyone can still be friends. A bit naive perhaps, but it is a nice thought.
If people are really hot, but terribly uncool then no sex and no friends.
If people are hot and cool well then they've got it made - assuming they have the time, money, luck, health, location, and any number of other variables that contribute to a hookup. We can honestly say some of the "hottest" couples we have met are some of the most down to earth people.
Please no more cum hoc ergo propter hoc logic... (on an unrelated note, I have also made the observation that lots of people on Swingular tend to confuse come with the latin word cum meaning "with")
Mr.Bothhands
Perhaps the reason someone didn't respond to an email is not because they are "too hot" but maybe they didn't do it right away and forgot to respond later, maybe the sendee didn't put much effort into the email and was deemed not worthy of a response, or perhaps the recipient is just ignorant. As for in person, I can think of any number of reasons why a person might not be outgoing on a particular day when they are generally a sociable person. We are generally open to meeting just about anyone who has similar interests if there aren't any expectations. Unfortunately that is rarely the case. You swing therefore you will swing with us. Another logical fallacy...
If people are really cool, but not physically appealing then hopefully everyone can still be friends. A bit naive perhaps, but it is a nice thought.
If people are really hot, but terribly uncool then no sex and no friends.
If people are hot and cool well then they've got it made - assuming they have the time, money, luck, health, location, and any number of other variables that contribute to a hookup. We can honestly say some of the "hottest" couples we have met are some of the most down to earth people.
Please no more cum hoc ergo propter hoc logic... (on an unrelated note, I have also made the observation that lots of people on Swingular tend to confuse come with the latin word cum meaning "with")
Mr.Bothhands
We guess nobody here has ever kissed a toad.
Some very good points have been brought up in this thread. Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder but then beauty is different for different people.
Maybe we need a thread on defining beauty?
Some very good points have been brought up in this thread. Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder but then beauty is different for different people.
Maybe we need a thread on defining beauty?
everyone has personal prefrences on what they are looking for some just not as picky as others but if your looking for hotties thats just what you want . dont feel bad about what your want at least your honest enough to come out and say it .. we are both on the heavey side but looking at your profile and pics makes us wish we were in the hottie section lol .. but we have enough brains to know that people that are in good shape very seldom play with those that are not .. depending on what they are searching for and all... so good luck in your fun and play ..
mr and mrs sextra
mr and mrs sextra
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder....one i think is hott-you may not-and vice versa.
I kissed a Toad Once! It was a Horny Toad! Did absolutely nothing for my looks! Just made all women look better! At my age, the only thing I might have to offer is my witt and Charm! It is a good thing that I just finished the "Anti" Dale Carnighee Course "How To Lose Friends and Alienate People" My life has really turned around? I am not just an Ass Hole, I am a Professional Ass Hole. Ken and Barbie Have no Ass Holes
Damn, I really hate it when Kens and Barbies fight.... it really gets ugly.
All those glossy hair strands flying everywhere.. those plastic body parts here and there.
"Ken.. you're such an asshole!!.... oh wait..... you don't even HAVE an asshole!".... lol
If beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, then that perceived beauty truly is not much more than skin-deep.
Too bad, too.
All those glossy hair strands flying everywhere.. those plastic body parts here and there.
"Ken.. you're such an asshole!!.... oh wait..... you don't even HAVE an asshole!".... lol
If beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, then that perceived beauty truly is not much more than skin-deep.
Too bad, too.
Seems the original concern has been somehow lost in context. Seems to us that the total package is what makes someone percieve what is hot and what is not. Didnt you ever think someone was just a knock out and someone else thought"what a toad"?
BABYKAK,
Absolutely! The total package makes someone Hot, Looks, Brains, and Personality! I believe we have all 3, a triple threat! So yeah, I guess I would prefer at least comparable.
UTHOT,
You made my preferred list because you have a brain and a sense of humor to go with that "ken doll-cut out" Physique, and HOTTIE of a wife! (purring sound) Ahem......sorry!
GOODGENES,
You two are just too dam smart for us, I don't want to feel like a blithering idiot. Could you dumb down a bit for us please? Because you two are WAY HOT!
~K~
Absolutely! The total package makes someone Hot, Looks, Brains, and Personality! I believe we have all 3, a triple threat! So yeah, I guess I would prefer at least comparable.
UTHOT,
You made my preferred list because you have a brain and a sense of humor to go with that "ken doll-cut out" Physique, and HOTTIE of a wife! (purring sound) Ahem......sorry!
GOODGENES,
You two are just too dam smart for us, I don't want to feel like a blithering idiot. Could you dumb down a bit for us please? Because you two are WAY HOT!
~K~
I prefer Jenna Jameson before plastic surgery but.... can't have that. So I just would like some one that meets our height and weight. Like one of the post on here about the 6" steeleto's...lmao... I completely understand that one cause it happened to me....Not 50 pounds over or 50 pounds less. But I do agree with some of the post on here. There are other ways of letting people know you are not compatible other than just calling names.
It's like being in elemantary school and having people calling you names just because they don't like you......
We are no Barbie n Ken or porn stars with the hair extensions and the air brush make-up. We are who you see on the pics. Parents of 4, hard workers that try and have a lil fun on our adult time off.... living in a small town in Florida not in Beverly Hills
It's like being in elemantary school and having people calling you names just because they don't like you......
We are no Barbie n Ken or porn stars with the hair extensions and the air brush make-up. We are who you see on the pics. Parents of 4, hard workers that try and have a lil fun on our adult time off.... living in a small town in Florida not in Beverly Hills
*SIGH* we did not even get an honorable mention from Classy...
Sorry Jim Of Jst: We even tried the "Old Horny Toad" Joke? Classy flew past that one like a kid looking at the M&M's and passing on the Skittles! Must be one of those melt in your mouth things and not a real, "Out and Out" name calling, Goat, and Pig Pen thing, or was that Bottom Feeder's looking for the "Unisom" Unidick, Loneytick, Hell now I am confused. Does anyone want to Fuck an "Old Fat Man" Maybe Just "Old Fat Women" I suppose. You can call me Ken, or you can call me Ben, You can call me Ken Doll, Or you might call me No Dick, Or even Missing Prick But Don't Ever Call me "Raymond Jay Johnson Junior" I would much rather be called No Dick? Than be called "Little Johnson"
UTHOT:
Ahhh... Gotta love those miscommunications, eh? A pie eating contest sounds good.
BOTHHANDS:
You guys make us "with."
CLASSY:
LOL. Well, it wasn't a very good joke to begin with, so dumbing it down would just point that out.
JSTJIM:
We will mention your "honorables."
Ahhh... Gotta love those miscommunications, eh? A pie eating contest sounds good.
BOTHHANDS:
You guys make us "with."
CLASSY:
LOL. Well, it wasn't a very good joke to begin with, so dumbing it down would just point that out.
JSTJIM:
We will mention your "honorables."
Preference is a major part of swinging, if i'm not attracted to a person it will never rise to attention. I never take one for the team. But I still have a lot of friends in the swinging world that I'm not attracted to physically, but they're still my friends. I think the Ken and Barbies won't even do that. I can count th times on one hand they (Ken and Barbie) have talked to us or said hi, were are a little shy but very fun, so say hi and make friends of everyboby even if you won't do them. Nobody has to many friends....... Rich
i agree, were on here cuz i want to fuck really hot chicks, well its just not happening, weres all the hot chicks? i sure do see alot of them at college but cant fuck them cuz i dont cheat,
pitdaddy
pitdaddy
I would like to start by saying we are all here looking for the same thing, sex either in a realtionship or out of one. Who the hell are we to judge someone elses prefrences. I am no barbie doll nor am i attracted to them or ken, but at the same time not everyone likes the same thing for dinner, do we talk bad about that.
Thanks to everyone who has taken the time to write in and express their opinion on this subject.
There are some really cool, open, respectful people on this site!
I really believe the people who jumped me about my original post only did so to pick at me, being the mouthy, opinionated bitch that I can be sometimes puts a target on my back.
I believe this lifestyle absolutely REQUIRES honesty, I have only been honest about what I want, and what I do not.
Tell the truth, would anyone fuck this guy?
http://adultgraphics.org/userpics/animations/slimesp63.gif
Just wondering!
~K~
There are some really cool, open, respectful people on this site!
I really believe the people who jumped me about my original post only did so to pick at me, being the mouthy, opinionated bitch that I can be sometimes puts a target on my back.
I believe this lifestyle absolutely REQUIRES honesty, I have only been honest about what I want, and what I do not.
Tell the truth, would anyone fuck this guy?
http://adultgraphics.org/userpics/animations/slimesp63.gif
Just wondering!
~K~
lissa said he is a little chunky for her lmfao
OK, so I thought I'd weigh in on this subject. I'm sure this subject is as dead as the horse it rode in on, but hey...
For us, we're looking for friends we can party with, have fun, and relax with. In our opinion, friendship isn't based on whether or not the other party is attractive. To play, we're looking for someone we're attracted to - and I suppose that's why our playing has been limited to a handful of times, even though we've been on this site almost 2 years. While we've made many friends, we just haven't found many people that we really "click" with. We've realized we're not in this lifestyle to make notches in our bedpost.
We're not "Ken and Barbie" by any means, and we don't expect that - we're just looking for people we're attracted to when it comes to any bedroom activities.
To each their own. My Dad used to say, "Beauty is only skin deep, but Ugly goes all the way to the bone." Honestly, you might have the most amazing personality in the world, but if you took a nose-dive off the top of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down (AND stopped for coffee)...well, you probably aren't gonna be getting any from us. Friends? Absolutely.
The inverse is true as well - you could look great, but if you're more shallow then the perpetual puddle outside our house because the grounds crew are morons and won't fix the sprinklers...well, you get the idea.
Mr. Couple (the Mrs. smacked me when she read this...)
For us, we're looking for friends we can party with, have fun, and relax with. In our opinion, friendship isn't based on whether or not the other party is attractive. To play, we're looking for someone we're attracted to - and I suppose that's why our playing has been limited to a handful of times, even though we've been on this site almost 2 years. While we've made many friends, we just haven't found many people that we really "click" with. We've realized we're not in this lifestyle to make notches in our bedpost.
We're not "Ken and Barbie" by any means, and we don't expect that - we're just looking for people we're attracted to when it comes to any bedroom activities.
To each their own. My Dad used to say, "Beauty is only skin deep, but Ugly goes all the way to the bone." Honestly, you might have the most amazing personality in the world, but if you took a nose-dive off the top of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down (AND stopped for coffee)...well, you probably aren't gonna be getting any from us. Friends? Absolutely.
The inverse is true as well - you could look great, but if you're more shallow then the perpetual puddle outside our house because the grounds crew are morons and won't fix the sprinklers...well, you get the idea.
Mr. Couple (the Mrs. smacked me when she read this...)
The only dead horse I've seen beat to death here is a single phrase that is so over-used and so retarded. That being "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". How many times has that been said in this thread? Can't anyone say anything more personal? More creative?
For example:
Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder.
Beauty makes many babies.
Beauty sometimes is paired with the beast, but will your spouse take one for the team?
Beauty gives me a hard-on, but ugly makes me throw up!
Ugliness is in a way superior to beauty because it lasts.
Beauty is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
BTW, if Barbie and Ken are so popular, why do we have to buy them friends?
Mr. UtHot
For example:
Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder.
Beauty makes many babies.
Beauty sometimes is paired with the beast, but will your spouse take one for the team?
Beauty gives me a hard-on, but ugly makes me throw up!
Ugliness is in a way superior to beauty because it lasts.
Beauty is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
BTW, if Barbie and Ken are so popular, why do we have to buy them friends?
Mr. UtHot
this whole thread makes my balls itch, everyone fuck who they want, how they want...in Jesus Christ name Amen!
We think the "Kens and Barbies" that tend to have the the attitude that "I'm hot your not" and then trash the cpl that does not meet the "Ken Barbie" standard are the ones who tend to piss off people. Its one thing to be "HOT" and have a good attitude but it is not right when that Ken Barbie types can't take the time to at least reply with a civil polite "no thanks". We are no way Ken or Barbie but we do think we look pretty good for our age but even when we get contacted by what some of you refer to as the "bottom feeders" we try to say no thanks in a polite way and most times we will at least meet them over a drink as we have found judging solely by a profile sometimes is a big mistake.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
Believe in who you are. Beauty is within and radiates from the inside out. No one is perfect or it would be a boring world. You are who you are and if people are looking for outside looks they need to start looking on the inside as this is who we are. God made us all for a reason we are all different but beautiful.
So we just read Classy's profile. We find nothing wrong with it. In fact, we agree completely. Wish we had worded ours to say it that well. We also prefer face pics. That is the most important to us.. face pics. besides.. Parts is parts.
Just because someone thinks they want to fuck you, doesn't mean you have to fuck them...
We may be here as swingers, but we don't have to swing with everybody.. there HAS to be attraction. We realise that we don't appeal to everybody either.
Maggi & Luke
PS. You crack me up UTHOT
Just because someone thinks they want to fuck you, doesn't mean you have to fuck them...
We may be here as swingers, but we don't have to swing with everybody.. there HAS to be attraction. We realise that we don't appeal to everybody either.
Maggi & Luke
PS. You crack me up UTHOT
You obviously think highly of your self's....... That could be your problem
i like pie
Someone once said beauty is only skin deep. While I agree there has to be some attraction, some of the Ken and Barbies can't get it done in the sack. On a scale of one to ten I would rather have a 6 who has a great personality and can rock my world in bed. Hell, I just wish someone would email me that doesn't live 900 miles away!
Ken and Barbie are way too self absorbed with one another...everyone knows Skipper was always off fucking GI JOE and having the most fun!!!
Regardless of what you look like there will be people that find you attractive and people that don't. Its personal taste, we all have it, regardless of how others judge our choices. I happen to think I'm a Hottie. If I didn't, I highly doubt I would be in this lifestyle to begin with. Do my self-preservating idealic views of who I am make me a "barbie"? Dear hell no, not unless the Rosie O'Donnell barbie friend doll counts LOL. However, I am a self confident, wild, "force of nature" kind of vivacious woman who can discuss a wide variety of subjects with just about anyone AND fuck you three ways from Sunday. Do we get a wide variety of people contacting us? Yes, which I am sure surprises some of you. Are we "picky" about those that do contact us? Hell yes, because we choose to be, and I would hope the same would go for most on this site. Some would argue I shouldn't be so picky due to how I look...well extra weight doesn't lower my standards or my panties but Thanks for Playing...buh bye!
No matter who you are or what you look like, you can always get laid. Its the amount of discretion you choose that enables the level of satisfaction though, so keep that in mind. I play because I enjoy the fun, attention, electricity and interraction I get that goes along with it and I would say I hope the same goes for others but then thats me putting my reasons onto others and thats not fair either.
This lifestyle gets very upclose and personal just by the nature of the beast (no pun intended). It deals with everyone's favorite subject (themselves). So when someone does or doesn't want to meet you, people take it in varying ways. Sure we'd love to say its no big deal when someone says they don't want to be playmates but can any of you say it doesn't immediately bring up your internal list of self flaws as soon as you hear someone doesn't like you? Its human nature, its the way we are made. Some we percieve as perfection may be full of self doubt, while others that are less perfect may be the ride of your life. Never assume that barbie has it made...and never assume the troll doll isn't gettin' any either.
Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder, its in ones self. If you don't have it within you, you'll only get by so long on your looks before you begin to fade in someone's eyes. Will everyone find my inner beauty first? Of course not, lets be realistic. Its those that take the time to look for it that I'm more interested in, which is where my real attraction lies. Although the whole "wow she has great tits" approach isn't always a bad deal either hehe. Its a bonus I embrace and has led me to some great people too. So I have learned not to be too quick to judge...
I swear I did have a solid point when I started this post...oh yea...
I always did find GI JOE sexy...so...wanna cum play invasion at my house soldier boy?
~Amy~
Regardless of what you look like there will be people that find you attractive and people that don't. Its personal taste, we all have it, regardless of how others judge our choices. I happen to think I'm a Hottie. If I didn't, I highly doubt I would be in this lifestyle to begin with. Do my self-preservating idealic views of who I am make me a "barbie"? Dear hell no, not unless the Rosie O'Donnell barbie friend doll counts LOL. However, I am a self confident, wild, "force of nature" kind of vivacious woman who can discuss a wide variety of subjects with just about anyone AND fuck you three ways from Sunday. Do we get a wide variety of people contacting us? Yes, which I am sure surprises some of you. Are we "picky" about those that do contact us? Hell yes, because we choose to be, and I would hope the same would go for most on this site. Some would argue I shouldn't be so picky due to how I look...well extra weight doesn't lower my standards or my panties but Thanks for Playing...buh bye!
No matter who you are or what you look like, you can always get laid. Its the amount of discretion you choose that enables the level of satisfaction though, so keep that in mind. I play because I enjoy the fun, attention, electricity and interraction I get that goes along with it and I would say I hope the same goes for others but then thats me putting my reasons onto others and thats not fair either.
This lifestyle gets very upclose and personal just by the nature of the beast (no pun intended). It deals with everyone's favorite subject (themselves). So when someone does or doesn't want to meet you, people take it in varying ways. Sure we'd love to say its no big deal when someone says they don't want to be playmates but can any of you say it doesn't immediately bring up your internal list of self flaws as soon as you hear someone doesn't like you? Its human nature, its the way we are made. Some we percieve as perfection may be full of self doubt, while others that are less perfect may be the ride of your life. Never assume that barbie has it made...and never assume the troll doll isn't gettin' any either.
Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder, its in ones self. If you don't have it within you, you'll only get by so long on your looks before you begin to fade in someone's eyes. Will everyone find my inner beauty first? Of course not, lets be realistic. Its those that take the time to look for it that I'm more interested in, which is where my real attraction lies. Although the whole "wow she has great tits" approach isn't always a bad deal either hehe. Its a bonus I embrace and has led me to some great people too. So I have learned not to be too quick to judge...
I swear I did have a solid point when I started this post...oh yea...
I always did find GI JOE sexy...so...wanna cum play invasion at my house soldier boy?
~Amy~
Couple4fun2821,
I really hope you were not intending that comment for me......assuming you were......all I can say is........Kindly Fuck Off....Thank you!
I ABSOLUTLEY think highly of myself. And I don't give a FUCK whether you or anyone else thinks that's a problem. I do not believe its possible to think too highly of yourself.
As a matter of fact people with self esteem issues are ugly to me. If you can't even love yourself then who will? If you don't think your Hot who will? You cannot love someone else if you cant love yourself.
Nobody wants to spend their time reassuring someone that they are cute, and they look just fine, and they don't look fat in that......Etc. Give me a break, High School is over.
~K~
I really hope you were not intending that comment for me......assuming you were......all I can say is........Kindly Fuck Off....Thank you!
I ABSOLUTLEY think highly of myself. And I don't give a FUCK whether you or anyone else thinks that's a problem. I do not believe its possible to think too highly of yourself.
As a matter of fact people with self esteem issues are ugly to me. If you can't even love yourself then who will? If you don't think your Hot who will? You cannot love someone else if you cant love yourself.
Nobody wants to spend their time reassuring someone that they are cute, and they look just fine, and they don't look fat in that......Etc. Give me a break, High School is over.
~K~
AMY...You're a hottie...ever get to Florida? DAMN GIRL!!!!
CLASSY...Give them hell...Nothing wrong with some self esteem...I also am attracted to confident (although HATE cocky) people...Would rather have a 3 who is confident than a 10 who is not ANY day...
CLASSY...Give them hell...Nothing wrong with some self esteem...I also am attracted to confident (although HATE cocky) people...Would rather have a 3 who is confident than a 10 who is not ANY day...
genes - always love your posts. This thread (and the 15 exaclty like it) always make me laugh. I am sure every couple on here has added someone they thought was incredibly hot to thier friends list and sent an email in hope of making contact and been sadly disapointed when they were ignored. Likewise, i am sure everybody has gotten an email and/or add and opened it up and gone "they have got to be kidding right?"
The stupid thing about the lifestyle is for some reason people think becuase we are a open group of people, that means we are open to everyone. Obviously not the case, and yes this is all very obvious, so my only question is this: Why the hell does this subject keep coming up?
The stupid thing about the lifestyle is for some reason people think becuase we are a open group of people, that means we are open to everyone. Obviously not the case, and yes this is all very obvious, so my only question is this: Why the hell does this subject keep coming up?
Well Hell, Why not ad a reply...All of you who know us..Know that Lori keeps me around for laughs...I tricked her years ago and I haven't let her sneak away since. We have made great friends here, Lori calls them our "nasty" friends...I second that..We have found if you have sex...great...if you don't have sex with a cpl....then we go home and have great sex...so it really doesn't matter what anyone says...We, like "Classy"...love who we are...and if it works for another cpl...wonderful..and if it doesn't...its ok with us...Love you all...happy sexing to all and to all a good night.
L&L
L&L
Classy....We think you sumed it up in your last post. How many mirrors do you have in your house??? Mirror Mirror on the wall....who's the fairest of them all? LOL
mirror, mirror on the wall woodogg is the best looking S.O.B.of them all even though i walk through the valley of ken and barbie i fear no slim muscular body because baby loves the fat boy i am LOL.
Great reply kittynwoo.....lol
TOO MUCH WILD TURKEY STRIGHT UP WIITH BRANCH WATER LOL
Ah, the dreaded Ken and Barbie Syndrome, is this a disease I might catch?!
What is it others have against those that are in the 'hot' crowd. Nothing. Get over yourselves. Isn't there a Drama Barbie? if not she's coming to stores near you soon!?
Honestly, you are entitled to your own preferences, as are we all. To me, the sad part of the syndrome is not how attractive The Mattel playmates are, it is how they treat the Generic Dollies around them.
The people that decide to add swinging to their lives tend to be the most open minded, strong and passionate people we've met, with a severe honest streak to boot. Who wouldn't want to be around us whenever the chance arrives?! If there is any fault to be found in the Mattel crowd it is their exclusive nature. Be exclusive in the bedroom, thats human nature, just don't let it limit your friendships and experiences.
Mrs. Curious, a proud and active member of "the rest of the crowd"
What is it others have against those that are in the 'hot' crowd. Nothing. Get over yourselves. Isn't there a Drama Barbie? if not she's coming to stores near you soon!?
Honestly, you are entitled to your own preferences, as are we all. To me, the sad part of the syndrome is not how attractive The Mattel playmates are, it is how they treat the Generic Dollies around them.
The people that decide to add swinging to their lives tend to be the most open minded, strong and passionate people we've met, with a severe honest streak to boot. Who wouldn't want to be around us whenever the chance arrives?! If there is any fault to be found in the Mattel crowd it is their exclusive nature. Be exclusive in the bedroom, thats human nature, just don't let it limit your friendships and experiences.
Mrs. Curious, a proud and active member of "the rest of the crowd"
Heheh, you know we've been accused of liking only Ken and Barbies. Pretty much anyone who actually knows us figures out that's total blab.
We've met many people here. Very few have actually been K&B fanatics - for the most part it seems like many are willing to see beyond the skin into the person.
Either that or they are simply blinded by sex!
-K_T
We've met many people here. Very few have actually been K&B fanatics - for the most part it seems like many are willing to see beyond the skin into the person.
Either that or they are simply blinded by sex!
-K_T
GEORGENURSULAJUNGLE,
I had to laugh my ass off at your posts! Never one time have I said those things, sounds like you have a guilty conscience, along with a lot of other people on this site.
I say HOTTIE, and every person with low self esteem in a 200 mile radius takes it as a personal shot? If I use the word SKINNY, every person who thinks of themselves as overweight loses their confidence? You included?
I will NEVER apologize for loving myself, in fact, I feel sorry for you because you don't. How sad that you have to live in your own harsh judgments of yourself.
If you are overweight you are still sexy, if you believe you are. You can be the "Big-Sexy" and still be sexy. But if you settle for second best because you feel like you deserve it, then you do, PLAIN AND SIMPLE.
MIKEYLEE,
It does not take a mirror for me to see how great I am. I KNOW I am great therefore I am.
~K~
I had to laugh my ass off at your posts! Never one time have I said those things, sounds like you have a guilty conscience, along with a lot of other people on this site.
I say HOTTIE, and every person with low self esteem in a 200 mile radius takes it as a personal shot? If I use the word SKINNY, every person who thinks of themselves as overweight loses their confidence? You included?
I will NEVER apologize for loving myself, in fact, I feel sorry for you because you don't. How sad that you have to live in your own harsh judgments of yourself.
If you are overweight you are still sexy, if you believe you are. You can be the "Big-Sexy" and still be sexy. But if you settle for second best because you feel like you deserve it, then you do, PLAIN AND SIMPLE.
MIKEYLEE,
It does not take a mirror for me to see how great I am. I KNOW I am great therefore I am.
~K~
What is a 'HOTTIE'? I am sure that if you polled everyone here and had them post a picture of what they considered a hottie to be, then you would receive a ton of different looks, sizes, shapes etc....
I know what I consider as hot is not what my best friend considers as hot.
As far as the Ken and Barbie syndrome everyone is talking about, i also think that we each have our own opinion of what ken and barbie stand for. In my opinion they are a couple that thinks they are better than anyone esle based on their looks and social standing. It doesn't matter the size or hair color or shape of the person....if they look down on others because they consider themselves the 'superior' specimum then I wish them luck playing in their own little petri dish.
I wanted to let Amy know that I agree completely with what she said. It was exactly what I was thinking. Thank you for your insight.
I would just like to finish this by asking you to think about what we are telling our children through the media, our comments and our reactions to what we are told to think as "hot".
I have a 12 year old girl who is right around 5' and 80# and she keeps telling me that she needs to watch what she eats and that she is getting a little fat in the tummy etc..... She is perfect and healthy and athletic, but yet she is bombarded everyday by what her body image should be. It is a constant battle to enforce in her a love of herself and that she does not have to be what she sees or what her friends think she should be. I keep telling her that it is ok to be an individual and that it is not necessary to fit into the 'cookie cutter' image that we are bombarded with each and everyday. It is ok that we are not all the same, that is really what makes us beautiful.
Ok I know I got off track a little bit....sorry just thought I would share my 2 cents.
Mindy
I know what I consider as hot is not what my best friend considers as hot.
As far as the Ken and Barbie syndrome everyone is talking about, i also think that we each have our own opinion of what ken and barbie stand for. In my opinion they are a couple that thinks they are better than anyone esle based on their looks and social standing. It doesn't matter the size or hair color or shape of the person....if they look down on others because they consider themselves the 'superior' specimum then I wish them luck playing in their own little petri dish.
I wanted to let Amy know that I agree completely with what she said. It was exactly what I was thinking. Thank you for your insight.
I would just like to finish this by asking you to think about what we are telling our children through the media, our comments and our reactions to what we are told to think as "hot".
I have a 12 year old girl who is right around 5' and 80# and she keeps telling me that she needs to watch what she eats and that she is getting a little fat in the tummy etc..... She is perfect and healthy and athletic, but yet she is bombarded everyday by what her body image should be. It is a constant battle to enforce in her a love of herself and that she does not have to be what she sees or what her friends think she should be. I keep telling her that it is ok to be an individual and that it is not necessary to fit into the 'cookie cutter' image that we are bombarded with each and everyday. It is ok that we are not all the same, that is really what makes us beautiful.
Ok I know I got off track a little bit....sorry just thought I would share my 2 cents.
Mindy
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This topic is irrelevant, as "hottie" applies only to the beholder's perspective. Since all of us differ in tastes, you can't expect anyone to conform to your standards. We all have individuality and with it comes uniquity in taste and preference. We <b>can <u>not</u></b>, other than expressing our own tastes, debate someone's preferences. You are who you are and like what you like. If you are drawn to what Hollywood and the media tell you is hot, then so be it. Everyone here has people that are attracted and repulsed by them. To me it does not matter if you are physically attractive in anyway, if your attitude or brain is lacking. It is very frequent, that what are consider mainstream "HOT GIRLS", are dumber than fuckin bricks. I also feel sorry for those fixated on on particular fleeting thing like youth and outer beauty. Most people that are hung up are hypocritically so. Most people that are fixated on their own aesthetic value or worth to others and the worth of others often miss out on learning what makes the idividual trully interesting or attractive. I know it sounds clich
This topic is irrelevant, as "hottie" applies only to the beholder's perspective. Since all of us differ in tastes, you can't expect anyone to conform to your standards. We all have individuality and with it comes uniquity in taste and preference. We <b>can <u>not</u></b>, other than expressing our own tastes, debate someone's preferences. You are who you are and like what you like. If you are drawn to what Hollywood and the media tell you is hot, then so be it. Everyone here has people that are attracted and repulsed by them. To me it does not matter if you are physically attractive in anyway, if your attitude or brain is lacking. It is very frequent, that what are consider mainstream "HOT GIRLS", are dumber than fuckin bricks. I also feel sorry for those fixated on on particular fleeting thing like youth and outer beauty. Most people that are hung up are hypocritically so. Most people that are fixated on their own aesthetic value or worth to others and the worth of others often miss out on learning what makes the idividual trully interesting or attractive. I know it sounds clich
Classy.......
It was Decart or Socraties or some old fart that said that and ALL we are saying is that WE bet you have a hard time passing by a mirror. You are full of yourself and We would bet you would fuck yourself or blow yourself if you could. That is how full of yourself you are.
It was Decart or Socraties or some old fart that said that and ALL we are saying is that WE bet you have a hard time passing by a mirror. You are full of yourself and We would bet you would fuck yourself or blow yourself if you could. That is how full of yourself you are.
I was hoping this thread would die out but after reading some of the recent posting I have to point a few things out. First off, I have never met nor exchanged a single e-mail with Classy but what did he do wrong? I just don`t see it where he offended anyone. All he said is what we see on television in most comedy sitcoms and he gets trashed over it. We both feel proud of how we look but also know there is room for improvement. In case you haven`t noticed, we both need to lose a few pounds but we feel great about who we are and so should Classy. At least the wife has an excuse for her weight gain but I don`t and assume responsibility for it. People with low self esteem ( and he never specified overweight ) are a drag to be around and can put a damper on the moment so we too try to find couples that feel good about themselves. We have run into couples with self esteem issues due to small breasts, penis, bad teeth, minute men, and the oddest was their income level. So call us shallow but we try to avoid those with low self esteem. Classy never put anyone down for being overweight and degraded them so I think overweight people, myself included are so used to being put down and judged by our weight that a lot of you jumped to conclusions.
In the one post that Classy made he said he didn`t want to spend time trying to make someone feel good about how they look in that, and if you take that remark as it is written you could interpret it to mean he never gives the wife a compliment when she is dressed to go out for the night but I am sure that is not the case. We all know the pressure a woman puts us under when she asks how does this look on me. Do we tell the truth and risk her getting offended or tell the truth and hope she never wears it out in public. So when you read these threads remember it is easy to take something out of context.
So let`s go check their profile and hey, we notice they have pics of both including the face. And there is cameo shots so we get a true feeling of what they are into outside the bedroom. The profile is well written and tells exactly what they enjoy and are searching for. I fail to see the problem with them.
In the one post that Classy made he said he didn`t want to spend time trying to make someone feel good about how they look in that, and if you take that remark as it is written you could interpret it to mean he never gives the wife a compliment when she is dressed to go out for the night but I am sure that is not the case. We all know the pressure a woman puts us under when she asks how does this look on me. Do we tell the truth and risk her getting offended or tell the truth and hope she never wears it out in public. So when you read these threads remember it is easy to take something out of context.
So let`s go check their profile and hey, we notice they have pics of both including the face. And there is cameo shots so we get a true feeling of what they are into outside the bedroom. The profile is well written and tells exactly what they enjoy and are searching for. I fail to see the problem with them.
Ken and Barbie LOL not on here
k & a
k & a
Classy said nothing wrong.
MR.BILL, Found my hottie
Lucky Mr Bill
watch out for Mr. Sluggo!!
I used to have a Mr. Bill paper back story book that came with a red see thru 45 that you removed from the binding and could play and would narrate the book. Looks like Mr. Bill is getting some action so it makes me wonder just how many of the ladies think he is a hottie and can we name a syndrome after him.
Mr. Bill investigates
I would say that looks good enough to eat but it seems someone beat me to the punch. Maybe that mouth belongs to Mr. Hand
OOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHH NNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOT MR. HAND!!!!!!! MR.BILL WAS NOT TO GOOD AT THE ORAL THING BUT HE IS A QUICK STUDY,lol AFTER ALL IS THAT NOT WHERE MAN TRYS TO GO BACK TOO ALL HIS LIFE?
TR...I can define hottie...Tami going, "SHHHHHHHHHHHHH" hot pic...prolly why you laugh in the other pic thinking, "HA HA...I may be a loud mouth (I like that about you though...so no insult..I am the same way) but DAYUM!!! I got Tami!!!!!!"
OK folks...Let this shit die...We all have preferences...We all have rules...We all have our excpetions to preferences and rules...
LET IT DIE!!!!!!!!!!
OK folks...Let this shit die...We all have preferences...We all have rules...We all have our excpetions to preferences and rules...
LET IT DIE!!!!!!!!!!
Here Here Jim!
I think that "Mr Bill" has the right Prospective on things at this point. Once you get that Close to the "Subject At Hand". Your tongue goes Hard and the only thing you can Utter is, This is so Hot! You Little Hottie, Oh You Little Hottie? Too Bad Mr Bill Is Plastic, Like Ken and Barbie
I am not normally the one who checks out the site but with the Mr. having been sent on another "business trip" I am playing secretary and got "totally" sucked into this, Err... "thread" (?). I agree Tami is beautiful, as a matter of fact everyone I know here personally is, **shrug**. I have met so many, many people in this lifestyle and had as many wonderful experiences as I have bad. I have met nothing but beautiful people, although not all of them are for me. I am not at all a loving everyone type either! I am most likely one of the biggest bitches you could ever have the "honor" (LOL) of meeting. I am "like totally" a barbie, and my accesories are a shot glass, a hot tub, and oh wait "I totally forgot my suit!". All of my freinds are sold seperately, and the "dream house" is ALWAYS OUT OF STOCK, oh yeah and so is "Ken". ( PSST!!! If you are at all more interested in "Lilmama_Raven Barbie" she has her own commercial here! So check me, er, her, OUT!, Hurry supplies won't last forever)
MUAH!
MUAH!