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It has been interesting to us as we have asked many in the lifestyle how they came up with their handle / names for this site or others they are on. The handle obviously mean something to them, personal or otherwise, and we all have to figure that out, with some being obvious and others needing explanation. Some have been very interesting and insightful about the people who were creative in coming up with them. Others are just lack luster, and as they are. Some we have found, do it to portray them and what they like while others do it to be discreet. Then there are those that don't give a damn and just want to have fun, either way each to their own. Yet they all have some sort of meaning to those that created them.

Since we have found this to be an interesting topic we have discussed with others, we ask that you share how you came up with yours, while you read and learn more about others on this site.

As for us
Look up "bonobo" on Google, ( 6 represents "sex" -I have "bonobo6" on my license plate , that's the closest I could get without having it rejected by the state)
love4group was the original title,but already used so had to got with love4groupe.however we are interested in couples who get together for 1on1couples sex(four people total).just a large group of them.it was a mistake since we were not ready for group sex all for all,hell we were too new. we were real green our fisrt bbw group meeting ?????!!!?!?!?!??.needless to say we've exacted what we're looking for in our profile.wife&I still like meaning of handle couples group sex because it would be nice to get together with a group of couples.just ones that ok with us just watching , joining (if we choose) or not joining and being with just each other. ;)
Hey Fun AND FreeThinking... cool :)

Mine is a spin on an old handle I shared with my husband when I was married - TheDeviants2 We were pretty active in the lifestyle before we started to have troubles (not lifestyle related). After we divorced and I was ready to return to the lifestyle, I wanted my old friends that I'd lost contact with to recognize me. Our departure was rather abrupt and I was sad to loose them. So that, and my personal play style, explains the Deviant. I threw Te there because T is the first letter of my first name and Wa-La. DeviantTe pronounced in the feminine, cause you all know I'm a lady <wink>

Enjoy!

Te
Hey everyone!

We came up with our title because it fits us!

Although...the "Theater" bit doesn't reflect any drama (for the record). It simply reflects our...exhibitionist tendencies.

As for the Kinbaku? Look it up!

-K_T
Wettfem was her handle when she was a single fem before I met her. It sounded good to me, so we kept it. You know, I never asked her how she came up with it, but I can guess. LOL
Our original handle was just Cidd, which is one he's used for years online as a way of staying anonymous. I believe it orginated from a conglomeration of Capt Kidd. Why? I dunno. LOL

After having spent a lot of time in chat I had my own nickname bestowed upon me, so we had Admin adjust our handle. So now we are Cidd(him)nSG(me). The SG stands for Sweet Goddess. You'd have to ask the ppl who gave it me why they thought it was appropriate or I guess just get to know me like they did.

-SG
"ThoughtGarden" is a name that I (Mr. Thought) have used online for over 10 years, in various capacities, dating to way back when I was living a former life, in a former marriage and even before Siren and I married. It's very reflective of me as a person, as I am perhaps a tad more contemplative than the average schmo, and I often retreat to a carefully cultivated and tended "garden" of thoughts, musing, conclusions and wonderments.

As for SirenSextress...perhaps she'll elaborate on that, but hell, I think if and once you know her, the name is wholly self-explanatory.

Great topic FUNDO!

~J~
Since we got married, we have had all kinds of play on words with Cyndis name... but the name CYN has stuck with her... We wanted a name that identified her mainly since she is the good looking one and myself as a tag along.. hence.. CYNANDHIM

When I decided to have my own profile, I still wanted the association with her, so.. HYM4CYN.

Wasnt much of a brainer.. but its been fun for us.
We used hubby's mountainman name, he has been in the rendezvous reinactments since 1972 and it was given to him way back. So we just kinda used it
She's Puerto Rican......I'm Jamaican....Hence PRJA
ours is a combination of our first names, Mark and Anissa and the 5 is for the 5 kids we share...

M/A
Ours is somewhat self-explanatory.... to most.

We were both born under the sign of Aquarius.... the Water Bearer.. 361 days apart.

You know the type...... free thinking, independent, zany, out of the box, somewhat secretive.

A little bit different, but worth the effort.

Cool knowing the facts behind the names.. I've often wondered about the stories that brought about the many different, unusual, fun and interesting names.
B & B

Shine on :D
derbysoup54. is my email that i have used for years
derby = i love to build, and drive demolition derby cars
soup = my nickname sence high school
54 = my car number the first one that the officals in kamas gave me i was the 54 car that sighned up for the derby in 1995.
He is my Pet. I am his Mistress. So we chose Pet, the numbers were randomly generated. Would like to change it at some point to reflect us both instead of just him and some tacky numbers.

So how does one change the name? HAHA
Ours is Kitty for her, cause when you pet the Kitty it does alot more then purrrrr, and Woo is from a Stealy Dan song, The Dogg part is from George Clinton atomic dogg where it is ask why the dogg chases the cat? kinda a play on word i guess . lol
well..... We do So Cal (among a few other places)! lol, it really is that simple.
ours is super simple..it's who we are..Mike and Rosie
Ours was a name we used when we first started checking out the lifestyle around 2002. We came across AFF, for those of you familiar with that site and we wanted to come up with a name that described us. Since AFF was more national than Swingular was when we joined we obviously added the UT for the state, the "hot" portion I put to describe my wife (not me lol) and of course we are a couple and the extreme part I'm still trying to figure out... haha. Boring I know but since we used it on AFF figured we'd carry it over to here so those jumping ship would remember us..

UtHot
ours has to do with male owning wolves for past 30 years and my owning wolf for past 11 years :)
lol good one lol
Ours is as simple as they get with np being the abbreviation for our town of North Port and nudist because we are just that and last time I checked we were still a cpl or couple. Boring I know but meant to inform you of a little of who and where we are.
Well we started playing on his email which had fire in it. Since he is a fireman and puts fires out we figured I must be the one starting them so FIRESTARTER911 was born.
Actually ours came from "UT" meaning Ute, the tribe we are from. "HOT" as in we own a HOTel business in Farmington New Mexico. "CPL" stands for Carnivourous pussy lickers, and extreme, for the weather in which we like to entertain.. So, basically we are A hot ass Indian couple who owns hotels in New Mexico and likes to eat pussy in snow storms...

LOL
I (the Mrs.) actually came up with ours while the hubby was at work. I thought it would be easy to change if he didn't like it ... yeah pretty funny. I picked "Tequila" because that is my drink of choice and it usually gets me into alot of trouble. I picked "Rose" for an old stage name I used once upon a time. Hubby didn't like it but now we are stuck with it lol.



Mrs. TR
He is Jim...A lot of people call him Jimmy, James, etc...He hates it...So JUST (jst) JIM and 72 is the year the world was blessed with his birth...Created this in AFF, then used the same on yahoo to chat with her on yahoo, then when we got together, we used the same name on all sites to keep track of who we were...We have used jstjim722 once, cause someone else used jstjim72 OR the freebie period ended...not sure which it was...LOL
AS A KID I WAS TOLD TO ALWAYS ANSWER THE PHONE BY SAYING-HELLO WHITEHOUSE, has something to do with a name:q
We were both working jobs in Germany and our original screen name was "AMEUROPE" for Americans in Europe and some S.O.B. on the swing site we belonged to stole our screen name we contacted the swing site to try to get it resolved but the site we belonged to (AFF) was no help so we deleted the account and tried to find a name that no one else would want or figure out and out of the clear blue I the male half of the cpl came up with "AMPUSSY" for American Pussy and we have had the same screen name for going on 8 yrs now.
The first part has several meanings... First; D & B are our respective initials. Secondly, double play spelled out is obviously a double entendre. The term in this scenario speaks for itself, then add the fact that he was a ball player and an infielder at that and it was just natural. "4u" just seemed to tie it all together and served as a welcome matt for all you sexy people out there... and now you know... the rest of the story.
This is pretty lame...25 yrs ago a friend called me "luther", said i was a cool as luther vandrose, the tide part comes from my college education. Bama grad and huge bama fan...

Michele just goes along with it...lol
I (female half) am a great fan of tombstone and my favorite character is Doc Holiday. I the movie he challenges another outlaw by saying....I'll be your huckleberry....I just loved it and that is where it is. So, if your up for the challenge.... The 713 are my lucky numbers. Challenging and lucky, what more could you ask for?

M
My handle is a take-off of my Yahoo name - Yetiman1948. I chose that handle because I wanted to use Bigfoot, but it was taken, so I chose Yeti, added my gender and year of birth.
Simple, Disneyworld was already taken. :S
We chose LUCKYME, well.. the first 4 letters are part of our last name.. and we consider ourselves very lucky to find each other. The 472.. is random.. part of his previous yah ID.

Maggi & Luke == Luck.. (Him) Y ("and" in spanish) Me.. lol guess it could be a couple of ways..
Our profile name was thought up very carefully. We put a lot of creativity and time into our profile name. After many agonizing days of trying to get our damn name right we thought this had to be THE ONE!............
HA HA HA HA! We actually typed in things like "utcple" and "funcple" and so on and so forth but everything was taken. SO we live in UT and we wanted everyone to remember us........and it is a swingers site......and my husband is a man-whore.... so what other name would we chose?... SLUT!!!!!! Too bad we don't live up to the name........LOL!
Sorry, not too creative here!
xo UTSLUTS
UTSLUTS, thanks for giving us that insight, but honestly everyone that has met (your man) knows this and how your name came about. LOL such a lable for a sweet-n-innocent (ohh and sexy) girl to have to indure. But we all don't EVER forget you ;)
We ride Harley's, so what better name to come up with than luv2rideHD :). 3 days till we leave for Sturgis.
people tend to freak a little bit about ours but it is the name of our retail store. We dont actually murder anyone we are just fun witha different sense of humor.
She was the slut and he was the sinner. Now the roles are reversed.
I was shot with a bb gun when I was a kid... myeye is kinda close to the username I have for most other things 'oopsmyeye' because when I got shot... oops! Its nothing kinky, but I can shoot myself in the eye while getting off! That could be another relation
man we are so boring!! bet you cant figure ours out!
When I am Hot and ready to burst into Flame I yell "Help Fire"!!!! to my Firefighter Hubby. LOL
Can you figure out how I got mine?..lol
Wow ours is hard I will try to explain it...

Ok Fun as in having a good time, 4 as in four, U as in you, 2 as in to..The meaning behind is that we are Fun people and can be Fun for you as well...

So there you have it ( FUN4U2 )...We know you would have never guessed took us a long time to come up with that name so we wear it proud...lol

T & C
Well, I couldn't spell coupel..I mean copple..I mean...damn...Couple want to play...and it was way to long...Sooo we tried to make is simple "cplwannaply"...and we still do.. want to play...um last time I checked..yep..she said yes..
Lar and Lor
Well its a combination of both of our regular handles. Mine regularly is StitchWolf, that would be a combination of my love for wolves,and my personality which is that of Stitch, the cartoon alien that just doesnt give a shit..And my lady Majestic, which is short for Majestic Blonde Taurus, and that needs no explanation!
~T&D~
Ummm...do we really have to answer that? 242=2for2=couple for another couple. Get it? ;)
Well, I am male and since i was born in 1948, some would think me old. And in the chat rooms many wanted age and sex. So it seemed oleman1948 was appropriate.
Well Spring is my wife's name and for me it is ALWAYS SPRINGTIME !!!!!!! Boring and not original but it is us.


Spring and Ed
Well we wanted ya'll to know we were a couple and for everyone to stop asking "ya from Utah"? just kiddin
Well you see, theres the two of us..so naturally..lol
My spirit animals are the Red Tailed Hawk and its mythical analog, the Phoenix. Discovering that... now that is a 26 year long story.
I have been fortunate enough to mountain bike ever since Specialized came out with the first edition Rock Hopper which would explain the
I have carried this profile name for years. Pretty much on any site I have been on. I too lost the account to yahoo and hotmail because the spam was driving me crazy.

But the name Playon88 was created because #1, I love to play. #2: 88 is better then 69 because you get eight twice. :p
Funny this comes up because we constantly have ppl asking us why the name stitchutah, and what exactly it means. Truth is, it doesn't really mean anything. Stitch is, or was his nickname growing up. When he lived with his dad around 7-8th grade in utah county he was getting a set of stitches every other day it seemed so one of his best friends dad gave him the nickname stitch, and it just stuck. Eventually he grew out of it but to this day all his old friends and the parents of those friends from that era in his life still call him stitch, infact I think they may have forgotten his real name LOL! When we joined a couple different lifestyle sites in the beginning it was just a curiousity thing and we didn't plan on really getting to involved so we just used his email and used stitchutah as our screenname. We didn't plan on sticking with any of this so we didn't put a lot of thought into a screenname that really fit us both haha, however that was about 7 years ago, and we still haven't killed our curiousity with the lifestyle so here we are still with the screenname stitchutah, the name that doesn't really have anything to do with us, or the lifestyle but rather a nickname from years ago. Interesting topic, its been fun to see how everyone came up with their names.
Ours was fairly easy to come up with. Chuff is my hubby's nickname and muff rhymed and I have one. :p
I know I'm bringing this one back from the dead, but it's been a long busy summer and I'm finally catching up and loved this topic, too fun!
Ours came from several attempts to pick names that were already chosen (guess we aren't original enough?) and when we put in curiousnewbies it worked, so it stuck. Sad thing is, although we (especially me, the Mrs) will forever be curious, we are far from newbies. Been lifestyle playing almost 8 years! In our defence, we were new to this site, for a second... lol
We're taking advice on a new name though, any input would be great. Help describe us to everyone!
How about We124Q? lol shouldn't that be my liscence plate! ... that would go over well as I pick up the carpool kids!
ahhh, I make myself giggle at the thought of seeing the crossing guard PTA ladies faces, hehe
Tricia
OK ours is simple but here it goes

Bi= bisexual
cou= couple
4= for
f= female
_ = to separate the 2 f's
FL= florida

we are a bisexual couple for a female in florida...tahhhh dahhhhhhhh
Darwin333... Darwin Came from being a clutz... All my friends dont think ill live past the age of 40 and if i do i will be in a wheelchair... the name originated from the Darwin Awards which I (so my friends say) will errently Earn.... 333 is off a shirt i saw... "333 Only half evil"
i wish i could be so creative . every one thinks that it is a medifour. it is my work or was ,i was drilling for oil n gas in the basin and my e mail was driller and now our profile is as ,you all see drillerexp . no ta da or poof nothingf special
Ron
Its what the tattoo right above my cock says! Little devil in spanish. :)
heres a pic!
Good way to make thing fun again

Well ours is cues I (the female) love dolphins and Him he loves wolfs just add the year we was married that how it came to be
;)
You know that feeling in the moment doing such wild stuff, that after you end up saying, "whoa, that was so HOT! I cant believe I did that!"

We like to be driven crazy doing such wild - dirty - sexy - stuff! :)

Crazywild or wildcrazy seems to say insane than wild - So, We chose WildCraze...
before it became an everyday word, BOOYA was a word used to state an exclaimation. He use to use it alot when he was in the Corps. Became his nickname. and 69 is self explainatory!
i wanted to be honest, and aimed for the sequioa trees as a similarity for my manness
i used to drill on a rig the photo attached . Drill = Ron my excepinal perty wife Lissa .
drill + lissa = DRILLEREXP corny but we like it lol
Its my real name

k
For us, we went bowling one Sunday afternoon about 5 years ago and noticed when we bought new bowing balls they but your int. on your bowling ball. Hers was lgs mine bcs so together we became lgsbcs and have been that on all the sites we are on...or better know to ours friends as LeAnn&Billy.
the way we figured ours was.... all of our friends say i'm a big nympho, so that was about it :)
just love to have sex all the time and any where ;) also love to just play around as well.
J&N
sara came up with ours..... then we got onto yahoo with the same handle... kinda self explanatory if you know we are dennis and sara....
I came with my user name several ways.

#1 I've been a motorcycle rider all my life, and I had Lionel trains as a kid. For those that dont get it, both motorcycles and trains have been call Ironhorse.

#2 While I was married, I owned a farm with a 5 stall horse barn, we rented the barn out to a man with race horses.

#3 I drag raced motorcycles semi pro ET bracket at Muncie, Bunker Hill, Indianapolis, Indiana and Norwalk Ohio. Since I rode / ride an imitation Harley, I called my team Ironhorse. Iron is a solid metal, and I was a solid racer, known for getting off the starting line very well, and running the dial in I gave the tower or put on my bike.

#4 From November of 2001 to February of 2002 I was a test rider for American Ironhorse motorcycles in Ft Worth.
When I began creating the ID I was active in the nudist liestyle and living in Orlando, so orl(orlando)sun. But orlsun became too much like oral son. Lots and lots of messages from gay men. so I shortenrd it to orsun which was taken so I added a 6 because I thought 9 was bragging a little. ERGO orsun6. Other places I am known as partysilky because at parties I like to wear silkies or nothing.
well we got ours cause my wife is a nympho and yup they rock
I think everyone will agree lol ;)
Well we are "two4fun" (who isn't out 4 fun? ;) ), the 91 is his old racing number and 14 is my favorite number....so voila, two4fun9114.....simple and easy to remember. :)

Mrs. Two
Wow after reading how everyone else came up with theres I fill bad for not using more thought on ours. Actually I'll blame it on the wife she's the one that put us on here.
O ya if your a hot couple in our area take a look and give us a buzz...
Thanks Ya'al, Awesome and Insightful!
we werent "swingers" when we attended our first party at the xchange club. Deb came up behind the misses and cupped her breast i though the misses was going to cum unglued. it was very erotic. later in the night deb came up and spoke to us again and had the misses play with her boobies and of course we were both turned on. we then kisses while deb held us both.

so we thogh how simple the pleasure was that we received from that. so we decided we should be simplepleasures.

sadly we had to add xxx to the front to get a yahoo account but it was close enough.
This topic did lighten up the atmosphere... it was getting a lil tooooo tense in the forumsss... luv it
Hubby rides a Harley and I like a Big Hard Dick so we use it both ways

Luv2ridehd = Harley Davidson Him
Luv2ridehd= Hard Dick Her
ours is a hard one.
ta2cpl
tattoo couple.
fuck now the cat is out of the bag.
p.s. we dont have tattoos ;)
Well whenI was going to massage school, I was told by numerous classmates that my hands had the golden touch. Then I was signing up for a Yahoo email address and goldenhands was already taken as was goldenhandz, I decided to add some numbers and goldenhandz69 was taken so I went with 77 ... from a joke as a kid ---

what is better than 69?

77 cuz you get ATE more ..

every site I have been to since I have used the same profile name.

ok so its a bit long winded, so what?
we have got 6 kids between us and every one says thats crazy and it drives us crazy at times so there you go
WOW very easy...........I'm a firefighter.........he he he
Mine is simple, it is my nickname lol! That is Kar as in care lol!
Well, I bet some of you can guess how we came up with ours. I, Monica, used to be a dancer in Las Vegas, at least that's where I started, so we decided to use that as our name.

This is a fun site, and a fun topic. Hope everyone is ready for a sexy sex-crazed weekend!

We know we are. LOL

Monica and Dave
Well for us it's simple. Sunset is my stage of life and dreamer is my state of mind.
We got our handle from Mrs. Blue's eye color(which is real!) and her birth month. It just kinda fit and it is our handle on all of our profiles.
Google it...heheheh.
I have a tradition, going back some years, of using NO thought to come up with names because I can be obsessive...

It came to me in about one second after I asked myself what to call us..
Ours mainly came from the fact that we want to make all our dreams inlife to come true. And male doesnt dream of two women and what women doesnt dream of being desired by others, And so far so great
We are bringing back this topic so all can see how much fun the forums can be as well. Many have commented in person, with private emails and on this forum, just how fun and enjoyable this post has been and how much they loved it. We have new people on here since the original post, so we thought this would give them a reason to read and tune in and give them reasons to smile about this site. Not to mention everyone gets to see the sexy people that post ;)

Thank you to those who have shared and solved some of the intrigue and mystery that comes with your handles and names. This has been very interesting and insightful. Again to those who have shared THANK YOU and those that haven't please do so others can enjoy. ;)
Well our name was mine. The name came from my favorite fruit which is an Apple and Muffin is from my pet Kitty that would set on my lap while I typed on the computer. So when I need a nick name it just seened to fit and the rest is history.:D
as any of you that have meet me know I'm a dork! So the wife and I started swinging with personal fernds, (bad bad bad) so the last fall out we had we started looking for a more user ferndly way of having our cake and eating it too! Well to make a long story short I was leaving work one day, wateing for something to finsh surfing the net when i found this sight. Called up the wife sead hay I found blabla and so on! So I get told to get us set up and in a hurry I fill out everything out go home, we login and i get "Christopher do you know what our screen name is?" Hotforsex622 haha see total dork! I can't help it! It makes for a good time thow!
KT, do we get points if I didn't have to google it? :P
My eyes are hazal and i love tigger
Ours is an expression of how wet the Mrs. can get 4 u. :)
Oh My God Two!

That's so.........kinky and wrong.

How many points ya want? And whatcha wanna spend 'em on?

Bwahahahaah!!!!

Ya know...we really ought to post some "representative" pics of our handle...
We started out with our name when we were only nudists and looking for local nudists for friends on yahoo. NP is short for the town we live in and the rest explains itself. Since so many know us by this name we use it on all sites we belong to and yahoo where we run a group for locals.
We could tell you but then we would have to kill you. ;) lol

R&S