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We have moved our main pictures to private with an email request disclaimer in the profile ... we have been keeping it on the downlow with the couple that we came across.

Later ... Angel
lol. I think we'd be masturbating like crazy fantasizing!!! :)
well ........i think that would be kool if the other couple felt the same.............that would mean we found another couple that lived near us.............unfortunatly..........i don think we will get that lucky................but we will keep looking...........lol
Fuck em ;)

It has happened to us already. There are about 60 people that work for me and we knew one day we would run into this situation.

Fortunately the couple who recognized our profile are awesome. They have become rather good friends of ours. We will not EVER play with them do to work situations. If it would have happened to a person in a lower position it may have been a problem but luckily she is not that far down the food chain.

It was very scary at first but worked out quite well.
Funny you should ask... I was browsing the porfiles the other day and did see someone I work with. I have not mentioned that I saw them on here. I think it would be a little strange at work, but i am curious if he has noticed us.
Both Siren and I have co-workers that are on here, and have recruited a few also. It's always been a fun experience to encounter. ;)

~J~
fuck em
One of my coworkers asked me to answer his cell phone one day and nobody responded when I said hello but I heard moaning and then his wife said listen to what is waiting for you when you get home honey. She was having fun with the neighbor lady friend by the pool and wanted to use it as an incentive to get him to get his work done and rush home. Since then we have been open about the lifestyle to each other but do not play because of our work relationship plus the fact that we do not hit it off sexually.
Before making a trip back home to Philadelphia we were browsing profiles and found an old friends sons profile with his wife. Now that was to freaky for me but maybe explained some things that happened in the past with his parents before we knew about the lifestyle.
If we see them then it's reasonable to assume that they have seen us. If they are on the same level at work or work in a different department then we would probably say hi using their screen name. I think it would open up opportunities for friendship and or play buddies. OTOH, If they hadn't said anything to us...maybe they don't wish to acknowledge their participation or maybe they don't like for us to get any closer than just knowing... We live in a very small town and everyone's nose is crooked in everybody else's business... So, in the final analysis, it really depends on their profile, i.e., their/our likes and dislikes and if they match, age preferences, etc.

How about this situation.... When we were young and ignorant of the lifestyle.....circa 1970... The owner of the company where we both work invited us to their new condominiium (I now think a condom-inium is a group of domiciles where safe sex is practiced).. Well we went and we were offered drinks, shown the place and then out of the blue they started playing VHS videos. One was hot rackets and I don't remember the other 2 or 3. I was the mechanical engineer for the company and in my late 20's and didn't put 2 and 2 together then... B definitely was totally in the dark... This man's wife, which I still stay in contact with, could have been in playboy at about 38. .. I think that was the first time that we missed an oportunity. IF we had only known..... then what we know now..... This lady is now in her 70's and still a good looking woman.....
LOL...cynnhim knows what we would do... :z
I think it depends on the person. Some people wouldn't mind if the were recognized by their co-workers. Others might feel awkward about it. Some people are just private people and don't wish to have their workforce know about what goes on after hours. If you come across this situation, I feel that you should proceed with caution because if in fact they are the private type then maybe chat with them for awhile and then ask them. But then again it is different if the person is single and he/she recognized a couple. Might be an awkward situation for the couple, if things go wrong at work or he/she slips and tells everyone what the couple is into. Just our opinion anyways.
The easiest thing to do is just send an e-mail saying hi if you know them or would like to know them.Otherwise just ignor it as they are there looking just like you are so nothing should be said at work as they too would send an e-mail first.
We have not...His co-workers know what he is up to...hers are less open minded...Would not want to play with his co-workers, but hers...there are a few that we would not mind running into in her or a club...
We ran into old friends from a previous neighborhood. It was awkward for a moment. We haven't talked since but figure that they are seeking what we have found. Have seen a former co-worker's profile here also. Don't really see it as a problem for us. We would welcome someone walking up and saying they recognized our profile if we were out in public. We are pretty open about it with people in the lifestyle. Vanilla friends wouldn't understand.
Again, it depends on the person. In my line of work people are pretty easy going and 95% of them would probably get a kick out of knowing I was in the LS due to them seeing the "shy" side of me. LOL. More than likely I would go say "hello!!!". Just because you meet at a club or say "hi" dosen't have to mean you want to jump their bones. It's a thing in common, could be fun to chat about. Playing with co-workers could be risky, unless you know/trust the person to have a friend/working relationship. You could meet other friends that way. Hope I helped, have fun!!!
We have only ran into past co-workers in person. One of those we knew about because of a profile. It was a little uncomfortable, but then we decided, they are here too and its all good. We have decided to take each case on it own.
ARE THEY HOT;)
It could make for one hell of an anual company party that is for sure. We have been approached by several people that work in the same building as the wife and it has went both ways , but like several people have said they are on the site looking too!!!!
we are not worried about running into co-workers but would hate to run into one of our children.That would be ackward for sure.
Highway,

Why would that be difficult or ackward, They are there for the same reasons as you but maybe for a different generational group. One of my daughters is a lesbian.... when I found out she was in her 30's, her marriage of about 12 years had split and she found a girlfriend/"life partner". In jest I told her that we now have something in common.... she said, "what?", and then figured it out..... Then she said; "Oh Dad that was gross and more than I ever wanted to know".... We all are looking for something in our lives.... Fun and or fantasy so why would one be surprised... I think it would mean that you raised them right with open minds and then realizing that there is more to life than work and sleep and TV.

Maybe even fishing..... and sex and fun and sex and boating and sex and or combine fishing sex and boating and sex and a fun day on the water...
XPLORR answer this do you want to see it or have her watch you.think about in an orgy situation the mr. just sticks his dick in a hole to have the girl turn around and see her father.that is why it would be ackward.my children know what we do so i don't care for that reason just would not want the possible surprise.
Phil
I "encountered" a coworker and didn't say a word till she "found" me. We almost work side by side. What a hoot.
No big deal and gives us the right to exchange that knowing nod or smile. It's all for fun and I try not to loose sight of that.
Start a malicious work site rumor, about the perverts I saw on a swapper site, while I was doing research work for my church about the pitfalls of sinning!!!!!!!! Naw Just kidding, I would make friends with them, and never tell a soul
well.. how bout this..

We are also on AFF.. and we got a message - addressed to hubby.. full name..

and.. we open the message.. and find out it's his cousin!! she just laughed and said she hoped we were having as much fun as they were...

Maggi
Can't say that we ever proved conclusively that they were co-workers or not, but I have seen a couple that I swear I worked with.
On the other had we found our next door neighbors on a different site. I led to many laughs, then alot of moans and groans (of the good sort.)

I have always wondered when I'm going to run across a family member or someone from High School.

Fuy