Swingers on Swingular - Swingers Forum - a poll of sorts- How often is "regular"?

I recently expressed some interest in a single female. It seemed like we were looking for the same thing. I thought she was treating this more as a hobby than a lifestyle. Anyway, everything lined up except show was looking for a "regular" partner.

What do you consider regular? every other day, once a week, every two weeks, what?

Mrs. Rook here...

I have noticed that it is totally different for everyone. I guess I"m talking more swinging then a "regular" partner...but some people seem to swing once in a while..when life permits, and for others it's almost like it IS life..3 or 4 times a week. I guess we're all different.

I dont know if you can define it by days or weeks, but if you're getting together over and over..it would seem its regular.

We agree with Blindlove..sometimes its really quiet or things somehow just dont work out, other times everything works, and the entire week is busy..It's very unpredictable. I don't know if their is such a thing as regularity in this lifestyle.
~D&T~

Regular means different things to different people. The only way to know what someone means for sure is to ask. We would consider daily or once a week lifestyle activities to be often or frequent, but for someone else that could be regular. Regular for us is doing something once or twice a month, but we have a lot going on in our lives besides this.

-SG

You all echoed what I was thinking. Sometimes you just need to hear it from someone else. Bi weekly would be "regular" to me...although I used to get called by this one couple about every 2 months...hmmm