why is it that the profiles that say that they are a couple only show either him or her and not both? we under stand that sometimes there is surciminstances,but would be nice to let us know..anyway,if your a couple or a single male or female just drop us a line and we will get back with you..hope everybody has a great weekend
Couldn't agree more. More and more you don't to see the guys pics....why is that? From the woman side here, I think that both of you should be shown on your profile so that everyone can see who they are talking to, wanting to get to know, OR maybe not...get to know...after all, all are supposed to be involved...
I agree, Even though it's the female half I'm interested in it is still nice to know who you are meeting with.
As a single male I have to jump through hoops most of the time with couples insisting on seeing more pics, face pics, fullbody pics, and I don't care how many times I see it said on swingular that noone what's to see dick and hard on pics, they most always request a dick pic and all of this from couples who do not include the male half in their photo album.
As a single male I have to jump through hoops most of the time with couples insisting on seeing more pics, face pics, fullbody pics, and I don't care how many times I see it said on swingular that noone what's to see dick and hard on pics, they most always request a dick pic and all of this from couples who do not include the male half in their photo album.
We also strongly prefer a profile that shows a pic of both and if it doesn`t we will request a pic of both before a meeting. however as the male half, I have no problem seeing a woman as sexy and can help the wife to take sexy pics. however when it comes to the men, I have no idea what the females view as a sexy pic of a man. Maybe the ladies can help us out as to what they like to see in a male pic and more of us will post them. Almost every time when we meet a couple the lady says you are so much sexier in person then your pic thus supporting my theory that I have no idea what a sexy guy is supposed to look like in a pic. And the wife is no help because she likes the big and rugged type of guy or the opposite end of the spectrum being the "no offense intended" computer geek type.
So ladies, help us out, if we are not the greek adonis type then what do you want to see in our pics?
So ladies, help us out, if we are not the greek adonis type then what do you want to see in our pics?
If you are a couple..show yourself as a couple....especially if you are full swap...when I see pics of just the wife I think, either the hubby's looking or is just a man looking for a good time or free porn pics....i see loosers...or maybe the hubby is too ugly to show.....
Full view pics are nice of both and if you want to put some sexy pics in thats great. However we love the excitement of opening the package in person just like on Christmas morning so we prefer to not see to much till the time is right and in person. Hey, who doesn`t like unwrapping a present?
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hows this for a pict of us lol true there s not many of me on our profile but i think she is so much beter looking than i am . but right you are we have found that if there isnt a pict of both were real leary of the contact . we are verry carefull .
Ya I agree lets see pics of both of you. Damn I guess I better look at our profile and see if there is a pic of my ass on there before I start throwing to much crap.:l
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I think it's ok for a couple to have one or the other in their main pic as long as you show both of you somewhere in your profile pics. If the pic of either one of you is enough to attract an intial response and we like the email and the couple or single inquiring, we will let them into our private pics where there is a plethora of "us" pics. I thinks it all boils down to personal preference.
I don't agree however with couple profiles that have "0" pics and/or the only pics are of just the man half with no private pics. That to us is a little fishy. The other one that always throws us is a couple pic or a single pic of a woman that is posted as the main pic on a "Single Male" profile. That's a little mis-leading I think. Sort of like the profiles with animals for main pics.... Huh?
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I think it's ok for a couple to have one or the other in their main pic as long as you show both of you somewhere in your profile pics. If the pic of either one of you is enough to attract an intial response and we like the email and the couple or single inquiring, we will let them into our private pics where there is a plethora of "us" pics. I thinks it all boils down to personal preference.
I don't agree however with couple profiles that have "0" pics and/or the only pics are of just the man half with no private pics. That to us is a little fishy. The other one that always throws us is a couple pic or a single pic of a woman that is posted as the main pic on a "Single Male" profile. That's a little mis-leading I think. Sort of like the profiles with animals for main pics.... Huh?
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like most the female 1/2 is better looking un like the male 1/2 like me i am old fart.... so female 1/2 is better 1/2 im 37-38 some where in there was born in jan of 69....(good year, good position)you tell me how old i am... (i dont fuggin know... always have to ask sara......)ttyl dennis and sara
FLCPL, your profile suits us perfectly. It teases just enough but leaves you wanting much more thus encouraging us to spend Christmas on the east coast in Deltona. I knew we moved to the wrong coast when we came to Florida. You just proved me correct.
Some of you have said she is way better looking so we put her pic on the front of the profile. This can be looked at two ways.
1) are you baiting others by using her
2) Being the glass is half full type of people we prefer to think of it this way....if you can keep a lady that attractive there has got to be something really good about the male. Maybe he is "gifted" in certain ways or maybe he is just a real good person, honest and has integrity. Since we are always looking to establish friendships we tend to believe he is special in some way to be in the relationship with such a beautiful woman.
So by having only one of you in the pic, without doing research it looks like you might have a 50 / 50 chance of scaring off possible contacts. Maybe it is time to update your pics no matter how scary you think you look.
Just our 2 cents (most overused phrase on here) worth.
Some of you have said she is way better looking so we put her pic on the front of the profile. This can be looked at two ways.
1) are you baiting others by using her
2) Being the glass is half full type of people we prefer to think of it this way....if you can keep a lady that attractive there has got to be something really good about the male. Maybe he is "gifted" in certain ways or maybe he is just a real good person, honest and has integrity. Since we are always looking to establish friendships we tend to believe he is special in some way to be in the relationship with such a beautiful woman.
So by having only one of you in the pic, without doing research it looks like you might have a 50 / 50 chance of scaring off possible contacts. Maybe it is time to update your pics no matter how scary you think you look.
Just our 2 cents (most overused phrase on here) worth.
As was said by the first poster, sometimes circumstances dictate why only one member of the couple is posted. Sometimes people use pictures in ways they aren't intended and there is a need for discretion.
We only have my picture on the site for a very good reason. Having said that, once we are comfortable with someone and want to meet with them, we most certainly would trade face pictures! That would only be fair.
Remember the days of "blind dates!" OMG! I know I had my share of surprises when I was younger. Blind dates can be fun but they can also be run like hell too! I remember walking in the front door of a restaurant and going straight the ladies' room and waiting there for almost an hour, and then leaving. I couldn't figure out how to get out of there without being seen. I digress...
I guess the bottomline is, if you want more than what we have in our profile, ask!
We only have my picture on the site for a very good reason. Having said that, once we are comfortable with someone and want to meet with them, we most certainly would trade face pictures! That would only be fair.
Remember the days of "blind dates!" OMG! I know I had my share of surprises when I was younger. Blind dates can be fun but they can also be run like hell too! I remember walking in the front door of a restaurant and going straight the ladies' room and waiting there for almost an hour, and then leaving. I couldn't figure out how to get out of there without being seen. I digress...
I guess the bottomline is, if you want more than what we have in our profile, ask!
OK I do agree...profile page, yes you need a pic that catches someones attention......but hello you can post other pics on your public profiles and I believe that was part of the original thread.....like I said before if your'e a cpl and in your public pics you only have pics of the wife...hummmm makes you to wonder....ok
states cpl: but only half the cpl showing
states full swap: but only half the swap showing
everything goes: hummmmmm where did the other spouse go
I believe we are on here for one thing and that is a sexual relationship...for that I believe you need an attraction....so why not post all that is involved.....shit letmme check my pics..I think I got one of hubby around there....lol
states cpl: but only half the cpl showing
states full swap: but only half the swap showing
everything goes: hummmmmm where did the other spouse go
I believe we are on here for one thing and that is a sexual relationship...for that I believe you need an attraction....so why not post all that is involved.....shit letmme check my pics..I think I got one of hubby around there....lol