One of my biggest peeves is profiles with no pics.
Also when people add me to their friends list and don't send an e-mail.
Hate reading profile that say, just looking, since 2004? are you still just looking, or are you a peeping Tom of sorts, take your look and go away.
~K~
Also when people add me to their friends list and don't send an e-mail.
Hate reading profile that say, just looking, since 2004? are you still just looking, or are you a peeping Tom of sorts, take your look and go away.
~K~
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
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I'm curious as to how you came to this conclusion.
My pet peeve would be people who live in glass houses and still throwing rocks.As an example she ravenous instead of she is ravenous.Just my two cents worth.
First one: You get an email that says, you guys are hot!! and they've added us to their friends list and have no public or private photos..... WTF???
Second: Single males beat with an ugly stick looking for a threesome. Seriously..
Third: Too many couples that don't want to swap but want the girls to play.. Lots of fun for the guys let me tell you.. NOT!!
Fourth: Not enough features on this site. Example, private chat rooms so you only have to look at who you invite. That would be nice.
UtHot
Second: Single males beat with an ugly stick looking for a threesome. Seriously..
Third: Too many couples that don't want to swap but want the girls to play.. Lots of fun for the guys let me tell you.. NOT!!
Fourth: Not enough features on this site. Example, private chat rooms so you only have to look at who you invite. That would be nice.
UtHot
I would like to add....Hate when people take pics of themselves in a mirror with a camera phone, looks like someone smudged it. Get a real camera, set the timer and pose!
Also, the site says please don't put penetration shots as your main photo, I have seen a couple that literally made me gag. Seriously if that is what you look like having sex, please don't bring it around me, sex is supposed to be fun, not sickening.
OK, thats all for now!
~K~

Also, the site says please don't put penetration shots as your main photo, I have seen a couple that literally made me gag. Seriously if that is what you look like having sex, please don't bring it around me, sex is supposed to be fun, not sickening.
OK, thats all for now!
~K~
I'm with HOTCPLEXTREME on his 3rd point...
"Third: Too many couples that don't want to swap but want the girls to play.. Lots of fun for the guys let me tell you.. NOT!!"
Wow, that really irks both Siren and myself. That phenomenon alone has caused us to reword our profile many times, and try and weed out those couples that are in it just for the chick play, merely because the male half can't stand the thought of me possibly pleasing his wife more than he can. Yet he's down with joining in on the ladies IF they do get a little friendly....
GRRRR....
~J~
"Third: Too many couples that don't want to swap but want the girls to play.. Lots of fun for the guys let me tell you.. NOT!!"
Wow, that really irks both Siren and myself. That phenomenon alone has caused us to reword our profile many times, and try and weed out those couples that are in it just for the chick play, merely because the male half can't stand the thought of me possibly pleasing his wife more than he can. Yet he's down with joining in on the ladies IF they do get a little friendly....
GRRRR....
~J~
My pet peeves are misspelled words and guys that wear socks during sex. Oh and people that have pictures that are at least ten years old because when you meet them, they look nothing like their picture.
Ok WEB...that's yet another pet peeve we can add to our lists...and people wonder why some don't take the time to respond...sheesh!
~J~
~J~
Gee Golly Gee MR. Wilson and we thought we were the only ones with all the peeves about all this. but i have to admit frist and formost my spelling sux, but
Our biggest would have to be people who seem all eager to get together so we ask them what they have in mind and they either don't write back or when they do they pretty much say "whatever you want" and act like we're the ones who NEED to make all the plans to meet them. Why are we investing our time and energy to put this together when most likely there will be a last minute cancellation? Sure we'll enjoy an evening out by ourselves, but we can do that whenever its convenient for us, rather than when it was supposedly convenient for you. Or when we do suggest something we never hear from them again. Its just dinner (usually). We're not gonna start ripping your clothes off in public. Hell, even if we invite you over to hang out at our house, nothing is gonna happen unless EVERYONE is interested.
Second biggest, ppl who add us to their friends list and NEVER write. IF they bothered reading our profile they'd know that isn't going to get them anywhere. If you want to "save" our profile for viewing later by your spouse or whatever other interest you have in it, just use the convenient little "Forward to another member" link in the profile (see left column of profile) and send it to yourself!
My .02 for this evening
-SG
Second biggest, ppl who add us to their friends list and NEVER write. IF they bothered reading our profile they'd know that isn't going to get them anywhere. If you want to "save" our profile for viewing later by your spouse or whatever other interest you have in it, just use the convenient little "Forward to another member" link in the profile (see left column of profile) and send it to yourself!
My .02 for this evening
-SG
I hate it when people get off topic talking about smiley faces.....
Sorry, I'm just in one of those moods.
Sorry, I'm just in one of those moods.
We agree!!!!
I finally figured out the smiley. I just had to ignore those "super helpful" smiles on the side and put it in my own. yeah me!!!

I finally figured out the smiley. I just had to ignore those "super helpful" smiles on the side and put it in my own. yeah me!!!
FIRSTTIME, that looks very familar.... But I just can't put my finger on it.
Sorry, off topic agian, I'm such prick....
I hate it when couples set a date and call because something came up, and never follow up. Just say you not interested and we'll all move on...
Sorry, off topic agian, I'm such prick....
I hate it when couples set a date and call because something came up, and never follow up. Just say you not interested and we'll all move on...
TEMPTEDTRI Sorry off the topic again
my peeve...no matter how many times I tell my kids to wipe the knife off they still get jelly in the damn peanut butter jar.. :@
Does that add us to friends list, however they dont take the time to send an email.
Well, good to know that we are not the only ones with these pet peeves and found that I have been guilty of one...
1. No pics and adding to friends - they only want to see ours? Most importantly.. no face pics.
2. Pics that are years old. Are they so hideous now? or don't they own a camera? Would we be able to recognize you when we met??
3. Males who think all I want to see is a cock shot. Prefer faces. Oh yes..and couples who have nothing but the wife's pics. None of him or just a brief glimpse of his cock. arggggg!!
4. Making plans, finding a sitter - a place for my child to spend the night - only to have a cancellation, last minute. 2nd strike.. you're out.
As for the adding as friends.. I guess I'm guilty of that.. (sorry Pleasures)
Well, it says "Someone Likes You".. so I figured, I'll send the add, if they like us back, they will add, and then we correspond. If no response after a period of time, we remove from friends list.... Is that bad??? (probably peeving someone off.. sorry again)
OK.. so I've learned something.. I promise to from now on.. to send an email as well..
Maggi
1. No pics and adding to friends - they only want to see ours? Most importantly.. no face pics.
2. Pics that are years old. Are they so hideous now? or don't they own a camera? Would we be able to recognize you when we met??
3. Males who think all I want to see is a cock shot. Prefer faces. Oh yes..and couples who have nothing but the wife's pics. None of him or just a brief glimpse of his cock. arggggg!!
4. Making plans, finding a sitter - a place for my child to spend the night - only to have a cancellation, last minute. 2nd strike.. you're out.
As for the adding as friends.. I guess I'm guilty of that.. (sorry Pleasures)
Well, it says "Someone Likes You".. so I figured, I'll send the add, if they like us back, they will add, and then we correspond. If no response after a period of time, we remove from friends list.... Is that bad??? (probably peeving someone off.. sorry again)
OK.. so I've learned something.. I promise to from now on.. to send an email as well..

Maggi
Well, the peeve about the adding to friends list and never hearing from someone is all about this vague "Somebody likes you" message. It could mean a multitude of things.
Examples:
"Somebody likes you cuz you have REALLY hot pics and hopes to see more of them and better yet your private vids if you have them cuz they need some new material to help get them off but they have no intention of ever actually getting together with you"
"Somebody likes you, cuz they enjoy the way you wrote your profile and thinks you're pretty cool, but has no intention of hooking up with you"
"Somebody likes you (one of you, but not necessarily the other) and its doubtful their spouse will like your spouse so you won't ever actually be getting together even to get to know each other."
"Somebody likes you cuz you seem like you'd be cool people to hang out with for friends, but they aren't really interested in swinging with you"
"Somebody likes you and would really like to get to know you better in the biblical sense"
"Somebody likes you cuz you live in an area where they will be vacationing and they'd really like to get together with you, but you won't actually know that they are going to be in your area UNLESS they write you a message and tell you that."
I could go on, but I think we all get the idea...
That is why adding us to your friends will get you nowhere. We don't generally add ppl to our friends list until it looks likely that we will get together with them cuz that is where we keep our face pics. If we wanted to have them out there for just anyone to see, we'd have them in our public album.
My spare change for today
-SG
Examples:
"Somebody likes you cuz you have REALLY hot pics and hopes to see more of them and better yet your private vids if you have them cuz they need some new material to help get them off but they have no intention of ever actually getting together with you"
"Somebody likes you, cuz they enjoy the way you wrote your profile and thinks you're pretty cool, but has no intention of hooking up with you"
"Somebody likes you (one of you, but not necessarily the other) and its doubtful their spouse will like your spouse so you won't ever actually be getting together even to get to know each other."
"Somebody likes you cuz you seem like you'd be cool people to hang out with for friends, but they aren't really interested in swinging with you"
"Somebody likes you and would really like to get to know you better in the biblical sense"
"Somebody likes you cuz you live in an area where they will be vacationing and they'd really like to get together with you, but you won't actually know that they are going to be in your area UNLESS they write you a message and tell you that."
I could go on, but I think we all get the idea...
That is why adding us to your friends will get you nowhere. We don't generally add ppl to our friends list until it looks likely that we will get together with them cuz that is where we keep our face pics. If we wanted to have them out there for just anyone to see, we'd have them in our public album.
My spare change for today
-SG
Since this happened last night & I'm in a fog from a late night & a too early morning, here's one of my peeves! (please forgive that it's unrelated to swinging...)
People who go to rock concerts & then bitch when you stand up in front of them! WTF!!
Do they think they're at a movie?!
My advice - rent the fucking concert dvd & watch it from your couch. Or, get front row seats...
btw - Heart rocks! Anyone who can't / won't stand up at a Heart show is too old to rock & likely too old to swing...
People who go to rock concerts & then bitch when you stand up in front of them! WTF!!
Do they think they're at a movie?!
My advice - rent the fucking concert dvd & watch it from your couch. Or, get front row seats...
btw - Heart rocks! Anyone who can't / won't stand up at a Heart show is too old to rock & likely too old to swing...