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I have come across a member of this site that is also on another swing site. "THEY" have contacted me on the other site with a very nice introduction; we emailed back and forth but never got a call from them when given my personal cell number. 1 month and a half after that they send me another email I guess they didn't check mail history. As it turned out, the email was identical to the first email, errors, misspellings and all. It is like an opening email for them. Well turns out that on this site they emailed me again with the same email they sent me on the other website......Now that's when I couldn't take it no more and said hey....WTF do you us the same line on all?????

Now that same cpl posted a thread here about looking for fun....They did it early Monday and then they had the audacity to call people fat and old when told that at that time and day it was hard to find anyone to play with. I responded with how fake they were. I have tried to find the thread but I guess they have deleted it. I can't find it, it disappeared.

What would you do in a situation like this? Would you post your experience on your profile or just let this fake continue to collect photos of honest cpls and singles?
There are alot of fake couples on every site but this site has the real and the vip stamp to prove you are real!!! :z

Good luck,
We always have called them out. We used to frequent a chatroom on aol for couples in Colorado which there were as we found out a lot of posers. I would hit them with a series of Q's and then try to voice verify.99% of the time they were posers and fakes.Only one time did they actually prove they were a couple to which we profusely apologized and of course a good time was had by all in our hot tub. It did save other couples hassles from dealing with thefakes and they also found others out which we all shared who they were.It is difficult at times making sure everyone clicks without the added hassles of fakes and pic collectors.I say bring them out................. O
As long as you're 100% sure and have proof (cuz that would suck if someone called a person out and it turned out they were real), I say call them out and let everyone know about it. I'd like to know if someone I might be talking to is a faker.
We just wouldnt talk to that person. We like to keep things simple :)
If I know 100% they are fake, I will out them in the forums. Period end of story. Save everybody else the headache.
I know of one that is 100% fake. It was set up by a family member to see if we were in the lifestyle.

They know that we know who they are, but prior to figuring it out, they did add us as friends and send an email.

Not sure what they were trying to prove or disprove. Either way, our sex life is really none of their business.

Ali
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I have a fake vagina. It looks like a glazed donut. You should see it under a black light.
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We outted fakes before on our profile on other sites and got blasted for it by the owner of a group we tried to join. To each his own and we all have an opinion. Since this thread is here for us all to read, why don`t you just ask if anyone is interested in knowing who it is to contact you privately then you can tell them. What you e-mail to others in private is none of mine nor anyone else business. Being we are fellow Floridians and run a group ourselves we sure would appreciate the heads up but privately please.
Joe and Lori
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Are you saying my masturbatory paraphernalia is obsolete? What the fuck!!!??? That son of a bitch at the fuck shop is so dead. That fuckin' bastard told me my rubber donut cooter was an innovation in pseudo-vaginal hardware. You just can't find an honest rubber cooter salesman anymore. <b>FUCK!!!</b>
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Sad to say that the emails have gotten out of hand from the other cpl towards us. I am not saying any names or what they say... but wow
cant you BLOCK other ppls e-mails? Or Go to there Profile and BLOCK MEMBER ?

Thumper
RLMAO.....I blocked them completely on all sites..... ignorant people..... to bad I can't say who they are because they have that famous VIP seal..... that I STILL DON"T HAVE BECAUSE ADMINISTRADOR IS NEVER ON YAHOO WHEN WE ARE BOTH HERE TOGETHER..... so am going to have to take that stupid pick holding the sign.... let's see how long is that going to take...
You could always get the real stamp until you are able to get the vip!!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
It's ok as long as I have my friends post their comments on my page...it's all good... on all sites I have been certified by my friends with some awesome comments.... when I get to it, I'll get to it and as far as mentioning the names or screen names....hummmmmmmmmm... am way past my teens to continue this BS..... you can throw what ever you want, like I said am on here for fun and friends not for drama.... I have enough with my teen kids at home... grow up
I can see your dilemma, but are you sure they are fake and not just desperate, lifeless, pitiful fools? at the end of their pitiful ropes? Maybe just crude, rude, hillbilly rednecks or something?
We get hit up by the same single males quite often, seems as though they shoot in the dark hoping for some sort of outcome, and then quickly move on when they don't get a response. then a couple months or so later, back again with the same plan that didn't work the first time!
Doesn't mean they are fake, just desperate, and obviously unorganized!
The problem with outing people, AT ALL, is that you never know. Thing is you never know who will end up being your future Boss, co-worker, or client. (using as reference, you just never know) I myself am very turned off by smack talkers, had someone email me very recently talking smack to me (their idea of a warning) about someone I have known my entire life. Now how could they have known you ask? they couldn't have, but.......my advice to them......never smack talk, because you never know. (One persons "truth telling" is another's "Shit talking")
I'm sure that full swap couples would view us as fakes because we are soft swappers, and then get butt hurt. (Only full swappers are real swingers blah blah blah) But I promise you we are as real as the next dumb ass. And probably spent more time realizing our place in the lifestyle and why we are here.
Anyway sorry for the babbling. Just my 2 cents!
~K~
A Real or VIP seal unfortunately ONLY means that the people in the pictures and who are portrayed by their physical stats/description are really who they say they are. It doesn't mean that getting to know those people won't turn out to be something you completely regret having done. The written word can mask a multitude of flaws.

We know of a different couple who have a VIP seal who might be able to behave differently with other people, but things with us turned ugly and several other couples we've discovered have had the same experiences with them. If they can find people who are compatible with them then that's great, but we won't let our friends anywhere near them. History has a way of repeating itself.

-SG
You mean to tell me that the 19 year old Phillipino girl who want to come to this country and marry me isn't real????!!!!! :v :s
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Fake people or profiles, we just move on, not worth our energy, we would rather focus it on SWINGING!
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" WE ARE FAKE "
well maybe just her boobs are.....LOL
Her boobs can be as fake as you like. She IS however a real cuttie pie. Kisses to her from both of us.
"You mean to tell me that the 19 year old Phillipino girl who want to come to this country and marry me isn't real????!!!!! :v"


How do you know she's 19? LOL! I lived in the PI for 2 years...need I say more?

On the subject of this thread, we have been having a slight problem with a member being a little too pushy - not understanding the meaning of "not interested." Even going so far as to say that one of our posts was inaccurate to the point of saying that I "had been contacted by someone interested."

My thoughts on that subject were that we had already told that person not interested so when no means no, NO means NO! So, if this person doesn't get it, now you are blocked. You know who you are, and you should change your profile. Unless of course, you have mislead us in your messages to us thereby attempting to make yourself more attractive. NOT!

So which is it? Either way, being a fake is still a fake. Profile or messages?

Not trying to be a troublemaker here, just don't like being "stalked."
I agree if you know 100% that they are fake. I would out them that way everybody knows we all should look out for each other and when something bad has happen we should let others know, other wise it will keep going on.
well bicoupl4bif all we can say is if we have your number we would defenately call for sure .. lol
and wtf kind of Idiot would not call a couple that looks as good as you guys do .. damn hot wife there and wife here agrees that your both hot ..geezz
Rube, the Phillipeans are just like Nam..... GI want to go Boom Boom, Mother and sister both virgin.....
OH My GOD... LMAO.. I love my life and to actualy let this get to me... LMFAO... Everything comes out in this life time....