As we meet friends on this site and discover other people like us we notice that
I read "anything goes" as they're open to suggestion. We are the types that do not like to conform or to be pigeon holed. So for us it's just saying that situation and company dictate where things will go.
well i went to another site and looked in their glossary of terms for ANYTHING GOES, and there was no such thing listed,I assume that phrase is only used on this site. We always assumed that it was a code words for WE LET THE FREAK OUT ON A REGULAR BASIS, and that we dont mind if you join. but according to my wife i could be wrong, but that is what we get from that but it could also be code words for arm pit fucking. lol
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Anything goes to us can be misleading.. No Preference seemed more appropriate in conveying the message that we are open to a variety of things but reserve the right to say no.
Hym, that is alway the case no matter what label you choose.
anything goes? goes where? thats what we want to know 
Well, maybe this will help some of you out. I am a phone fantasy administrator by way of living, and the site I work, 'Anything Goes" means most taboo things are discussed... (like armpitt fucking with your brothers' sisters' boyfriends' girlfriend, kidding, kinda).. LOL... or into incest, bestiality, daddy's lil-girl, underage sex.... a no holds-barred kinda thing. Some guys are pretty sick in the fantasy area and the FCC frowns on certain things like being spoken about over commercial phone lines for money. (maybe because they are illegal in real life??? DUH!)
For me personally, it means kinkier sex is open for discussion, what I will do with one person or group, does not mean I do it all the time. The no meand no rule still applies, but it should be easier to bring up more hard to ask for sex acts. It kinda makes it easier for someone to know my limits are more out there and kinkier than some might be lead to believe.
For me personally, it means kinkier sex is open for discussion, what I will do with one person or group, does not mean I do it all the time. The no meand no rule still applies, but it should be easier to bring up more hard to ask for sex acts. It kinda makes it easier for someone to know my limits are more out there and kinkier than some might be lead to believe.
They need an option that says, " Depends on couple and/or situation".
To us, specifying soft swap, full swap, voyeur, and girl-girl means that's the one thing you're into or primary prefer. IMHO, for the anything goes crowd it means that all of it is welcome and depending on the situation they'll be happy to indulge in any or all of the previously mentioned activities. Simple as that. Though the people who have Anything Goes in their preferences and then have in their profile that they're looking for girl-girl is really confusing.
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PS. Think we can get a Seeking Preference for "People who actually read profiles"?
-SG
PS. Think we can get a Seeking Preference for "People who actually read profiles"?
How about "Management reserves the right to refuse service to anyone"?
Again, that's a given. I say none of us should pay that much attention to a small blurb on a profile. That is the beauty of getting to know the couple/person.
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'no shirt, no shoes, you get service'
we took it as open mindedness
I have always taken it to mean that the couple is open to most anything within the bounds set in their profile. As a single guy it could mean that they might even be open to having a single guy join them for a 3-some. Either way, it means I have a better chance of a response to an email than one that says full-swap or girl-girl. (Kinda hard to swap without a willing partner, LOL) It all boils down to whether or not the profile warrants closer scrutiny or possibly even an attempt at a meeting.
at least that is my opinion, I could be wrong.
at least that is my opinion, I could be wrong.
I am one who selected "anything goes" with the thought in mind, " I am open to talking about anything, and maybe doing some of them." One of the strangest things in life is to set boundaries and then realize in the middle of your life... OOPS that sounds fun, or You will never know if you like broccoli if you never try it, etc.....perhaps the best answer might be... "ASK ME ABOUT MY PREFERENCES" same as ask me for my picture....I really dont know because anything goes, really says NOTHING, you still have to ask, " what do you mean by anything? "
We hate "anything goes". Why? Because some put it that way and then they start adding rules. To me, it is a "bait and switch". If you said AG then even if I were a single male, it should be fine. To that, in theory, AG is a great idea. In practice, unless you really mean it, you are baiting and switching. For instance, if you said AG, what if I want him to take it up the butt from me? Under AG, it should be fine. Well when we meet, suddenly you say "No male-male anal." WTF? You just said AG?
Personally, we think that if you don't mean it, don't say it. Much better that you list what you won't do. That way, if you respond to my ad, you know what you are getting and no awkward moments. More to the point, I don't want to be trying something when we play and assume you are fine with it and then you get all pissy. Much easier to say what you mean and mean what you say
Personally, we think that if you don't mean it, don't say it. Much better that you list what you won't do. That way, if you respond to my ad, you know what you are getting and no awkward moments. More to the point, I don't want to be trying something when we play and assume you are fine with it and then you get all pissy. Much easier to say what you mean and mean what you say
To us it means that we are open to whatever we, and whomever we choose to play with is comfortable with. If everyone is in agreement, then we are good to go! We will soft swap, full swap, just watch, do the group thing, separate rooms etc. The anything goes option encompasses all of those choices. It does not mean that we are willing to do ANYTHING with anybody! Everyone has limits within whatever preference you choose. Communication before play is the key.
Since the Admin put in "anything goes", maybe they can provide us with the defintion as they intended it to be used.